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How To Be Her Dream Guy

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Great dating advice can help you learn how to be every woman’s romantic fantasy. You can try to guess at what a woman wants in a man, or you can know for sure with these great tips. Here’s how to be everything she ever wanted!

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Have A Strong Identity

The importance of having confidence in who you are and having a strong identity can’t be emphasized enough here. Think of yourself as the “product” and you’re “selling” this product to women – do you believe in what you’re selling? Do you like what you’re selling and do you think it’s a great product? If you don’t like what you’re selling, no one else will either!

Learn to get comfortable with who you are and what you have to offer. This will not only help attract women to you, it will also help you to know more about the kind of women that you could possibly have great chemistry with. Focus on being fun, energetic and exciting for others to be around – you want to be the kind of guy that has lots of friends that truly enjoy hanging out and having great conversations.

You also want to find your strengths and accentuate them. You don’t want to be the kind of guy that blends in with everyone else, because then girls aren’t going to notice you at all! You want to find what is unique about yourself and show that off. If you stand out from the crowd a little bit because of something that is special about you, that’s a good thing!

Learn How To Be Comfortable In Social Situations

No girl has a “dream guy” that sits in the corner at a party and doesn’t talk to anyone. Girls want a man who is passionate, has things to talk about and wants to talk about them with other people. So if you’re not comfortable in large groups or in social situations, you want to work on this. Practice makes perfect, so put yourself out there. The more you expose yourself to social situations, the more comfortable you will begin to be in them. As you do this, your self confidence will soar!

Be Someone She Can Be Proud Of

This is perhaps one of the best bits of dating advice out there. While women can and will fall in love with guys who they can’t be proud of, you don’t want this to be you! If you really want a girl to fall for you, you’ve got to be someone she can be proud to introduce to her friends and family. You want to be someone she can bring up in a conversation, rather than the topic she’s trying to avoid in a conversation.

Have an awesome job, volunteer or do things that you’re passionate about. Have short term and long term goals, and don’t be afraid to tell people about what you’re striving for. She will see and admire the things that you love doing that make you who you are – and this is what she will brag about to her friends and family when she is dating you!

Get Comfortable Being Romantic And Sensual

Women love sensuality and romance, period. If you can’t bring this to the table, it’s not likely you’re going to be any girl’s fantasy. Get comfortable with showing women affection, touching them and kissing them. When you kiss a woman, make it something that she remembers! If you don’t know how to be romantic or sensual with a woman, read up on seduction tips and how to really be intimate with a girl.

With physical intimacy comes emotional intimacy, so you don’t want to wall yourself of emotionally. Get comfortable with experiencing your feelings, talking about them and being in touch with your emotions. Don’t be afraid to open up to a girl and let her see that you’re a little emotionally vulnerable. Yes, you’re taking the risk of getting hurt here, but ultimately, this is the piece of dating advice that will get her to fall head over heels for you.

Develop A Posture And Presence That Women Want To Be Around

Girls want to be around that strong, confident guy. They don’t want to be around a weak, wimpy guy that asks permission for everything. Learn to make decisions about date ideas, where to go and what to do. Let a girl know that she doesn’t have to worry about things when she’s with you. Show her that you’re the alpha male – and she’ll be putty in your hands.

Petite Vibrating Nipple Teasers Review

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Petite Vibrating Nipple Teasers are a great way to introduce nipple foreplay into the bedroom. They’re specifically designed to be smaller, so they’re perfect for petite sized women. While the clamps feel great by themselves, you can up the pleasure factor by turning on any one of the four vibration speeds.

The Good

The clamps are completely adjustable, so you can go from light or firm pressure depending on what you like or what your partner likes. Some nipple clamps have a sliding bar that allows for adjustment, but the Petite Vibrating Nipple Teasers have a twist adjustment, so you know exactly how much pressure you’re using. The inside of the clamps are coated with a soft jelly for comfort, so you’re not going to feel any sharp “metal clamp” pain – just the good, firm pressure that you like.

Many nipple clamps, especially those with vibrator attachments are actually very heavy – that’s not the case with the Petite Vibrating Nipple Teasers. They are surprisingly lightweight, so they are comfortable to wear for long periods of time.

The Bad

Pay special attention to the word “petite” – these are very small. Women with larger breasts and nipples should try a different size nipple clamp, because these will not fit! They’re small and discreet, but not discreet enough to wear under clothing without anyone knowing what you’ve got going on under your shirt. The Petite Vibrating Nipple Teasers are fairly quiet at lower speeds of vibration, but they can get a little loud if you’re using one of the two higher vibration modes.

The vibrations create a warming effect on the nipples, which some women may enjoy, but the longer you use them, the warmer they get. There may be a point where the warming effect is overwhelming for some women and they nipple clamps have to be removed for awhile to allow them to cool down. The Petite Vibrating Nipple Teasers also require two AAA batteries, so it’s not a rechargeable product – although it is cordless with the exception of the remote. You can use rechargeable batteries if you like, but it’s always better to have sex toys that recharge by simply plugging in.

