Sex Tips & Advice

How To Please Your Man In Bed – 3 Things Every Woman Must Know

In the course of your relationship with a man, there will be many issues that will come up when the shutters are closed and it’s just the two of you in bed together. Ideally, this scenario should end up in passionate sex, maybe even the best you ever had. But wait… when did you start skipping foreplay and going right to the “main gist” of sex? When did you start saying, “I’m just too tired” to your husband if he so much as touches the tips of your perfectly manicured nails?

If your sex life is suffering because you don’t have sex frequently or you have lost the desire to constantly have sex, you know you need to do something about the situation. Most couples have trouble arranging their schedules so that they can make love. I mean, really make love; not the three minute quickie that happens right before you pass out because of sheer exhaustion from work.

Shower Him With Attention

There is nothing more frustrating than realizing your partner is thinking of other things while you’re making love. It does not matter if you’re supergirl and you can multitask quite well. If you’re in bed with your special someone, think of him and only him. Better yet, devote the whole night to his needs by cooking him dinner, giving him a massage and making him feel like a king.

All the attention he will receive from you will more than make up for the times when you ignored him when he was horny for you.

Don’t Worry About Looking Messy

Do not let your attention slip when sweat’s clouding your vision and your hair’s matted with man-juice. Your man likes seeing you all messy, because he knows that he’s the only one who can enjoy the sight of a messier, more uninhibited version of the normally prim and proper girl. Instead of fixing your hair in place all the time when you’re on top of him, concentrate on your movements and your facial expression.

Let saliva flow, and don’t worry about how awful your face looks while you’re in the throes of orgasm. He thinks you’re beautiful that way.

A man seldom feels disgusted with a woman who’s going all out while in bed with him. Instead, he feels like he’s on top of the world because for once, you’re forgetting yourself and letting your passion override your instinct to look dolled up.

Give Him Head

Announce that it’s his night and you’ll continue playing with him until he climaxes. This way, he will feel less pressured to keep it in and just go with your flow. However, don’t forget to remind him that next time, it’s your turn.

When giving him head, use your hands and your mouth. The trick is to simulate the sucking action of your vagina during penetration. Move your tongue frequently to vary the sensations. Be careful not to let your teeth graze the sensitive skin down there.

How To Enhance Your Sex Life

By leejenkins

After a few years of being in a sexual relationship, sex may feel like a normal, everyday occurrence that you can take for granted. No one will admit that their sex life sucks, but the fact is that sex becomes boring if you don’t continue to find ways to spice things up. Choosing to enhance your sex life is great for improving your relationship in general.

Here are some erotic ways to make sure you and your partner can make sex feel more exciting and fun.

Sex Tools

Even if you haven’t seen or touched a vibrator before, you should know about these things that women use to masturbate. These sex toys aren’t just for solo pleasure. In fact, they can be used to enhance your love making if you know how to use your imagination. Not ready to join a swing club? No worries. You can use your girl’s vibrator to simulate a threesome.

Sex tools also include oil rubs that add heat to an otherwise ordinary erotic massage. There are some vibrators that don’t need manual manipulation (like a sybian). You can purchase sex ticklers, spiked massagers and tongue dildos that can make a difference as far as your girl’s pleasure is concerned.

Sex Fantasies

These sex fantasies can be a great way to add variety. Pretending to be someone else while having sex isn’t taboo if you keep your mind open and if your relationship is solid to begin with. You may want to stay away from sexual fantasies if your partner is the insecure type who can’t bear the thought of pretending to be something she’s not during love making.

However, even if your girl isn’t as outgoing or uninhibited as you would like her to be, there are certain things you can do to pull off a sexual fantasy. You can ask her to dress differently, wear costumes or talk dirty to you during sex. The important thing is that you find out what floats her boat so you can come up with a good roleplaying “script” for your next kinky adventure.

Experiment With Sex Positions

Look for new sex positions that allow you to experiment with your lips and hands. There are certain positions that allow deeper penetration, and there are those that allow you to touch a woman everywhere during penetration. There are even some sex positions that allow you to share an intimate kiss and look into each other’s eyes while you’re having sex. Who said being romantic during sex isn’t possible? It’s all in the position.

Even if you’re not the adventurous type, discovering new sex positions with your partner should come easy. You can try lifting your partner’s hips during Missionary, or you can hold her ankles up during doggy style sex. Not all sex positions have to be planned, some can be executed beautifully during sex, as long as you’re willing to experiment.

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Are We Sexually Compatible?

By jessicaperez

If you are wondering whether you and your man are sexually compatible, you are asking a question that is on the mind of the majority of women on the planet. This is just some of the most important questions you have to answer if you are in a sexual relationship with a man you care about. What brought on this line of thinking? Could it be that sex now isn’t as hot as before and you’ve started wondering if he really is the one who can sexually satisfy you (and vice versa)?

Everything is going well in the bedroom until he suddenly acts distant. You know how he held you in his arms after sex in the past? Well, that does not happen now. Sexual compatibility has turned into a major issue because you are feeling isolated, you are not enjoying your time with your man and you have started to fake your orgasms.

Bring back the compatibility in the bedroom with the following tips:

First Time Sex All Over Again

One thing you can do is to bring back the mood of your first time in bed together. You remember that time quite well. That’s when you started developing strong feelings for your man and you knew these feelings are mutual.

Make sex the spontaneous result of a night of romancing. Have dinner together and make sure you cook his favorite foods. If you’re not a great cook, order in from his favorite restaurant. Do not be afraid to be romantic all over again, and never think that sex is just another chore you have to do at the end of the night.

