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Premature Ejaculation Treatment – The 100% Natural Approach

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Premature ejaculation is treated a variety of ways. However, not all of them are good for your body. Check out this all natural premature ejaculation cure.

It’s a very common misconception to believe that as a man there’s nothing you can do to stop premature ejaculation without the use of medication, creams, special condoms or things like cock-rings.

Misconceptions About PE

And this all comes down to the fact that premature ejaculation is totally misunderstood. You see, it doesn’t happen because of a bad set of genes, your penis size or what your woman does during sex.

Premature ejaculation is caused by BAD SEXUAL HABITS.

90% of men actually cause it to happen because of things they do during sex UNCONSCIOUSLY and without even realizing it. For example, while having sex do you ever take the time to manage your pleasure or stimulation levels?

The truth is that VERY few men do. Most men have sex without a CLUE as to what their arousal levels are. And when it suddenly becomes obvious that orgasm is about to happen, it’s too late and there’s nothing they can do about it.

But if on the other hand you get into the HABIT of paying attention to your pleasure levels and get to know the signs of when you’re approaching orgasm it’s a whole different ball game. If you know way in advance that you’re getting close to orgasm you can take corrective action before it’s too late.

And a corrective action can be as simple as just slowing down sex and thrusting slower.

The 2 Simple Moves That Will Stop PE Naturally!

Thrusting Slower

By thrusting slower you’d give your body a chance to recover from the intense levels of stimulation you were probably just experiencing during sex. And this recovery would mean that in no time you’d be able to go back to thrusting fast without the fear or early orgasm.

Know Your Arousal Levels

Alternatively, if you know your arousal levels well enough to tell that you need more recovery than just going slow can give you, then instead you could pull out and give her oral sex for a bit. Doing this would give you a big break in stimulation and pleasure and allow you to recover plenty of stamina.

Now these two examples of corrective actions you could take when close to orgasm may seem like obvious things to do, but only when you start paying attention to your arousal levels.

If you don’t pay attention to your arousal levels and instead just keep having sex like you normally do, you’d never even think of doing something like taking corrective action to last longer. How this all relates to premature ejaculation treatment is that it proves that there are 100% natural approaches to lasting longer in bed that are worth considering.

How All Natural Treatments Really Work

They all work from understanding the TRUTH about premature ejaculation and how the male orgasm works.

And by tapping into the nature of the male orgasm and figuring out what really causes it it is possible to prevent it from happening prematurely. So premature ejaculation treatment isn’t so much a case of “which pharmaceutical product do I need?” but more a case of “what techniques can I use to last longer?”

Last Longer In Bed – With This Special Masturbation Technique

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Last longer in bed with this simple trick – it’s so easy you’ll wonder why you didn’t think of it yourself! When you last longer in bed, your girl will love it!

Masturbation Affects How Long You Last!

One thing you’ve got to understand if you want to last longer in bed is how masturbation affects how long you last.

The problem that most men have when it comes to premature ejaculation that they DON’T EVEN REALIZE that they are actually causing it to happen, because of negative and unconscious habits.

As weird as it may sound, if you suffer from premature ejaculation, it’s not because you’ve got a “bad gene” or have the wrong penis size or are just plain unlucky, it’s because of the habits you’ve developed during life that are UNCONSCIOUSLY causing you ejaculate prematurely.

And one of the main examples of this that almost every man overlooks is masturbation.

Think About It….

Think for a second about what your habits for masturbation were like when you were younger and growing up.

If you’re like most men then when you were younger you probably didn’t have all the freedom in the world to masturbate. Maybe your mother could pop into your room at any time, or maybe you had a brother or sister that could come barging into your bedroom at any moment or maybe you were living in some kind of community where there really wasn’t any privacy.

Whatever your specific situation was, almost every man growing up can relate to the fact of not feeling like there was necessarily all the privacy available to them when they wanted it.

And what did this mean?

Well it meant that when it came to masturbating you didn’t have many options. You could either take your time doing it and hugely increase the chances of you getting caught, or you could try and orgasm as quickly as possible in an attempt to try and minimize the chances of being walked in on.

From all my communications with men in teaching them how to last longer in bed, my understanding is that most opt for option number 2.

Because no one wants to get caught masturbating. And it’s the logical thing to do at the time.

When Men Get Older, Do Their Habits Change?

