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Learn The Forbidden TRUTH About Anal Sex & How You Can Make It HOT!

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Do you wish you could have anal sex with your partner? 

Have you tried it before, only to watch your lover shrink away in pain? 

Do you fantasize about putting it in your lover’s backdoor, even though she won’t let you do it?

If anal pleasure is your thing, but you haven’t had the opportunity to have INCREDIBLE anal sex with your partner, your life is about to change.

Believe it or not, anal sex is one of the most INTENSE, SEXUALLY CHARGED experiences you can ever give your lover or experience yourself. Almost every couple tries it at least once, but many don’t stick with it because they’re just not doing it right. It CAN be comfortable and it can be incredibly pleasurable – but only if you’re following the right guidance.

Are the right tips out there for free on the Internet? Maybe. But who knows what is really out there? You could try something someone suggests online and wind up in the emergency room!

Gabrielle Moore, bestselling author of guides on female orgasms, foreplay and sex positions, covers the topic of anal pleasure and gives you the information that has been FORBIDDEN for so long!

You can trust that THESE are the tips you want to use and have confidence that when you follow these guidelines, you’re going to have pleasurable and orgasmic anal sex!

FREE Video Reveals The 7 Biggest Lies About Anal Sex You Have Been Brainwashed To Believe!

Free Anal Sex Video

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Anal Sex Is Common – It’s Just Not Talked About

Lots of people – even the world’s foremost sex experts – are afraid to cover the taboo topic of anal sex. In reality though, almost everyone’s tried it and a great deal of people continue to engage in it on a regular basis?

So why the heck is everyone so afraid of it?

Because if you do it wrong, you can really hurt yourself or someone else. 

So many sexual educators stay away from this topic to avoid the backlash if someone uses their tips and ends up getting hurt. Here’s the thing though – the lack of education on how to properly engage in anal sex is what is causing all the problems! 

Gabrielle Moore isn’t afraid to tackle this topic in Anal Pleasure For Her – in fact, she gives you EVERYTHING you need to know on how to make it a SAFE & PLEASURABLE experience for both you and your partner!

  • What if you only had to do 3 easy things to get your partner to agree to anal sex?
  • What if you could do it with NO PAIN for your lover?
  • What if you could make your partner CRAVE it all the time?

Why Anal Sex Can Be So Awesome

The truth is, the anus is absolutely jam-packed with pleasurable nerve endings, which can result in amazing, orgasmic pleasure when stimulated the right way. So your girl can definitely get off on anal sex! And most guys DREAM & FANTASIZE about it, but can never get it! The firm grip of the anus on a man’s penis can be more intense than any blowjob or traditional intercourse – so there are a LOT of men who want to do this. But they can’t, because their partners almost always say no!

All that is about to change!

You’re going to find out WHY your partner is saying no and how you can change her answer to “YES!” every single time you ask!

You’re going to get to know how to make it CLEAN and not messy at all!

Even if your lover is an anal sex virgin, you’re going to find out how to unleash her naughty side and her INNER FREAK and get her to LOVE it!

Gabrielle’s new sex guide, Anal Pleasure For Her, will reveal the top secrets that cause a woman to not want to engage in anal play, and how you can get past those for the most amazing sex you’ve ever had. The best part is, when you follow these guidelines, it’s going to be amazing for HER too!

What You’ll Get In Anal Pleasure For Her

  • The 7 BIGGEST lies about anal sex that you have been brainwashed to believe
  • How anal play can bring your sex life to a WHOLE NEW LEVEL!
  • Why most guys’ #1 fantasy is anal play
  • The simplest, 3-step technique to get your girl to have anal sex with YOU!
  • Why it isn’t a “gay” thing
  • How to have PAIN FREE anal sex!
  • The 2 biggest reasons women don’t like it (it’s NOT what you think!)
  • What sex toys to use for pain-free, pleasurable orgasms!

What Else Will You Find In Anal Pleasure For Her?

