A male friend of mine told me about something embarrassing that happened to him. He was in the throes of passionate sex with his girlfriend when, in a gesture of instinct, he put his hand over her … [Read more...] about BDSM 101 – Moving Beyond Plain Vanilla Sex
How to Get Your Freak On – The Beginner’s Guide to BDSM
A few months ago, I was talking to my new sex partner about what I liked in bed. “I like it a little rough,” I said, “You know, some hair pulling and some smacks on my butt while we’re having … [Read more...] about How to Get Your Freak On – The Beginner’s Guide to BDSM
The Beautiful Kind’s Ultimate BDSM, Fetish, & Kink Checklist
It’s a Pervert Party, and you’re invited! Copy this list into a word processing program so you can edit it, or print it out. For each question assign a number based on this scale: 5 = This is … [Read more...] about The Beautiful Kind’s Ultimate BDSM, Fetish, & Kink Checklist
Ooh, It Hurts So Good: Sadism & Masochism – The Pleasure of Pain…
The first time I ever had sex was on the hardwood floor of a friend’s house. He was older, on top, and yep, it hurt. But I was amazed at how receptive I was to that discomfort, how I welcomed it … [Read more...] about Ooh, It Hurts So Good: Sadism & Masochism – The Pleasure of Pain…
What Everyone Ought to Know About BDSM
That’s right, acronyms aren't just for the office anymore – it can be a regular alphabet soup in the bedroom, too. I’m talking about BDSM - the ultimate antidote to vanilla sex. Sure sex feels good … [Read more...] about What Everyone Ought to Know About BDSM
BDSM Dilemma – Should I Tell My Parents?
No matter how close children are to their parents there are some things that probably shouldn't be shared - and sexual preferences is one of them. Most of the time parents don't really want to know … [Read more...] about BDSM Dilemma – Should I Tell My Parents?
Is it Possible to be a Shy Dominatrix?
Those are two words that you don't normally see in the same sentence: shy and dominatrix. Is it possible to be both? Here's a question from Melissa who is a little confused. She always considered … [Read more...] about Is it Possible to be a Shy Dominatrix?
Rough Sex and BDSM – Going Beyond The Occasional Spanking
Rough sex is an extremely popular but largely underground sexual fantasy. That doesn't mean it doesn't happen much, it just means people are usually afraid to talk about it. And like with most things … [Read more...] about Rough Sex and BDSM – Going Beyond The Occasional Spanking