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Are You Making These Mistakes During Sex?

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Sex doesn’t come naturally to everyone, but when you make mistakes you can really screw things up. Are you making these common sex mistakes?

Most articles on sex tips tell you what to do. But how often do you read one that tells you what NOT to do? There are many mistakes that men make in bed that turn off women quicker than the latter could say “not tonight”. Well, read on and see if you are guilty of committing any of these lovemaking “boo-boos.”

1. Lack Of Confidence During Sex

Confidence is a great asset that any guy could have. When it comes to sex, confidence is what gets a man going and giving his female partner an unforgettable night. A woman loves a man who is sure of his ability to charm her in bed. So once you have set your mind on a night of great lovemaking, don’t waver in your attempts and give up too soon. Sometimes, women give out mixed signals of not wanting sex when they actually yearn for it. Show her you know what you are doing. Create a romantic ambiance, sip on some wine and add a touch of sizzle through music. Once you get her in the mood, follow through with some sensual foreplay and amp up her temperatures for the night!

2. Making Out The Same Way All The Time

Do you use the same sex position each time you have sex? What about making love in the same place at and the same time, every time? Falling into a routine is probably one of the easiest ways to take the fizzle of out any sex life. Why not put the passion back into lovemaking by trying out new things, new positions, new places to make out? Even something as simple as making out on the floor instead of the bed can make a whole lot of difference in your sex life!

3. “Tuning Out” During Sex

Ever had sex when your mind is not really into it? Many men are guilty of this too! The worse thing you could do is to start making love and then stare into space! Here’s the thing: If you are too stressed to make love, or if you are simply too distracted by something at work to give her a great time in the sack, there is always another time.

So the next time you plan to give your lover a great time in bed, it would be wise to look back and reflect on whether you have been making any of these lovemaking mistakes.

3 Incredible Tactics To Give Her A Powerful, Earth-Shaking Orgasm!

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Her orgasm should be the primary focus of sex, and yours comes only after she’s been thoroughly satisfied. Here’s how to rock her world!

Are you disappointed with the fact that she may be faking orgasms with you in bed? This is a challenge for you to be able to give her better sex! Surprise her by making her experience the real thing tonight. Getting her to orgasm during sex is not as difficult as what many men make it out to be. With these three powerful tips, you will be surprised at how much she will begin to change how she experiences sex with you!

1. Give Her A Back Massage

Unknown to many men, a woman’s back is a huge erogenous zone! Women also love it when you pay attention to every inch of the skin of their rear. There are different sensitive points on a woman’s back: the lower back or the area just below the scapula. It will be a man’s job to discover which part of his woman’s back is most sensitive to erotic massage. You may let your fingers run tenderly along the expanse of her back, place gentle kisses on her warm skin, and make your tongue do slow and passionate caresses. Know when she whimpers the most because that area is the point of maximum thrill and frenzy. This will be the start of a steamier encounter between the two of you!

2. Increase Her Orgasm Potential With Kissing

Just like other parts of her body, that plump mass of flesh on her face is also supplied with numerous nerves. Give them a passionate kiss! Pay her back from all the loving kisses she gave you in the past with those sensual movements of your lips against hers. Begin with soft strokes of your lips on hers then let the excitement take the lip-locking to another level. However, you may also arouse her by letting your fingers do soft strokes on her lips. Watch her as these arousing actions send surges of thrill all over her body.

3. Never Linger Too Long On Her Breasts

Yes, men do love their women’s breasts more than anything else. Your woman, however, will be more ecstatic if you also pay attention to the other parts of her body even without taking any of her clothing off. Once she is already at the height of sexual exploration, you may proceed in hovering over her breasts. Press your lips against the skin of her round bosoms. You may let your tongue travel against her skin, and make your fingers fondle those small pink buds. With this, you will be able to show her how much you appreciate her whole being, resulting in a more exhilarating sexual union.

How To Make A Woman Orgasm Fast

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An orgasm is sometimes hard to come by for a woman. But if you know what you’re doing, you can make her orgasm incredibly FAST! Here’s how!

