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Best Sex Toys, Games And Vibrators Of 2010

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Adding sex toys and vibrators can definitely turn up the heat on your sex life and really bring you to the next level when it comes to fun behind closed doors. When you add these fun and titillating items to your sex repertoire, they will take you from just having plain vanilla sex to having the hottest, most titillating sex of your life with your partner (or alone!)

If you’ve never tried incorporating a sex toy into your routine, we have some great tips on how to select the right ones and how to introduce them to your partner. If you’re a seasoned sex toy or vibrator user, check out some of the more advanced items like sex furniture or smooth, icy glass. Sex games can also bring some much needed fun and excitement into the bedroom, and we’ve got the best of both adult toys & games.

Try testing your luck with a sexy dice roll to see if your partner will go down on you, or try some fun roleplaying with or without sexy costumes. This year, we have rated all the great sex toys, sex furniture, super fun sex games and of course, the best condoms. Here are our top picks for this year so you and your partner can start (or continue) having a sizzling hot sex life all next year!

Best Masturbation Techniques Of 2010

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Men get a bad rap for masturbation but let’s face it – women do it to, and masturbation actually isn’t all that bad. It has a reputation for being “taboo,” due to society and some cultures believing that it’s “wrong.” In fact, ridiculous rumors still circulate about boys that masturbate will go blind or grow hair on their palms!  

As society evolves, however, we’re learning that masturbating is really a healthy part of anyone’s sex life and both men and women can benefit from masturbating. In fact, regular masturbation can do lots of things such as relieve stress and prevent premature ejaculation and unwanted erections. It can also be a part of building a strong sexual relationship with your significant other. Couples who are open about masturbating and masturbate separately and together will have a stronger and more satisfying sexual relationship with each other than couples who are afraid of masturbation or do it in secret.

People who are single and don’t have a sex partner don’t have to make masturbation quick and dirty – it too can be as physically satisfying as having sex with someone (and sometimes even better!) There are lots of ways for men and women to fly solo (both with sex toys and without), but not everyone knows how to really click their own mouse. We’ve done tons of articles on masturbating this year, but here are our best masturbation tips of 2010 for boys and girls!

Best Sex Positions Of 2010

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Trying new sex positions in the bedroom is one of the best ways to spice up your sex life and have better sex with your lover. There are tons of different ones to try, ranging from the sweet and sensual to the downright dirty. You can switch up what you do in the bedroom based on your mood and you can of course try several different positions in one sex session!

Don’t let the sex positions you use in the bedroom define who you are – for example, you’re not a “kinky” girl so you’re not going to do it doggy style. Instead, use them to make each and every time with your partner new, exciting, different and fun – depending on you or your partner’s mood. If you’re feeling a little naughty, try some positions that are designed for deeper penetration or sixty-nining, or if you’re feeling like having more romantic sex, try woman on top.

You may be worried that you’re not flexible enough for a lot of our suggestions, but you can always modify them or choose something else fun and exciting to suit your physical capabilities. You can use different sex positions to stimulate your partner in different ways, whether you want to have anal sex, stimulate the g-spot or create more friction to rub the clitoris and create a clitoral orgasm. There are also lots of ones that will feel great for the guys, although he’s bound to enjoy just about any of them! So here you have it – our top sex positions articles of 2010 so you can keep getting busy well into the new year!

5 Tips For Better Car Sex

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Car sex isn’t as easy as it sounds – especially if you’re on the go. Having car sex is great fun and super titillating (and an awesome way to spice up your sex life) but getting comfortable – and getting off – can take some creativity. Here are 5 excellent suggestions for having better car sex, so you and your partner can get it on behind the wheel.

Road Head

If you’ve never had car sex before, you’ve probably at least given road head. Giving a blowjob while your partner is behind the wheel is daring and sexy – and it’s the perfect way to turn a boring road trip into something more fun and exciting! Safety is key here, because the giving partner usually can’t keep their seatbelt on during the blowjob. Try doing this on a back road, or a deserted highway with no curves, stop lights or stop signs. When you’re about to have an orgasm, pull over or stop the car in some way, especially if you feel like you’re losing control. You also want to make sure the road you’re driving on is smooth, without dips, bumps or potholes!

The Hood Of The Car

When the weather is mild, the hood of your car will serve as a great platform for car sex. Of course, you’ll want to be in a deserted area or private garage if you’re not looking to get caught by anyone. Perform oral sex on your partner by having them sit on the hood while you crouch, or have her sit on the hood and stand during intercourse. The hood of the car is also a great place to get in the doggy style position, with her leaning over the hood of the car and the man standing up behind her. The trunk sometimes also works for this, but the hood is probably your best bet for simplicity and comfort.

