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Top 10 Best Dangerous Places To Have Sex

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Sex can be a lot of fun when you have it in different places – moving out of the bedroom can be all you need to bring back the spark between you and your lover. Many people love the thrill of having public sex, and some even love the idea of having sex in dangerous places. Here are the ten most danger filled places to get busy.

**Disclaimer**

Sex in the places named in this article can be very dangerous and could result in you or your partner getting very seriously hurt or dying. Proceed at your own risk.

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High Up In A Tree

Take hunting to the next level by having sex in a tree stand. Or, if you really like to rough it, just make your next tree climbing adventure a little more sexy! Be aware that you could fall out – which can really hurt if you’re high up! Bonus points if you have a tree house to spend the night in.

On Top Of The High Diving Board Over An Olympic Size Pool

The views from a high dive are amazing, and having sex on the high dive can make you feel like you’re floating above the pool with almost nothing holding you up. This one can end badly though – if you have rough sex or get going too fast, you may very well fall off and into the pool. A back or belly flop may not be the worst thing, but if you hit the concrete, you’re in trouble.

While Rock Climbing

If you really want to connect with nature while feeling the thrill of having sex in a dangerous place, try having sex while rock climbing. Don’t try this on your first rock climb though – get to know the area and become experienced with rock climbing before trying to get busy on the ropes. If you do, make sure you and your lover are completely harnessed and that you have a third party around to call an ambulance if things end badly.

While Skydiving

You probably can’t get much more than a handjob or possibly oral sex in while skydiving, but the thrill is the same nonetheless. Again, don’t try to do this on your first skydive. Get a feel for it before you decide what can and can’t be accomplished on a dive.

In A Bucket Truck As High As The Bucket Will Go

This one is a little safer than some of the other suggestions here, but still carries risk with it regardless. If you know someone who owns a bucket truck, ask if you can borrow it for a few hours to “cut a tree limb” in your yard. Push the bucket up as high as it will go and join your partner for a sexy romp in the sky. Make sure to harness yourself in with the proper equipment!

On The Back Of A Pickup Truck While Going Down The Freeway

This one is just plain risky and can end very badly if there’s a wreck or the hatch in the back falls down. Bring a blanket with you and find a way that you can tie or belt yourselves in if you absolutely must try it.

On Top Of A Moving Train

Again, this one is very, very risky. There’s really no way to make this safer, because you can’t belt yourself in or use safety harnesses in any way. If you must have sex on top of a train, try doing it when the train is at the station and you can just pretend you’re moving.

In A Window Washing Basket

If you really like the idea of having public sex, a window washing basket is going to be right up your alley. There is some risk associated here, so make sure you’re strapped in properly before getting it on. The idea of doing it right in front of a window with no holds barred can be extremely erotic!

On The Ledge Of A High Rise Building

Much like having sex on a moving train, there really is no way to make doing it on the ledge of a high rise building any safer. Try doing it up against the window and looking out at the street below instead – or you may just fall off the ledge and be falling towards the street below head first!

In Your Car In The Summer With The Windows Up

Sweaty sex is good sex, but there’s a line that is crossed when you consider having sex in your car in the summer with the windows up. You could definitely experience heat stroke and pass out, dying of heat suffocation before you can come to. If you must have sex in your car in the summer, crack the window!

The Incredible Sex Video Series Review

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The Incredible Sex Video Series is a new way of teaching men how to please their partners. Instead of wading through boring e-books, watch three amazing porn stars literally SHOW you how to please a woman – in their underwear! There’s not a man on Earth that isn’t going to be able to pick up these techniques and utilize them almost immediately. Is it because Ryan Keely, Justine Joli and Jade Vixen are all very well known porn stars with impressive resumes and killer bodies? Or is it because they have a real, down to earth teaching style and they actually know what they’re talking about? How about both?

The Good

Who doesn’t want to be taught how to have great sex by three gorgeous porn stars? Seeing beautiful porn stars talk about the “hows” and “why’s” of sex is a great concept – and Ryan Keely definitely delivers here. The videos aren’t “fake” with chintzy advice. It’s down to earth and a little gritty – which is perfect for the topics at hand. Enjoy REAL advice from porn stars on how to seduce a woman and give her earth shattering orgasms.

