Did you know that there are some men who prefer receiving oral sex over intercourse? This is similar to the fact that there are a lot of women who cannot achieve an orgasm through penetrative sex, which is why they prefer when a man goes down on them.
So if you want to be the type of woman who will never be forgotten by a man because you’re such a great lover, then you do need to learn how to give great head. Take a look at some of the steps that you need to follow if you would like to master the art of fellatio.
Step 1: Remember That Achieving An Orgasm Is As Much Mental For Men As It Is For Women
Did you think that it is only women who can use their brains as the most important sexual organ? The same thing applies for men, too. So how exactly does this relate to learning how to give a guy great head?
Basically, you need to play the part and make him think that you love going down on him. Nothing kills a mood more than acting as if giving him head is a chore – or worse, a favor – that you owe him. Get in the mood by engaging in some naughty or downright trashy talk, or live out your sexual fantasies while giving him head.
Step 2: Make Sure That You Are In A Position Where You Will Not Get A Crick In Your Neck While Doing It
Scope out the sex guides online and look for a position which looks comfortable enough for you to really mean business while giving him head. Although it only takes about five minutes of direct stimulation for men to achieve an orgasm – you don’t want the action to be over too soon, so you might as well get comfy while going down on him.
Step 3: Get Down To Business
Start by lightly flicking your tongue over the head of his penis and slowly take it into your mouth. Remember that you shouldn’t use your teeth while giving him head, and you do need to give him variations when it comes to the rhythm and pace of your strokes.
Use your mouth, your tongue, your lips and your fingers to make sure that you are not ignoring any part of his penis. Try to listen to his moans and groans, take a cue from how his hand is making a gesture while holding your head – that should give you a clue as to whether he wants you to keep the pace, or go faster or slower.
No matter what you do down there, the trick is to try and love what you’re doing, keep on varying the pressure and use all the tools at your disposal so that you can give your guy great head.
Tips
To swallow or not to swallow is more of a personal preference, but don’t kill the mood by spitting it out openly if you don’t like the taste of his semen once he ejaculates.
What you can do instead is have him come on other parts of your body by taking his penis out of your mouth once he’s about to reach his peak – that’s as equally erotic as swallowing.
Warnings
If you’re having sex with someone who you’re not really sure of physically – make sure to always use a condom to be on the safe side.