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The Real Reason Why He Didn’t Call Back

Dating tips are essential if you want to understand how men operate when they start going out with a girl. Here’s how to tell why he won’t pick up the phone.

Why He Didn’t Call You Back

You’ve talked to all your friends.

You still get no answers.

Now it’s been about three weeks and he still hasn’t called.

You’re thinking, “What should I do. How come he hasn’t called back?”

Here’s the deal: he didn’t like you in the way you needed to be liked. Sometimes it’s tough to hear that, but look at the evidence:

You text him and he doesn’t text you.

You call him and he doesn’t call you.

It wasn’t anything you said. It wasn’t any conversation that went wrong. It just wasn’t there for him.

What You Can Do About It

We get so offended in life when someone doesn’t respond to us the way we want it to. The reason why we do that is because we just don’t meet enough people. We stay in our little bubbles and then get upset when our social lives aren’t what we want them to be.

Most women will just go out and meet a few men and that’s it. Most women won’t go on many dates, so the reason why women get so upset about the man not calling back is because they’re not going out and meeting men every single day.

They’re not living from a place of abundance, so they stress over the insignificant few.

It’s an abundant world. There are men everywhere.

The issue is that we all too often separate our normal lives from our dating lives. So instead of chatting up the cute guy at the grocery store, you ignore him and then wait for Friday night out with the girls.

You only give yourself those few hours to meet someone, and ignore the other 98% of your life!

Women don’t realize their feminine power. A woman in touch with her sexuality, who isn’t afraid to start conversations and be flirty, will not have to worry about men not calling her back.

If you meet men every single day, you will not be obsessed about that one guy. You’ll just say “he wasn’t into me” and move on. Plus, you probably have other prospects on the horizon. The real reason why he didn’t call you back is because he wasn’t into you. But that doesn’t matter.

Realize that there are men everywhere for the woman who knows how to flirt, knows how to initiate conversation, and knows how to get what and who she wants.

Follow these dating tips and be that woman!

Second Date Ideas That Will Win You A Third

By loveandsex

Second date ideas can be difficult to come up with – you’ve already made a good impression, now where do you take it? Check out these killer second date ideas!

You can’t repeat yourself and go to the same type of establishment twice in a row! The best second date is a place with some sort of movement, action and opportunity to be competitive. Places such as:

Shopping mall
Mini golf
Movies

Because you now have the ability to move around you can flirt with more than just your words. Think competitiveness. Here are some examples.

Shopping

During a shopping session you’ve got many conversation topics at your disposal. Starting conversations should be easy with all the shops, items and people around.

Shopping is great because it shows you’re not trying to impress. You’re both constantly moving, which makes the experience much more energetic and lively, a great way for her to remember the date.

Mini Golf

Mini golf is a great active date that you’ll both enjoy. Make sure she’s the “fun type;” unfortunately some girls believe they’re “too cool” for activities such as mini golf. If she is too cool to play, it’s a good indicator that she’s not adventurous and fun. The only rule is to take the game very light-heartedly and maintain emotion, drama and tension throughout the entire date.

Movies

While the movies can be a great place to take women on dates, it’s not recommended for the first date. It’s hard to spend time together with someone when you can’t talk during the movie. Regardless of whether it is your first date or a later date, make sure it’s a film that’s been screening for some time so there won’t be that many people in the audience.

How To Create Sexual Tension On The Second Date

The best way to create sexual tension is to mention it. Let the woman know she’s being “too suggestive” by sitting next to you in the theater, or wherever you are. You can pretend to define an invisible wall between the two seats to make it perfectly clear that you don’t want her temptations to get the better of her. Alternatively, move somewhere leaving a gap between the two of you and then wave to her implying you’re now at a safe distance.

You might get a soft hit or disappointed look but don’t give in. After you’ve made your point you can move back to where you were. This technique shows you’re not eager and are accusing the woman of being the aggressive one. It’s fun, flirty and she’ll love it, whether she admits it or not.

