I’m no stranger to women and intimacy, and through the years, you know what I’ve discovered? Most of the women I’ve slept with have different ideas of sex. In particular, good sex. These women ask for different things, from oral sex to non-stop French kissing. However, one thing is common among them – they all want an orgasm, and if possible, multiple orgasms.
However, before I figured this out, I was one of the many guys around who don’t know the first thing about pleasing women in bed. Sure, I have been doing it for a while, but somehow my skills at that time weren’t enough to get women there. I’m sure you know the frustration of giving it all you got but still not making the woman you’re with climax every time you make love.
When I finally found the secret to improving my sexual performance, I couldn’t believe that all the best skills in the bedroom can be summarized in just two steps.
Think Of What She Feels
It’s no secret that we tend to concentrate on how good sex feels when we’re inside the bedroom with a girl. We often concentrate on what we’re feeling that we forget about the woman and what she’s feeling.
If you don’t believe me, think of how often you would caress a woman’s breast when you’re already way past the foreplay phase and well into the penetration phase. Most of the time, the breasts get ignored because they’re not exactly related to what’s making you feel good. This goes for the clitoris, the neck, the torso and the legs, too. These are all hot spots on a woman’s body that don’t get enough attention when penetration starts.
Be in permanent foreplay mode and you’ll realize that she will climax faster. This means you must always be caressing, kissing and touching the girl even if you’re in the throes of penetrative fun.
Hold Back On Your Climax
If she’s enjoying and you’re enjoying, you just feel like letting loose. There’s nothing wrong with this, but remember that if she hasn’t reached climax yet, she’s bound to expect more foreplay and more sex even after you’re done.
If you’re like all the other men in the world, that’s close to impossible, right? You need rest. You need sleep. Then, you inadvertently kill all anticipation and excitement on her part by making her wait for an hour or so before you can go again.
Hold back and let her have an orgasm first. If you are too sensitized, wear a condom. If that does not work, change positions when you are about to blow. It may be cliche to “think about baseball,” but if that gets the job done, do it.
The good news is that you don’t have to be a player who has been practicing these techniques to be good in bed. You can get it right the first time you do it with a girl.