But as our opportunities for privacy increase with age most men don’t change this habit. Because we’ve done it all our childhood, most men just keep masturbating with the aim to orgasm as quickly as possible.

But there’s one big problem here – when you masturbate, you condition yourself for how long you last.

Did you get that?

Because that’s an important point.

If you want to know how to last longer in bed, understanding the importance of masturbation is HUGE. When you masturbate you are literally training your body for how long you expect it to last during sex. Most men masturbate for only a few minutes, but when it comes to sex want it to last for over 30 minutes, but this just isn’t how the body works.

If you want to last longer in bed then you’ve got to realize this fact about masturbation and make the change to the way you do it.

And making the change really isn’t that hard. Most men just never do it because they don’t realize the impact that how long they masturbate for has on how long they’ll last. But now that you’ve got this crucial understanding you don’t have to make the same mistake.

Make this habit change today and commit from now on to always take your time to masturbate for as long as you want to go.

Premature Ejaculation – Stop It By NOT Doing These 2 Things!

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Premature ejaculation can equal no sex life for you. Steer clear of these two problems and say goodbye to premature ejaculation forever!

Did you know that being able to prevent premature ejaculation comes down to avoiding a few simple mistakes? Soon you’ll know exactly what those mistakes are so you never have to make them again!

Problem #1 – Trying To Have Sex Like A Porn Star

If there’s a sure-fire way to not last long in bed then it’s trying to have sex like a porn star. Many men learn everything they know about sex either through porn or from friends who learned from porn.

The bottom line is, since sex is such a taboo subject no one ever takes the time to teach young men the best ways to have sex and how to last long in bed. So what us men do when we’re young (myself included) is we look to the only source we know to learn from – which is porn.

Unfortunately, porn is VERY much unlike the real thing.

There’s no doubt you know this already, but spending our time watching porn has a deep UNCONSCIOUS influence on our ideas of sex that we can struggle to see ourselves. For starters have you ever stopped to think about the fact that porn is EDITED?

Remember, the directors want the porn to run as seamlessly as possible and be as entertaining as possible, which means if the male actor needs to take 5 minutes out to stop him from reaching orgasm early, then they’ll let him do that and just cut those 5 minutes out during production.

Did it ever cross your mind that stuff like this could actually happen?

There are a ton of other things that are totally misleading about porn that I won’t go into here, but you get the idea. Don’t use porn as a sex guide for lasting longer, because the men involved can take a break whenever they want and they won’t show you if they’re using any special techniques for lasting longer.

Problem #2 – Not Giving Her A Great Orgasm (Or Two Or Three) First

One way to prevent premature ejaculation is to reduce the pressure to perform.

Sometimes when it comes to sex we feel so much pressure to satisfy the woman we’re with that we get incredibly nervous and anxious about sex. Unfortunately, this angst and nervousness only ENCOURAGES premature ejaculation and makes it MORE likely to happen.

So how can you take this pressure off and reduce nerves? A really simple way to help reduce your nervousness is to take the time during foreplay to really satisfy your woman and get her to orgasm.

After you know you’ve already deeply satisfied her a LOT of the pressure is taken off of you to perform, because if you do orgasm early it won’t matter half as much if she’s already had an orgasm. And with this pressure off you’ll find it’s actually a lot easier to last longer, because the anxiety to perform won’t be there.

Just avoiding a few simple mistakes like these when it comes to sex is critical to prevent premature ejaculation, because no matter what you do to try and last longer, if you keep making a few critical mistakes you’ll never be able to last longer in bed.

Last Longer In Bed Tonight With These 5 Simple Tricks

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Last longer in bed and “WOW” your girl this evening with these five easy tips. When you last longer in bed, she will LOVE it!

These tips I’m about to share with you are “quick-fix” solutions. These solutions require virtually NO extra effort and they are great to use when you don’t have time to implement a long-term strategy for treating premature ejaculation or you just want some instant results to last longer TONIGHT.

So don’t look at these as the “ultimate solution” to premature ejaculation, but look at them as a powerful starting point and a way to help you build some momentum in learning how to get full control in the bedroom.

Masturbate Before Sex

If you’ve got the time, masturbate once before you know you’re going to have sex. Having one orgasm in the day means you’re much more likely to last longer the second time round during sex.

