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8 SUPER HOT Fresh Takes On The Missionary Position For Guaranteed Orgasms!

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Sex positions can easily spice up your relationship, but make sure to follow the instructions closely. A small shift in your lover’s hips, body or where she distributes her weight can mean the difference between discomfort and pain, or pleasure and climax. Remember my recommendation for sex furniture if you’re having a hard time getting the angles right. There’s nothing wrong with a little extra help!

1. The Coital Assignment Technique

Most sex experts suggest this position as a regular staple to ensure your climax, because it focuses on giving you lots of clitoral action at an angle beneficial for deep, highly enjoyable vaginal thrusting which strokes the clitoral complex. This positions is also great for intimacy. When you can master this subtle but oh-so-effective movement while on your back, you can try it in all sorts of sex positions to enhance the experience.

Start by lying flat on your back. Open your legs to accommodate your lover’s body while he’s putting his penis inside of you. Take your partner’s hips and pull them towards yours, while tilting your own hips upwards like you’re trying to touch your navel to your partner’s pubic mound. Your back will round and you may need a pillow under your hips for comfortable support. Next, have your lover move his body up as much as possible while still keeping his penis inside of you.

You want the weight of your partner’s body propped up by his hands and your pubic mound grinding into his. With each thrust, have your partner focus on rubbing the fleshy part of his body just above where his penis meets the flesh along your vagina. Most women find this action and angle rhythmically pleasing and just enough pressure to come.

2. The Arch Opener

While lying on your back, have your partner place himself over you. Open your legs and have him lie on top of you like he would in missionary style. Once he’s inside you, raise your hips up so that you’re almost in a crab position. Your lover’s body weight rests on your feet, shoulders and the length of your arms.

When you are comfortably raised, put your arms up around your head,  and have your lover hold your wrists to make a box-like shape with your upper limbs and shoulders. You can now use this frame as leverage to push back against your partner, in order to better grind your pelvis into his body for more clitoral action.

3. The Sit Up

When in missionary style, prop yourself up on your elbows so that it lifts your back off the bed. If you needs a bit of help, have your partner support your back with his hands by wrapping his arms around you. As he thrusts in and out of you, sit up even more, tilting your pelvis upwards, and then slowly laying back down again on your back. You’ll essentially perform continuous, assisted sit ups!

4. Legs To the Side

Pretend you’re having sex missionary style, but put your legs straight up in the air instead. It might be easier for you if you place a pillow under your head, but it’s not mandatory. Kneel down and just before your partner enters you, and take both of your legs and push them to the side, keeping them straight as possible. Your partner can use his hands to support himself if need be, or he can place his hands on the bed with his elbows out so you can rest her legs on them occasionally.

5. The Pretzel Cue

Lay on your back and lift your legs, pushing them back toward you a bit so that your knees are around your ears – keep in mind, only the most flexible women will be able to get their legs back this far, so take it easy. Have your partner push back slightly so that your back is off the bed yet still curled up.

Have your lover get comfortable between your legs, and he will press his knees up underneath you against your back, to help prop you up even higher. Have him Lean in and press his body against the backs of your thighs; you may want him to hold onto your legs for support and to keep you both in position. When he penetrates you, start to rock slowly, without him putting too much weight on your body from above, which could injure your lower back.

6. The Countertop Toe Curler

You’ve likely had sex already while you’re lying on something other than the bed, but this position takes things to a whole new level. You’ll see what I mean when you’re in this position. To perform it, lie back on a firm place: a couch, countertop, car hood or even a raised bed works. The tricky part is that when the man stands up straight, you want his pelvic region about a foot higher than yours if you’re lying flat on your back.

Have him get down on his knees if you need to, prop yourself up with pillows, or have him bend his  knees a bit to make sure the height difference works. While you’re lying flat on your back, have him move himself in between your legs. Put your ankles on his shoulders, and tilt your pelvis up towards the ceiling so your body is like a flat plank.

Sex furniture is great for this sort of positioning, especially if  you’ve never moved like this before. Only your shoulders and ankles should touch anything, with the rest of your body perfectly straight. He can grab under your hips to hold onto you while he thrusts into you, giving you both some leverage and support to keep elevated.

7. Legs Together Now

Start off in traditional missionary position. Have your lover keep his penis inside you with his body off the bed and his legs spread. Maneuver your legs in between his, while he focuses on staying inside you. Eventually, both his knees will sit outside of yours, and he’ll be crouched over you with your legs straight underneath him for better sex.

This is a shallow penetration position although your lover can increase the depth of thrusting by lying on top of you and using his arms to prop himself up. This hot sex position offers fantastic clitoral stimulation and a really tight fit for the both of you.

