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The Best Sex Positions To Make A Woman Orgasm Quicker

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Most any woman is able to orgasm quickly when she’s being fondled during penetration. Sensations from penetration and fondling combine, leading to an intense orgasm that will leave her stunned. So where should a man touch a woman to get her off fast? Some women prefer breast stroking, while some women like torrid kissing, but the true secret to a quick orgasm is clitoral touching during sex.

However, doing this is easier said than done. The usual sex positions (like missionary) require you to use one or both hands to balance. Some men also find it difficult to do another task when foreplay is over and sex is in full swing. A remedy to this is to get into sex positions that allows touching of the clitoris without much effort on the guy’s part. You can also get into a sex position that will make it easier for the woman to reach her clitoris and stimulate herself without getting too tired.

Here are three sex positions that will do the trick.

Coital Alignment

Despite the technical term for this sex position, it’s pretty simple. The man lies directly on top of the woman and penetration angle is similar to that in the missionary position. However, in the coital alignment position, a man’s pubic region is pressed against the woman’s. This makes it seem like he’s grinding or rocking to and fro, rather than pulling in and out. The rhythmic grinding on the woman’s clitoris will induce orgasm quickly. One more benefit to this technique is that you can kiss her lips and moan into her ear while you’re in this position.

Woman On Top

This position will do more than help a woman to reach climax faster, it will increase the intensity of her orgasm. This is much like the coital alignment position but instead of the man being on top, the woman stays on top. The woman can lean her torso forward, arch her back, and keep her crotch in constant contact with the base of his penis or his pubic region. In this position, she can control the rhythm as well as the depth of penetration. Moreover, she can press down on the man’s pubic region so that her clitoris is sensitized by rubbing on his skin.

Doggy Style

In this position, a girl can play with her clitoris all she wants while you penetrate her. Doggy style is a sex position that lets the girl touch her body herself with one hand while balancing with the other. She can also free up both hands by balancing with her shoulders and head. If you really want to give your girl the best orgasm of her life, these sex positions I mentioned will help you find a way to touch her clitoris during sex. The clitoris is very sensitive, and any girl will tell you that the clitoris plays a big role to inducing orgasm during masturbation.

Best Sex Positions: Woman On Top

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Woman on Top (WOT) is any sex position when a girl takes the lead during sex, and it’s one of the most erotic sex positions to try if you want to make sex a truly intense experience for you and your girl. In this position, she does most of the work. However, experience tells us that not all women are adept at moving up and down so men have to lend a hand by thrusting up and down.

This position shifts the sexual power play in the woman’s favor. A woman’s frontal assets as well as her clitoral area are exposed in the Woman on Top position. Penetration depth depends on whether the woman can thrust up and down all the way. A woman’s weight management skills also play a role in making this position work.

The Woman on Top position calls for balance and skill on the part of the woman, but the man can help her balance by shifting his position underneath to accommodate a woman’s thrusting. You can hold your lower body up, or put pillows under your backside to lift your hips more.

Benefits Of The Woman On Top Position

It’s sexy. The woman can show off her body to you, and feel sexier in the woman on top position than any other sex positions. You get to play with her breasts as well as her tummy region, and you can admire the view of her breasts bouncing up and down from below.

It’s relaxing for the man to lie back and take it every so often. Having a woman work instead of you during sex can be a relaxing experience, but only if you do your part in making a woman feel sexy. Even if you’re the one underneath, you have to pull your weight as far as the penetration is concerned.

You can fiddle with her clitoris easily. With your hands free, you can touch her in all the right places. If you’re sitting up, you can kiss her neck and breast. If you’re lying down, you can reach up and touch her erogenous zones. Orgasm is more intense for a woman if there’s another sensation on top of the sensation that penetration creates.

Disadvantages Of The Woman On Top Position

A woman may find it difficult to balance if she’s kneeling. Some women have short upper legs, which could be an issue if she’s on top and her knees do not reach the bed or the floor while she’s straddling you. Most women have adapted to this by squatting instead of kneeling.

You may have to support her weight. As a woman gets more and more into the sex, she may forget to balance and properly maintain weight distribution while she’s riding you. If this happens, ask her to stay put while you plant your feet flat on the floor or the bed and thrust upward.