Don’t Take His Pleasure For Granted

While we all know that men feel great during penetration, we should not be complacent. It will take a whole lot more to make sex great for you and for him, and this means going for intense foreplay. The surprising thing is that women who initiate foreplay end up enjoying sex more than the women who just plop down on the pillows and expect to be pleasured.

If your man is less than eager to do foreplay, take the initiative and make him look forward to foreplay more than sex next time.

Teach Him How To Please You

If you just leave it up to him to figure out what makes you tick sexually, you are not going to go anywhere as far as sexual growth is concerned. It’s about time to give him a tutorial on how to really please you in bed. By doing this, you’re doing yourself a favor and you can be sure that he knows exactly what you want.

Women get more emotionally and physically from a man because the sex is good. And, you know what? It’s the same thing for men. When you are connected intimately, i.e. your feelings during sex are in tune, you can achieve sexual compatibility. It won’t matter whether you can only do it once a week or every other day. You will feel happy because every sexual experience with your man is great.

First Time Sex Tips – 3 Important Health Concerns

By jessicaperez

We women have been taught that first time sex is a painful experience. This notion of a painful first time affects us more than we know. We end up dreading the event and we feel tense during what we call a “trying ordeal.” I disagree with that.

Sex for the first time should not be thought of as painful. It should be a celebration of love and a grand entrance to the world of adulthood. For the first time ever, you are sharing your body with someone who is also into you.

It is a special experience, but you do have to know some important health issues linked with first time sex. Remember, you are going to have to take care of yourself more now that you have started to become sexually active. If it’s your first time, here are some important health tips you should know about…

Always Demand That He Use A Condom

If you are a virgin and he is not, there is a chance that he will be a bit lax when it comes to protection because he is entering “unchartered territory.” This means he knows he’s fairly “safe” with you because you never had lovers in the past.

However, you should always ask him to use a condom, even if it’s your first time. It’s not that you do not trust him to be able to pull out at the critical point, or that you don’t trust his judgment when it comes to his choices of the women he slept with. You just know that accidents could happen and safe sex is still the best practice.

Always bring a condom with you whenever you feel that your man is looking forward to sex after your date. This will eliminate his excuse of forgetting to bring one.

Rinse With Warm Water

I can tell you this – the first entry is uncomfortable, but the painful feeling will come after the first sex. However, you can feel “comfortable” before and after sex by being constantly lubricated. This can be achieved by intense foreplay before sex and rinsing with warm flowing water after sex.

Rinsing properly after your first time will also make sure your wound begins healing minutes after you had sex. And, the best part is, you can go at it again after you rinse if you continue with after play. Lubrication whether with your own fluids or with warm tap water, will increase your comfort.

Clitoral Orgasm

After the break in, you may feel sore in there, and he should know this. But what if you are still willing to go for another round? It’s not surprising that you didn’t reach climax during the first time. You were tense and you were anticipating sex to be painful. Clitoral orgasm for the second time sex is the answer to this dilemma.

Instead of deeper penetration, ask him to concentrate his caresses on the outer part of your vagina. He can use his fingers to probe deeper, but not so deep that you feel tense with discomfort. With your vagina sensitive and tingly after you’ve rinsed with warm water, you should feel the pleasure of clitoral orgasm more intensely.

Who Doesn’t Want Better Sex?

By leejenkins

Sex is the most gratifying thing that a man and a woman can share. It’s supposed to be filled with excitement. Everyone has an idea of what great sex is, but there are times when sex isn’t as great as you want it to be. Maybe it’s because your partner is not in the mood and she was sort of just going with the flow because you wanted it so bad. Maybe it’s because you’re always thinking of ways to pleasure your girl but you end up failing every time. There are so many things that affect your performance in the bedroom. Read on to discover what these factors are and how you can make sex better for you and your girl.

Prepare Your Room

Lack of preparation will kill the mood.

Before you even go out on a date with the girl you want to have sex with, have a plan in mind. This will help you prepare for the eventuality that she will come back with you to your place. No girl will find pleasure in making love inside a pig sty so make sure you tidy up, buy some condoms, arrange the bed and clear the clutter. Ironically, doing these things will help you become more spontaneous. Imagine not having to worry about where you can go after your date.

Preparing your room, and yourself, for the inevitable will help with escalating from the normal date to a full-blown hook up.

Try Something Different

Great sex is almost always defined as “something different.”

To a woman, this means you should surprise her by doing something else other than the usual man-on-top position. Learn some kinky sex positions, or put a mirror near the bed. If you’ve never tried sex while still wearing clothes, this is the best time to try. You never know; you might even discover a hidden wild side just by trying something kinky like bringing out a sex toy or asking the girl to roleplay with you.

Dirty Talk

Verbal seduction is a great way to improve sex.

Dirty talking has always been a “feature” of kinky sex, but believe me, I know a lot of men who won’t go there because they think it’s disrespectful to women. However, if your girl enjoys it, you should try it out.

How do you know she’s into that? One way to know for sure whether the girl likes it or not is to ask her leading questions such as, “do you like it when I do this to you” and watching for signs that she likes it when you talk that way. A girl is very sensual, and erotic talk tops the list of “major turn ons in bed.”

If you want to be better in bed, here’s a final reminder for you. Whatever you do, don’t think about your past failures to perform in bed. Just relax and make it work by always keeping tabs on what the girl is feeling, and more importantly, how she is responding to your actions while you’re making out.