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How To Play With Her Breasts

By loveandsex

Foreplay can be anything you want it to be, but must guys go after a woman’s breasts. Here’s how to do it so you turn your lover on even more!

Guys Love Breasts!

Call them boobs, knockers, tits, titties, jugs, rack, the twins, juggies, hooters, bazookas or bazongas – call them anything you want – they all refer to the magical pair of breasts that has an enthralling effect in every straight male. Who can fathom their mystery? Who can unveil the allure behind those twin peaks? They take our breaths away – and why can’t we stop talking to them?

Perhaps because they were once a source of life at a young and innocent past, breast obsession could just be a misunderstood homage to childhood. Well, perhaps not. I know of guys who were never breastfed as babies but still spend their evenings waiting for that 2-second breast exposure in those late night TV specials.

Breasts remain hot even when there’s a baby sucking and having a meal off it!

What’s up with that? What’s this fixation with bodacious peaks?

Even women don’t know why. “They’re just mammalian protuberances! Every human being has them, and ultimately, they’re just a lump of fat. So what’s the fuss,” they’ll say. However, it’s interesting to note that this hasn’t stop many of them ladies to visit their friendly doctor and have some work done – making breast augmentation a multi-billion dollar industry.

Don’t Ignore Her Breasts During Foreplay

A woman certainly doesn’t want to be man-handled by a sloppy and callused partner. They’re just breasts, but they’re HER breasts! So treat her knockers just like you want your balls treated – painlessly. She’ll cry foul if you get overly nasty with her tatas. Rummaging them like a pirate laying claim to some treasure, most guys immediately grab and suck – but believe you me, there many other ways of skinning the cat.

Pay attention to the areas around the breasts. Those zones ABOVE, BELOW & at the SIDES. Treat them as Base Camps. Begin your assault of the peak by giving them extensive amounts of oral and manual indulgence. Give them a breath of warm air, run your fingers around.

Why? Uhhh… Because it feels nice.

Here’s the thing. She knows where you’re going next – every man, after-all, wants to go on a nipple pilgrimage. But by kindling the areas around her knockers first, you’re not only signaling your intentions, you’re also heightening her awareness of it. She knows you’re going there, but she doesn’t know WHEN. And she can’t explain why the heck you’re not there yet. It’s a crafty tension building move.

Getting To The Nipples

There are several ways of doing this esteemed ascent to the nipple. You can choose to engage by licking or caressing in a spiraling course, imagining that her nipple is at the center of the spiral. You can execute backward and forward spirals, going back & forth, getting nearer each time.

You can also start from below the breast for example, and head in a straight line towards the peak, up to the Areolar Area (dark area surrounding the nipples), BARELY BUT PURPOSELY MISSING the nipple itself, and continuing up. Go very light, as if your lips/fingers are simply hovering over her areola. Do a reverse by plunging and barely missing the nipple once again as you continue downward. Well, you get the idea.

Details like this might make little sense to you, but to your lover, it’ll make for a wonderful foreplay experience. While others act like gluttonous babies diving for her nipples at first sight, it’s a little different with you, and a lot more exciting.

Every time you take a step back, you’re actually piggy-backing on what all the guys from her past failed to do, separating yourself from the rest. If she has given herself to several men prior to you she’ll be thinking, “Why isn’t my nipple in his mouth yet?”

Eventually, you’re going to have to ravage her nipple. You know you deserve to. So suck and lick it good. Suck and lick to your heart’s content. Flick it, go around and over. Bite it like marshmallow. Grab the other breast (there are TWO! Remember SYMMETRY?) and bring those raisins to a reunion. Lick between, suck them together, bite them both.

Filed Under: Foreplay Tagged With: better sex, breasts, foreplay, sex tips

What Men REALLY Think About Your Breasts

By serenapaige

Breasts are something lots of guys love – or do they? What’s too big? Or too small? Here’s what guys truly think about your ta-tas.

If men are constantly worried about their penis size, it’s only fair to assume that women have an equivalent with their breasts. Breasts can be just as much of an obsession as men have with their penis, but the difference lies in the fact that a woman’s breast size is somewhat visible from the outside whereas a man’s penis is not. If you are worried about what guys think about your breasts you should get the full truth. Most these statements may take you for surprise.

No man is alike, but there are some commonalities among them all. Here are a few things that men really think about your breasts.

1. Small Breasts

Here is a huge secret that men will actually admit to. They don’t necessarily care about small breasts. Some men even enjoy smaller breasts. The majority of men think that anything over a handful is just a waste. Think of it this way, do you really want a guy with a 20” big penis? You might consider your breasts small if you have an A or B cup, but some men simply don’t care about this.

There are a few classifications that guys can fall into: breast guys and butt guys. Some men want a girl with really big boobs and some men want a girl with a great butt. If you are self-conscious about your breasts, find a guy that enjoys you for you.

2. Fake Breasts

There are a lot of doctors out there that offer breast implant surgeries. These doctors might even claim that there will be no scarring or visibility of the implant. Men find that women with fake breasts do not feel comfortable in their own skin. Don’t be fooled into thinking that you have look like a bleach blonde porn star to get the guy of your dreams. Some men fantasize about a girl with giant fake breasts, but they don’t really want to spend a life with them.

