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Clone-A-Willy Vibrating Dildo Review

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The Clone-A-Willy Vibrating Dildo kit includes everything a man needs to make a vibrator that is an exact mold of his penis. It contains specially timed molding powder, liquid rubber, a vibrating unit, a molding tube, and directions.

The Good

Making a Clone-A-Willy can be a really fun activity to do with your partner. It involves working together, and certain amount of creativity to keep him erect while in the mold. Once the molding process is finished, if done correctly, the result is an exact replica of your partner’s penis wrapped around an extremely powerful vibrator.

Clone-A-Willy kits make great gifts, especially for couples who are often separated by long distances.

The Bad

A lot can go wrong if the directions are not followed properly. It cannot be stressed enough that the directions should be followed to the T. There is not a lot of molding powder, and therefore, those who may be gifted in the size department may find themselves running out of material.

Making the vibrating Clone-A-Willy can be messy. It may be a good idea to use a mixing bowl and towel that you don’t mind throwing away once the project is complete. Also, there is some overflow during the molding process, and the molding liquid does not come out of pubic hair easily. Trimming if not shaving off pubic hair before making the mold, is probably the best idea.

The Bottom Line

The Clone-A-Willy kit is a great idea, and if the directions are followed exactly, and some additional time is spent removing imperfections on the final product, it really works out well. However, given the vast margin for error in it’s construction and the large time commitment needed to make it work, it may not be worth it for everyone.

The Clone-A-Willy Vibrating Dildo Kit Review

Using the Clone-A-Willy Vibrating Dildo kit, a man can mold his penis, and turn it into a vibrating dildo replica of himself for his partner to enjoy with or without him. It’s a great idea, and these kits are popular gifts for couples everywhere, especially among those who have to spend a lot of time apart. The kit comes with everything needed to make the personalized vibrator, as well as directions on how to put it all together. It is extremely important that the directions are followed explicitly, otherwise, there are a million ways that this project can go wrong.

Here are a few tips that will help couples avoid a disaster, when it comes to making their new  sex toy.

  1. Consider shaving or at least trimming the pubic hair around the soon to be cloned willy. This process can get messy, and cutting out chunks of pubic hair after the even is not a fun process.
  2. Cut the molding tube to the most exact size possible. It will help conserve material (those gifted in size will need every last drop).
  3. Let the mold rest for the entire amount of time recommended, and make sure that there is absolutely no water in the tube before pouring in the liquid rubber. A misshapen final result is something no one will be satisfied with.
  4. Finally, take some time to cut away any imperfections. A small hand held sander can be a great tool to help with the final touches.

Once the process of creating the Clone-A-Willy Vibrating Dildo is complete, the result is a magnificent vibrating clone of you’re favorite penis. It does not contain latex, and the replica is completely safe and non-allergenic. It’s safe to use with any lube, and the vibrating unit is powerful to say the least. If the cloning process goes well, this toy will please the owners to no end, but any veering from the directions may result in a variety of disasters.

Kama Sutra Love Liquid Review

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Kama Sutra Love Liquid water-based lubricant is formulated without sugars, and is specifically designed to be gentle on feminine tissues. It is lightweight, dermatologist tested, and suitable for all sex toys.

The Good

The Classic Kama Sutra Love Liquid is water based, therefore, it is safe to use with all sex toys, and it doesn’t leave, and it requires very little clean up. Unlike most water based lubes, this product does not get sticky or tacky, it simply absorbs into the tissues, leaving them highly moisturized.

This lube does not contain any yeast-promoting sugars, so women can rest assured that their hours of pleasure  during sex won’t be resulting in hours of discomfort later when they realize they have a yeast infection.

The Bad

Although the Kama Sutra Love Liquid fares much better than most water based lubes, it still requires multiple applications during long lovemaking sessions.

Because it is water based, this lube is not best suited for sex or sex toy play in or around water. Try a thicker gel lube or a silicone based lube if you want to play in the water! The tingling and warming lubes can be a bit intense and may not be the best option for anal sex.

The Bottom Line

Kama Sutra Love Liquid is an overall great water based lube. It feels silky and almost natural to the touch. This lube doesn’t get sticky or tacky, instead, it absorbs into the skin leaving it moisturized and requiring very little, if any, clean up.

The Full Kama Sutra Love Liquid Review

Kama Sutra Love Liquid may look like just another fancy lube, but this water based personal lubricant proves to be worth the extra pennies. It offers a very silky, almost natural feeling, and it lasts quite a bit longer than most other water based lubes without getting sticky or tacky over time and when exposed to air. This product does not contain any yeast-promoting sugars, so it’s a great option for sensitive women, and those prone to yeast infections.

Kama Sutra Love Liquid comes in a 3.4oz unique bottle that features an easy to use pump that allows for easy application while keeping the spill factor to a minimum. No one likes to have to grab their bottle of lube to apply more when they’ve already got a very sticky hand, and no one likes having to wash the lube bottles along with the sex toys. This handy pump makes it easy to apply more without the mess.