  • What religion REALLY says about anal play (this is totally DIFFERENT than what you’ve been taught!)
  • Why orgasms during anal play are much more intense than any other orgasm you or your lover have experienced, ever!
  • Why anal play might be the missing piece in your sex life that you’ve looked so hard for
  • Why trust is such an important aspect of this sexual act
  • What kind of lube to use (this is a BIGGIE that most guys ignore! If you do, you can ruin everything!)
  • When NOT to try anal play & what to stay away from even if you like it (there are some things that are off-limits and you DON’T want to ignore them!)
  • EVERYTHING about anal sex that no one has ever told you!

Are you ready to say GOODBYE to a boring sex life forever?

Are you ready to give your lover more pleasure than she has ever experienced before?

Do you want to feel sex tighter than with any virgin?

Do you want to explode in your lover’s backdoor and have her enjoy it just as much as you?

If you want the secret to a SUPER HOT sex life and to have crazier, wilder sex than you ever have, then get Get Anal Pleasure For Her TODAY!

If you’ve ever dreamed of having incredibly hot, shuddering anal sex with your partner, there is no time to waste!

If you get this guide right now, you can convince your girl to do it with you TONIGHT!

And… Don’t forget to watch the Free Video on the 7 Biggest Lies About Anal Sex:

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How To Use Oral Sex To Help Introduce Your Partner To Anal Pleasure

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Oral sex can be an excellent bridge to first time anal sex if you’re careful how you go about it. Here’s what to do to get the ball rolling on anal play.

The Connection Between Oral Sex And Anal Sex

What’s the connection? It’s best to start slowly introducing anal play to your partner while you’re giving them great oral sex. Why? Because you create an association in their mind with something they already like (oral sex) with the thing you’re trying to get them to like (anal sex). Creating that association is key.

So is going slowly. You cant go from cunnilingus to having anal sex with them right away. It’s never a good idea, especially if your relationship is newer and/or this is the first time the two of you have had anal. Slowly is the key word. While giving your partner oral sex, gently introduce a finger up their butt or massage or stroke their taint. That’s a good one. The taint is the gateway drug to anal sex. If they love it when you play with their taint, you’re golden. If you’re patient.

Are YOU Open To Anal Play?

Another thing when trying to introduce your partner to anal sex is to consider whether or not you would be open to reciving it. Yes, you. Most people who are trying to introduce their partner to anal sex (men) are interested in being the giver, not the reciever. You have to be open to receiving as well, if you really want to do it.

Maybe she’s willing to let you do it to her, after she gets to do it for you. Again, what’s good for the goose is good for the gander (we’re sure they were referring to anal sex when they came up with this saying, aren’t you?) and if you’re truly wanting her to open herself to the possiblity of anal play, you’re going to have to be willing to spread your own cheeks and take it like a man (literally).

Why men have such hang ups on this, we’ll never know. It doesn’t make you gay. Any sex act that occurs between two people of different genders is by default, heterosexual in nature. Just remember to go slow, breathe deep and use lots of lube. If you don’t follow those three steps, your transition from oral sex to anal sex will be a short trip. It will stop all the fun, and often leads to injury. The emergency rooms of the world are filled with people who didn’t heed this warning. Don’t believe us? Call the E.R. and ask.

Who Is Really After The Anal Play?

There’s a really big elephant in the room here, and it’s time we talked about it. Who wants to add anal sex to your oral sex and intercourse buffet of sex? You or your partner or both? Are you trying to tell your partner it’s okay to do, because you know deep down they secretly want to? Or is it something you want to do and you really don’t care if he/she’s into it or not. You can’t force anyone to do anything.

Unless you’re Rick James or Charlie Sheen. And even they would up paying for it eventually. Putting pressure on your partner to do something they really aren’t into and won’t enjoy is just not cool and always ends in disaster. It will blow up in your face (and not in a fun way). The only question is when and how bad. So don’t do that. It’s not worth jepardizing your relationship with your partner for something like this.

If that’s the case, talk about your desires with your partner and why your’e interested in going from oral sex to anal sex. Maybe it’s not the anal sex itself that turns you on. Maybe it’s something else. Starting a dialogue is always the first step to great sex, because it will get things out in the open, you’ll get a feel for what the other is into and open to and then you can come to some kind of understanding, and that leads to compromise. Which, honestly, at the end of the day is what relationships of all kinds are all about. Alot of give and take as it were. And no, that’s not code for a something.