You don’t have much control in the rhythm department. You may be doing the thrusting but if she insists on a certain rhythm, you may not get the rhythm you want.

Best Sex Positions For Losing Weight

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Having sex can make you feel great about your body. If the sex is with someone you care about, sex can become more than just another “fun” event. Sex can be a tool you can use to make your relationship stronger. However, did you know that sex could also make you thinner?

The physical exertion involved in having sex can amount to a significant amount of calories burned. I cannot think of a more enjoyable way to shed the pounds. If you’re looking for an excuse to have sex with your man tonight, tell him that sex is now a part of your daily workout routine. He’ll be glad to participate, and you can lose weight in the process.

Here are three of the best sex positions for losing weight.

Pushups In The 69 Position

Normally, you would hold your body steady and bob your head up and down while you’re in the 69 position. However, instead of doing it this way, you can change the way you perform a blowjob by moving your whole torso instead of just your head and neck. Think of it as doing half-push ups while having sex.

The Squat

This sex position is just a variation of the woman on top position. Instead of kneeling during penetration, you can plan your feet on both sides of his body and squat. Going up and down while in this position can be tiring, but you can be sure it will burn some calories.

Do several repetitions until you simply can’t go anymore, or until he has climaxed. This can be your cardio exercise for the day. You can also strengthen your leg muscles by doing this repeatedly.

Participative Missionary

The typical missionary position calls for more action on the guy’s part, but if you want to lose weight while having sex, you can try “participating” while in the Missionary position.

While he’s on top and you’re lying flat on your back, lift your torso up to kiss his lips or his neck. Hold this position for a while and then go back down. The trick is to not use your arms to lift your body off the bed. Instead, use your torso.

To effectively lose weight while having sex, try doing it on the floor or on your yoga mat. This is better than doing it on the bed because the mattress might be too soft for any exercise to be effective. You can also do some leg stretches while your man is on top of you and your legs are over his shoulders.

It is important to let your man know about your new exercise program so that he will not think it’s strange when you mutter rep counts under your breath or when you start stretching your legs and arms in weird angles.

Why Woman On Top Is So Hot!

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The woman on top sex position is one of the hottest sex positions to try for both him and her. Here’s why it’s really THAT great!!

What Woman On Top Is

The woman on top position means exactly what it says, the lady straddles you and is calling the shots (well, usually). She’s the rider, you’re the obedient steed. Let’s explore the ramifications with the male perspective in mind.

Limited Movement 

Unlike during missionary, you don’t get the whole nine yards of pelvic freedom. If you want to, you can still stroke in this position, but a better way is to simply slack away. Just lay there, almost motionless, with your tool at attention. The woman on top is an opportunity to relax and take it easy. Caress those swinging breasts, grab some crab cakes or something. Let Eve hold her own, even just for a moment, let her dictate the movements. Don’t let her be a couch potato lying motionless, watching the whole thing unveil.

And since the sensations on your penis are not as intense as when you’re stroking, it’s an excellent way to delay ejaculation.

This is a very good time to learn. Observe your lady’s riding style and scrutinize the stuff she does when given control – you’ll learn a lot. When she leads and directs herself into you, how does she do it? At what angles and speeds does she groove?

Accessibility Is High 

First of all you can see her face and those mean breasts. Second, both your hands are free to do naughty stuff. And if she does a reverse rider, you’ll have sight of her behind as well.

With regards to height and weight generally the men are taller and bulkier than women – so there won’t be any profound issues in this one. In fact, being under a large woman can be an intense experience, and a lot of guys get turned-on by heavy-duty grinding and pumping. (If your kidneys say otherwise, then try something else.)

The stress and strain on your back will depend on her physique and riding style. But as long as she’s not unloading 300 lbs. on you, you’re going to be just fine. Since you’re not laboring with the motions, woman on top can be a pleasant and relaxed position.

How It Affects Her Orgasms

This is a very strategic position in stimulating both the clitoris and the g-spot. You just lay there and the woman helps herself by rubbing her clitoral area on your pubis. Her strokes will not be so much those in & outs, as it is rubbing/rolling motions.

