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6 Naughty Truths About Explosive Sex She Wants You to Know!

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Sex tips from your girl are the best, because they’re spot on! But she won’t always give them to you! Here are six sex tips she secretly wants you to know.

Do you really know what women want during sex? There are too many women who complain about having bad sex instead of experiencing the heavenly pleasures of lovemaking. If you don’t know what women really want in bed (or think you are clueless), here are things you should keep in mind if you want to give her an amazing time in between the sheets.

1. Smell Good

A foul-smelling body can be a real turn-off in bed. Even if you have a body-odor that you THINK is appealing, get a shower! You should be smelling fresh and clean in bed, not like a caveman waiting to devour his prey. Now, if you are expecting her to give you great fellatio, the last thing you want her to remember is smelling bad down there.

2. Erotic Massage

An erotic massage can work its magic on a woman like no other. Women love to be pampered by their men and massage is a great way to heighten her sexual senses. Put your hands to good use after a bath together and give her a good rub on her back and thighs. This will be a great prelude to a night of passionate fireworks.

3. Assume Dominance

Even the most sexually adventurous women would love their men to be bold, dominant and sexually confident. They want you to set the pace and intensity when you make love. Take charge and try new things together, with one thing in mind: giving her an awesome orgasm that she cannot refuse.

4. Cuddle With Her

Don’t head off to sleep straight after a lovemaking session! Women are emotional beings. They want to feel special not just during sex, but after sex as well. A good cuddle will make her feel wanted and appreciated for who she is. Believe me, this can work magic into a sexual relationship. Most guys don’t do this at all. Be different, and she will likely let you go for round number two.

5. Be Ready For The Next Round

Well, you may have seen this coming, don’t you? Most women don’t request for a second round. But if the first one was so good – especially if you have given her an exquisite orgasm – be prepared to have a go at it again. Grant her this wish. After all, it simply means she adores you and she loves the way you make her feel.

6. Keep It Up

Need I say more? A rock hard erection will get any woman going. It shows how turned on you are by her, and epitomizes your desire for her. So give her the most amazing night ever!

How To Give A Woman An Orgasm In Seconds!

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The female orgasm is known for being super elusive, but no more! Here’s the best way to give your girl an orgasm in just seconds.

That sounds like a pretty bold statement to make – but that is exactly what can happen when you learn and apply what is in this article. Many men want to improve their sexual stamina and last longer during sex, thinking this is the only way to give their women an orgasm.

Why Lasting Longer Is Not The Key

Let me explain.

There are many powerful techniques for helping men last longer in bed, for example, by strengthening the pelvic muscles; or even through the use of delay sprays and lotions.

But these methods are simply masking the symptoms of the problem and not addressing the root causes.

Almost all cases related to maintaining a hard erection and lasting longer boils down to one thing – you are too unsure or too nervous in the bedroom.

Gaining sexual confidence is the only genuine way to completely obliterate any performance anxiety in the bedroom and lasting as long as you want. The problem with having great sex is that the issue is NOT about lasting longer.

Mastering Her Sexual Response

It really is about how to completely master your partner’s sexual response and gain her trust in bed. Most women view sex NOT as a means to an end, but as a titillating journey to the end itself. They cherish how they are brought to an orgasm, and not just about the orgasm itself.

The ability to last longer is an integral part of great lovemaking, but many guys make it to be more important than it really is. Here’s the simple truth – if you can last more than 10 minutes of thrusting, you already have all it takes to be a phenomenal lover. Most women don’t need that kind of continuous penetration, simply because they tend to dry out from that constant thrusting before it starts to hurt.

The way to a woman’s orgasm is not in penetrative sex. It lies in what you do BEFORE you make love to her! Many studies have shown that more women get an orgasm from oral sex and foreplay than from intercourse! This means you should really pay attention to the techniques to get her sexually-charged before intercourse.

This will increase your sexual “competence”. And when you achieve that kind of mastery, the confidence you get will obliterate the problem of not lasting long enough!

When you understand this powerful stuff, it is entirely possible to give your woman an orgasm within seconds, without the need to last very long!

Are You Missing The Secret To Sex That Truly Lasts?

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Premature ejaculation doesn’t have to ruin your life any more! Discover the SECRET truth on how you can have as much stamina as you WANT!

If you’re anything like most guys reading this, you probably have had your hand raised up high. For many men, sexual endurance and self-confidence go hand in hand in the bedroom. If you are not lasting longer enough, your sense of self worth and confidence are likely to plummet.

How Long Is Long Enough?

There is something about adult movies that gives men the misconception that sex should last for an hour or more. But the simple truth is, you only need to last as long as a YouTube clip!

While the debate about ideal sexual stamina has been ongoing for as long as mankind, sexual therapists have in recent years suggest that intercourse that lasts from 3 to 7 minutes is satisfactory. Anything from 7 to 13 minutes is considered desirable – not including the time reserved for foreplay.

Sounds surprising? Well it shouldn’t be. Considering that most women need about 7 to 15 minutes of sexual stimulation to reach an orgasm, the suggested duration for “desirable” sex sounds logical.

Here’s the simple truth – great sex does NOT involve a stopwatch. Many men are so preoccupied about not wanting to climax too soon, that they ended up doing exactly what they fear most! Sexual anxiety will almost always impair your performance in bed!

