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3 Sex Positions Guaranteed To Make A Woman Orgasm!

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Sex positions can help you improve your game and make your partner orgasm – if you choose the right ones. Here are three that will leave her gasping for breath!

These three positions that drive me and most women CRAZY. These positions are a sure fire way to bring your girl to some of the loudest, most intense orgasms of her life.

Most guys, in their struggle to please women never understand the SPOTS that actually trigger climaxes so they flail around uselessly trying weird sex positions that don’t work.

The Real “Orgasm Zone” Of A Woman – And Why Traditional Sex Positions NEVER Hit It!

Many guys know the feeling of having sex and wondering WHEN their girl is going to orgasm. In a futile attempt to get her to come you keep pounding away hoping it will happen. But it never does. The reason is because you are not hitting the “orgasm zone” that causes us to have an orgasm! Think about it like this:

Let’s say you burn your hand on the stove. You REALLY need to get some cold water. Your friend runs over with a bucket of cold water. But, instead of dumping the cold water all over your hand, they dump it all over your FOOT. You scream in agony that you needed cold water on YOUR HAND because that is what burned. Obviously the analogy is a bit dramatic and simple but it proves a certain point. Yes you need water, but you needed it IN A CERTAIN SPOT. Let me explain how this helps teach you about female orgasms. She NEEDS your penis to have a vaginal orgasm with you inside her. But if your penis isn’t hitting the CERTAIN RIGHT SPOT, its like dumping water on your foot when you burned your hand!

Now let’s talk about where the “orgasm zone” is inside of her. Guys don’t realize that the actual “orgasm zone” is the TOP INSIDE WALL of the vagina. This is where the g-spot, the deep spot, and all other sensitive orgasm zones are located!!! When you are having sex in most positions your penis is going IN to her not UP AND IN where it will give her an orgasm. Your not even giving yourself a chance at giving us an orgasm. However, there is hope! Once you learn how to ADAPT certain positions you will be going UP AND IN and nailing that “orgasm zone” EVERY TIME. You can expect your lover to start having g spot, deep spot, and maybe even a squirting orgasm when you start putting these powerful tricks into play!

The 3 Ideal Positions to Hit the Orgasm Zone and Drive Her Over the Edge

Position #1) A Very Advanced Version Of Doggy Style

What you want to do in this doggy style sex position is when you are entering her from behind on the bed you want to flatten her out. But, before you flatten her out you want to stick a pillow under the lower part of her stomach. Once you have pillow under her stomach (to raise her butt higher) you want to lie down fully flat on top of her. Often people refer to this position with out the pillow as “froggy style.” However instead of staying even with her body, move up as high as you can. The goal of this is so that as you thrust you are hitting the top inside wall of her vagina. The entire point of the pillow and moving up on her is so that you are thrusting down DIRECTLY into her “orgasm zone.” As long as you can last at least 5 minutes in this position you are sure to give her a climax.

Here’s how to take it to the NEXT LEVEL:

If you are doing it right your head should be right above hers putting you in a perfect position for some dirty talk. As long as you feel comfortable and she is comfortable you can throw in some dirty talk and really send her into spirals of orgasmic pleasure.

Here’s another secret:

You can use your arms to lightly pin down her arms to show male authority – by doing this you are going to increase the “animal primal instincts” that doggy style provides because it shows her that you are totally in control of whats going on.

And one more:

Once she has orgasm DON’T STOP – she will have an orgasm and think she needs a break. However, you can keep going lightly and she’ll recover – and be ready for an even more intense second orgasm. Slowly increase your speed and pressure and she’ll come again and again and again!

Position #2) The “2 Inches Bigger G-Spot Missionary”

The missionary sex position often gets a horrible name. Critics call it boring, plain, and vanilla. However, when used the RIGHT WAY missionary position can be one of the most intimate, climax giving positions there is. I personally LOVE missionary for the intimacy and most women do too!