How Women REALLY Look At Men!

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Seduction is actually many different aspects of a puzzle, put together. Find out the truth about how girls view guys to up your seduction game!

She Does it So Fast!

It only takes seconds for her to evaluate your potential as a lover. Women revel in the world of first impressions and assign tremendous significance to what their guts tell them. “I just know,” she says.

It’s amazing how she thinks she’s got you all figured out just by observing how you walk, kiss or hold her hand. She notices everything, by the way, like how clean or dirty your shoes are, or how totally unorganized your closet is.

Men don’t have that gift (or curse). We’re more into the ‘big picture’ kind of stuff. How big are her breasts? How big is the storage space, how big is the engine? Clean shoes are always good, but for us, it’s not a make-or-break thing. As long as they fit and function as barrier between our stinking feet and the wet pavement, it’s all good!

Our bedmates are a little bit more complicated though – they’re crazy about details! Their senses are attuned to minutiae. Looking at things in angles and magnifications that we usually don’t go for. While guys fantasize of having a larger penis, women yearn for the little things – those tiny sexual tweakings that make a big difference.

Women Notice Details – So What?

Well, it’s really not so bad -UNTIL THEY START READING INTO THOSE DETAILS – no thanks to her ultra-active brain. Women give meaning to any minor thing we do and read volumes from the mundane.

So how does this figure into the sex?

Let’s just say your life would be much easier if women don’t read so much into your actions inside the bedroom. How you caress her for example, can be interpreted in uncanny ways. Simple things like a touch can brand you as a: lover, selfish self-centered bastard, groper, touchy-feely gay man, or Don Juan.

They evaluate the way you kiss and relate it to your personality. So you can be ‘gentle and sweet,’ ‘fast and furious’ or ‘so-so’ without even knowing it. They also notice if you’re licking clockwise or counterclockwise during oral sex, or if you really don’t know what the heck you’re doing down there and are just waiting to hit pay dirt.

For guys, these details, much less their interpretations, don’t make squat of a difference. As long as we get to score on those huge breasts tonight, we’re happy.

Symbolic Sex?

But sex has a glaring symbolic meaning for women. They’ll leave lame husbands and boyfriends for others who make love much better precisely because for them, sex is not just sex. Your actions reflect how you see her as a person, how you value her feelings and treasure her satisfaction.

Remember that your actions will not be taken at face value as sex will have ramifications outside the bedroom.

If you’re terrible and inconsiderate inside the love chambers, she will respond as a nasty, overbearing diva outside – which is a reality shared by many husbands everyday. At the same time, if you give her an amazing time, positive consequences will spill out – and her nagging just might stop.

For her, sex doesn’t exist in a vacuum, so watch out. Through all the meanings women attribute to details, they are able to deduce anything and everything.

So if you want your game tighter than 90% of the men out there, better start appreciating details. Notice the way you kiss or touch. Imagine how would that feel to her. Do that and be in a position to create a lot of these different details.

Q&A: What Is The G-Shot?

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The g spot can be elusive and difficult to find. Many guys have searched and searched for it, without ever finding the pot of gold at the end of the tunnel, so to speak. Is there a way to make it larger, more noticeable and more pleasurable?

What Is The G Shot And What Does It Do?

Simply put, it’s a cosmetic injection administered by a doctor directly in a woman’s g spot.

It works to amplify a woman’s g spot.The patient gets an injection in her g spot and it becomes larger and more engorged. This makes it much easier to find and stimulate. Some people also say that getting a G shot actually increases g spot pleasure and orgasms.

Is It Safe?

It’s actually FDA approved, although it was discovered by accident. The shot was initially for joints that were experiencing inflammation and had lubrication issues. Things like knees, hips, elbows, and the like. Somehow, they found another application for this collagen-like injection, and thus the G shot was born. How they went from injecting Restalyne and similar substances into joints to injecting in the vagina we’ll never know, but whatever. Maybe scientists really do need to get out more. Or, maybe, they have sex like porn stars and and make Rick James and Hugh Hefner seem shy and inhibited.