It’s available in the very popular Classic (unscented) option as well as the Tingling Peppermint and Warming Cinnamon varieties. A word of caution on the tingling and warming lubes: they are pretty intense and not highly recommended for anal use. Some cooling and warming lubes offer only slight sensations, but the Kama Sutra line of lubes offer sensations of a much higher caliber than other products on the market. If you find that you enjoy the Peppermint or Cinnamon lubes but they’re just too intense, try mixing in a few drops of the regular water based lube. They’re compatible with each other, and the water based lube will dilute the Peppermint or Cinnamon lubes to give you only light tingling and warming sensations.

All in all, the Kama Sutra Love Liquid – in any “flavor” – is a great option for both men and women. Can be used during sex, masturbation and is safe with all condoms and sex toys.

 

LELO Ina Review

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The LELO Ina is for the woman who wants it all, this sleek and stylish dual-action vibrator promises maximum intensity with a minimum of fuss.

The Good

The LELO Ina is very quiet. It cannot be heard from the other side of a door, or even across the room for that matter.

The velvety texture, offered by the high quality silicone, is soft and smooth, pleasing to the touch, and it comes in a variety of fun and vibrant colors. It also offers 8 different vibration patterns, using a variety of combinations from dual motors located in the shaft and the clitoral arm. If you like intensity, this gorgeous toy certainly delivers when it comes to drenching orgasms!

The Bad

The LELO Ina is designed to deliver firm pressure to the g-spot. Not all women enjoy this type of pressure, and some may even find it a bit painful. Although this toy is definitely a bit pricey, however, most of the LLELO Ina’s users will swear that she’s worth every penny.

The clitoral arm can be a bit troublesome for some women. It’s extremely rigid, and it has a tendency to be a bit too intense if you have a very sensitive clitoris. Women who like firm clitoral pressure will really enjoy this though.

The Bottom Line

The LELO Ina vibrator caters to women with a very specific desire for firm pressure and intense vibrations. Those who enjoy that style of stimulation will be over the moon about this product. While some women who prefer softer stimulation may not like this vibrator as much as, say, a jelly tipped one, most women will enjoy the luxurious feel of this toy as well as the unique vibrations.

The Full LELO Ina Review

The LELO Ina is the holy grail of intense vibrators. It offers eight variable stimulation modes, made possible by two individual motors. The first motor is located in the clitoral arm. This arm is rigid, and offers a large amount of pressure paired with intense vibrations. The second motor is located in the shaft of the vibrator; this one stimulates the g-spot with similar pressure and intensity.

As mentioned, this product offers eight separate vibration options, but the circular mode is well worth noting. This mode stimulates one sensual area, causing it to heighten in intensity while the level of vibration is restricted elsewhere. Then, pleasure is masterfully transferred to another stimulation point. This creates a sense of movement within, and ultimately leads to prolonged and somewhat overpowering orgasms.

The LELO Ina is 7.75” long with an insertable length of 3.5” The insertable shaft and clitoral arm are made from hypo-allergenic, latex free, non-porous, and phthalates free silicone that offers a very soft and velvety texture. Since it is made of silicone, it is worth reminding everyone, that it may not be used with silicone lube. The lube will bind with the silicone material of the vibrator, and it will never be the same. The control handle offers four buttons. The left and right buttons allow the user to easily select their preferred stimulation pattern, while the top and bottom buttons control the level of intensity. This product comes with a rechargable battery and a silky pouch for safe keeping.

As with all LELO products, the Ina reflects a combination of innovative design and technology. It performs wonderfully, and it’s durable enough to last for years and years. The only notable drawback to this product is that it caters to a very specific preference for high pressure and intensity, and therefore, it may not be appealing to everyone. Women who prefer a lighter touch and more flexibility, may be more satisfied with another product.

Q&A: MILF Fantasy – I Want To Have Sex With My Step-Mom!

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A MILF fantasy is actually quite common – there are many guys out there that either have or had a really hot step-mother who they couldn’t help but be attracted to! Of course it’s inappropriate, but lots of guys experience it. Most of the time, it passes and nothing more is ever said about it. But just what do you do when all you can think about is getting it on with your stepmother?

Question: I have a fantasy of having sex with my step mom. Almost every day she wears these pants that when she bends over you can see her ass perfectly, and my urges keep getting more and more frequent! I’ve gone to many other people, all with no help. She is also about to get breast implants, so that makes it all the worse! Your videos have helped me out a lot, so please help me on this one!

–YouTube Viewer

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A MILF Fantasy Is Perfectly Normal

Boys, especially those going through puberty, are going to be attracted to random hot women, possibly all hot women. If your stepmother is hot, it’s not out of the ordinary that you would have a sexual fantasy about her! Lots of guys have gone through or are going through the same thing. You’re just attracted to a hot woman who just happens to be your step-mother. You don’t have to make it any more complicated than that.

