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Best Sex Tips Of 2009

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Ahh, sex tips. One of the most popular topics on Ask Dan And Jennifer comes full circle as we wrap up another year of great sex tips and advice. We have so many favorite sex tips that it’s hard to pick our favorites! There are so many different sex tips and great sex advice out there, and it’s always changing – so stay in tune this coming year because we have lots more in store for 2010! For now, whet your appetite for great sex advice with these fabulous articles from 2009.

Best Blowjob Tips Of 2009

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Men love getting a blowjob. It’s a fact – some men even enjoy blowjobs or getting head more than they enjoy sex! Many women know how to give great fellatio – but many still don’t! If you want to get your man wrapped around your little finger, the secret is giving him amazing head – but it’s not all about technique! In fact, many women make blowjob mistakes or fail to do the few crucial things that make getting head so great for a guy! If you want to give your guy the ultimate blowjob, check out our favorite blowjob articles of 2009 so you can get a “head” start on 2010!

Best Female Orgasm Tips Of 2009

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Giving a woman an orgasm is probably one of the greatest ways to connect with a woman physically and emotionally. Whether you want to give her an orgasm through intercourse, via oral sex, or by fingerging her g-spot, she’s going to be putty in your hands if you know the tips and tricks to use to give her the big O. Learning how to give her the ultimate orgasm will have her simply begging you for more! We’ve done a number of female orgasm tip articles this year, but here are the ones we really want you to read if you want to give your partner a mind blowing, toe curling orgasm tonight – or any other night!

3 Sex Secrets… From LESBIANS!

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A woman on woman relationship is sometimes considered the “holy grail” of fantasies for men. One woman is good, two women is better, right? But all fantasies aside, what can men learn from lesbian sex that they can use in their own sexual relationships? Are there any sex tips that these women want to share with their male counterparts?

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Finesse And Sensitivity

When performing oral sex on a woman, guys tend to get rough and they tend to get fast. They assume that a woman likes it the same way they do – hard and fast. That’s not at all true when it comes to giving a girl oral sex though. Women like it slow, they like it sensual and they certainly don’t like it rough, especially starting out. Women who perform oral sex on other women are better at listening to their partner’s responses and changing their techniques based on how their partners are reacting to their actions, but men are generally very absorbed in what they’re doing that they miss the forest for the trees. Men, start out slow when giving your partner oral sex and pay attention to her responses as you use different maneuvers. Her moans, gasps and body language will tell you if you’re doing something right – or if you’re doing something wrong.

More Than Just Breasts Or A Vagina

Men tend to focus on what sets women apart from themselves during sex – their breasts and their vagina. Men generally enjoy women touching their penis to get them aroused, so they assume that women want the same thing – that they want direct stimulation to their erogenous zones to get them turned on. A woman, however, actually prefers for a person to pay attention to their entire body, not just their breasts or vagina. Since woman on woman sex does not involve penetration, they must find other ways to turn each other on and satisfy each other sexually. Men, pretend for a few minutes to start out with that there is no penetration allowed or it is physically impossible. You must find other ways to turn your partner on, by exploring her entire body.

After Sex Glow

After you have an orgasm, especially if you’ve given your partner one, take the time to cuddle with her and bask in the after sex glow. Show your appreciation for her sexual gift, and let her know how much you truly enjoy making love to her. Confirm that she is sexy and valuable to you, instead of rolling over and going to sleep. Women who have sex with other women are somewhat limited in what they can do with each other physically, so a great deal of their sexual relations depend on emotional intimacy both before and after sex. Men, you can recreate this feeling in your own relationship by simply taking a few minutes after sex to affirm that you are completely and utterly blissed out sexually and that your partner is responsible for it and you are thankful.

What turns women on about lesbian sex is not necessarily about the vaginas, but rather, it is about the fact that another woman will understand what she wants and how she wants it. She is less fearful of communicating her desires with another woman, and this type of sexual union is more about enjoying every moment rather than a means to an end. Turn your partner on like never before by recreating lesbian sex in an emotional way. Don’t try to go for an orgasm right away, and work towards enjoying each moment. Communicate with your partner so she feels open to you, and let her enjoy the after sex glow.

What Is Female Ejaculation?

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Female ejaculation is referenced in many books on sex, including the Kama Sutra, and is a prevalent part of Tantric sex. You may have wondered, just what is female ejaculation? Can women really ejaculate? How does it happen? Here’s the truth about female ejaculation.

What Is Female Ejaculation?

Female ejaculation refers to a woman ejaculating a fluid from her vagina when she is sexually aroused or having an orgasm, much in the same way a man ejaculates semen from his penis during an orgasm. In many cultures, including cultures that regularly practice Tantric sex, female ejaculation is considered the “holy grail” of all sexual acts. Some cultures believe that female ejaculate has incredible healing properties.

Can Women Really Ejaculate? Is It Just Pee?

Women can ejaculate a from their urethra (the tube that urine comes from) by secreting a special fluid from glands inside the urethra called Skene’s glands. Some scientists believe that female ejaculation is referring to urinary stress incontinence, or the accidental spill of urine during an orgasm, rather than an actual ejaculation. However, this special fluid has been tested in many women and results show that this fluid is in fact, not urine and doesn’t contain any urine within it. That is not to say, however, that all fluid expelled from a woman’s vulva during an orgasm is ejaculate. Many women do have urinary incontinence during sex, but this is separate from female ejaculate. Female ejaculate is generally clear, watery in consistency and has no odor. This special fluid is also not a form of natural vaginal lubrication, as the fluid is released from the urethra and not the vaginal canal. It also is released at the climax of sex rather than at the beginning and serves no purpose in lubrication.

How Can A Woman Ejaculate?

For a woman to ejaculate, she must be extremely aroused and relaxed. Not every woman can ejaculate, regardless of sexual stimulation, but many can. Female ejaculation generally results from intense g-spot arousal, but sometimes can result from clitoral stimulation as well. If a woman has a clitoral (c-spot) orgasm in conjunction with a g-spot orgasm, she is more likely to ejaculate during climax. The amount of fluid a woman can ejaculate during an orgasm differs from person to person as well as from orgasm to orgasm. Some women may be ejaculating during sex without even knowing it because the amount of fluid expelled is unnoticeable. Other women seem to gush out copious amounts of fluid during ejaculation, and while it appears like a great deal of fluid at first, the truth is that only a few tablespoons of fluid are actually expelled.

Can women who don’t know how to ejaculate during an orgasm learn? Or is it something that comes naturally? There are still many questions about female ejaculation that haven’t been answered yet, but one thing is for certain – many men and women find that female ejaculation is an incredible turn on! If you are able to ejaculate during sex, don’t hide  it – embrace it!