The perineum is one of the most sensual sex zones of the human anatomy. It is the bit of skin between the anus and sex organs. It is a hot spot for sexual sensations for both males and females, so you had better learn more about it if you want to learn the best way to please your man.
Slight stroking of the perineum area can stimulate your man even if you have not touched his member yet. This area is so rich in nerve endings that simply stroking it rhythmically to complement a blowjob can make a man climax in minutes.
How To Touch The Male Perineum
The best time to touch the male perineum is when you are going down on your man and you have reached the sensitive area below the balls. You will notice that the skin around this region is thinner than the rest, so even light touching can send electric waves of pleasure through your man. Be careful not to pinch or scratch this area, but you can caress and fondle all you want.
The ABC Technique
When you are going down on your man but you’re squeamish about rimming him (i.e. licking the general area of his anal hole), you can try writing out the alphabet on his perineum with your tongue. This can be done while your hands are moving over his shaft, or while you are giving him a hand job.
Different Sensations
Experiment with tongue movements. Try horizontal lines, vertical lines and parallel lines. You can stiffen your tongue or keep it lax as you lick his sensitive skin. Always remember to keep on going whenever he expresses pleasure at something you tried. The more you lick and kiss him there, the closer you bring him to orgasm.
For best results, bring a cold drink or a hot drink with you in the bedroom. Take a sip of either one before you go down on your man to vary the sensations you create with your tongue. You can alternate between hot and cold sensations, or you can go for “slightly warm.”
Give Him A Perineum Massage
An erotic massage on the perineum can result in the stiffest hard-on ever. Wouldn’t you want to see that happen? Here’s how…
Make sure your hands are well lubricated before you start stroking any part of your man’s gonad area. Wet hands and fingers glide smoothly with minimum friction, and the lack of friction is one of the main things that make a hand job so pleasurable for him.
A water-based lubricant is the best for giving a hand job, particularly if you’re using latex gloves. A water-based lubricant is also the best choice for penetrative action, like when you insert one finger inside his anus.