Sex Positions – Page 17

Why Woman On Top Is So Hot!

The woman on top sex position is one of the hottest sex positions to try for both him and her. Here’s why it’s really THAT great!!

What Woman On Top Is

The woman on top position means exactly what it says, the lady straddles you and is calling the shots (well, usually). She’s the rider, you’re the obedient steed. Let’s explore the ramifications with the male perspective in mind.

Limited Movement

Unlike during missionary, you don’t get the whole nine yards of pelvic freedom. If you want to, you can still stroke in this position, but a better way is to simply slack away. Just lay there, almost motionless, with your tool at attention. The woman on top is an opportunity to relax and take it easy. Caress those swinging breasts, grab some crab cakes or something. Let Eve hold her own, even just for a moment, let her dictate the movements. Don’t let her be a couch potato lying motionless, watching the whole thing unveil.

And since the sensations on your penis are not as intense as when you’re stroking, it’s an excellent way to delay ejaculation.

This is a very good time to learn. Observe your lady’s riding style and scrutinize the stuff she does when given control – you’ll learn a lot. When she leads and directs herself into you, how does she do it? At what angles and speeds does she groove?

Accessibility Is High

First of all you can see her face and those mean breasts. Second, both your hands are free to do naughty stuff. And if she does a reverse rider, you’ll have sight of her behind as well.

With regards to height and weight generally the men are taller and bulkier than women – so there won’t be any profound issues in this one. In fact, being under a large woman can be an intense experience, and a lot of guys get turned-on by heavy-duty grinding and pumping. (If your kidneys say otherwise, then try something else.)

The stress and strain on your back will depend on her physique and riding style. But as long as she’s not unloading 300 lbs. on you, you’re going to be just fine. Since you’re not laboring with the motions, woman on top can be a pleasant and relaxed position.

How It Affects Her Orgasms

This is a very strategic position in stimulating both the clitoris and the g-spot. You just lay there and the woman helps herself by rubbing her clitoral area on your pubis. Her strokes will not be so much those in & outs, as it is rubbing/rolling motions.

Woman on top is a potential G-spot winner, you don’t even have to break a sweat. Since she controls the angles of penetration, by leaning back and adjusting her pelvis, she can aim your thing into the top wall of her vagina – right where her G is waiting. She’ll help herself and ride all the way to her happy place.

For many ladies, control is a big turn-on. Being on top, a woman senses power, authority and responsibility. And this makes some guys feel vulnerable – especially when he’s just resting there with nothing to do. But the thing is, it is in the very nature of sex for the players to be vulnerable. After all, both of you are completely naked… warts and all. Sex is about letting go, and this is what happens when one of you is on top.

In woman on top, you’re not only gesturing boldness to be led, but flexibility to allow turns – that you see sex as a give and take. Not an avenue for male grandstanding, but an intimate activity shared by equal partners. Such psychodynamics may not be readily evident to you or your partner, but this stuff does take place behind those raunchy scenes. They’re there.

Crazy Starfish Sex Position

By loveandsex

For a super exotic sex position that you can add to your “we tried” list, the Crazy Starfish sex position is fun yet very challenging for both partners.

How To Do It

Both partners will lie on their sides facing the same way, but head to toe with each other. The female partner will lower herself onto him with her legs wrapped around his waist, and he will in turn wrap his own legs around her waist. He can brace his hands on her thighs to help facilitate thrusting, and she can support her weight with her arms behind her.

Where To Do It

The bed – this one requires a good deal of space. The floor works too, but carpet burn hurts! This is definitely not one you can do in a narrow space like the couch or the backseat of a car. Too many limbs everywhere!

Props You’ll Need

None.

Difficulty Level

Her O-Meter

She doesn’t have a whole lot of clitoral contact here from the Crazy Starfish sex position alone, but the g-spot stimulation helps make up for it.

His O-Meter

He absolutely loves the view he gets in the Crazy Starfish sex position, and he loves to watch the action. Bonus points for the “exotic” factor here! The only caveat for him is that his penis is bent slightly at an awkward angle, but it’s likely not enough for him to be uncomfortable.

XXX Tip

He can make the Crazy Starfish sex position way hotter for her by using his hands or a sex toy to play with her clitoris. She is at a perfect angle for him to do this, so he really needs to be doing it so both partners can get off! If she wants to give him something even more to look at, she can, of course, take her pleasure into her own hands.

5 Variations On Missionary That Will Heat Things Up TONIGHT!

By loveandsex

Missionary is ho hum, right? Wrong! Try these five super sexy variations on the traditional missionary sex position for hotter sex TONIGHT!

Missionary Variation 1

For women, the missionary position is often the most difficult when it comes to achieving orgasm. Unfortunately, if your partner is nervous or not very experimental, she may not be interested in trying other positions yet. That doesn’t mean she can’t still achieve an orgasm.