The Bottom Line

Petite Vibrating Nipple Teasers are a great option for small breasted women and women with small nipples who want an easy to use, warming nipple clamp. The soft pads are great for sensitive nipples, and four speeds of vibration will keep you busy. Try it out alone during masturbation or with a partner for fun, hands free nipple stimulation.

The Full Petite Vibrating Nipple Teasers Review

Sex toys for breasts that look great on and feel good to are hard to find – but Petite Vibrating Nipple Teasers are a small, lightweight sex toys that function as both a nipple clamp and a nipple vibrator and are easy to use and even more fun to play with. It’s about 2.5″ in length and look great while being worn. While breast lovers are going to enjoy almost any “jewelry” on the nipples, there are some clamps that just don’t look good on – but the Petite Vibrating Nipple Teasers look and feel sexy on, so both partners can enjoy.

Using Them Without Vibration

These sex toys be used without vibration for a simple clamp experience – the soft jelly pads on the inside of the clamps keep these sex toys from hurting too much, while still applying firm pressure right where you want it. The clamp is twistable, so you know can gently twist to tighten or loosen the clamps depending on how much pressure you or your partner want. The twistable clamps are much easier to use than other clamps that are adjusted using sliding bars, because the pressure is uniform and constant, instead of being tighter at the bottom of the clamp where the slider bar is.

Using Them With Vibration

While you can have plenty of fun with the Petite Vibrating Nipple Teasers without the vibrations, there is lots more fun to be had once you turn the vibrations on. Be careful here, because the vibrations actually warm the clamps up. With lower vibrations, you actually get a nice warming effect (and the lower vibrations are quieter as well), but with higher settings, the nipple clamps can actually get quite hot. This may or may not work for you, depending on how sensitive your nipples are, or if you’re using these sex toys for kinkier BDSM play.

Using Them On The Clitoris

Although these sex toys are made specifically for nipples, you can actually use one of the clamps on the clitoris! This can be a great, hands-free way to stimulate a woman’s clitoris during intercourse, especially if she has trouble reaching orgasm during penetration without some type of clitoral stimulation. Overall, the Petite Vibrating Nipple Teasers are a great way to tease and please the nipples – and more!

Getting Him Back Review

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Getting Him Back will help you figure out what went wrong in your relationship and how to get him back for good. It doesn’t have to be over!

Michael Webb, one of the world’s top selling romantic authors, brings yet another great book on how to win an ex back – except this time, it’s a guide on how SHE can win HIM back after a breakup! Getting Him Back is short, sweet and to the point, yet packed with lots of information. It not only shows how a woman can completely redesign herself and her behavior so the relationship will actually work on the next go round, but also how to get his attention and convince him that she is, in fact, a completely different, more mature and forgiving person.

Micheal also has a series of other great books available that will definitely help bring the spark back between you and your ex when you get things going again between the two of you:

300 Creative Dates – Use these great date ideas to show your ex that your new romantic, fun and adventurous side.

Blow By Blow: Expert Tips On Giving Mind Blowing Blowjobs – Use these oral sex tips to make your ex melt when you do finally get him back in the sack with you!

The Good

Getting Him Back is actually quite short, but there is no lack of information within. It has only 6 chapters, so you can have it read quickly, which means you’ll already be on your way to put your game plan into action. Michael outlines step by step what you need to do and how you need to act to get your ex thinking about you again in a good way.

There’s not a lot left to be desired here – Michael covers the basics of a breakup, cautions against the wrong reasons to want to get back with someone and teaches you the importance of creating a better, kinder, more forgiving you. Honestly, even if your ex moves on and finds someone else, you’re going to benefit from the introspection you’ve done through reading Getting Him Back. Your next relationship may very well be the best you’ve ever had.

The Bad

A little manipulation is required on the woman’s part to break down the emotional barrier that a guy puts up after a breakup. Without this manipulation, he may never see you in the new light you’ve cast yourself in, which is essential for him taking you back. However, some women may find the some of the tips, including the suggestion to find another love interest that is richer and smarter than your ex to make him jealous, a little juvenile. But what any girl reading Getting Him Back must realize is that to win a man back for good, you first have to get yourself back in his sight, and that’s not always easy to do.

The Bottom Line

Getting Him Back is an excellent guide on how women can get the men that they’ve loved and lost back into their lives. It’s a shorter, easier read than many other similar products out there, but only because Michael gets right to the point. There’s not a lot of fluff here – if you want simple, easy to understand steps that will increase your chances of getting back in his arms for good, this is the book you want to read.