The Bad

Men looking for instructional videos that feature nudity aren’t going to find it here – the videos are strictly PG-13. However, it’s still fairly erotic and the instruction is excellent. You can still learn how to do everything the girls in the video talk about, even though they don’t remove their bras or panties. Also, the audio and video quality isn’t superb in a few of the videos, but you hardly notice because you’re watching three gorgeous porn stars teach you how to please a woman!

The Bottom Line

Incredible Sex Video Series offers everything a man looking for sex advice could want – the right tips and tricks, delivered by incredibly hot porn stars. Who could ask for more? The video and audio quality could be a little better (and if it were, this would soon be the go-to place for sex advice for men – and it might still be), but overall the instructional videos offer excellent advice in an easy to digest format. Every woman will want her man to watch these – any jealousy issues that a wife or girlfriend will have about their guy watching these ladies give sex advice will go right out the window when he puts his new skills in action.

The Full Incredible Sex Video Series Review

Sex tips are always handy, but reading through boring text to learn them is rough. Why not watch super hot women show you the best sex tips out there?

Incredible Sex Video Series is a video series that shows you how to have sex like a porn star. It’s a breath of fresh air when it comes to sex advice. Forget about instruction videos from hairy guys with doctorate degrees (talk about stale!) – instead, why not watch three breathtakingly gorgeous porn stars strip down to their skivvies and show you how THEY like to be pleased? Yes, it’s PG-13, but who cares?

The Incredible Sex Video Series will have you captivated from minute one – Ryan Keely just has a presence about her that shows that she KNOWS what she’s doing. And she’s going to teach you how to do it! These twelve videos talk about everything from fingering and fisting techniques to seduction techniques to sex positions. They just about cover it all – it’s highly unlikely that you’ll still have questions on how to please a woman after you watch them not only tell you, but SHOW you what to do!

Bonus Materials

There are also videos on different sex toys to use (and how to use them to please a woman) and how to introduce bondage and roleplay to your partner. Don’t forget to check out the great bonus material – experts like Michael Fiore and Dean Cortez offer some of their products for guys who want to learn how to text a woman into bed or ignite a fire in their relationship.

The only downfall here is that some of the videos are lacking in quality. The audio sometimes has an echo and some of the videos (specifically those captured by webcam) are blurry and hard to distinguish. This, however, is minimal compared to the wealth of information you’re getting about how to have porn star sex – and you actually get to see and hear it rather than read it.

Who You’ll See In This Video Series:

Ryan Keely

2011 Penthouse Pet runner up and October 2009 Penthouse Pet has an impressive resume in the adult film industry. Nevermind that, because she’s absolutely gorgeous and down to earth! Ryan leads with laughs and candid advice that makes you feel like you’re sitting in the room with her. Her confidence and vast knowledge are displayed prominently throughout the Incredible Sex Video Series, yet you never feel as though she’s talking “above” you or “at” you.

Jade Vixen

Who knew that a porn star could be this gorgeous and have a double science major undergraduate degree? Beautiful and smart, Jade lends her knowledge about the female body to the videos, discussing everything from where the g-spot is to how not to give a woman a yeast infection (because if you do, she’ll probably never sleep with you again).

Justine Joli

The beautiful and talented multi-time Penthouse Pet and AVN award winner also lends Ryan Keely a helping hand in the videos, often acting as the example (they’ve got to show these moves on somebody, right?) and also offering her unique advice on how men can have porn star sex and give women sheet soaking orgasms. Did you know she has 2 g-spots?

All in all, the Incredible Sex Video Series is well worth it’s minimal price tag. There just isn’t anything else on the market like it – when was the last time you had a super hot porn star teach YOU how to have sex?

Ejaculation By Command Review

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Ejaculation By Command exists to help the 20-40% of men who climax too early during sex. A quick orgasm means several things – sex doesn’t last as long and it isn’t as enjoyable, you can’t connect intimately with your partner if you’re only having sex for a few minutes and you certainly can’t give your partner great orgasms if you don’t last long enough in bed. Ejaculation By Command promises to fix all that – it will teach you how to control your orgasm so you can climax when you WANT to!

