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Best Sex Places Of 2011

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Sex tips give you the “how,” but rarely the “where.” You can learn all sorts of ways to please yourself and your partner when learning about sex, but many sex tips resources leave out one of the most fun things off all – having sex in all kinds of different areas! THESE sex tips will teach you lots of new areas to get it on in & your sex life will be hotter than ever!

This year, we’re going to look at some specific areas that you might have overlooked – and how you can make it even hotter.

  • On The Kitchen Counter/Breakfast Bar/Table/Floor. You get the idea here. The kitchen is one of the best areas in the house to get it on. The kitchen isn’t the only cool place in your home – check out more of the best places to have sex around the house!
  • In The Stairwell Of An Apartment Building. These are usually pretty deserted, and are a great place to hike your skirt up and have a quickie. Don’t miss more great places to have a quickie!
  • While Hiking In The Woods. You may think this one is cliche, but don’t knock it until you try it. If the woods aren’t your thing, there are plenty of other places to have sex and feel one with nature.
  • Road Head. Enough said. Of course, you don’t have to do it while driving. Check out more ways to have sex in the car.
  • In The Dressing Room At A Lingerie Store. Model some sexy lingerie for your lover and then get it on before you ever leave the dressing room. Don’t miss more ways to have sex while shopping to make your money spending excursions more fun!
  • Under The Table At A Restaurant. This works best if the tables have long tablecloths. Your partner can slip underneath and give you oral sex – just tell the waiter your date had to use the restroom. Get your exhibitionist on with these hot places to have sex in public.
  • On The Ledge Of A Billboard. Follow the sex tips of others who have gone before you and pick a darker one and wear dark clothes (or go at night) to avoid being seen. Don’t miss out on these truly unique places to get it on.

Best Blowjob Tips Of 2011

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Blowjob giving skills are definitely something you want to have if you want to give your lover out of this world orgasms. Often, men prefer getting head to having sex, so if you’re not giving your partner head, he’s definitely missing out. A guy will almost always choose a girl that gives great head over a girl who doesn’t want to do it or can’t do it well. So really knowing how to go down on a guy and make him squeal with pleasure is to your benefit – and his! Here are our favorite oral sex tips of the year for guys.

Don’t forget to check out our favorite all-time fellatio articles!

Also, take a look at our favorite resources on how to give your lover the most amazing head he’s ever had!

Remember, the best fellatio tips are confidence and a passion for giving your partner oral pleasure. If all you have is confidence in your ability to please your man and you really enjoy doing it, you’re going to be far better off than if you knew every single tip and trick that existed. Relax, have fun and enjoy making your lover’s fantasies come true!

Oral Sex: Safety Considerations When Going Down On A Woman

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Oral sex is mostly safer than intercourse when it comes to STD’s, but the risk is still there. Find out how you can make oral sex as safe as possible.

Will She Really Enjoy It If You Use Precautions?

What are the proper precautions when practicing safer cunnilingus and other sexual foreplay involving the vulva? Well, they’re no fun. Safer sexual contact during these activities involves lots of latex and frankly, most women will be completely turned off by the mere suggestion of a dental dam.

Why use one then? If the woman is not going enjoy cunnilingus, why bother?

Well, for starters, if she’s that uptight about it, then don’t bother. Just think of it this way – men wear condoms. Men hate condoms. Why do they wear them? That’s easy – to keep from having children and contracting STD’s. Most men will sacrifice the extra pleasure of intercourse without a condom considering the alternatives. Certainly, a woman should be willing to sacrifice some pleasure for the sake of keeping both parties safe and STD-free. If there are valid risks associated with performing oral sex for a particular partner and she will not oblige to practicing safer sex, again we say: don’t bother.

Tools For Safer Oral Sex

But for those who are interested in practicing safer cunnilingus and other foreplay, there are a slew of tools that can be used at your discretion – you may even have some in your kitchen drawer right now. You may have heard of dental dams – you know, those little latex squares they use at the dentist’s office to isolate a tooth. Those are great for using during oral sex, but adult toy companies have started making what they call “lollyes” or “dental dams” – the same concept, but labeled specifically for oral sex.

If you’re in the heat of the moment and haven’t got anything else on hand, plastic wrap will work just fine (see, we told you it might be in your kitchen drawer). If you haven’t put two and two together yet, the dental dam/lollye/plastic wrap goes in between your partner’s vulva and your tongue. Lubrication is very, very important if you’re using any of these items during cunnilingus. Just imagine a very dry latex condom. Uncomfortable, right?

Plus, having lube on the vulva-side of the latex or plastic will mimic the feeling of a wet tongue more closely. Remember though, oil-based lubricant can cause latex to break down – always use water-based lubricant.

Gloves, Etc.

If you plan on engaging in foreplay of the vulva using your hands, you may want to consider using a latex glove if you’re concerned about the risk of transmitting STD’s. Truthfully, infections such as gonorrhea, Chlamydia and the like generally aren’t going to be transmitted through hand-to-vulva contact. If, however, there are open sores or cuts on the hands, fingers or vulva, you do run the risk of possibly transmitting or contracting an STD.

Unlike with cunnilingus, using a latex glove does not hinder the pleasurable feelings in the least – in fact, when properly lubricated; a gloved finger may feel more heavenly than one with calluses and hangnails. Just keep in mind that a dry latex glove doesn’t feel good – remember to use plenty of water-based lube. Although some of these ideas may seem like no fun, it really is better to be safe than sorry.

A caring partner will happily oblige if you request protection for both her and yourself if you are concerned about sexually transmitted diseases. And if she doesn’t happily oblige? You may want to reconsider sexual relations with this person entirely.

