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3 Weird Ways To Flirt With A Guy

Flirting doesn’t always have to be by the book to be effective. Try these odd flirting techniques on the next man you’re interested in – they WORK!

Flirting with a guy can seem like an easy task, but there are a lot of things that you probably don’t know when it comes to the way his mind works. A man’s mind works so differently from a woman’s that it’s difficult sometimes to anticipate what he’s going to react positively to and what he’s going to react negatively to. It’s no secret that every guy enjoys hearing compliments and getting little touches, but there are several weird ways that you flirt with a guy and have him wrapped around your finger in no time.

Men tend to respond different to different women. Not all women can pull off these techniques at first, but with a little practice you might be able to master them all. Throwing out clichés and overly done techniques is a must.

Most men know the tricks of the trade so you will need to spice up your repertoire to land somebody that you really care about. Here are 3 weird ways to flirt with a guy.

1. Dress “Flirty” (This Isn’t What You Think)

While this isn’t going to be direct flirting, a lot of women believe that they have to be dressed up in order to flirt with a guy. Men don’t like high maintenance women. Most of the time, a decent top and a ratty pair of jeans is enough to get him interested in you.

Women think that they always have to be wearing the latest fashions to have a guy interested in them. The fact of the matter is that men love a girl that can look great even when she’s just come from the gym. Don’t think that just because you have your hair in a ponytail and your forehead is riddled with sweat that you can’t be flirty.

Men are drawn to women that aren’t obsessed with how they look in public. This doesn’t give you a pass to meet his parents in your gardening clothes, but have confidence in yourself even when you’re not dressed to hit the town. Guys find this endearing.

2. Touch Him First And Then Pull Back

Don’t be afraid to make the first move if you like a man. Even it’s just a quick touch on the arm, touching him first is a sure sign that you’re interested in him. Most guys will try to break the touch barrier first. However, if you touch him first you will easily show that you’re interested.

You don’t want to seem over eager so follow the touch up with a snide remark. Make fun of him a little bit. Don’t call him out on something that is going to hurt his feelings.

Make sure that you’re doing this in a playful nature. Making fun of something that will hurt his feelings will definitely leave you in an awkward place.

Touching him and then making fun of him is called the “Push/Pull” method. This is typically used in the pick-up artist community for flirting with girls, but it also works well with guys.

Guys love a girl that gives them a little sass. You want the guy to wonder if you’re just toying with him or if you’re actually interested. This is builds mystery and tension.

3. Open Up Easily & Don’t Be Guarded

One thing that women try to do is put mystery into their persona. While this can work for a while, the last thing that you want is to have a guy wondering whom he’s dating after three weeks of knowing you. An easy way remedy this is to be open about who you are from the start. While you might not want to tell him things about yourself that could potentially ruin the future of the relationship, you should be as open and honest as possible. Don’t be afraid to be an open book, but do be careful about the type of things you discuss when you haven’t really gotten to know each other.

Telling him about credit card debt or a one night stand three years before is not the kind of open that we’re talking about. Let him know that you’re not a “game player” and that you’re interested in him. Being forward about what you want is sexy and guys love this. You can play coy for a little while, but you should let him know that it’s going somewhere.

Teasing him and then telling him that you would like to get HIS phone number is a great way to keep him interested right off the bat. Men like mystery, but not at the expense of knowing where or not they can trust you. Keep this in mind the next time that you are flirting with a guy and they will be enamored with you.

How To Date Two Women At Once

By loveandsex

Dating tips often tell you how to get a date, or how to flirt with a girl, but what if you want to go out with more than one woman at a time? Here’s how!

Dating two women at once can be a blessing or a curse depending on how you handle the situation. There are a lot of guys out there that simply do not know how to date one woman, let alone two women at a time. There can be significant advantages to dating to her more women at once, however, you must be prepared in the must know how to keep both of these women separated from each other.

If you ever get found out, it could be the end of both relationships. Hiding one woman from another should not be something that lasts a very long time. A lot of guys date 2 to 3 women at a time until they figure out who they like most, and then they make a decision to engage in a long-term relationship with that woman. If you are currently dating to women in your finding increasingly difficult to separate your life with them, here are some tips.