The Backseat

The backseat of the car is, of course, the most popular place to have car sex. If it’s too cold to do it outside on the hood (or too hot), the backseat of the car provides a comfortable place to get busy without being exposed to the outdoors. It’s also a great place for car sex if you’re looking for a little privacy. You can get into lots of different sex positions in the backseat of the car, including doggy style, missionary, woman on top or even reverse cowgirl. Oral sex can be performed in the backseat, but usually only in the sixty nine position where both partners are giving and receiving oral sex.

The Front Seat

While the front driver’s seat won’t work at all (except for road head) for car sex, the front passenger’s seat can allow you to get into some interesting – and fun – sex positions! If you want to do oral sex in the front seat, lean the seat back as far as it will go and have your partner straddle your face. You can also do girl on top in the front seat, and the angle is perfect for mind blowing g-spot orgasms in this position.

Making Car Sex Comfortable

If you haven’t cleaned your car out in awhile, now is the time to take it for a full wash and vacuum. Crumbs and old food wrappers are not sexy – nor are they comfortable if you’re laying on them naked! Make sure to have condoms with you, but never store them in your car if it’s too hot or cold outside (this could break down the latex and make the condom ineffective). You’ll also want to have some paper towels, tissue or wet wipes available so you and your partner can clean up easily after you have sex. Planning ahead and having a few things available to you before you have car sex will keep you from regretting it later.

Car Sex Safety

Safety is, of course, the most important factor when it comes to car sex. If you’re parked and in a secluded area, it’s pretty safe as far as not incurring bodily harm goes. You may or may not get caught – which may or may not be part of the sexual thrill! If you’re trying to have sex while you’re in a moving car (namely if someone else is driving), you stand a chance of getting hurt if the car wrecks. In the latter situation, you also have other people to worry about too – whoever is driving on the road with you could be involved in an accident with you. Just remember that when you’re having fun, it’s important to be safe too!

Dating Tips: How To Get Out Of The Friend Zone

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When dating, it can be easy to get stuck in the “friend zone” with a girl you’re actually romantically interested in. Things are going great, but before you know it, you’re more like best friends than a couple. Here’s how you can get out of the friend zone and start dating your love interest in a romantic way – it’s all about changing the current dynamics of the relationship. Sometimes it’s a little risky, but in the end, it will pay off!

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Date Other Women

Dating other women and creating a little “friendly competition” is a great way to break out of the friend zone. A woman who consideres you a really good friend may realize that she likes you as more than that once you start dating someone else. A fair number of women (in fact, a lot of them) tend to want what they “can’t” have. Before, she didn’t see a need to start dating you because you were available to her and gave her the emotional intimacy she wanted in a friendship type relationship. However, when you start dating someone else, she will miss that connection you two had and be a little jealous of the girl you’re dating, prompting her to make a move and ask you out.

Plan Something Crazy – Then Kiss Her

Take some time to plan a great date doing something amazing. Plan a trip to an amusement park, go ice skating or do something else super fun and a little crazy. Right when she’s having an awesome time and is filled with happy, positive emotions, you’re going to lean in and kiss her. Kissing her at the perfect moment is going to do one of two things. It will most likely turn into a great kiss and make her realize she has romantic feelings for you – or, she’ll simply let you know that she’s not interested in being more than friends with you. However, if you play your cards right and make your first move at the perfect time and place, she will be much more likely to accept your invitation for a romantic relationship. If you’ve been friends for a long time, you may be tempted to use this opportunity to tell her you love her. Avoid this at all costs! You don’t want to overwhelm her by confessing that you’re in love with her or have loved her for a long time. Instead, just leave it open ended. Establish that you both have romantic feelings for each other and then just continue having a great time! You can talk about being in love or being in a relationship later – much later.

Stop Confiding In Her

To get out of the friend zone, you must first figure out how you got there in the first place. The most common way that guys get stuck in a friendship type relationship rather than a romantic one is they start confiding their own problems in their love interests and offering a shoulder to cry on for her when she’s talking about her problems. This is a great way to build an intimate friendship, but women with “guy friends” like this will only ever see them as friends and not in a romantic way. What you need to do is stop confiding in her – when you go out with her, instead of having a “talk” or discussion, practice flirting and having a good time. Show her that you enjoy flirting with her and want to be romantic with her.

How To Downplay It If She’s Not Interested

If you find out she’s not interested in you that way, you may be scared that you’re going to lose the friendship. This is actually a huge reason that many guys won’t let a girl know they’re into them romantically – because they’re not only scared of rejection, but they’re also scared of losing any relationship they have with their girl at all. Whether she stays friends with you after she declines your offer for a romantic relationship isn’t up to her – it’s up to you. Just don’t let it get weird! Go back to doing the same things you were before and simply say, “You can’t blame a guy for trying.” Because you really can’t!