8. Two Chair Ride

You need two high-backed chairs to attempt this sex position, ones with firm armrests that offer a bit of padding for you. Place them side by side, close together, with a few inches between two of the arms. Stand between the two chairs, facing one with your back to the other.

From here, have your lover support you so that you can lean back, your shoulders resting on the arm rest furthest from your body, and your hips braced against the other arm behind you. Have him leave one leg on the floor between the chairs to brace you and add tension, while his leg that is closest to the backs of the chairs splays across armrests in front of you in a comfortable position.

To complete intercourse, he will lie with you so that his upper body is flat against yours. Have him brace his hands against the chair if need be, and have him lift the leg closest to the back of the chair to meet yours. Intertwine legs so that you can use his leg to push against while he’s thrusting.

Orgasmic Sex Positions You Can Use To Excite Her G-Spot With EVERY Thrust!

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Still using the same old sex positions?

Did you know that almost 75% of women CAN’T have an orgasm just through intercourse?

WOW! That’s a lot of women! Chances are, your girl belongs to that 75%.

Did you also know that almost 67% of women FAKE their orgasms?

So even if you ARE giving your partner an orgasm, chances are you really AREN’T and she’s just faking it! OUCH!

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You can give your lover deep, g-spot orgasms that make her whole body shudder with gut wrenching pleasure by changing just 1 simple thing – without having to learn any oral sex or fingering techniques. In fact, you can give her the most incredible, earth shattering orgasms that are so hot you’ll want to put a towel down first (or you can just change the sheets afterwards, your call) with just your penis!

LIES You’ve Been Led To Believe

Most guys really want their partners to have an orgasm during sex. Most guys aren’t the “wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am” kind of guy. But they’ve been brainwashed to believe downright LIES about women and their pleasure. Here are some of the untruths that have been drilled into a man’s mind, even making him think that the problem is HER, not him:

  • That you’re a really bad lover if you can’t make your partner orgasm during sex (this has *some* truth to it, but it doesn’t mean you’re a bad lover – it simply means you’re uneducated! ANY man can become an INCREDIBLE lover if he just knows the right things to do!)
  • If she can’t have an orgasm just with a man’s penis inside her, something must be wrong with HER (this is SO untrue! A woman’s hot spots aren’t even really reachable through the regular sex positions that most guys have been taught or have read about)
  • If a woman can’t reach orgasm, you can’t do anything about it. She either can or she can’t. (NOT true! EVERY woman is built to reach orgasm. In fact, that’s what the clitoris is for and that’s the ONLY thing it’s for! If she can’t get off, something is wrong and it’s not her body)

Here’s a key principle:
Great sex can be boiled down into a CONCISE set of rules…
just as lousy sex is the result of a few simple mistakes!

There are a handful of sex positions that provide more intense & deeper stimulation for her than usual.

Not only do these sex positions provide the added rubbing motion needed to stimulate her intimate parts… they greatly increase her chances of actually having an orgasm!

Our good friend Gabrielle Moore has just released “Orgasmic Sex Positions!”: Advanced Positions For Better And More Intense Orgasms!

What Is “Orgasmic Sex Positions” All About?

Think of it as a modern, fully-illustrated Kama sutra for the 21st century. This is the complete graphical playbook both you and your lover can refer to… over and over again… each time you make love!

With Orgasmic Sex Positions, you will learn exactly what to do and how to do it so your girl will have an orgasm EVERY SINGLE TIME you have sex! Not to mention that her orgasms will be deeper, wetter, faster and HARDER than ever before?

You’ll find out so many things that you never knew before. These EXCLUSIVE tips & techniques are ones you won’t find ANYWHERE else!

You’ll find out how to instantly know if your partner is faking her orgasm! You’ll also learn the right sex positions to use to give your lover MULTIPLE orgasms!

If you thought your sex life was over and it was time to order a tombstone, you’re WRONG!

Your sex life can become better than ever, no matter how old you are or how long you and your partner have been together!

Plain and simple, the Orgasmic Sex Positions system WORKS!

The secret is 68 mind-bending sex positions that you haven’t tried (no, these aren’t the ones that you’ve read about in magazines!). These are the ones that have been PROVEN time and again to give a woman earth shattering orgasms! She will be begging, gasping and moaning for you to thrust harder, deeper and faster!

What You’ll Learn In Orgasmic Sex Positions

  • Why using the same sex positions over and over will DESTROY your sex life
  • The SHOCKING truth about the missionary position!
  • One simple way to have better sex STARTING TONIGHT!
  • Why sex positions on the Internet aren’t going to get you anywhere (and how they can actually hurt your sex life)
  • What “bad boys” do in bed that gets girls so CRAZY and how you can do it too!
  • How improving your sex life doesn’t mean buying a bunch of sex toys or lingerie

Great Sex Is The Foundation For A Happy Relationship!