1. Separate Them In Your Mind

Let’s start out by saying that you’re dating two women, Julie and Danielle. Julie is kind of a sporty girl while Danielle is more of a sophisticated girl. While these two women are probably very easy to distinguish in your mind, it won’t always be this easy. If you have two girls that are fairly similar is very easy to get their hometowns, parents names, interests or job titles mixed up.

Before you ever go out on a date with one of them, right down exactly what they do, where they live, any names that are associated with them and where you had your last date with them. Writing this information down will keep it fresh in your mind for when you go on a date. One of the easiest ways to use this method is to put the information into your phone after the first date so you have notes that you can refer to the next time you go out.

2. Always Know Where They Live

You may not be able to find out exactly the apartment number of each girl, but you will easily be able to figure out what part of town they typically go out to eat in. A good rule of thumb is to never take one girl to another girls’ part of town. For instance if Julie lived on the East side of town and Danielle lived on the West side, you would never take Julie to the West side nor would you ever take Danielle to the East side.

The last thing that you want is for a girl to see you out with another one. While getting caught will not happen, it has been known to occur in smaller cities. If you are meeting for a lunch date you also don’t want to take one girl close to where another one works. It’s very easy for somebody to walk out of the office and head right down the street to pick up lunch in a hurry. Until you decide which one you actually want to engage in a relationship with, keep them physically separated at all times.

3. Avoid Your House

One of the best pieces of advice that anybody could give you is to avoid your own house when you are dating several women at once. If you believe that you are going to end the night at somebody’s home and possibly have sex, make sure that it is not your own. It is much better for you to go that to the girl’s place than it is to host her at your home. At some point she will have to see your apartment or house, but you don’t want her staying there.

The reason for this is that she might leave something at your house such as a necklace or even a pair of underwear. If you take another girl back to your home she could find this and the whole game could be over halfway through. Until you decide which girl that you really want to be with, do not allow any sleepovers at your home.

4. Pick

The last bit of advice that you’re going to get is to pick which girl you actually want to be in a relationship with. Dating multiple women is fine but aching to exhausting after about three weeks. Give each of the women 3 to 4 dates to prove themselves and then choose the one that you want to be with.

Arranging dates every Thursday, Friday and Saturday night is not only exhausting on the body, it can also be exhausting on the wallet. Taking out women every week and weekend is going to get expensive. It is worth your time and your money to choose a girl quickly and without hesitation.

The Real Reason Why He Didn’t Call Back

By david

Dating tips are essential if you want to understand how men operate when they start going out with a girl. Here’s how to tell why he won’t pick up the phone.

Why He Didn’t Call You Back

You’ve talked to all your friends.

You still get no answers.

Now it’s been about three weeks and he still hasn’t called.

You’re thinking, “What should I do. How come he hasn’t called back?”

Here’s the deal: he didn’t like you in the way you needed to be liked. Sometimes it’s tough to hear that, but look at the evidence:

You text him and he doesn’t text you.

You call him and he doesn’t call you.

It wasn’t anything you said. It wasn’t any conversation that went wrong. It just wasn’t there for him.

What You Can Do About It

We get so offended in life when someone doesn’t respond to us the way we want it to. The reason why we do that is because we just don’t meet enough people. We stay in our little bubbles and then get upset when our social lives aren’t what we want them to be.

Most women will just go out and meet a few men and that’s it. Most women won’t go on many dates, so the reason why women get so upset about the man not calling back is because they’re not going out and meeting men every single day.

They’re not living from a place of abundance, so they stress over the insignificant few.

It’s an abundant world. There are men everywhere.

The issue is that we all too often separate our normal lives from our dating lives. So instead of chatting up the cute guy at the grocery store, you ignore him and then wait for Friday night out with the girls.

You only give yourself those few hours to meet someone, and ignore the other 98% of your life!

Women don’t realize their feminine power. A woman in touch with her sexuality, who isn’t afraid to start conversations and be flirty, will not have to worry about men not calling her back.

If you meet men every single day, you will not be obsessed about that one guy. You’ll just say “he wasn’t into me” and move on. Plus, you probably have other prospects on the horizon. The real reason why he didn’t call you back is because he wasn’t into you. But that doesn’t matter.

Realize that there are men everywhere for the woman who knows how to flirt, knows how to initiate conversation, and knows how to get what and who she wants.