Don’t Focus On The “Magic” Number

For a woman, great sex involves a slow, titillating build-up that envelopes both her mind and body. Use this to your advantage. Don’t view sex in terms of duration. View it in terms of quality. Such a mindset will do a whole lot of good to your confidence in bed.

You see, of all the “instruments” you can use to stimulate and arouse a woman sexually – your fingers, tongue and penis – the last one is ironically the one you have the least amount of control over.

How To Accelerate Her Sexual Anticipation

So, use your fingers and tongue to heighten her anticipation and arousal FIRST. Give her sensual hot spots some tender, loving attention. And I don’t just mean the obvious places. A woman is incredibly blessed with many erogenous areas on her body. The nape of her neck, her ear lobes, the underside of her arms are all great places to start with.

When a woman is sufficiently aroused before penetration, it actually lowers her threshold for orgasm, reducing the turnaround time for her to reach a climax during intercourse. And when that happens, your confidence will soar, performance anxiety will take a backseat, and you will naturally last longer too!

The Hidden Truth About Prolonging Male Orgasm

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A male orgasm is something that can come too quickly for a lot of guys, so to speak. Here’s how you can control it and last longer in bed!

It is an undeniable truth that the vast majority of men are not born with superior stamina in bed. In fact, sexual surveys have consistently shown that up to 40% of guys regularly ejaculate within 4 minutes of having sex. But if premature ejaculation is putting a damper on your sex life, fret not!

Premature Ejaculation Is Largely A Conditioned Response

Many men suffering from premature ejaculation are habitually pre-conditioned from young. What do I mean? You see, most guys in their teenage years or early 20s masturbate with the aim to climax quickly. There are many reasons for this. Among them is the inherent fear of getting caught in the act. Thus quick masturbation and ejaculation reduces the chance of being embarrassed. Unfortunately this has a carry-on effect when a man starts to have a sexual relationship.

But here’s the good news…

Premature ejaculation is usually not due to a medical or physical condition. And since it is mostly a habitual response cultivated from young, PE CAN be reversed with the right strategies.

For instance, there are specific male enhancement exercises that are aimed at increasing penis size. But did you know that some of these exercises are extremely effective in fixing premature ejaculation?

That is true. Exercises such as Kegels or PC contractions have been proven to strengthen the pubococcygeus muscles (or PC muscles for short) located in the pelvic area. These are the muscles responsible for ejaculatory functions. Exercises like Kegel are extremely easy to do, require very little time and can be performed anywhere without anyone noticing.

Practice Is The Key To Sensational Stamina

Many men do not know that premature ejaculation can be fixed permanently. Many resort to using the myriad of commercial PE solutions – desensitizing creams, sprays, even specialty condoms – in their bid to improve their endurance.

Worst still, some guys mistakenly think there is nothing they can do to reverse the embarrassment in bed. They do NOTHING about it and choose to accept PE as a sad fact of their sex lives.

But nothing is further from the truth! Sexual stamina is a LEARNED trait. And like all things in life worth doing, improving your endurance through simple exercises takes time, effort and most importantly – PRACTICE.

But once you develop that natural ability to delay an ejaculation, it becomes a new-found strength that stays with you for life. And your embarrassment of finishing too soon in bed will become a distant memory!

2 Great Sex Positions To Last Longer And Give Her Sensational Sex

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Sex positions can actually help you to both last longer in bed and make your girl orgasm – if you use the right ones. Are you missing these secrets?

When it comes to lasting longer in bed, many men choose to rely on the multitude of commercial solutions. Sprays, creams and pills that claim to extend your lovemaking sessions – besides being expensive and require constant use – do NOT permanently resolve a man’s lack of sexual stamina. But did you know that you can last longer simply by adopting certain positions during sex?

That is true. Some positions, such as the traditional missionary position favored by many men, are notorious for causing an early climax. Let’s take a quick look at 2 sex positions that will give you a LOT more leverage during sex and help you last longer.

The Tantalizing “L”

Let your woman lie on her back while you stand or kneel on the ground at the edge of the bed, so that your body and hers form an “L” shape. Begin thrusting with slow, shallow movements, while keeping the muscles in your abdominals, buttocks and thighs relaxed. This position works really well because when your body is upright, it helps to draw blood and energy away from your extremities. This reduces the amount of stimulation your penis receives, keeps your arousal under control and helps you last longer.

Furthermore, this position enables you to use your hands to provide additional stimulation to the sensual areas on her body. To give your woman an even more titillating experience, use a pillow to elevate her buttocks. This makes it easier for you to locate and stimulate her G-spot.

“The Female Superior”

The standard missionary position places a great amount of tension in your hand and leg muscles. A body that is tensed up is more prone to an early orgasm as your body seeks a natural outlet to release the tension.

Instead, allow your wife or girlfriend to get on top of you. Because you are lying down, you are able to completely relax your body muscles, and keep at bay your body’s natural mechanism for an early release. This is very effective for improving your endurance and making sex last longer.

When you are in this position and sense an orgasm approaching, all you need to do is to consciously keep your muscles relaxed, and ejaculation will not occur (or at least it will take much longer to occur).

The great thing about the female superior position is that it gives your woman greater control over the penetrative movements, thus giving her the free rein to MAXIMIZE her own pleasure. After all, a woman instinctively knows the kind of speed, intensity and angle of penetration that will please her the most!