There is a big difference between fantasy and love. Fake breasts are a sign of fantasy. Guys want girls that are real and that means real sizing. If you have been thinking about fake breasts, consider the ramifications of having the surgery.

3. Big Breasts

One of the biggest issues with a woman’s self image is her breasts. If you have really big breasts then it’s only natural to be concerned about sagging. No girl wants to have saggy grandma boobs, but this can’t always be helped. If you have big breasts and they are started to sag there are a few things that you can do. Push-ups can do wonders to sagging breasts. Strengthening the muscles underneath can be a free alternative to having a breast lift.

You can also start to do yoga. The exercises in yoga are designed to tone your body. This will increase muscle mass enough so you don’t look like a beast. If your boobs are still sagging, you might want to talk to a doctor about having a breast reduction.

4. The Right Size

There is a lot of debate about the right size of breasts. For the most part, having a breast size in the B’s or C’s is not going to affect your self image. If you have something that is either below or above this, then you must chalk it up to individuality. It doesn’t matter if a guy tells you how much he loves your breasts. If you aren’t happy with yourself, then you will never believe him. Focus on what makes you the person that you are.

This has nothing to do with breast size. The media has trained women to believe that breast size is what matters and if you have small ones you have to get implants. However, if you look at women on television, the majority of them do not have giant breasts. They are average sized because this is the average.

5. Men Are Shallow

Men are shallow. I don’t think that this is some huge revelation. If a guy doesn’t want to be with you because your breasts aren’t big enough or aren’t small enough then he’s not the kind of guy that you want to be with either. Talk to your guy and believe him when he says that your breasts are just the right size for him.

If he loves you for who you are then your breasts are just a part of that. Don’t get wrapped up in a guy that is harping on size. Be yourself and love yourself for everything that makes you the girl that he wants to be with.

Filed Under: Foreplay Tagged With: better sex, breasts, foreplay, sex tips

How To Play With Her Breasts The Right Way

By loveandsex

The breasts and nipples are one of the biggest erogenous zones of the female body. Knowing how to effectively touch, kiss and suck on her breasts and nipples is one of the most essential skills that a guy can learn in the bedroom. One of the biggest complaints that women have is that men are either too rough or too light with their breasts.

Boobs come in all shapes and sizes and nipples are the same way. If you are getting complaints from your girlfriend or wife about the way that you touch her, there a few things that you can do to brighten up her view of your sensitivity with one of the most fun parts of her body. Here is a short guide on how to effectively play with her breasts and nipples.

Recognize Her Sensitivity

No matter what size or shape your girlfriend has to her breasts or nipples, all have some level of sensitivity. Knowing the amount of sensitivity is essential to playing with them correctly. You should always be careful around her boobs. Have you ever seen a girl that has been hit in the chest with a soccer ball? They react the same way that a guy does when he gets hit in the crotch.

Know that your girlfriend or wife can be extremely turned on by this, but that too much is going to easily turn her off or make her slap you in the face. When you are sucking on them or touching them with your hands, make sure that you are not hurting her. The nipples are the most sensitive area so make the touches or licking very light.

Ask Her What She Wants

The best way to find out what your girlfriend or wife likes is to simply ask her. Asking her how she likes her breasts to be played with might take some of the spontaneity out of situation, but there isn’t a guy out there doesn’t like for their girl to be vocal. Make her get specific when she is telling you what she likes. Implement some dirty talk if need be. Just make sure she is comfortable.

If she tells you that she likes them to played with via your hands, use your hands a little more than your mouth. If she likes it really hard then be sure to do everything you can until you get to the point just below hurting her. Smaller boobs tend to be more sensitive. If your girlfriend has larger breasts, they may still be sensitive, but you shouldn’t go straight to overdrive if she likes it a little harder. Get her to be vocal during the foreplay so you know exactly what she wants.

Give Her An Erotic Massage

Erotic massages are a great way to get her and you turned on right before sex. Use massage oil on her chest and she will start to get turned on instantly. If you’re going to use massage oil it is recommended to put down older sheets. Make sure that the sheets are clean, but don’t use your 1000 count Italian thread sheets with massage oil. This can drip all over the place leaving you with a mess.

Pour the massage oil or lubricant in your hand first and then rub your hands together. This will get the substance warm. The last thing that you want to do is pour cold massage oil on her chest. Apply the oil to her and make circular motions. Work your way from the outside to her nipples. If you see her nipples start to get hard, you know that you’re doing a great job. Again, get her to be vocal with your motions. Ask her what feels good and what she would like you to do. Don’t be shy and tell her that you want to know so it feels best for her.

Use A Lot Of Variety

When you are sucking and licking on her breasts, you want to add a little variety. Don’t just focus on the nipple. While the nipples are the main focal point, all guys are going to go straight for it. Kiss and lick on the top of her  breasts to add more to the experience. The underside of her breasts are a place where most guys forget or forgo. Kissing and licking on the underside, as these places are highly sensitive.

The space between her breasts is also a great place to kiss and lick as this is not touched on a normal basis. Vary the amount of pressure you put on them when you are squeezing and you should see her trying to catch her breath. Above all, do what she likes for the best results possible.

Filed Under: Foreplay Tagged With: breast play, breasts, erotic massage, nipples

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