Flirting doesn’t have to be intimidating when you use these unconventional ways to get a girl’s attention! You’ll make an impression right off the bat!
Teasing women about their beauty is the most powerful way to lower their initial defenses and attract them. You’ve only got two minutes to impress a woman and make yourself stand out as somebody unique.
Understand that these beautiful women only want men with high standards.
How To Use This Strange Teasing Method To Your Advantage
OBJECTIVE: To show the woman you’re not easily impressed by “physical beauty” like other guys. You have higher standards.
By teasing the woman you’re making her compete in order to try to meet your standards. Teasing tells the woman she’s failing to reach your high standards and needs to work harder. Understand that these comments work best on “super hot” (over-confident) women.
Naturally, these are the women most guys are attracted to. If a woman is “cute,” but not “super attractive,” tone down your comments and engage her in competitive conversation instead. The more over-confident the woman is, the more you can tease her.
WARNING: Once you’ve used a teasing comment and it’s worked well, she’s going to try and regain her power. She’ll do everything possible to test you, so make sure you don’t give in to her.
Things To Say
- Nice hair. What made you go with a 60’s style?
- Ha. That walk is hilarious. Do it again!
- You like cappuccino’s? (weird look) Na, that’s cool.
Imply she’s short, has no fashion sense, has a funny quirk, etc. Once you find something that gets a great reaction, keep using it. Tease her about her:
The “Where Did You Go?” Flirting Technique
Here’s a great example you can do with just about any woman. After talking for some time you can walk up to her and look over her head as if you’re looking for something. You can then say, “Where did you go?”
Don’t stand too close just close enough to get the point across. You’ll usually get a playful hit for this one because it implies that she’s short. If you’re the same height or just a little bit shorter, stand on your toes to add some extra height. Being the same height can actually make this technique work better because it’s sarcastic humor. You’re saying she’s short even though she’s clearly level with your height.
Woman’s Teasing Interpretation
SHE THINKS FIRST: “I’m short and he is laughing about it.”
SHE INTERPRETS THIS AS: He doesn’t only want me for my looks! He’s different than most guys. I want to get to the bottom of this and see what he’s really like! Is he faking?
RESULT: She’s interested.
While this form of teasing is slightly more difficult, it usually more effective because of its “natural conversation” feel. So here’s what you do:
Ask the woman something about her day, what have you been up to? Where do you work? Where have you been shopping? What’s in the shopping bag? Where’d you get that necklace? Anything!
The idea of teasing is that you want to DISAGREE on something with the woman. Thus, creating sexual tension.
DISAGREE on her looks
Say her clothes aren’t cool.
DISAGREE on her opinion of something.
Side note: A great way to tease women at pick-up bars is to joke to your buddy that the woman is too drunk, even if she’s not. Or, accuse her of becoming as insecure as a man who goes around trying to get lucky with his “confidence-in-a-can,” and tell her it’s not going to work with you.
In conclusion, there’s a difference between a woman being seriously upset, and just playing around and being “fake upset.” When they playfully hit you and have a half smile on their face, they like it, no matter what they say!
FACT: Women mean what they do, not what they say.
When she starts laughing, acting natural, fun, and genuinely smiling, then you know you’ve spoken long enough. You no longer need to speak to the woman.