Some women may feel a few of the suggestions are a little manipulative, but a girl’s gotta do what a girl’s gotta do. The main focus of Getting Him Back is creating a new, better person and shedding whatever issues contributed to the breakup in the first place.

The Full Getting Him Back Review

A breakup doesn’t have to be the end if you want to be with someone – and that’s what Getting Him Back is all about. It shows you how to figure out what went wrong in your relationship and how to get him back step by step. The guide starts off with a series of deep, thought provoking questions about your relationship and what possibly went wrong. While you’re giving your ex some time to breathe and heal from the emotional pain of the split, you’re going to be doing some truthful examination of yourself and you’re going to get real with yourself. Some questions that may shed some light on the breakup are:

  • Do you miss him or just the two of you together?
  • Are you looking to the future for the right reasons?
  • Do you simply need to win?
  • Could you be happy alone?

Yes, these are some tough questions and they’re probably not ones you want to truthfully answer. However, without digging deep and truly examining yourself and the root of the breakup, you’re never going to be able to get your ex back, or if you do, it’s not going to last very long.

Some things you’ll learn in Getting Him Back:

  • Why giving your ex time to breathe after the breakup is important
  • How to make that time work in YOUR favor
  • How to create a completely new you
  • The #1 SECRET to getting him back
  • 3 simple steps to get your ex to REALLY start noticing you again
  • How to use the “I just want to be friends” situation to your advantage
  • 10 things you NEVER want to forget when trying to get your ex back
  • 6 key ingredients in a successful relationship

Essentially, Getting Him Back is a guide that every woman should read if she wants to get back with the man she’s lost to a breakup. To be successful, there may be a few difficult revelations, big changes and decisions to make, but in the end you will either get your man back, be a better person for it or both.

Getting Her Back – For Good Review

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Getting Her Back For Good has helped many men reunite with their exes. If you want to get YOUR ex back, you’ll definitely want to read this!

Michael Webb, also known as the “Oprah Love Expert” and the “World’s Most Romantic Man,” brings yet another great guide to the table – Getting Her Back – For Good –  that shows men who have lost the loves of their lives get them back and never let them get away again. Michael has many other great titles on relationships, dating and sex, including 300 Creative Dates and Lick By Lick – How To Go Down On A Woman And Have Her Begging For More. Learning how to do the latter might not be too bad an idea if you’re really trying to win her back!

The Good

Getting Her Back – For Good is not a guide full of fluff that will get her attention, nor is it a book about tricks to use to win a girl back or ways to manipulate a woman into wanting to be with you again after breaking up with you. This book is designed to help men who really want to figure out what went wrong in their relationships and to fix the core issues that dissolved the partnership.

Getting Her Back – For Good has lots of great material in it, from start to finish. It is a long and bulky read, but totally worth it! The information gleaned from this guide will not only help you change yourself so that your ex will want you back, it will also help you to learn how to be a better partner if you end up moving on to a new relationship with someone else. Reading this guide is a win-win – you’re going to benefit a great deal from the deep self examination that this book has you go through.

The Bad

What is great about Getting Her Back – For Good can also be looked at from a different perspective – not everyone will want to hear what Michael has to say in this guide. In fact, it’s a little like “tough love.” Lots of guys make mistakes in a relationship and it can be very difficult for a man to look at himself in the mirror and really look at what he did to contribute to the problems in the relationship.

The words in this guide aren’t sugar coated – so if you’re looking for a “pick me up” book that will show you everything she did to mess up the partnership, then you’re barking up the wrong tree. You’re not going to feel any warm fuzzies when you read Getting Her Back – For Good. You’re going to examine every aspect of yourself and your relationship with a magnifying lens, and you’re going to learn how to strip away the facade and look at what’s really there.

The epiphanies that you’ll inevitably run into when you read this book aren’t comfortable ones and they’re not happy ones either. You’re going to realize your mistakes and if you’ve ever had difficulty admitting what you’ve done wrong, this book will be a difficult read. That said, there is nothing in this guide that isn’t absolute truth. The truth hurts, but taking a long, hard look at yourself and your issues is the first critical step to changing things to get your ex back permanently.

The Bottom Line

Getting Her Back – For Good isn’t your run of the mill “do this, this and this and you’ll have her back forever” type of guide. In fact, it’s quite the opposite. This guide requires you to have an open enough mind to look at what you’ve done wrong in the relationship and how you can become a better person with whom your ex will want to be with. Not every guy is going to want – or be able to – read this book.

It brings up some truths about men and how they behave in relationships that just aren’t easy to face. However, if you do read Getting Her Back – For Good, you will be better for it. If you take Michael’s advice and apply it to your own behavior and relationships, you stand a very good chance of getting the girl you want to be with back.

