How do you really give a woman great foreplay? If you’ve been in a sexual relationship for a while, you would probably notice that the same foreplay acts could draw out completely different reactions from the same woman at different times. For a guy who gets easily aroused just by the sight of a naked woman, this may be difficult to fathom. Women are just fickle, you might say. Well, that is true to a large extent, especially when it comes to sex and foreplay. Let me explain…
How Foreplay Affects Her Will Depend On Her Mood
If she is in the RIGHT mood, she can get turned on faster than you. Even breathing down the back of her neck for just 15 seconds will get her hot and panting when her emotions are right. Furthermore, once women become aroused, they are biologically wired to stay “turned on” FAR longer than men.
True Foreplay Is To Get Her Into The Right Emotional State!
Read that again. Most men think foreplay is a physical activity. It is NOT. Instead, it is a lot more emotionally-driven. If you can understand just this one simple idea, it will completely turn your lackluster sex life into a supercharged erotic experience in between the sheets.
So How Do You Connect With Her Emotionally?
Here are a few time-tested suggestions:
Getting Her Turned On
This works phenomenally well when she is already close to a sexual mood. For instance, if she has just had a nice massage, you can put her into a state of sexual arousal by continuing to touch her and taking it one step further by giving her an erotic massage. Such physical acts of teasing can supercharge her erotic emotions in a hurry.
Bringing Out The Sexiness In Her
If you can make her feel attractive about herself, this will almost effortlessly transition her into a sexual mood. For instance, when she walks, sincerely compliment on how graceful and sexy she looks, and how much that turns you on. You will know you’ve done the right thing when she repeats doing exactly what you’ve just complimented her on. This is an extremely powerful way of getting her sexually aroused.
Verbal And Sensory Seduction
A woman’s biggest sexual organ is NOT in between her legs; it’s between her ears! Her mind is the central repository of all of her sexual emotions and energy. Thus your words and the way you touch her can be the gateway to turning on her erotic emotions. Whispering sexily into her ears is a very powerful skill and a good start place to start. Speaking to her in a soft, confident manner will also bring out her wild side. Gentle, non-sexual touching works wonderfully well too. This can be something as simple as running your fingers through her hair or holding her close to you.
These are simple foreplay ideas that will get her emotionally-charged. Guys, if you want to learn how to give her unforgettable orgasms, mastering this emotional spectrum of foreplay is how you get started!