Sexting is an excellent way to initiate foreplay. With today’s technology, it’s easier than ever before to have a private conversation with your lover where you can say anything to each other – and it’s for your eyes only! While sexting is a great way for men to connect sexually with women (since women are language oriented and all), it’s also a great way for women to connect sexually with men. Sure, men are visual creatures and all, however, if you say the right things, you can get him lusting after you and thinking about boning you all night long by just pushing a few buttons.
1. “Thinking About You Makes Me So Wet!
This phrase is a great starting point when you are first introducing sexting to your lover. It’s seductive and sexual without being too kinky or over the top to start with. Guys need a little mental warm up time too, and just like a woman, your man might be taken aback and possibly a little turned off if you just jump right in instead of easing him into the conversation.
Using the word “wet” actually gets him thinking and visualizing you being wet. Since men are visual creatures, this works much better than saying something like, “Thinking about you gets me so hot!” He can’t visualize hot very well, but he can visualize you being dripping wet just for him perfectly!
2. “I Can’t Wait To Get My Lips Around Your….”
Insert your favorite name for his member here and you’ll instantly get him thinking about you giving him an incredible blowjob. In fact, he’ll probably mentally reference the best blowjob you’ve ever given him, because that’s the one he likely remembers the most.
When he responds to this (which he definitely will!) you can take it a step further and begin elaborating on your favorite blowjob techniques. Describe to him in detail what you want to do and you’ll drive him absolutely nuts! He’ll start imagining everything you’re describing and by the time you actually do get home and get your lips around his you-know-what, he will be so crazy with desire that he may just explode right away!
3. “I’m Such A Naughty Girl For Thinking About You Like This”
He loves imagining you as a naughty girl. Even if you’re pretty kinky, you can pretty much guarantee that he’s already imagined you doing naughtier stuff than you already have. If you’re very vanilla, it’s a sure bet that his fantasies include you shedding your good girl image just for him.
By telling him that you’re naughty for thinking about him “like this,” you plant the idea in his head that you’re thinking very very sexy things – but by not telling him exactly what, you’re allowing his imagination to take over. When his imagination takes over, he’ll get so worked up thinking about you thinking about him that he’ll pretty much rip your clothes off you as soon as you walk in the door.
4. “I Want To Be BAD Tonight!”
Again, this phrase gets him thinking about you being naughty and allows him to indulge in his deepest, darkest fantasies with you. You’re still not telling him exactly what you want to do or how “bad” you want to be, because you want his mind to fill in the blanks. You’ll leave him wondering about and anticipating what you have planned – just be sure not to let him down.
If you suggest that you are naughty or want to be bad, make sure you follow through on your sexting innuendo with the appropriate actions. You don’t necessarily have to get as freaky as he might like, but make sure you do something new that’s a little outside your box so he doesn’t feel let down.
5. “I Want To Take All Of You In Me”
When you use this phrase during sexting, you’re suggesting that he has a big penis, just not in so many words. This plays to his ego and makes him feel great about himself, and he’ll love the idea that you feel like he’s bigger too.
You’ll also get him thinking about penetrating you – which he thinks about all the time anyways – but you’ve just added a little more fuel to his thoughts. He’ll begin imagining having sex with you in tons of different ways and sex positions, effectively getting him wildly turned on by the time he gets home and slips in between the sheets with you!