Wear A Thick Condom

One of the causes of premature ejaculation is experiencing too much stimulation and getting overwhelmed with pleasure. One “quick-fix” way to put a stop to this is with a thick condom that will reduce the pleasure you feel. It’s not an ideal solution, because it will make sex less pleasurable, but you will get the longer-term pleasure of long-lasting sex.

Do Math In Your Head

Here’s another “last ditch attempt to gain control” method you can use when nothing else is working. Try doing some complicated math in your head. By having to work out something complicated it takes your focus away from the pleasure going on in your genitals and so will delay your orgasm.

Urinate Before Sex

This is such a simple trick, but almost no man does it. You probably don’t realize this, but having a full bladder puts pressure on your genitals which encourages early orgasm. Put a stop to this unnecessary cause of premature ejaculation by urinating before you have sex.

Lick The Roof Of Your Mouth

This actually originates from Tantric sexual practices. The theory is that by licking the roof of your mouth you transfer energy up your body away from the genitals and in the process you last longer. Whether you believe the theory or not doesn’t really matter, what matters is that it works so I highly recommend you give it a try.

Pull Out And Give Her Oral Sex

Do you ever find yourself getting close to orgasm and feel like there’s nothing you can do? Well don’t just keep thrusting away expecting to miraculously be able to last longer, take corrective action. If you pull out and give her oral sex you’ll give yourself that much needed break from stimulation but at the same time you’ll keep the pleasure going for her. It’s a win-win move because you get to last longer and she still gets pleasure.

3 Premature Ejaculation Cures That Actually Work!

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Premature ejaculation cures can help you restore your sex life to what it used to be, or even better! Here are three effective suggestions to use TONIGHT!

Now, to be able to last longer in bed you’ve firstly got to understand what causes us men to orgasm. Because the bottom line is, we don’t just orgasm out of no where. Orgasms happen for a reason and they always have a cause. And if we can understand the causes of orgasm and then change those causes, we have the power to last longer in bed.

Causes Of Orgasm

One cause of orgasm is high levels of physical tension in the body. You may have noticed during sex that just before you orgasm your muscles, in particular your leg and butt muscles, will tense up, and as you orgasm they’ll suddenly relax. This is because orgasms are a release of tension.

And for an orgasm to happen there has to be tension in the body. Here’s where being smart about the causes of orgasm comes in – remember how I just mentioned if we can understand what causes orgasm we can last longer?

Well, one way to last longer then is to eliminate tension from the body. By eliminating tension we remove the cause of orgasm and therefore last longer.

#1 – Get Her On Top

One of the best premature ejaculation cures is to use the sex position where she is on top, while you are lying flat on your back. What’s great about this position for lasting longer is that in this position you have the unique opportunity to fully relax your leg and butt muscles. In most other positions this just isn’t possible because generally you’re the one having to do the work which involves tensing of muscles.

With you on your back it’s a totally different story. Since she’s the one doing most of the work in this position you can focus on really relaxing your leg and butt muscles. And by relaxing those muscles you release tension from your body, which like I mentioned earlier, is a big cause of orgasm. By eliminating that cause of orgasm, you last longer.

#2 – Deep Breathing

Another great way to eliminate that unwanted tension from your body is with deep breathing. This is often totally counter-intuitive for men during sex, because instinct will have us unconsciously breathing shallow and fast.

This is just how our bodies naturally act during sex. But unfortunately this only leads to premature ejaculation, because quick shallow breathing INCREASES tension in our bodies.

So taking a minute during sex to focus solely on slow deep breathing can help you dramatically increase how long you last in bed.

#3 – Visualization

Now, I never used to be someone who was into “visualization” and all that “weird” stuff, but after I heard people talking about visualization for like the ten thousandth time I decided to actually give it a go. And I suggest you do too.

Because visualizing is a great addition to the premature ejaculation cures I’ve already mentioned, especially when it comes to relaxing and eliminating tension. Although PHYSICAL tension is what is actually needed to orgasm the thoughts going through our head dramatically influence your physical tension. For example, if you’re super-nervous and worrying intensely about sex then the chances are your body will be tensing up too.

Whereas as if you’re super-cool and you’re visualizing yourself being cooler than James Bond then your body will have a completely different level of tension, most likely a lot closer to NO tension than if you’re worrying intensely. As “new age” as it might sound to use visualization to help you relax and last longer just go ahead and try it.

Visualize yourself being relaxed, in control and lasting longer and you’ll find it’s one of the best premature ejaculation cures around.