The Good

A complete guide on what premature ejaculation is, the myths surrounding PE and how you can overcome it for good. Men who really want to figure out what PE is and learn how to get rid of it completely will appreciate the thoroughness of Ejaculation By Command. There’s really no stone left unturned here, whether it’s discussing the basics or talking about techniques. An audio supplement to the guide makes for easy listening for those who have difficulty reading or simply want to listen rather than read!

The Bad

The wealth of information contained in this guide may intimidate some men, but it’s worth wading through because truly understanding PE is part of getting rid of it forever. These are NOT “overnight” techniques that will cure you immediately – although there is a companion guide that gives you several techniques you can use in a pinch. However, learning a few tricks isn’t going to help you in the long run – which is why while the Ejaculation By Command guide is lengthy, it’s totally worth it.

The Bottom Line

Ejaculation By Command is an excellent, thorough guide for men that want to learn how to control their orgasm and last longer in bed. The information is plentiful and may take awhile to go through, but it’s well worth the read!

The Full Ejaculation By Command Review

Premature ejaculation can be overcome if you first understand it. Why does it happen? Who does it happen to? Can it really be cured, or will you have to live with it forever? Lloyd Lester, author of Ejaculation By Command, answers these all important questions and more.

Men who truly want to learn how to overcome premature ejaculation will really enjoy this approach, because it covers all the bases from beginning to end. He also points out common misconceptions about premature ejaculation. Debunking the myths surrounding PE is another important step in truly getting past it.

Techniques For Controlling Orgasm

After a lengthy introduction, Lloyd to jumps right into sex techniques, which is what most men with PE are chomping at the bit to learn. You may be tempted to skip the intro, but the beginning chapters are packed with information that is essential in understanding PE. However, once you get to the really good stuff, there’s no shortage of exercises for men who want to train their body to perform better, from PC muscle exercises to exercises with a partner.

Ejaculation By Command offers plenty of pictures and easy to read diagrams to help men visually see the different phases of orgasm and how they can learn to control themselves during the stages of climax. As you read through the chapters in Ejaculation By Command, you’ll learn how to relax your mind and body so you can please your partner before you orgasm.

Why This Guide Is So Much Better Than Others Out There

There are numerous guides out there claiming to teach men how to control their orgasm and get rid of PE forever. Problem is, many of them fail to actually deliver on this claim. Ejaculation By Command is one of the best guides out there – simply because Lloyd favors STEP BY STEP instruction to teach you how to become the master of your own orgasm, instead of letting your climax control you.

After reading Ejaculation By Command in its entirety, men who actually plan on implementing the steps that Lloyd outlines (and any man who suffers from PE should) will have plenty to do! From exercises that will strengthen your body and improve the control you have over your climax to changing your diet to improve your sexual stamina, you’ll find everything you need in this book to say goodbye to premature ejaculation forever!

With Ejaculation By Command, you’ll also get several bonus guides that will help you improve your sex life once you’re able to last long enough to actually have great sex!

Emergency Tactics To Last Longer

If you suffer from PE, you’re definitely going to want to read the entire Ejaculation By Command guide – but sometimes men want a quick fix, especially if they plan on getting laid tonight. This bonus guide offers several tactics that you can use tonight to last longer!

Raunchy Sex Secrets: Transforming Your Life In Wickedly Sensuous Ways

This guide is a little basic, and the suggestions aren’t as raunchy as the title suggests. Those looking for the really dirty stuff aren’t going to find it in here. The suggestions, however, are still great and more inexperienced folks will enjoy trying out some different things.

Female Orgasm Secrets: How To Give Women Insanely Powerful Orgasms

Learn the basics of female orgasms and how they work, as well as specific techniques you can use to give her incredible, earth shattering orgasms. A perfect follow up guide for men that have read and employed the techniques in Ejaculation By Command and want to focus on their partner’s pleasure.

Top 10 Sex Positions

Learn 10 new sex positions, from the sensually sweet to the dirty and dominating. Illustrated with excellent photography featuring gorgeous girls Eva Angelina and Madelyn Marie. Fun to look at, even more fun to try on your own!

101 Romantic Ideas by Michael Webb

You’re never going to get laid unless you can seduce your partner with a touch (or more) of romance. Michael Webb has long been touted as the “Oprah Love Expert” and when you get Ejaculation By Command, you also get 101 Romantic Ideas. You can use them to make your lover swoon before ever getting into bed with them and showing off your new lovemaking skills.