One of the keys to bringing your partner to orgasm is your ability to grind the base of your pubic bone against her clitoris—it’s all a matter of position. Have your partner lie back on the bed and place a pillow or two under her butt so her pelvic area is more arched.

Remember to continue the foreplay even as you are getting in position, so fondle her breasts or play with her butt as you place the pillows. Whisper in her ear that you have something incredible in store for her, and then let her mind conjure up the details. With her pelvic area arched in this way thanks to the pillows, you’ll have an easier time of stimulating her clitoris during vaginal intercourse.

However, if you want to boost your odds, you can purchase an inexpensive vibrator designed for the anus. Gently insert it at or before you begin penetration. The vibrations will stimulate her pelvic area, including her clitoris, which may lead you both to the desired orgasm.

Missionary Variation 2

Repeat everything from the first missionary position we discussed, but instead of using the vibrator, place your partner’s legs on your shoulders as you thrust inside her. This makes it easier for the base of your penis to stimulate her clitoris. Remember to start slowly and work your way up to harder and deeper penetration.

Let her reaction guide you. If she begins to moan with pleasure, then intensify your movements. If she winces, then ease up.

Missionary Variation 3

This is a variation of the second missionary position, which allows for even deeper penetration and gives you an angle more appropriate for clitoral stimulation. Again, your partner lies on her back on the bed. You’ll be kneeling above her, but at a slight angle.

Take her legs and put both of them over one of your shoulders. Make sure you remain at that slight angle during penetration as well.

Missionary Variation 4

This missionary position works by keeping the two of you closely connected so each thrust is more likely to stimulate its desired target. Of course, your partner lies on her back and you straddle her body. After you are inside her, she needs to pull her legs tightly together and you’ll need to wrap your ankles around her lower legs. While in this position, you’ll continue thrusting into her. If she seems uncomfortable, you may want to lessen the depth of each thrust. Remember that discomfort of any kind will interfere with your partner’s orgasm.

Missionary Variation 5

While this technique may not technically be an example of the missionary position, this is the best classification I could determine. This time your partner lies on the bed or floor with you kneeling above her. Now take her legs and raise them up, so you are holding her calves in the crook of your arm. Her butt should now be lifted off the bed and her vagina should be in line with your penis, so penetration will be easier.

If it makes her more comfortable, you could slide some soft pillows under her lower back. In this position, each time you thrust into her, you are also pulling her body against yours so each penetration is deeper and more intense. Because of the angle of the penetration, you are also more likely to stimulate either her clitoris or her G-spot, which should bring her to orgasm.

Sex Positions He Likes Best

By dicksinthecity

Sex positions can change up in your sex routine, but what does HE like best? How can you make sex better for HIM (and have him drooling all over you)?

What She Said About Sex Positions For Him:

I’ve always assumed that guys would like “woman on top” best because it offers them a great view of a sexy naked lady, her glorious breasts and her blissful face. Plus with her on top, the man can just lie back and relax a bit. But, I recently came to find out that some men find “woman on top” emasculating! Not emasculating enough to kill the mood, but being ridden by a woman is not always a favorite among men. (I know, I was shocked too!!!)

Naturally, I then assumed the missionary must be a favorite for men. In this position men can control everything and just go buck wild on their women, or so I thought. Turns out lots of men do not like this position due to the large amount of work and effort they have to put into it. One guy told me it was like “Doing push ups constantly.” YIKES! So I am officially done assuming. And yet, I can’t help but make an educated guess that maybe men like doggy style. In doggy style they can rest on their knees and not have to exert so much energy and they don’t have to look at their partners face.

What He Said About Sex Positions For Him:

So, it’s true, dude on top requires quite a bit of upper body strength, especially tricep strength, which I’m sure you are endless fascinated to learn. I prefer the woman on top, not so much because it’s a nice view (it is) or because women get off way easier (they do), but because so many women are lazy when it comes to sex, but they can’t be when they’re on top.

I can’t tell you how many girls just lay there when you’re on top or they expected you to do all the hip action in doggy style. It’s like they just go “okay, here’s my vagina. Now begin dispensing out the multiple orgasms.” Last time I checked, this was a team sport, right? It does take two to tango, yes? Apparently millions and millions of women have not received this message. I blame feminism and Sex In The City. And of course, Oprah, because we all know every woman on the planet is powerless in the face of Oprah and they just do whatever the hell she tells them.

That’s why woman on top is so great. She has to do all the work, she has make the orgasms happen. Reverse cowgirl or reverse woman on top are more great sex positions, especially for ass men. It’s great stimulation (mentally and physically) for both parties.