If you’re not having great sex with your partner, you’re in for a downhill ride when it comes to your relationship. Sure, lots of people have “happy” relationships without great sex, but they honestly don’t know what they’re missing.

Great sex increases the bond between two people, making them feel more loving and more forgiving of each other. It allows them to connect on an emotional and physical level in a way that NOTHING ELSE CAN. That’s right – nothing else can help you connect to your partner the way great sex can.

Think about it this way:

Have you ever noticed that your partner becomes more grouchy after a sex session where she didn’t reach orgasm?

She’s sexually frustrated and taking it out on you! 

Chances are, she got aroused but didn’t quite make it over the edge. So she’s going to gripe more about you not taking the trash out or whatever else she can think of, because you DIDN’T satisfy her in the bedroom!

You mean, giving her better sex will make her stop bitching at you?

YES!

Don’t Learn The Hard Way

Even more than creating a happier relationship, great sex is the KEY to keep a woman from cheating on you. Women have sexual needs and if YOU aren’t meeting them, someone else will. Too many guys who have downloaded Orgasmic Sex Positions only found this out AFTER their wife or girlfriend had already cheated on them.

You don’t want to be that guy!

Orgasmic Sex Positions will teach you how to stimulate your partner the RIGHT way during sex, so the chances of her actually having an orgasm increase every time you have sex! If you’re pleasing her during intercourse and making sure she’s getting off on it just as much as you, she won’t have the desire to cheat on you! However, if you are ignoring her needs and only caring about your own pleasure, she will find someone else who DOES care about her pleasure – and it won’t be YOU!

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Sex Positions That Will Make You Look STUPID!

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Some sex positions will make you appear hot, while others will make you come off absolutely silly! Avoid these sex positions to be on top of your game.

Sex can be hot, horny or even funny!

Yep, when you accidentally fart, can’t get it in, strain your back or struggle, you know you’re in trouble.

Sex should be fun, but it shouldn’t be ha-ha funny.

The fact is that while some sex positions make you appear hot and horny; others leave you looking down right stupid.

Why Some Sex Positions Make You Look Less Than Stellar

Want to know a top tip on which sex positions are going to make you appear bad, before you pull your trousers down? If the name of the position sounds more like a Chinese proverb, than a description of what’s going on, you could be in for ugly, rather than orgasmic, sex.

‘The Bond of the Tiger’ and ‘The Pair of Tongs’, may sound interesting: but unless you’re an Olympic gymnast then these can be tricky, to near impossible, to pull off: and let’s face it, nothing kills the mood like having to say, ‘a little to the left. Ouch! No, I meant a little to the right.’

So if a sex position involves you:

  • Adopting a yoga position
  • Doing the splits
  • Referring to a sex positions guide mid- flow

Then avoid; especially if you’re with a new partner who you want to impress. Adventurous sex doesn’t have to mean acrobatic; and it’s better to do a ‘normal’ position well, than a ridiculously complex one, that makes you look stupid.

So when you’re with a new partner, who you’re still trying to figure out how you fit together with, go for a classic position that will make you look good.

Which Sex Positions You DO Want To Use

For the ladies, girls on top positions are incredibly flattering. As you ride his cock, a guy gets a great view of your torso and breasts (which I’d squeeze together using your arms as they rest on his stomach). Don’t like your cleavage? Then flip it around into a reverse cowgirl so he gets a shot of your ass.

Remember, even if you feel self conscious about your figure, whoever you’re having sex will feel incredibly lucky to see it: and nothing is sexier than a girl with confidence, who knows how to ride a man.

If you’re the lucky guy enjoying a hot hook-up, and want to make the most of what you’ve got, then try sex positions that make you penetrate more deeply to make the most of your assets.

Doggy style sex will allow her to really feel you; and if you catch sight of yourself in the mirror, will make the most of your manly frame.

If you wind up in missionary don’t feel bad: this position is super popular for a reason! Use it as an excuse to take control, flip her legs above her head and make the most of your thrusts.

So if you want to have a great sex then keep it simple, do it well, and only reach for the Kama Sutra when you’re already a master at the classics.

3 Unique Sex Positions Your Man Is Dying To Try

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Sex positions can often be the icing on the cake for a guy during sex. Try these three sex positions that he secretly wishes you would do with him!

Probably the biggest decision you make in the bedroom is what sex position you and your man are going to use that night. Sometimes, you want that slow burn and that raw, animalistic passion to come through. For those nights, the spoon position is perfect. Other nights, you just want to ravage each other and you could really care less about romance. When those feelings come into play, you want to have rough and fast sex, which is what the doggy style position is all about.