With Ejaculation By Command, you’ll also get access to three great videos on how to give sensational oral sex as well as videos on the g-spot and orgasms. There’s really no comparison here – this is one of the best products to help a man who doesn’t last long enough in bed learn to control his ejaculation as well as improve his oral sex skills and learn to spice up his sex life so sex is never boring again!

100 Great Sex Games For Couples Review

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100 Great Sex Games For Couples can help you revive your sex life. Try out these sex games to turn up the heat in the bedroom TONIGHT.

If your sex life is lacking the fire it once had, you may be at a loss on how to get back the incredible sex you and your partner used to have. You may have seen a pair of dirty dice in the mall, or a sexy card game at the adult toy store, but neither of them can hold a candle to Michael Webb’s 100 Great Sex Games For Couples. You’re not going to find a shortage of things you can do with your lover here, because there are plenty of sex games and variations to keep you busy for a long, long time.

The Good

No lengthy introductions here – just 100 sex games with instructions on how to do them. Each game includes instructions on how to do it, the conditions of the game and variations so you and your partner can have fun experimenting with the thousands of different ways you can play together. This book is great for long term relationships and married couples that have lost that “spark” – the majority of the games will ignite a playful sexiness that is sure to lead to increased intimacy between partners and better sex.

The Bad

There’s not much that’s bad here, with the exception that the games require couples to be together, so it won’t work for long distance relationships. Also, couples looking for really kinky sex games aren’t going to find it here – this book is more about developing intimacy between two people that will help spark the passion and connection needed for great sex.

The Bottom Line

This is an excellent product for couples that want something fun to try TONIGHT and in the many nights to come. It’s not a “system” that will help you have better sex over time by learning different techniques. It’s 100 simple, fun sex games that you can do right now, as soon as you download the product.

The Full 100 Great Sex Games For Couples Review

100 Great Sex Games For Couples is perhaps one of the best “sex games” on the market – even better than what you can find in the store. In a store, you’ll find a deck of cards, a spinner or a pair of sexy dice, but you won’t find one hundred different, easy to play sex games that will have you and your partner laughing all night – that is, until you can’t take the teasing anymore and rip each other’s clothes off. Unless they’re already off as part of the game!

Very Creative!

You may think that there aren’t very many games that you can make sexy or do during sex, but Michael disproves that notion with one hundred creative games that you’ve probably never heard of! They’re fun, exciting and don’t involve using a lot of props. A pen, paper, the television, an alarm clock, modeling clay, money (fake or real) and a computer are some of the things you’ll need. For many of the sex games in 100 Great Sex Games For Couples, you don’t need any props or sex toys at all!

Sample Sex Games:

Commercial Chaos – switch to a channel that has a great show lineup or a movie on – preferably something sexy. Stimulate your partner during the commercials only!

Sensual Sculpture – Play sexual charades with modeling clay. Write down sexual activities on slips of paper, and draw them one at a time. The other partner has to guess what is being sculpted! Have a timer on hand, you only have three minutes to guess!

Movie Mimic – Play a movie that has lots of fun, sensual activities. Each time you see a sexual activity, you and your partner must mimic it. You can choose a movie you’ve never seen before to make it more spontaneous – the trick is, you can’t do anything except what is being done in the movie!

Those are just a few of the insanely creative sex games that Michael offers in this book. Micheal Webb is well known as the “Oprah Love Expert” and for good reason – he knows what it takes to bring the heat back into a relationship and the bedroom.

Overall, 100 Great Sex Games For Couples is an excellent purchase, especially if you’re looking for something that you can do tonight to bring the passion back! With so many different sex games and variations on them, it’s unlikely that you’ll need anything else new to try for a long time!

Oral Fixation: Why She Hates Giving You Head & How To Get Her To Love It Review

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Oral Fixation can help you make girls who hate giving head WANT it! Check out these awesome oral sex tips to make your girl BEG to give YOU blowjobs!

A lot of girls don’t like giving a guy head – that’s a given. But the question remains – why? Why does a woman avoid going down on her man at all costs and how can you get her to love it so much she wants to do it all the time? In Michael Fiore’s Oral Fixation, you’ll learn the psychology behind why women hate giving a guy a blowjob and how you can reverse her thinking so that she’ll actually LOVE going down on you!