Woman on top is a potential G-spot winner, you don’t even have to break a sweat. Since she controls the angles of penetration, by leaning back and adjusting her pelvis, she can aim your thing into the top wall of her vagina – right where her G is waiting. She’ll help herself and ride all the way to her happy place.

For many ladies, control is a big turn-on. Being on top, a woman senses power, authority and responsibility. And this makes some guys feel vulnerable – especially when he’s just resting there with nothing to do. But the thing is, it is in the very nature of sex for the players to be vulnerable. After all, both of you are completely naked… warts and all. Sex is about letting go, and this is what happens when one of you is on top.

In woman on top, you’re not only gesturing boldness to be led, but flexibility to allow turns – that you see sex as a give and take. Not an avenue for male grandstanding, but an intimate activity shared by equal partners. Such psychodynamics may not be readily evident to you or your partner, but this stuff does take place behind those raunchy scenes. They’re there.

2 Woman On Top Sex Positions For BETTER Orgasms!

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Woman on top is a great sex position for women who like to be in control. This is also great for the man who loves to watch. Women on top positions provide the perfect combination of sexy female power and hot male voyeurism.

Some of these positions offer fantastic clitoral stimulation, while others give her G-Spot a run for its money. All of them allow your lover to take charge and do whatever works for her: fast, slow, vibrating, gliding, pounding, gentle, rhythmic, circular… why not try them all and see what works best?

One word of advice for men that find they have a tendency to slip out: get her to swivel around so that she’s either 90 (facing to the side) or 180 degrees  (facing the opposite direction) turned from where she started normally. This small adaptation makes a world of difference.

1. The Sprinter’s Stretch

Lay comfortably on your back with your legs spread and your knees bent up off the bed. Your arms should rest comfortably at your side. Have her sit on top in traditional woman on top position while having sex. From this position, have her put one foot flat on the ground with her knee raised as if she were squatting.

Get your lover to lean forward towards the foot that’s planted while she extends her other leg behind her. This leg should end up between your legs, and everything from her knee to her foot should touch the bed.

When done correctly, she’ll look like she’s stretching out on top of you in lunge position, and she’ll have lots of room to push back, forth, up, down and side to side while thrusting.

You can rest your hands on her hips as she glides you inside of her to help keep her steady and foster an intimate connection. After a while, remind her to switch legs so that they both get a good, equal stretching workout without any cramps. She may not notice when she has become uncomfortable until it’s too late.

CLIMAX CUE

This is one of the best positions in this eBook for clitoral stimulation during sex, and every woman who struggles to come during intercourse should try it at some point. She’ll receive deep penetration but can control just how deep you go into her with minute precision.

She can move in every direction because of the angle and positioning of her legs. She can grind her love button into your lower torso, and really give it the attention she needs to climax. You can help by holding onto her hips, playing with her breasts, or making sure that her labia lips are parted so that her clitoral head gets stimulated.

2. The Hot Rocker

Lie back on a rocking chair so that your shoulders are positioned at the base where the seat meets the back. Prop your head up and place the small of your back at the end of the chair seat with your buttocks and legs hanging off.

Place your feet firmly on the ground with your knees bent at a 180 degree angle, then ask your partner to straddle you with both of her feet also steady on the ground and put your penis inside of her. Hold her arms for balance, and then get her to lift her legs so that she hooks her ankles around your knees or calves, depending on what’s comfortable.

You should now be holding her entire body weight with your pelvis, knees and shoulders on the rocking chair. Keeping your back straight and erect is crucial to the success of this position, so it may help to find a rocking chair that has a deep seat so your hips and shoulders both fit.

Move by tilting your groin up, rocking your entire body, or lifting your heels. She can also rock the both of you by moving her head and torso back and forth in a swing-like motion.

CLIMAX CUE

You’ll have the leg control in this position, but she can easily maneuver herself exactly to create the right amount of friction by tilting her pelvis forward slightly and making sure she’s positioned on your penis just a bit higher than she normally would be.

It isn’t one of the sex positions that either of you will be able to sustain for long periods of time, unless your lower back is supported and she’s sitting higher on your penis than normal (or, I suppose, if you are both champion athletes!), but the feeling of weightlessness for her and the powerful strokes you can give her might just send her around the moon.