However, there comes a time in your sex life when both you and your man are going to get a little bored with your regular routine. Sooner or later, the missionary position just isn’t going to cut it anymore. Getting on top and riding him until he can’t take it anymore, just won’t have that same effect. When this happens, a lot of couples don’t know what step to take next but have no fear; help is here!

Even if you and your man may be Kama Sutra veterans in the bedroom, learning about new and unique sex positions is always a bonus, especially the ones that your man is dying to try.

The Lotus

For the nights when you really want to get intimate and feel the romance radiate between your bodies, the lotus is the perfect sex position for just that. Unlike the spoon position, which is great for when you want to make love, the lotus allows you to face your partner. The connection that the two of you will feel as a result will truly be electrifying. Here are the necessary steps in order to make this position happen for you and your man:

First, find a flat surface for both of you to sit on. Ideally, you will want to perform this on the bed but if you have a nice area rug you are looking to taint, then even better. Start off by sitting across from your partner on the floor. Then, as your bodies meet, your legs will go over top of his, facing one direction, while his slide underneath yours, facing the other. From a bird’s eye view, with your bodies in the middle and legs on either side, you will resemble the lotus flower, which is how this position gained its name. Now as your bodies connect, you both have free hands to roam each other’s bodies. You can really maximize pleasure potential in this position. You also have the opportunity to kiss and to even get a personal view of coitus. Men love seeing and feeling what they are experience, which is why this position is going to become of his new favorite.

The Acrobat

Like the doggy-style position, this one gives your man all of the power but in a different way. This is a bit more challenging but at the same time, all the more rewarding. Men love to be in control and in the driver’s seat when it comes to sex so naturally, when he gets to have a say, he is going to take advantage of it. Although you are going to be on top in this position, you are barely going to have to do any work at all. The acrobat is all about him having free reign to do with you as he pleases.

To get going on the acrobat tonight, have your man lie down on the bed first. Then you are going to lie down on top of him, but with your back pressed against him. Therefore, the two of you will be looking up at the ceiling. From there, he will side into your body and be able to get at you from underneath you. Feeling your warm body pressed against him, burying his face deep into your hair and inhaling your scent are all going to contribute to him feeling so much pleasure. Not to mention, he has two free hands in this position. While he is entering you, he can rub your breasts, claw at your stomach and even stimulate your clitoris. Getting you all hot and heavy on top of him will surely make this position his new staple.

The Chair

Now that you have a substitute for both the nights when you want some romance and the nights when you just want skin on skin, you need something for those in between nights. When you and your man would typically go for the standard missionary position, try using this variation that makes all the difference and truly makes this a position of its own.

When having sex in the chair position, you are going to treat it as you would the standard missionary position. First, you are going to lie on your back but then, you are going to do something that changes everything. Rather than spreading your legs, you are going to pretend as though you are sitting in a chair so you are going to have your knees bent, forming a 90-degree angle from your body to your hips. From there, your man is going to push your legs to one side and put them over his shoulder, so it looks as though you are sitting on top of him. Then, as he is on his knees before you, he is going to penetrate you in a way you never even knew existed. Your g-spot will be in perfect alignment with his body so he will be stimulating it and giving you amazing satisfaction. Plus, this position puts some pressure on his prostrate gland, which can also help him to have a far more powerful orgasm. If you are able to orgasm from this position, which is highly likely, your man is going to want to use the chair again and again.

By changing up the position you and your man use from time to time, you keep sex new and exciting. By using one of these 3 unique positions, you blow each other’s minds!

Best Sex Positions Of 2011

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Sex positions can take dull sex and make it even better. They can even make or break your sexual escapade! For example, men who want an even better orgasm can flip their girl over doggy style (after giving her an O of her own, of course) and penetrate her from behind. On the other hand, if she’s about ready to climax and he switches things up, her orgasm is usually ruined and she has to start all over.

So it’s safe to say that learning about the greatest ones to use (and for what) is something you definitely want to do before you slide between the sheets again with your lover. Check out our favorite articles of the past year and have fun trying them out in 2012!

And of course, our all time favorite articles:

Some fun ways of incorporating new positions into your sex life:

  • Aim to try a new one each week. If you want, keep a journal of notes about what you and your partner both liked and disliked about that particular position.
  • Create a “fantasy box.” This is a fun way to introduce pretty much anything into your sex life without intimidating you or your partner. Write down a few new positions on pieces of paper, fold them up, put them in the box and shake them around. Pull one out and give it a try! The anticipation of not knowing what is coming next is incredible. If you’re really creative, you can decorate your fantasy box too!