The Good

Very few sex guides actually help a man understand a woman’s way of thinking – at least, in a way that a guy can understand (and in a way that will keep his interest). Micheal’s guide does just that though! It will teach you, step by step, how to approach all the reasons a woman doesn’t like giving a blowjob so that you can make each reason obsolete, one by one. Once you’re done, there aren’t any more reasons she doesn’t like it – and plenty of reasons she WILL.

The Bad

Oral Fixation is not a technique guide – in fact, you won’t find a blowjob technique in here at all. This is a guide that will help you GET head from your girlfriend or wife. As in, you’ll learn all about the psychology behind why women hate giving head and how you can turn that around so she actually WANTS to give you head as often as you want her to! So if you’re looking for specific techniques, you’re not going to find them here. Also, you’re not going to be able to convince every girl that you come into contact with to give you a blowjob. Some girls just don’t like it and aren’t going to – ever. But with perseverance, you can change most girls’ minds.

The Bottom Line

If you’re in “Blowjob Siberia” as Michael puts it, and want your girlfriend or wife to give you head more often, Oral Fixation will help you learn how to make your woman WANT to give you head – instead of being grossed out by it. There’s no “one special trick” that you can use to get her to want to suck you off, but with some time and effort, she’ll start to think that giving you a blowjob isn’t such a bad idea. Keep at it and she’ll start to think that giving you head is HOT and she’ll want to do it often!

The Full Oral Fixation Review

In Oral Fixation, Michael Fiore gives tons of oral sex tips and addresses the question on every guy’s mind. “How do I get her to want to give me more blowjobs?” The answer isn’t a one step, simple trick that will turn even the most grossed-out girls into blowjob loving fiends, but you can with time and effort.

Basically, this guide offers up what exactly turns a woman off about giving a blowjob and what you can do to erase your lover’s fears and apprehensions about it so that your partner will learn to LOVE it. It’s not a technique guide, so you’re not going to find any specific oral sex techniques inside. However, guys who want to get more blowjobs aren’t really looking for techniques – they’re looking for ways they can get their girls to go down on them and on that, Michael definitely delivers.

First, Michael outlines the reasons that women hate giving guys a blowjob, from bad experiences in the past to guys who just don’t look and smell clean. Oh, and that pesky gag reflex. Understanding the reasons why a lot of women just don’t like going down on a guy is key to getting your lover to actually want to do it – because what you’re going to do is eliminate each of these things one by one.

That’s actually what the majority of the oral sex tips that Oral Fixation covers – after outlining the reasons why women don’t enjoy doing it, the book goes into detail on how you can make each of these reasons obsolete. For example, if a huge thing for her is digging through your smelly bush to find your penis, you’re going to trim, shave and wash with scented soap so everything is nice and fresh down there. If it’s the idea of swallowing your semen, take swallowing off the table completely and don’t even go there. Also, a huge reason girls don’t do it is because guys don’t ever do it to them – so Michael suggests giving her cunnilingus and acting like you LOVE it.

Of course, once you get her to actually put her face down there, you need to follow it up with support and positive reinforcement. There are plenty of oral sex tips here for you to make her feel like a queen when your partner finally does go down on you.

Bonus Items

The main Oral Fixation guide includes an audio version that you can listen to in the car or while working out, or at home if you just prefer listening to things rather than reading them.

The Blowjob Interviews

Michael takes his oral sex tips one step further and offers you the Blowjob Interviews. Here, he interviews several women to find out exactly what they’re thinking about when they’re giving a guy head. They talk about what they like about giving a blowjob and what they don’t like. Never before has there been a look inside the minds of REAL women, exposing how they REALLY feel about going down on a guy. If you don’t like listening to the interviews, there’s also a written transcript.

How To Get Your Wife To Lose Weight (And Feel Great About It)

Although this bonus audio file seems a little out of place here, it can be helpful for guys that want their partners to get healthy without seeming like a jerk by suggesting that they lose weight. If you have a partner that could use to lose a few pounds, give it a listen.

Overall, this Oral Fixation is a great guide for men that want to enhance their sex lives with more oral sex – it will help you learn how to change how you think about getting a blowjob and how your partner thinks about giving one.