The Full Getting Her Back For Good Review

Getting Her Back – For Good has helped many men reunite with their exes. If you want to know what went wrong in YOUR relationship and get her back – read this! If you’re expecting a step by step guide that shows you how to dress better, comb your hair and get involved in volunteering to win your girlfriend or wife back, you’re going to be disappointed. However, if you TRULY want to dig deep, down to the root of the problems and solve them so you and your partner can have a happy, fulfilling long term relationship, this book is going to be your new best friend.

Here are some great things you’re going to learn in Getting Her Back – For Good:

  • The #1 SECRET that causes women to snap – and how to fix it
  • Why almost every breakup is the exact same
  • What a woman needs in a relationship and what she wants in a man
  • The RED FLAGS you missed that were telling you your relationship was headed downhill
  • What REAL intimacy is
  • What she really wants during sex
  • “Power Tools” that will help all relationships

What Was YOUR Breakup About?

Although Michael explains that the dynamics behind almost every breakup are the same, the “surface reasons” for the break up are usually never alike. For example, if you cheated on her or if she cheated on you, or if you two simply “grew apart.” Michael outlines each unique break up situation and tells you what SHE wants to hear. There’s also a great section on things that you can do to help get her back and things you absolutely shouldn’t do and avoid at all costs.

Overall, Getting Her Back – For Good is a great guide that will help men to understand where their relationships went wrong and how to fix them. It may not be an easy read and it may not be super fun to look at yourself in such a glaring light, but if you want your girl back, you’re going to have to buck up and see the truth. Even if you don’t end up getting your ex back, what you’ve learned from this guide will help keep you from making the same mistakes in the future in a different relationship.

Bondage 101: What Every Player Needs To Know!

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Bondage is a sexual practice that involves restraints and the immobilization of a submissive partner for sexual gratification. Although it can be done for art, as in the case Shibari (Japanese rope bondage), but it is largely practiced during sex. It can be done with a number of mediums, including handcuffs (of both the metal and fuzzy variety), rope, Japanese silk rope, masks, gags and more.

Why Is It So Popular?

Bondage is popular for many different reasons. For some, the act of tying their lover up or being tied up is in some way liberating. Part of the appeal is that there are two very different roles required to make it happen – the dominant one, or the “top” and the submissive one, or the “bottom.” People are naturally inclined to be either a little more submissive or a little more dominant – and whichever role they seem to lean towards appeals to their inner desires in a bondage scenario.

How To Introduce It To A Nervous Partner

If someone who really enjoys the bondage and fetish world lands in a relationship with someone who has never tried it before, it can be quite nerve wracking. The partner with expertise in the area often wonders how to introduce their fantasies to their newbie lover, and they are of course, terrified of scaring them off or freaking them out.

The best way to introduce any type of sexual fetish, including bondage, to a person that has never tried it before is to start small and work your way up. Don’t bring in a huge ball gag and frightening looking metal cuffs for the first time.

Try a little light restraining with something benign like fuzzy handcuffs. Pair the restraint scenario with a favorite sexual activity of theirs that you know they absolutely love – like oral sex. Associating something new with something they already love sexually is a great way to put a positive spin on something that could otherwise be really “outside their box.”

As your partner gets more and more into it, you can talk to them about their fantasies (you’ll definitely want to give them the opportunity to express and act out their own sexual fantasies too) and gradually work your way up to whatever level of restraint you and your partner are most aroused by and comfortable with.

Experimenting With Restraints During Sex & Masturbation

Lovers of bondage as well as those who are new to it can play during sex with a partner or alone, during masturbation. While restraint scenarios are much easier to get into when there’s a partner involved, singles don’t have to give up their BDSM lives during their singledom just because someone else isn’t there to tie them up. Try wearing a ball gag or handcuffs during masturbation.

There are also lots of great places to meet fellow bondage and fetish enthusiasts, especially if you live in a larger city. If you’re single and are either looking for a romance with a dom or sub, or just want to engage in some casual play, there are tons of resources out there.

How To Get Started

If you’re new to bondage, whether you’re interested in experimenting with it on your own or have a partner that wants to get you into it, it can be a little intimidating getting started from scratch. Your first order of business is to invest in a few good tools of the trade. A basic silk rope or a restraint kit is perfect for beginner’s arm and leg restraint. A feather tickler and a paddle are also fun ways to get started with pain and pleasure play.

What’s New In Bondage & Fetish?

There is always something new and exciting in bondage & fetish, because the whole idea is to push the boundaries of what is acceptable and what isn’t. BDSM enthusiasts are always trying to push the envelope, so there’s always something different to find.

Recent adult films and many fetish-centric websites show some of the never before seen, don’t-try-this-at-home restraint scenarios, while many adult toy stores are starting to shelve some of the newest and sexiest bondage gear out there.

No matter what you’re looking for, whether it’s a beginner’s kit and a very vanilla video or a leather whip and a ball gag that you definitely wouldn’t want company to see, it’s out there. Bondage is sex, it’s art and it’s loved by many!