Follow these dating tips and be that woman!

Second Date Ideas That Will Win You A Third

By loveandsex

Second date ideas can be difficult to come up with – you’ve already made a good impression, now where do you take it? Check out these killer second date ideas!

You can’t repeat yourself and go to the same type of establishment twice in a row! The best second date is a place with some sort of movement, action and opportunity to be competitive. Places such as:

Shopping mall
Mini golf
Movies

Because you now have the ability to move around you can flirt with more than just your words. Think competitiveness. Here are some examples.

Shopping

During a shopping session you’ve got many conversation topics at your disposal. Starting conversations should be easy with all the shops, items and people around.

Shopping is great because it shows you’re not trying to impress. You’re both constantly moving, which makes the experience much more energetic and lively, a great way for her to remember the date.

Mini Golf

Mini golf is a great active date that you’ll both enjoy. Make sure she’s the “fun type;” unfortunately some girls believe they’re “too cool” for activities such as mini golf. If she is too cool to play, it’s a good indicator that she’s not adventurous and fun. The only rule is to take the game very light-heartedly and maintain emotion, drama and tension throughout the entire date.

Movies

While the movies can be a great place to take women on dates, it’s not recommended for the first date. It’s hard to spend time together with someone when you can’t talk during the movie. Regardless of whether it is your first date or a later date, make sure it’s a film that’s been screening for some time so there won’t be that many people in the audience.

How To Create Sexual Tension On The Second Date

The best way to create sexual tension is to mention it. Let the woman know she’s being “too suggestive” by sitting next to you in the theater, or wherever you are. You can pretend to define an invisible wall between the two seats to make it perfectly clear that you don’t want her temptations to get the better of her. Alternatively, move somewhere leaving a gap between the two of you and then wave to her implying you’re now at a safe distance.

You might get a soft hit or disappointed look but don’t give in. After you’ve made your point you can move back to where you were. This technique shows you’re not eager and are accusing the woman of being the aggressive one. It’s fun, flirty and she’ll love it, whether she admits it or not.

BONUS TIP: When you arrange your second date, get the woman to meet at your place first. When she arrives just leave straight away and head off to your destination in your car. This way it’s only natural to come back to your place afterwards.

Why You Suck At Meeting Men

By david

Dating tips aren’t always right – some lead you in the wrong direction. Here’s the truth about why you’re bad with fellas and the dating tips you REALLY need!

Most women aren’t very good at meeting guys for many reasons, but the biggest is that girls are passive, and they wait for the man to do all the approaching.

Let’s get into reality right now.

Most Guys Are SCARED Of Girls!

95% of men walk around with fear. They’re absolutely terrified of meeting women.

So you’ve only got about 5% of men out there that actually know how to approach women.

The problem is, most of you women think that if a guy’s good at approaching, and comfortable talking to strangers, then you shouldn’t trust him. You tend to think that “he must be doing this all day.”

So, if only 5% of men actually approach women and you don’t trust 4% of them, then you only have 1% of the total population of men available to you.

Isn’t that crazy?

So how do we do change this so you can go out and meet 100% of the total population of men?

It’s simple.

Using Your Sexual Energy

You go and turn on your sexual energy. You stop being the prim, the proper and the prudent, and you let out the woman inside that disregards her inhibitions, and expresses herself courageously.

This is going to be fun, but it’s going to take some mental work on your part. You’re going to access that part of you that you may not have used since grade school: your imagination.

With every guy that you’re attracted to, imagine the best sex you’ve ever had in your entire life when talking to him.

That’s right.

Think about having the best orgasm you’ve ever had with a man. Close your eyes if you need to.

And then when you open up your eyes and you’re staring at a guy, talk to him from that “turned-on” perspective. Imagining that sexual state, and allowing yourself to feel it, is going to change the way you walk, talk and behave. He’s going to sense your sexuality and it’s going to be a huge turn-on. Trust me.

He’ll hang on your every word.

You’ll be in control.

You’ll be able to talk to a lot of men and find the guy that you’re supposed to be with.

You’ll find the one—a love that you need.

But you can’t go out and meet these great men if you stay passive and refuse to express your sexuality. You’re going to find boring, passive men, because that’s what your putting out into the world.

SO you want to meet the right man for you?

Be real, and take action.