Ask any man what type of sexual favor it is that they would like to receive from a woman and the one answer that you would get is: getting a blowjob. Whether you call it giving head, going down on him or performing fellatio – it all boils down to one thing – the fact that you should sharpen your oral techniques if you want to be the best lover that you can be.
As such, it pays to learn exactly how to give a guy head so that you can give him an orgasm that he is not bound to forget anytime soon. Read on to find out the top steps that you need to follow when giving a man a blow job.
Step 1: Be Really In The Moment
One of the most common mistakes that women who don’t like giving blowjobs is treating it like a chore. If you’re going down on him, look as if you really mean it and learn to love what you’re doing down there.
Remember that if you are just going through the motions, your guy will definitely know it. And the rule that having a bad blowjob is better than not getting one at all? It’s absolutely not true.
Step 2: Tease The Rest Of His Body First Before Getting Down On Your Knees
If you’re always complaining about men not spending enough time during foreplay, it will be the same thing for him if you head straight to his penis when you’re giving him head. If you’re in bed, try to tease his nipples, and nibble your way down south.
The extra sensations will make him anticipate – and appreciate – your mouth, tongue and fingers more once they already reached their target.
Step 3: Start With The Oral Action
Once you’re already down there, close your mouth around the head of his penis and feel it grow hard – if it’s not hard already – in your mouth. Flick your tongue over the head of the penis, that sensitive underside of the shaft and use the flat of your tongue to explore his most sensitive areas.
Step 4: Keep The Pace Going
Make sure to combine the sensations from your mouth, your tongue and your fingers. Use your fingernails to handle his balls – fondle, kiss, suck and lightly play with them – he’ll surely appreciate it.
Keep the pace going and be sensitive to his moans and groans. There’s really no step-by-step manual of what you need to do once you’re down there, just do what feels right and what you think will give him the most intense of pleasures until he reaches that mind blowing orgasm.
Tips
If you want to up the ante in learning how to give your guy head, you can try to take all of him deep in your throat by lowering your mouth over his penis. It may be tricky, but it’s something that can be done if you ‘practice’ on him enough.
Warnings
If you don’t like the taste of semen, get your mouth out of his penis just before he climaxes and use your hands to pump him instead.
Whatever you do down there, don’t use your teeth or your long nails to pleasure him – otherwise you’ll be risking him pain, if not direct injury.