Here is how to change missionary position to “2 Inches Bigger G-Spot Missionary:” (note: not only does it hit the spot, it also makes you feel 2 inches bigger inside of her due to the “angle of the dangle”)

What you want to do is take a normal missionary position and adapt it to hit the “orgasm zone.” Here is what to do:

  1. Use a pillow (or two depending on physical proportions) under her lower back but this time in missionary position.
  2. Start inside of her in missionary and scoop under her legs and put them on your shoulders.
  3. Now place your hands under her lower back between her and the pillow.
  4. Lift her up so that as you thrust in to her again you are thrusting UP AND IN and hitting the top of her vagina! (note: the entire reason you have the pillow is so that you don’t have to support her entire lower body weight with your hands)
  5. Thrust up and in and the position that you have her in is sure to trigger an amazing orgasm

Here’s how to take it to the NEXT LEVEL:

If you have the flexibility lean forward and kiss her while you are inside of her. Due to the close physical contact with her (legs on shoulders AND hands around her lower back/ass) it is a very intimate position and adding in kissing makes it highly emotional. If you are a guy that likes romance (like women do!) then you can also tell her how much you like (or love her) and that she is your girl. This position is often a girl’s favorite.

Position #3) This Position Is Seated “Girl On Top” With Her Leaning Back

Often your lover will climb on top and show that she wants to ride you for a bit. The reason she is trying to do this is because is instinctively trying to position herself so that you are thrusting UP AND in!!

With a few simple adaptions to “girl on top” you can let her take control while you lean back and watch her climax!!!

How to do it:

  1. Sit down in chair or sofa (not on bed) and have her get on top facing you.
  2. Have her put her feet forward on the outside of your body.
  3. Tell her it would be really sexy to see her lean back.
  4. As she leans back and start riding you thrust straight up, and due to the positioning you will actually be thrusting UP and IN.
  5. Lean back on the chair or sofa and watch her ride you to climax!!

Here’s how to take it to the NEXT LEVEL:

As she is riding you, reach forward and stroke her clitoris in a light circular motion. Now she is getting stimulation on the inside “orgasm zone” and the external  one.

Beware: She will climax quickly!

Now that you have learned WHY normal positions don’t give women orgasms and you have the knowledge as to what does give her a climax.

3 Sex Positions For Deeper Penetration

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Penetrating as deep as possible during sexual intercourse is a great way to connect emotionally and physically with your partner. Mixing sex positions that allow for deeper penetration with other pleasurable sex positions can definitely make your sex life even hotter than it was before! Try these positions if you want to go deep.

Doggy Style

Doggy style is probably the best sex position for going deep and stimulating the g-spot. It doesn’t allow for face to face contact with your partner, but if you want rough, deep and dirty sex, doggy style is the way to go. If you want to be closer to your partner while having sex (and still going deep) try some of the other positions below. Doggy style is usually fast and wild, so it’s great for a deeply penetrating quickie. While doggy style inevitably allows him to penetrate deeper, a woman can control the sensations by how she tilts her pelvis. Tilt your pelvis inward towards your stomach to cause the penetration to feel shallower, or arch your back and tilt your pelvis away from your stomach to make his penis go as deep as possible. Try experimenting with the way you position your pelvis so you can find out what feels best to you and your partner.

Not-Your-Boring-Missionary

Having sex with your partner missionary style is a great way to connect with them physically and emotionally, but if you’re looking for deeper penetration, you may be tempted to cross this sex position off your list. Think again! You can modify the missionary position to create the deepest penetration possible, while still being able to be eye to eye with your partner. When he’s on top, have him arch up a little so you can bring your legs back towards your stomach and hook your ankles on his shoulders. The more flexible you are, the closer he can lean in towards you – but if you’re not very flexible at all, don’t worry. The further his torso is away from you the less stretched your legs will be, but you will still be able to experience the difference in penetration depth between this modified missionary sex position and traditional missionary.

Woman On Top

One of the best things about the woman on top position is that she gets to control pretty much everything. The speed, depth and angle are all up to her and consequently, this often allows a woman to have an orgasm more easily than if the position were reversed and he were on top. If you’re on top and you want deeper penetration, have your partner spread his legs and bend his knees. This will allow you to push your pelvis down closer to his and allow your vagina to slide all the way down to the very base of his penis. This is also a great sex position for a female orgasm, because the closer your pelvis is to his the more friction will be created during sex and will allow you to stimulate your clitoris as well as your vagina. Experiment with different pelvic positions to find out which one feels the best to you and your partner and allows for the deepest penetration.