FixSation Couples Vibrator Review

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The FixSation Couples Vibrator is an excellent solution to a long standing problem – how can women have more orgasms during sex with their partners? Some women resort to using big, bulky vibrators during sex, or beg their partners to give them oral sex before getting it on. Other women just give up and resort to either only having an orgasm during masturbation, or never having an orgasm at all! This product has the potential to solve this problem for many women, ending their sexual frustrations forever!

The Good

The FixSation Couples Vibrator is uniquely designed to be worn by a woman during sex – so this means it fits all of a woman’s curves almost perfectly. This design makes it comfortable to wear, whether you’re using it with a partner during sex or alone during masturbation. This vibrator is quiet and slim enough to wear out in public, under jeans or pants.

This product was made specifically to be worn by a woman during sexual intercourse. Many women have never reached orgasm at all during intercourse, while some do only occasionally. By far, women who can’t reach orgasm during lovemaking with their partner outnumber the women who do. The FixSation Couples Vibrator gives a woman more stimulation to their clitoris during sex. Often, that extra “push” is all a woman needs to get to the big O. This new sex accessory has the potential to rekindle the fire in the sex lives of millions of couples by allowing women to experience orgasm during intercourse and allowing couples to achieve simultaneous orgasm, also called the “We-Gasm.”

When purchasing the FixSation Couples Vibrator, consider getting the lingerie top companion. It makes the purchase a little more expensive, but is totally worth it. It matches the panties perfectly and looks great on. The top is made to flatter a variety of body types and is built so even body conscious women will feel comfortable and sexy wearing it. The top, vibe and panty companion makes for a nice little lingerie set to break out whenever you’re feeling naughty or even to give as an intimate gift.

The Bad

There are very few “bad” things about the FixSation Couples Vibrator, but there are some things you want to keep in mind when purchasing this product.

First, the vibrations are not as strong as traditional clitoral vibrators. It wasn’t made to – the vibrations are weaker on purpose, because this toy is designed primarily to be worn while having sex. When worn during intercourse, the vibrator is pushed up against the clitoris. If the vibrator was very strong, it would numb the clitoris during sex, thus making it completely ineffective for what it was designed to do. When worn during sex, this thing works!

The FixSation Couples Vibrator requires minimal assembly, but it can be a little tricky the first few times you put the vibrator on the panty. The hooks are small, so unless you absolutely have to take the vibrator off the panty once you get it strapped in, just leave it on there. You can easily slip the panty companion with vibrator attached on and off without a problem.

Also, the panty size tends to run a little small. If in doubt, order one size larger for comfort. Petite women may be able to order their correct size and be comfortable.

The Bottom Line

If you are a woman who has ever struggled to reach orgasm during sex – or you are a man looking for something to help your partner who struggles to reach orgasm – the FixSation Couples Vibrator is an absolute must have. If you want something that will help a woman to climax during intercourse, or something that will help you and your lover reach simultaneous orgasm (or the “We-Gasm”), you definitely want to add this to your sex toy collection. In fact, it may very well be the only thing you ever need again!

The Full FixSation Couples Vibrator Review

The FixSation Couples Vibrator is an innovative sex toy that is unlike anything else on the market. If you’ve been looking for a couples vibrator that is easy to use, isn’t uncomfortable or ugly to wear, makes you feel sexy and spices up your sex life with your lover, look no further. They say the best things come in small packages, and that certainly holds true for this little guy. The FixSation Couples Vibrator is a sex toy that makes a fun and exciting addition to any toy box.

Wearing During Intercourse

The FixSation Couples Vibrator was specifically created for a man and a woman to wear while making love. The toy slips on the panty companion via two insertable straps, and is held in place over the woman’s clitoris by the panty. This actually makes it completely hands free, which is essential when keeping passion and spontaneity alive in the bedroom. The design of the product actually does not interfere at all with intercourse – a man can penetrate his partner without moving, bumping or shutting off the motor.

The vibrator is also designed not to be too strong when wearing during sex. Some “wearable” clitoris vibrators are way too intense to be worn while actually having sex. They’re great for masturbation, but end up being really uncomfortable to wear during intercourse. Also, the FixSation Couples Vibrator won’t bother your man either, like many other sex toys out there. He’ll feel the vibrations, but he won’t have the sense you’re wearing some strange contraption between your legs. This product is very slim, discreet and sexy to wear!

Wearing During Masturbation

Although the FixSation Couples Vibrator is designed to be used during intercourse, you can wear it during masturbation as well. The vibrations will be weaker, but it can be a great tease to build you up until your partner can finish you off!

Try wearing it to work one day – believe it or not, this toy IS quiet enough to wear in public? Probably not somewhere that is really, really quiet but a normal work environment or even the supermarket is a fun place to try out a secret exhibitionist fantasy. You can also plan a shopping trip to the mall while wearing your FixSation Couples Vibrator – let it tease you throughout your shopping trip, and when you get home to your lover, you’ll be ready to explode!

Best Sex Toys & Vibrators Of 2011

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Sex toys and vibrators make getting it on so much more fun!

Using a vibrator or a g-spot stimulator can help a woman to discover new things about her body and have orgasms like she’s never had before, while masturbating with a soft jelly or silicone sleeve can feel way better than his hand.

Items specifically designed for sexual pleasure are becoming more and more popular, with less and less taboo surrounding them. Many people are choosing to take sexual pleasure into their own hands and investing in sex toys for the very first time. Also, more and more couples are venturing into the sex toy arena in an effort to spice up their sex life. Using sex toys as a couple, either on each other or as an addition to oral sex or fingering, can make sex with your partner hotter than it ever has been before!

Check out our favorite sex toys articles and reviews of the year here!

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Here are some our favorite sex toys that we’ve tried this year – don’t forget to get yours!