BONUS TIP: When you arrange your second date, get the woman to meet at your place first. When she arrives just leave straight away and head off to your destination in your car. This way it’s only natural to come back to your place afterwards.

Why You Suck At Meeting Men

By david

Dating tips aren’t always right – some lead you in the wrong direction. Here’s the truth about why you’re bad with fellas and the dating tips you REALLY need!

Most women aren’t very good at meeting guys for many reasons, but the biggest is that girls are passive, and they wait for the man to do all the approaching.

Let’s get into reality right now.

Most Guys Are SCARED Of Girls!

95% of men walk around with fear. They’re absolutely terrified of meeting women.

So you’ve only got about 5% of men out there that actually know how to approach women.

The problem is, most of you women think that if a guy’s good at approaching, and comfortable talking to strangers, then you shouldn’t trust him. You tend to think that “he must be doing this all day.”

So, if only 5% of men actually approach women and you don’t trust 4% of them, then you only have 1% of the total population of men available to you.

Isn’t that crazy?

So how do we do change this so you can go out and meet 100% of the total population of men?

It’s simple.

Using Your Sexual Energy

You go and turn on your sexual energy. You stop being the prim, the proper and the prudent, and you let out the woman inside that disregards her inhibitions, and expresses herself courageously.

This is going to be fun, but it’s going to take some mental work on your part. You’re going to access that part of you that you may not have used since grade school: your imagination.

With every guy that you’re attracted to, imagine the best sex you’ve ever had in your entire life when talking to him.

That’s right.

Think about having the best orgasm you’ve ever had with a man. Close your eyes if you need to.

And then when you open up your eyes and you’re staring at a guy, talk to him from that “turned-on” perspective. Imagining that sexual state, and allowing yourself to feel it, is going to change the way you walk, talk and behave. He’s going to sense your sexuality and it’s going to be a huge turn-on. Trust me.

He’ll hang on your every word.

You’ll be in control.

You’ll be able to talk to a lot of men and find the guy that you’re supposed to be with.

You’ll find the one—a love that you need.

But you can’t go out and meet these great men if you stay passive and refuse to express your sexuality. You’re going to find boring, passive men, because that’s what your putting out into the world.

SO you want to meet the right man for you?

Be real, and take action.

4 Things Guys Say To Get You Into Bed

By serenapaige

Seduction is something many fellas are skilled at because many of them just want one thing and one thing only – sex. Be aware of these seduction techniques!

There is no shortage of guys trying to get women to go to bed with them. If you have ever experienced the seduction techniques of a guy trying to get you into bed, and almost every woman has, then you are probably familiar with some of the methodology. Although you might think that you’re well versed in this subject, there are a few staples that almost every guy uses to try to get laid. Here are the top 4 things that guys say to get you into bed.

1. “Let’s Watch A Movie”

It doesn’t matter if you are at a bar or hanging around your house in sweatpants, if you ever get a call from a guy asking you to come watch a movie, he’s probably trying to get you into bed. On the offhand occasion that you actually meet a guy that is a film buff or a nice guy that knew you wanted to see a particular movie, you might want to accept, but remember to keep your guard up.

One of the best moves is to get you over to his place and then make some kind of excuse as to why the movie has to be watched in his room other than in the living room. This is usually because of a roommate situation or because the better TV is in his room, etc. For the most part, watching a movie doesn’t mean watching a movie. It means sex.

2. “Let’s Go Out For A Drink”

Ever get this call? “Hey! Just seeing what you’re up to. I wanted to know if you would like to meet up for a drink tonight.” This is a classic move. He’s not asking you out for dinner. He’s not asking you out for rock climbing. He’s not even asking you out for ice cream.

He’s asking you out for “a” drink, which probably means several drinks to loosen you up. When a guy calls you and asks if you want to go out for a drink, he’s not really interested in getting to know you or interested in following the traditions of courtship. He’s looking for a fast track into your pants. Don’t fall for the “Let’s Get A Drink” gag.

