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Discover These SHOCKING Truths About Premature Ejaculation!

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Premature ejaculation sucks, but it’s not always what you think it is. Chances are, you’ve been deceived! You most likely have some misconceptions about what is really causing you to orgasm too early when you have sex, and these misconceptions are preventing you from having great sex (because you definitely can!) Here is the TRUTH about premature ejaculation!

Are you one of those men who cannot last long in bed? Are you searching for the best solution to enhance your stamina so that your wife or lover can enjoy the kind of awesome sex she deserves? If you’re like most men reading this, I’m pretty sure you’d agree that the lack sexual stamina is your number ONE concern in the bedroom.

Here, you will discover a few surprising truths about premature ejaculation and lasting longer. You will want to continue reading and learn how you can turn this frustrating problem around.

Why Are We Able To Last Longer When We Masturbate?

There are two reasons why premature ejaculation do not usually happen when we masturbate. Firstly, we do not become as highly aroused during masturbation. Secondly, because we are the ones providing the stimulation, we also have the ability to self-regulate how much pleasure we are giving ourselves. Hence we are able to re-adjust our movements to keep our arousal under control, until we decide it is time to release and enjoy an orgasm.

Why Do We Fire Too Soon When We’re Having Sex?

Simple! With a partner, we do not have the ability to self-regulate our arousal. When our partners are the initiator of sexual stimulation (e.g. when she touches or strokes your penis), we become extremely aroused and lose control easily. This loss of control can happen:

  • When we are on the edge of a climax and any slight movement of the penis stimulates the deep-seated nerves to tip us over
  • When we begin penetration
  • During the first inward stroke
  • During first outward stroke
  • Or during the subsequent few strokes

One of the keys to overcoming premature ejaculation is to train or condition your brain to be consciously aware of what is happening and not to become completely lost in the moment of sexual bliss. This will give you timely “cues” or signals to tell your partner to temporarily stop the stimulation, sooner rather than later. This form of partner “feedback” is important and will help you gain better control when practiced over a period of time.

How To Prolong Ejaculation And Make Sex Last Longer

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Premature ejaculation doesn’t have to control your sex life. Instead, use these simple tips to last as long as you WANT during sex!

Are you having problems with lasting long enough for your girl during sex? Have you been wondering what you can do to prolong your ejaculation time and forever end the shame and embarrassment of being a “minute man”? Do you question your manliness, dread having sex or even make up excuses to avoid intimacy? If you are, then listen up. You see, getting a sensational stamina in bed may seem impossible for most men. And it’s a crying shame, because this is simply not true.

The Straight Scoop

Premature ejaculation is NOT a lifelong condition. The reason why many men believe this is true is because most are too embarrassed to confront it squarely and discuss it with someone (e.g. a doctor or a sexual therapist) who are in a better position to help them overcome this problem. The truth is, as many as 40% of men globally are affected by it. Yet many of us are ignorant of the fact that this condition CAN be treated, and very often, without medical intervention at all.

Quick Fixes

There are plenty of solutions on the market that cater to guys who need that extra bit of stamina in bed. For instance, there are oral supplements that – when taken an hour or two before intercourse – offer the convenience to increase your erection ability and stamina almost on command. There are also local anesthetics (e.g. desensitizing creams) that help you go longer during sex. The downside to these products is that it’s harder for you to have spontaneous, “spur of the moment” sex. Pills and desensiziting products require that you use them before you initiate sexual contact (1 to 3 hours for pills, 10 to 20 minutes for desensitizers).

Natural, Long Term Solutions

The good news is, for the vast majority of men, there are specific, natural ways to re-wire our ejaculatory reflexes, without relying on temporary, costly solutions such as pills.

For example, if it’s a psychological or anxiety-related issue, cognitive exercises that re-train your brain and help you regain confidence, are very effective. If it’s a physical problem, specific exercises that strengthen the core ejaculatory muscles can give you a mighty lift in endurance. For other guys, premature ejaculation can be overcome simply by having more sex!

In short, this is a problem that can be fixed, and the sooner you get it sorted out, the sooner the both of you will get to enjoy sensational, wild sex that lasts all night long!

1 Simple, Brilliantly Naughty Secret To Last Longer In Bed & Speed Up HER Orgasm!

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Premature ejaculation doesn’t have to KILL your sex life anymore! This easy tip will help you last longer in bed – AND it will give your girl a faster orgasm!

Most guys worry about premature ejaculation, which usually means climaxing within the first two minutes during sex. While the timing may be a matter of opinion, it is never a good idea to ejaculate earlier than your partner. The key here is to last long enough for HER, in a way that pleases the both of you. But how long is long enough? Let us consider these 2 very different scenarios, and then learn a powerful tip on how to last longer in bed (believe me, this will change the way you think about premature ejaculation!)

The Fallacy Of Sexual Stamina

First Scenario: Joe can last at least 20 minutes when he is having sex. Unfortunately, this is not enough to satisfy his girlfriend who needs a bit more time before she can climax. A guy lasting 20 minutes like Joe may be the envy of other men, but not to Joe’s girlfriend who wants him to last longer so she can be erotically fulfilled.