Acting On Your Fantasy

While a MILF fantasy is actually very common, it’s not one that you can act on. Even if you’re over the age of eighteen and you and your step-mother are both consenting, you’re still going to hurt a lot of people if you make that decision. Your family would likely be very hurt and feel very betrayed if you and your step-mother got it on.

If you’re under age, that’s a whole different ball game – things could be much worse if you did anything about your fantasy. Also, it’s likely that your step-mother most absolutely does not share this fantasy, and you could damage your relationship with her and the rest of your family if you tell her that you think about her sexually.

You can’t help that you’re having this fantasy, so what do you do? If you end up masturbating every day while thinking about your step-mother, you’re not going to be the first guy that has ever done that. Masturbation is an excellent relief for fantasies that you just can’t be a part of in real life. However, if you actually act on your fantasy, you could be crossing a line that you can never un-cross.

Consider Counseling

If your MILF fantasy really bothers you and you just can’t get away from it (and you really want to) consider counseling. There’s nothing wrong with seeing an unbiased counselor or third party that can help you talk through your feelings and problems. People put so much stigma on going to a therapist – especially for sex related issues – but if you want to get to the root of the problem, therapy is about as good as it gets.

Don’t think that seeing a therapist automatically makes you a weaker guy. What counseling can do is help you talk through your issues and learn the tools you need to become a better person and live a happier, more fulfilled life. On a side note, talking to your step-mother about this fantasy of yours is probably not a good idea.

Redirect That Energy Elsewhere

If counseling isn’t something you can or want to do, think about ways you can redirect this energy. Think about what it is about your step-mother that turns you on so much. Is it her physique? Perhaps she has a nice butt or legs that just won’t quit. If you can isolate just what it is about her that turns you on, you can redirect that energy to adult films and magazines that feature women with large butts, long legs, or whatever it is that you think turns you on the most.

Even if you can’t find something in particular, there is surely going to be another girl you find attractive. Exploring magazines, websites, films and art can help you find other women to look at that also turn you on. If you’re old enough and dating is an option, get more social and talk to girls.

You may be attracted to your step-mother’s personality, simply because you haven’t been close or conversed much to other women. Dating can help you redirect your energy into finding a girl that you’re attracted to that you can get to know without the repercussions that getting involved with your step-mother would bring.

How To Have Sex Like A Teenager

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Sex when you’re young is unlike anything else out there – it’s incredible! Here’s how to bring those feelings back and have sex like you used to.

You remember your adolescent self, and I’m sure you wouldn’t want to go back to being him for anything. Walking around with a hard-on twenty four hours a day, surrounded by girls in mini-skirts who won’t even let you touch them under their bras, so you spend most of your time beating off as much as possible without your mom catching on to all the time you spend in the bathroom.

Trying Something New

Fast forward twenty five years. You have fumbled your way through losing your virginity, making a few mistakes, and getting married. You now have a beautiful wife that you still find sexy as ever, but between work and family duties, the time you have to spend making mad, passionate love has dwindled. You want to try something new, but all the stuff you find on the internet requires serious contortions, and you’re not sure your bum knee can take it.

Maybe it’s not something new you need. Maybe it’s something from before you learned how to unhook a bra without help. Being a walking hard on was horribly frustrating, but it wasn’t boring. There are a couple of things you may have forgotten about since girls started letting you put your penis in them.

The Make-Out Session

I’m sure you remember your first girlfriend. The two of you used to make out for hours on end – you trying to touch her breast, her slapping your hand away. The hours and hours of kissing had you in such a frenzy, you didn’t even notice when her dad walked in. However, ever since you’ve been allowed to have sex with women, this adolescent passion probably hasn’t been equaled. To add some passion, go back to this old stand by.

Make out, and make out for a really long time. But how do manage to keep from taking the prize if you’re already allowed? Trying making it a bet, and make sure the wager is worth it. For example, whoever touches below the belt first gets to pick TV on Monday. If you go there first, you’ll be watching Jon & Kate Plus 8 during Monday Night Football.

Mutual Masturbation

I’m sure you cringed at this term when your health teacher presented it as an alternative to sex (unless you were in high school in the last eight years and received abstinence-only education), but the grown up version of this can be fun. Whether you’re fully clothed on the couch or naked in your bed, mutual masturbation bring some playfulness back into sex.

You can get reacquainted with each other’s genitals – rediscover those spots that really make her lose her mind. If you orgasm, you don’t have to have intercourse. Penetration is not a necessity every time you have sex. You’re a grown up now, so you can forget all those silly rules you used to make about what defines sex (“It was just a handjob! We didn’t even do anything!”). You can go ahead and make your own.