4 Incredibly Naughty Rear Entry Sex Positions

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Sex positions are a great way to spice up your sex life. If you want to add a naughty element, try these 4 super hot rear entry sex positions tonight!

1. The Partial Wheelbarrow

Ask your partner to bend at the waist in front of a chair or bed, and get her to rest her head and forearms there comfortably. Stand behind her and grab onto one of her ankles, pulling her leg off the floor so that it’s close to your hip. Tell her to keep her knee bent and limp in your hand, so that you can push against it when thrusting so as not to hurt her. Then enter her from behind, making sure she’s still got one foot on the floor and she’s using her head and arms to balance herself. Put your free hand on her opposite hip, and move inside her using her hips as the pivot point.

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You get to thrust to your heart’s content and get an amazing view of her jewels, while she gets the head rush of being face down, with all the G-Spot stimulation she craves. She can also create a lot of tension using her arms, and the angle from keeping one leg up in the air changes the feeling in an oh-so-orgasmic way. Vary things up a bit by bending your knees slightly for a slightly different angle. Whoever is able to reach can tickle her clitoris for extra sensory pleasure.

2. The Rocking Wheelbarrow

Get your gal into a push up position with her arms outstretched and her body off the ground. While standing behind her, lift one of her legs onto a rocking chair, while you hold her other bent leg just below the knee. Ask her to keep the leg on the chair as straight as possible while you enter her. She’ll be able to push back against the rocking chair for leverage, and you’ll be able to hold most of her weight. Use the chair to determine the rhythm, or have her push back with her arms and chair-bound foot. You’ll definitely want to have your knees bent for this position, and try to focus your thrusting upwards instead of into her body.

Climax Cue

We’re relying on her feeling of weightlessness again to help her along the orgasmic process, but this time she’s got a bit of extra help with the rocking chair. The chair helps with rhythm, helping to hold her steady while you have sex, and gives her something to help create tension, which we both know is incredibly important for a woman to reach an impending orgasm. Although she won’t be able to finger herself, she will get ample G-Spot stimulation along with a definite fun factor. This isn’t a position either of you will be able to hold for long, so try it out when she’s nearing her explosion stage, or when you’ve both got energy to spare.

3. Flying Doggy Style

Have your lover lie down on her stomach and do a push up, keeping her body straight and her legs bent. Come up behind her on your knees and grip her outer thighs as you slide into her. As you lift her pelvis, get her to wrap her legs around your back, while bending her knees even more and putting her calves behind your lower back or buttocks. If she’s in the correct position, her feet will face the ceiling and her bum will be flush up against the base of your penis. Support her weight with your hands, or place a large stack of pillows under her hips to help keep her in the right position  Glide your bodies back and forth in unison, but not too vigorously or she’ll lose her balance. The higher you’re able to hold her up off the bed, the more G-Spot stimulation she’ll receive.

Climax Cue

There’s nothing like doggy style sex for deep penetration, but the flying doggy takes deep to a whole new level. Play around with how you move inside of her, since only subtle movements are possible here. Try short, quick strokes to massage the area where her G-Spot sits, or try long, slow, languishing strokes where she uses her feet to pull you back inside of her. If she gets tired as she nears climax, have her tilt her head down while she props herself up on her forearms. This way she’ll still be suspended in air, but she’ll have better balance and less back strain.

4. Over And Under

Have your partner position herself in doggy position on the floor with a small table, chair or even a few pillows next to one of her legs. Get her to put one leg up on the support next to her, so that her leg is perpendicular to the floor and completely straight. Come at her from behind, placing one of your legs inside hers, the other outside her straight and propped-up leg. Kneel down with the majority of your weight between her legs and enter her. Your leg on the outside will likely only drape over hers without touching the ground, and that’s just what you want.

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You’re coming at her from an odd angle in this position, yet both partners have leverage to push back or thrust deeper. You’ll be a little off balance too, which might give her a rush from the unusual rhythm and thrusting, especially if she’s nearing the pre-orgasm phase. Because your body is propped up against the length of hers, you may be able to take one of your hands and sneak it underneath her for some clitoral action. If you can’t reach around, try pushing firmly on her mons pubis and see if you can feel your penis moving inside her. If you can, apply more pressure to sandwich those special G-Spot area nerve endings, and see if it brings her closer to orgasm even faster.