Is it risky? You mean to say that you’re concerned about sticking a needle in your vagina? Why, whatever could possibly go wrong? To be honest, not much, generally speaking. There aren’t a whole lot of side effects, but the ones that are present are common with getting these kinds of injections. The most commonly reported side effects are swelling, itching and redness. They aren’t common, but they can happen. Above all, do your own research! Inform yourself about the possible risks and side effects and decide whether the benefits outweigh them.

What Is The Procedure Like?

So, let’s say you want the g shot in your g spot (try saying that five times fast). What’s the procedure like? Where do you go for it? What does it take?

It’s pretty simple actually, it can be done in any doctor’s office and only takes about a half an hour or so to have done. A quick internet search can find you a doctor in your area that does the procedure, or you can call your doctor and find out if they can recommend someone to do this to you.

However, this is generally not the kind of conversation you want to have in a church, your cubicle or in front of your in laws. Social media and smartphones seem to have made people really dumb. Granted, we grew up prior to 1997, so we remember that thing that doesn’t exist any more, what was it called? Oh, that’s right common sense. And privacy. So have this conversation where you can speak freely and not bother anybody.

Then What?

It claims to make a woman’s g spot easier to find and can make you have more pleasure during sex, however, but the jury’s out on that last party. Like Botox, the shot doesn’t last forever. It only lasts about four months, so if you do it and you like the results, plan on having it several times a year.

So is it really worth for you? Only you can really answer that.

Text Your Ex Back Review

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While the idea that you can save your relationship and get back together with your ex via text messages may seem a bit ludicrous at first, if you’re hurting after a break up and want your partner back, this is definitely something you’ll want to give a shot. Texting is rampant these days, with everyone and their dog having a cell phone.

Many people communicate with their phone through texting only, and others text far more than they actually talk to people on the phone. When you think about it that way, using texting to get your relationship back on track doesn’t seem like such a silly idea, now does it?

The Good

While using your cell phone to repair your relationship after a nasty break up seems way too simple to be true, Text Your Ex Back is actually chock full of great tips and resources. You’ll learn why your relationship went south, how you contributed to it, and what to do to get it back. And you can do all of this by just using your cell phone. Fancy that!

Perhaps the true meat of the guide here is not necessarily what buttons to push on your phone to make your ex magically appear back at your side (although you’ll get plenty instruction on what exactly to do), but the pearls of wisdom about how relationships and break ups work. To be honest, anyone who has ever gone through a break up will find a lot of use out of this guide. Even if you don’t have a cell phone and are using dial up internet. Really.

The Bad

Text Your Ex Back isn’t a terribly fun read. Chances are, if you’re even looking at this product, your heart is open and bleeding all over the floor already. The guide requires you to take a good, hard look at yourself and your relationship, and requires you to analyze all the different things that contributed to the break up. This. Is. Not. Fun. Period.

But it’s necessary – absolutely necessary – if you even want to have a prayer of getting your relationship back. If you’re at the place where you’ll do whatever you need to do to get your ex back, then this is the guide for you. If you’re still being cocky and blaming your partner for everything bad that ever happened in the relationship, you are definitely not emotionally developed enough to get any value out of this guide and you’ll likely put it down before you even get to the good parts.

But if you’re ready – really ready – to do what it takes to get your ex back, Text Your Ex Back is an invaluable tool. Nothing worth getting comes easy, and if you really believe that your ex is a person worth getting back, then the road to get there is not going to be easy. Take it or leave it, but that’s the way it is.

The Bottom Line

Text Your Ex Back is an excellent guide to getting your ex back – although it’s not the most “fun” read out there. You really need to be in a place where you can take some criticism and some self examination to heart and use it to better yourself and correct the mistakes you’ve made. If you’re not emotionally “there” yet – where you can admit fault, forgive yourself, forgive your partner and move forward – your cell phone isn’t going to help you one bit.