Second Scenario: Pete and his wife have a sex life that lasts four minutes most of the time. However his wife is able to reach an orgasm very quickly and is satisfied every time they make out.

Which of these two men has the better sex life? Pete may only be able to last a few minutes, but he and his wife are perfectly satisfied. Joe and his girlfriend, on the other hand, are not fulfilled. The best form of lovemaking is one where both parties enjoy the experience.

The Truth About Male Stamina Versus Female Fulfillment

What is the secret to Pete’s success? After all, this is a guy who has an orgasm after only 4 minutes of sexual intercourse. How can he and his wife have such a satisfying sex life?

The answer is simple – Pete knows foreplay and is good at it, which is much better than Joe who prides himself on his staying power. Not only does Pete knows physical foreplay – which is essential for the sexual encounter to be satisfying to his wife – he also knows how to connect with her at an emotional level to hike up her anticipation before sex.

If you have premature ejaculation, start to develop a mindset like Pete’s who knows how to please a woman. Try different ways to get her hot and sexually fulfill your partner every single time. Such sexual competence will have an incredible effect on your performance and level of satisfaction for the both of you. And the confidence that comes along with this will eventually give you a LOT of leverage over your endurance in bed too!

4 Fun Ways To Give Your Girl GREAT Sex!

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Sex tips can help you sharpen your game, but they’re not everything. It’s not all about technique! Here are four suggestions for you to have incredible sex with your partner!

Learning how to be better in bed is not just about knowing new techniques and sexual positions (although those help a lot too). At its most fundamental, enjoying a fulfilling night of lovemaking simply involves helping your lady relax and finding total comfort in your company. And one of the simplest things to do to deepen your sexual intimacy is by creating an erotic ambiance and touching her the right way. This article will show you how in four enjoyable and easy steps!

1. Find Some Place Comfortable

Most couples find great privacy in their own homes, and in particular, their bedrooms. Take a warm shower together to condition both your minds to relax in each other’s presence. Then set her down on a soft rug with cushy pillows so that her body is nicely cushioned. Play some soft, romantic music in the background and light some scented candles to create a really relaxing ambience.

2. Release Her Inhibitions

Let her wear something light and soft, preferably a lingerie or nightgown. Get her to close her eyes while she is lying down. Alternatively you may want to blindfold her. Many women are able to totally free their sexual inhibitions and become far more responsive when blindfolded.

3. Begin Serenading Her With Your Touches

When she is totally relaxed, you may begin physical contact with her. Start with light touches, focusing on her non-sexual areas first. For instance, tenderly touch her toes with your fingertips then slowly move on her more sensitive zones such as her inner thighs, tummy and her neck. Hint: never start groping her right away at her most sexual places!

4. Watch Her Reactions

Pay close attention to how she is responding to your touches, then change your approach accordingly. Does her body feel relaxed or tensed up? If she is too relaxed, you could firm up your touches on her; if you sense that she is too tensed, go easy on your touches and caresses so that you can slowly build her up through light foreplay. Also observe her breathing patterns and if she is making any noise. If she is clearly enjoying the moment, her breathing should be getting heavier.

Every woman is different. It may take some time to explore her body and learn exactly what makes her tick in between the sheets. Use this simple exercise to learn how to relax her mind and body, and get her primed for a night to remember!

3 Dirty Sex Secrets Men Must Know – REVEALED!

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Sex tips are commonly found by guys who are looking, but the ultra-awesome sex tips that really work are often kept secret. But we’re revealing them!

Are you having a hard time bringing your girl to a delightful orgasm every time you make love? You would be surprised how simple it is to give her the best sex of her life. While it takes less for men to reach a climax during sex, it is an entirely different matter with the ladies. To allay your fears of your girl feigning her orgasms all along, make sure you give her the real deal, with no ordeal! Here’s how to bring your lover to a climatic, heart-thumping experience every time you have sex!

1. Dirty Talk!

Words are your best ally in making her lust for you. Combine both dirty talk and romantic words to produce a potent effect on her. With your well-chosen words, you can make her boil with anticipation way before you even set a finger on her. How do you do this? Simply let her know the things you like about her, particularly about her body and sexuality. Admit with no hesitation how well she switches on your buttons! She will be blushing and turning hotter every minute.

2. Touch Her Everywhere

You should pay attention to her entire body – shoulders, ears, back, hair, between her breasts, inner thighs, forearms and her other hot spots. She will love it when you hold her hand tightly. Treat her as if she was the most precious person in your life. It will heighten the excitement and her sense of pleasure. Whenever possible, look into her eyes longingly.

It will bring both of you closer and heighten the whole sexual experience. Follow up the touches with massages and gentle caresses to help her relax even more. Try to be as natural as possible. Your moves should come across as smooth and gentle. Your patient foreplay and gentleness will build her trust in you. Your passionate and loving touches will seal her trust for you.

3. Appreciate And Tease Your Girl!

Women love to be appreciated. Unlike men, women often cannot separate the act of love with their surroundings and greatly attach emotional intimacy to lovemaking. Therefore, take advantage of that by playing the part well. Be that “one in a million” great lover and surprise her and build up her excitement even more. Try to give attention to her “non sexual” parts as well; this will catch her off-guard and fill her to the brim with excitement and desire.