4 Super Hot Standing Sex Positions

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Standing sex positions can be incredibly sexy if you know how to pull them off. Here are four super hot standing sex positions you can use tonight!

Standing Sex Position #1

Although rear entry is often a good method for helping your partner orgasm, not all women are comfortable being in the “doggy-style” position. A variation of that position can be done while standing, which is particularly useful for unusual locations, such as public bathrooms, or right after coming home from an evening out. You stand behind your partner while she is bent over slightly, and then penetrate from the rear. The best thing about this position is that you can lovingly reach around her and stroke her clitoris while you’re penetrating her from behind.

Standing Sex Position #2

Both partners don’t have to be standing for deep penetration to occur. If you want to try something a little more interesting, then this technique may be a good one. You’ll need a sturdy bar stool (which can be inexpensively purchased almost anywhere if you don’t already have one). Have your partner slide onto the stool while you stand completely naked in front of her. If you’re still working on foreplay, this is a good way to add in some heavy kissing and stroking.

While you maintain those positions, you’ll slide your penis inside her. Not only does this provide enjoyable penetration for both of you, but you’ll be able to continue the foreplay more easily than with most methods because you’ll still be facing one another and you’ll be very close together.

Standing Sex Position #3

Some couples are surprised at how many ways they can have sex in a standing position. The great thing about these  positions is not only that they can help your partner achieve a strong orgasm, but they also can seem more naughty and dangerous to your partner. We’ll talk more about this a little later in the chapter. With this particular variation, you’ll stand behind your partner while she is bending over, almost as if she’s trying to touch her toes. While she’s bent over, you’ll be in the perfect position for penetration and for stimulating her G-spot. What’s even better is that this position can be used almost anywhere.

Standing Sex Position #4

Here is another interesting idea with this type of position, particularly if your partner has a police officer fantasy. In this position, your partner faces a wall and spreads herself out as if she was about to be searched by a police officer. You come behind her for penetration. While you’re in the middle of the fun, you can always pretend to be the arresting officer who finds a new way to punish or pleasure the person in his custody.

Why Missionary Can Be Incredibly Sexy!

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Sure, missionary is the most commonly used sex position, but it doesn’t have to be boring or “ho hum.” Here’s why missionary can be super HOT!

Of course missionary is by far, is the most commonly used sex position. You can rest assured that the missionary has undergone rigorous field tests by billions of couples in the several thousand years of human history. It has survived the test of time because it works!

Movement During Missionary

During missionary the guy’s pelvis is relatively free to thrust in and out of the vagina. On top, he has more authority on the speed, power, rhythm, angle and depth of the strokes. And because his pelvis is unfettered, he can easily work on his orgasm as well as grind circles on her vulva.

(But depending on the position of a woman’s legs, there can be variations that encumber thrusting and limit pelvic freedom. When she wraps her ankles very tightly around him for example, or when she squeezes his waist with her thighs.)

Accessibility

A man can easily doodle on his lover’s chest during penetration. Her buttocks, on the other hand, may just be contented with manual caresses as it won’t easily be available for ocular inspection unless she turns sideways or raises her legs and pelvis so high that it begins to show. (That’s talent, by the way!)

Glaring height discrepancies usually bring up kissing-while-stroking issues. But really, this doesn’t happen very often. However, weight can be a major issue. Don’t lunge a huge body mass on a woman and expect her to be breathing when you’re done. Now, if you’re on the heavier side and can’t possibly carry your own bulk, consider less strenuous sexual configurations.

Since you are expected to support yourself, the stress and strain will be focused on your arms, legs and back. If you’re not reasonably healthy, this shouldn’t even be on the agenda.

Her Orgasm

Missionary can be efficient in stimulating the clitoris IF you angle your strokes and allow your pubic bone (where the pubic hair is) to rub her clitoral area. Continuous Clitoris Contact (CCC) is critical since thrusting is often not enough for her to climax.

In missionary, man experiences a sense of control, power and domination over a woman. Since he has control of virtually every element, he enjoys the authority to lead and dictate the proceedings – it’s a feeling of responsibility for him. Being under the man and giving him the reins, a woman is signaling to him “I’m trusting you, so you better know what the heck you’re doing!”