3. “Let’s Go Somewhere Else”

Number 2 actually leads us to Number 3, the technique known as “The Bounce Back.” The Bounce Back is a staple among the pick up artist community. This typically involves meeting a girl in a bar, club, grocery store or any other public forum. The guy will get to know you a little and then ask you to go somewhere else with him. This could be a restaurant, another bar or club, an art gallery or essentially anywhere else that is not the place you are currently at.

The theory behind it is that with each change of venue, you feel more comfortable with him. The more comfortable with him, the more likely you will have sex with him. The worst thing about this technique is that it works and it works really well. If you have met a guy in a bar or out for a drink, be weary of going to a new place with him. He might just be trying to get you into the sack.

4. “Let’s Hang Out”

This is a tried and true method of seduction. It’s a calm and ambiguous way of simply getting together. This is fairly similar to the movie idea, but it is less planned. The guy will probably not have any activity planned other than getting you over to his house.

When a guy asks you to hang out, make sure that he has something planned. One of the easiest ways to get around this is for the guy to say something along the lines of “Well, just come on over and we’ll figure something out.” If he says this to you, you might want to just hang up the phone right then and there.

If the guy is really interested in you, he will want to impress you. Impressing you doesn’t involve getting you over to his house a romp in the sheets. Avoid the “Let’s Hang Out” and you will be avoiding heartbreak in the long run.

Recognizing these 4 seduction methods will keep you out of trouble. A guy that is not going to follow tradition is not somebody that you want to be with. Make it a point to be on the lookout for any of these techniques and your life will be free of pick up artists and players alike.

Weird Flirting Games That WILL Get Her Attention!

By loveandsex

Flirting doesn’t have to be cliche – strange and off the wall flirting techniques are almost always more successful! A great way to trigger a flirtatious interaction is to engage women in a fun game. Games are great because you don’t need any specific situation to get the ball rolling.

Simply be creative and go with it. While this trigger can be used anywhere, it tends to get the best results in clubs and bars where women are already in a “pick up” environment. For example I wouldn’t use this technique on a woman you’ve just met at the supermarket.

“Who Would You ‘Do?'”

Step 1: Pick two guys that have very average looks (guys that a woman would never choose based only on physical looks), or find men who have really low self-esteem and poor body language.

Step 2: Tell the woman you’re playing a game and point out the two men.

Step 3: Say, “If you had to choose, which of those two guys would you have sex with?”

NOTE: A common response is “Can I say none?” Of course you say no, and ask again which would be her choice if she had to choose. It’s just the rules of the game.

Most men don’t understand why you would try and play match-maker with a woman you’re interested in and another man, because they don’t realize two very important things.

You are proving you really don’t need her, projecting your independence as a masculine man.
You’re having fun. All people want to have fun so make sure the woman associates fun with you. Tease, flirt and accuse all you want. You can do what you want, you’re a masculine man remember?

Predict Her Future

Ask for her hand and tell her something silly about her future. Say, “Do you want to know your future?” If she agrees, grab her hand and in a disappointing voice tell her that she’ll be one of those construction workers that hold a “stop/slow” sign 8 hours a day for the rest of her life.”

Alternatively, you can ask for her hand and then say, “Oh… no!” and give her hand back. After her curiosity has been stirred up, say things like, “I don’t think I can be seen with you anymore” then reveal her future if you want.

Pickup Lines Game

Step 1: Tell her how pathetic pick up lines are.

Women always agree with this statement and you quickly build trust.

Step 2: Start an exciting conversation about lame guys that have approached her.

From here you can ask the woman the worst pickup lines that have been used on her or her friends. This will transition into many funny, flirty and emotional conversations.

Talk about guys that have said funny lines
Strange stories that she can remember
Weird and pathetic guys that have approached her
Funny things guys have said