But if you’re ready, really ready, to get your ex back, Text Your Ex Back will get you going. It will take you from examining what went wrong in your relationship and how you played a part, to repairing your relationship using just your cell phone. In all honesty, this is one of the most unique break up advice guides. Even if you don’t end up getting back together (which is entirely possible, because the book makes no guarantees), you’re going to have way better relationships in the future because of this guide. However, the author’s understanding of relationships, break ups and the differences between men and women are your most powerful ally and chances are, if you do what the book says and give it your all, you will get back together with your ex. What are you waiting for?

The Full Text Your Ex Back Review

A break up is tough, but it’s a safe bet that you’ll experience a break up at some point in your lifetime. They suck pretty hard, even if you’re the one that did the breaking up. They especially suck if you’re not the one who did the breaking up. So what do you do if your relationship is over and you’re realizing that you most definitely do not want it to be over? Is there any hope of reversing the break up and saving your relationship?

Fortunately, the answer is yes!

You are not doomed to be alone for the rest of your life. The fight isn’t over yet!

Esteemed relationship and seduction guru Michael Fiore (you may have seen him showing off his mad texting skills on the Rachel Ray show) gives us Text Your Ex Back – a guide on how to use something as simple as text messages to bring your faltering relationship back to life.

But does it WORK?

Why Texting Is Such A Great Idea

The idea simply sounds too good to be true – a few simple text messages to each other and you and your  ex are back on track like nothing ever happened. Well, maybe it’s not that good, but Michael points out from the get-go why texting can be so darn effective if you’re trying to repair your relationship.

  • Texting is private and intimate, yet often takes place in very public settings. Texting is like having a secret conversation with your ex in the middle of your busy lives.
  • Texting allows you to talk to your ex without the pressure of confrontation. Confrontation can be disastrous, especially if the relationship didn’t end well. Texting allows you to talk to each other without the heat.
  • Texting allows you to build the intimacy and desire back into your relationship in the middle of your day to day activities. Everyone is busy with day to day stuff, and they don’t always have time for romance or even a decent conversation with someone. But with texting, you can converse with your ex in an intimate way, all throughout walking the dogs, taking care of the kids, working, grocery shopping, etc.
  • With texting, you are in TOTAL CONTROL of what you say to your ex. You can review what you’ve said before you sent it, edit it and make sure you’re saying the right things before the message ever gets to your ex. This can cushion the blow of the break up, because often after a break up, things are said that neither person means, or the tone is mistaken, etc. With your cell phone, you can send the right messages every time. 

Examining Your Break Up

The first few chapters of Text Your Ex Back are pretty tough. You’ll learn why you and your partner broke up and what caused the relationship to go sour in the first place – and there’s almost always more than one, singular cause. If you have any feelings whatsoever, you’ll be able to admit fault and use this section as a tool to realize what mistakes you made in the relationship and how you contributed to the break up.
You’re probably not the only guilty party, but realizing the hand you lent to the demise of your relationship is the first step to repairing it. If you’re not ready to take a good, hard look at yourself in the mirror yet, Text Your Ex Back is not for you and you’re probably not going to get your ex back at all. Good luck with that!
Yes, it sucks to have to admit fault. If you were the one who was broken up with, figuring out what you did wrong can be like rubbing salt in an open wound. But it’s completely necessary if you ever want a shot at getting back together.

What You’ll Learn In Text Your Ex Back

  • Why your old relationship is dead and why you’re never, ever going to get it back (but you can STILL get your ex back!)
  • How to forgive your former partner and how to forgive yourself
  • How dating other people can help you get your ex back (it’s true!)
  • What to say – and what not to – during your first few text messages
  • What kind of texts to avoid at all costs! 

Text Your Ex Back even goes into so much detail as to prime you for what to say next depending on what type of response you get. Michael Fiore makes it so easy, you really can’t go wrong! The texting part is easy – so if you can make it through the beginning of the book, the rest is a cake walk. There are also tons (TONS!!) of examples you can use, which is excellent for people who get stuck thinking about what to say or how to say it. Tailor the examples to you and your former partner’s personal experiences and it’s in the bag. While Text Your Ex Back makes no absolute guarantees that this method will get you back together with your former love, it does guarantee that if you put the effort in, you’re going to be better at relationships and a better person over all. How could you possibly lose?