Doggy Style

It’s hard to beat doggy style as far as sex positions go. There’s something so raw and primal about it. I think all men love the “me tarzan, you jane” aspect to it. It allows deeper and more intense penetration which is a plus for both parties. And there’s something about that position, simply because it allows you to hit it like a home run in the bottom of the ninth, you know? You feel like a god, because you’re tapping it with a vengeance, she’s penetrated like in no other position, and so she’s screaming in ecstasy, which makes the guy feel like a rock star who screws like a porn star, and there’s just nothing wrong with that.

Missionary

Missionary can give many men the same primal power, but as I mentioned earlier, it does require quite a bit of upper body strength and many men find they don’t last as long because their body gets tired, and when that happens, the breathing gets shallow and then before you know it, it’s over and that may not be what you both had in mind. You might want to consider other sex positions.

Standing

If you can handle it, another one of the hottest sex positions is when the man sits on the edge of the bed, the woman sits on his baby maker, wraps her arms and legs around him and then he stands up and they do the horizontal mambo while standing up. A lot of men can’t hold that position for very long, for obvious reasons, so you can either, pick her up and lean up against the wall or do it like that for a while and then sit down on the beg again. You don’t need to hold that one long, women love that one for many reasons! It takes a bit of practice, but is well worth it!

Sex Positions She Likes Best

By dicksinthecity

Sex positions can make sex even better, but guys don’t often consider what a girl wants. Here are some of HER favorites you can use for great sex tonight!

A happy woman is vital to your sex life! Everyone knows men and women love sex, but which sex positions do women like this? Here are some tasty treats for you and your lover to try out!

What She Said About Sex Positions For Her:

All of them! OK, I know I represent a small majority of women who love sex in every form and position! And I am lucky enough (and work out enough) to have confidence in my body and allow myself to have a healthy body image. I think two naked or half naked bodies doing the horizontal mambo is super sexy! But, there are times when I prefer one position over another.

I have to say that woman on top (WOT is my favorite! When women are on top they can control the speed and depth. Also being on top is perfect for a women to find the right position that rubs her clitoris. Sometimes leaning forward, sometimes leaning back can do the trick. Doggy style is also a winner in my book and great for women who may feel self conscious about their bellies or boobs.

There is something so animalistic about doggy style that I think is a turn on and its also a great position for a guy to bite and nibble on your back and neck! Or he can just hold on to you with his hands, and man hands on a woman’s hip is super erotic. In doggy style, women can control the speed and depth too, just tell your guy to stay still and you can just back your ass up!

What He Said About Sex Positions For Her:

Okay, am I the only one that didn’t know WOT = woman on top? Really? I am? No one sent me the memo? That’s cold.

The sex positions she likes often boil down to either A) which ones she ‘knows’ will get or off or B) the ones that show off her best angles and make her look good.

Ideally every woman would have the confidence in their bodies that old men do. Any guy who has ever gone to the gym knows what I am talking about. They are old, they are fat, and they are naked. Constantly. And they want to have long, in depth conversations with you and they never, ever want to wear clothes. Ever. Not a stitch of modesty, or inhibition, why, I will never know, but every woman should be so uninhibited.

The more uninhibited you are, the more you enjoy sex, and the more sex positions you will enjoy.

Woman on top is great for so many reasons, chief among them the ease in achiving orgasm. I don’t care how unskilled the male lover may be, there’s no way the woman isn’t getting off on top. It’s just not possible. Not only is it guaranteed, her orgasm on top is usually quick and easy. She’s probably going to get off in that position before the man in her life.

I’m not sure it’s as efficient in achieving female orgasm as woman on top, but in my experience, every woman loves to do it standing up. Not every guy has the strength to handle it, but if you can handle it, another great sex position that every woman is sure to enjoy. I’m not sure why they love it so much. Maybe because it’s so primal, and so intense.

Mentally and physically, because you’re being penetrated in a way that is primal and intense, like no other position, and it’s a great measure of trust. He’s literally supporting you and you have to hold on to him in order to not fall and hurt yourself and potential him as well. It is not a position that a couple finds themselves in for super long (as it’s very taxing on the man and easy to get tired and then someone could get hurt), but it’s a pretty intense and amazing position.

How do you pull it off? The simplest way to get into this amazing sex position for women (and men) is to have the man sits on the edge of the bed, the woman sits on his baby maker, wraps her arms and legs around him and then he stands up and they do the horizontal mambo while standing up. A lot of men can’t hold that position for very long, for obvious reasons, so you can either, pick her up and lean up against the wall or do it like that for a while and then sit down on the bed again. You don’t need to hold that one long, women love that one for many reasons! It takes a bit of practice, but is well worth it!

You can then sit back down on the bed, and easily transition back into woman on top or another position.