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Female Ejaculation: Give Her A Squirting Orgasm In 7 Easy Steps!

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Female ejaculation exists, and a squirting orgasm is like the holy grail of all female orgasms. This might be new to you, but contrary to popular belief, women do experience the release of ejaculation just like guys do. Kudos to the men who can make their ladies “gush” and attain the ultimate in sexual ecstasy! For those who want their women to achieve a squirting orgasm during your intimate moments with your girl, the following steps will come in handy! (Warning: Once you please a woman in this manner, it will create incredible bonds of intimacy between the both of you – so use this tips ONLY with the woman you really love).

#1: An Exciting Prelude To Begin Sexual Exploration

Make the foreplay hot and steamy for your partner. Start out with small bites on the earlobes and along the contours of the neck, followed by smooth and tender sucking on both nipples. Use light touches along the torso with your fingertips. Do these until you come into contact with the inner thighs. Let your lover be the one to guide you once she is prepared to take the exploration to a new level.

#2: Licking Is More Than Just The Movement Of Your Tongue

Start off by sliding your tongue along the vulva to the clitoris and along the borders of your lover’s vagina. The upward and downward motion of your tongue should be done repeatedly and unhurriedly. Use the broad part of your tongue for best results.

#3: Light Touches Along The Mounds Of The Most Private Areas

Allow the tip of your tongue to travel along the labia minora. To make this more pleasurable for a woman, let your tongue slide along this minute mound along with with some momentary sucking.

#4: Next Stop Is The Clitoris

Tenderly suck on your girl’s clitoris. You can move your tongue in various directions. Make your hands busy at the same time. Gently caress both breasts and have the tips of your fingers make light touches on the nipples and on more sensitive spots.

#5: Roll That Tongue!

Curl your tongue into a tube-like shape and insert it into the vagina as gently as you can. This step may be a little tricky especially for first-timers, but with enough practice, you can make your partner go wild.

#6: The Power Of Your Fingers

Insert two fingers into the vagina with your palm facing upward. Find the G-spot – a mound of flesh inside the vagina, about one to two inches in size. Lightly touch and add pressure on the G-spot using your fingertips. You will feel this flesh swelling up and become more rigid as you continue to stimulate it.

#7: The Most Awaited Moment – A Squirting Orgasm!

At this point, she will most likely reach the peak of sexual excitement and be able to experience the “gush” of female ejaculation. However, before she ejaculates, she may have a tingling urge to urinate. Assure your girl that it perfectly safe to let go. Act natural and make your partner feel that you are totally at ease, because this way, the sexual encounter becomes a lot more special. And with this, she will surely ask for more!

Q&A: Masturbation – How Can I Make Myself Squirt?

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Squirting is considered by many men and women to be the holy grail of female orgasms! Some people think it’s weird or gross, but others find it incredibly hot! If you’re ready to reach that next level with your orgasms, here are some things you can try so you can learn to squirt, both when you masturbate and during sex with a partner!

Question: I’ve now been trying to get to the ‘next level’ with myself, to female ejaculation. I have read and watched videos about it (inclusively on your website), but I just wanted to know if you had any tips or advice on how I can just let go. I get very excited when I masturbate and I’ve tried penetration and clitorial stimulation at the same time. When I come, it just won’t go that far, to female ejaculation. It sometimes leaves me feeling still just a little unsatisfied, even if I’d just had a mind blowing orgasm. Please give me your take on the subject!

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Working With A Partner

If you’ve never squirted before, you may want to try doing it with a partner at first. It’s difficult to let go and completely surrender to the orgasm when you’re controlling your own pleasure. Allowing a partner to stimulate you to the point of orgasm lets you simply sit back and enjoy the ride! You’ll be able to concentrate more on the waves of pleasure you’re feeling, rather than concentrating on doing it harder or faster. Make sure you’re comfortable and with a partner that you’re comfortable with! Don’t try to squirt for the first time if you’re with someone who you’re not completely 1oo% comfortable with and honest with. If you’re with a new partner, wait until you have been with them sexually for some time. Chances are, you won’t be able to let go enough to have female ejaculation if you’re with a new partner anyways.

Manual Stimulation

The best way to acheive squirting for the first time is through manual stimulation. Whether you’re using a sex toy or your partner is using his hands, it is much more effective for squirting than oral sex or penile penetration. Even more effective at creating squirting is both clitoral and g-spot stimulation! This often will cause you to lose control more easily than through just one or the other. However, it is the g-spot orgasms that will cause you to squirt, so if you’re not at least stimulating the g-spot, you’re not going to achieve your goal. Rabbit vibrators are excellent for squirting orgasms, as they give both the g-spot and the clitoris intense stimulation and pleasure.

What Does It Feel Like?

When you’re ready to squirt, it may feel a little like you have to urinate. You may feel the need to “bear down” as though you’re delivering a baby, but that’s because all the muscles down there do everything. They are used when you urinate, have a baby, have sex, have a bowel movement, and have an orgasm. So it may feel like you’re getting ready to do all of those things! When you feel the need to bear down, go with the flow. Instead of fighting it, which many women do because they’re afraid of doing something embarrassing, ride it out. Give it your all. Allow yourself to totally go over the edge. You may not squirt the first time or even after dozens of times trying, but as you learn how your muscles act and react and practice letting go completely, you’ll eventually learn to squirt.