Most guys are clueless when it comes to making sure their women are actually having orgasms during sex. Not only is the female anatomy a mystery to most men, but to compound the problem, many women actually fake orgasms in front of their male partners.

That is enough to drive most men into embarrassment. But you can ease your worries and make sure that she is having REAL orgasms every time you have sex and make them happen in a hurry too.

Nipple Adoration

Women love stimulation to their nipples – one of the most erogenous zones on their bodies. It can make a woman quiver in anticipation for more, especially when skilled stimulation can cause incredible sensations to shoot from her nipples right down to her clitoris. You’ve probably heard about women who have breast orgasms simply through intense arousal brought on by this type of stimulation.

So pay close attention to this part of her body. Pinch her nipples lightly. You can also use your teeth (very lightly of course!) when you take each bud into your mouth to send her temperatures soaring very quickly.

Clitoral Delight

The penis has two primary functions – for sex and urination. The clitoris has only ONE purpose – to give a woman an orgasm. So make sure you give her clitoris your attention during sex – but only after you have gotten her highly aroused with adequate foreplay (the above nipple stimulation move will help you greatly too!).

Start stimulating her two clitoral hoods at the sides with your thumb and index finger, before slowly moving in towards her clitoris and stimulating it with your finger or tongue in a circular motion. But don’t just stop there, though (the next tip will blow her into orgasmic heavens).

G-Spot Orgasm Bliss

Most men are unaware of this, but a woman’s G-spot is actually located very close to her vaginal opening. A well-stimulated G-spot can give a woman a vaginal orgasm that is infinitely more satisfying than a clitoral climax.

You should lubricate your fingers before locating this tender flesh that is about two inches into her vagina (near her pelvis) and making a “come here” motion using your index or middle finger. This will make her G-spot swell much bigger – a sign that she is extremely aroused and ready for the big “O”. Keep the stimulation constant until she grips the sheets in utter delight.

These 3 tantalizing moves pack a wallop when used together. Learn and practice them well until you have her reaching for the stars during sex!

The Easiest Way To Have Better Sex

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Better sex is something almost every couple wants to have but they often don’t know where to start. Here’s the most simple way to have better sex tonight!

Are you struggling to come up with bedroom antics to spice up your sex life? Are you giving your woman an orgasm each time you make love? Most men face these predicaments in the bedroom and wonder why their sex lives are heading south. Sounds like you are in need of some simple, honest advice to become a better lover and have better sex?

What Women Really Want In Bed (Hint – This Leads To Better Sex Every Time!)

What most women crave is actually the same as what most men hope to achieve – being able to last long enough. This inherently creates better sex. You see, women are considered “slow boilers” when it comes to sex. It’s not their fault. Their sexual programming requires them to take far longer to reach an orgasm than men. In fact, studies have shown that ninety percent of women could not achieve the big ‘O’ through sexual intercourse alone – simply because the sex does not last long enough. Men are like electric kettles that boil almost instantaneously and lovemaking often becomes a five-minute affair – barely enough to heat up a woman’s erotic nerve centers.

If you really want to be impressive in bed and bring her to the brink of orgasmic overdrive every time you make out, you simply have to increase the time you take to reach climax yourself.

Easy Tips To Hike Up Your Endurance In Bed

There is an entire repertoire of tricks and techniques you can bring to the bedroom to transform your sexual stamina. For instance:

1. Prolonging Sprays Or Creams

Try one of those sprays or creams that are specially designed to increase your sexual endurance. Alternatively, wearing a thick condom will help.

2. Practice Your Kegels

Toughen up your pelvic muscles by practicing simple kegel exercises. No, you don’t need to visit a sexual therapist to learn these. There are plenty of online male enhancement programs that offer easy instructions to practice these exercises from home.

3. Use Different Sex Positions

Experiment with different sex positions and rely on those that do not stimulate your penis as intensely. You will be surprised that many of these positions are women’s favorite too, as they tend to maximize their pleasure in bed.

4. Use Lube!

Try using plenty of lubrication. More lubrication means lesser stimulation. This works phenomenally well for many guys.

There is no need to feel guilty about your lack of lasting power. Try any of these solutions and watch as your stamina transforms and her erotic temperatures soar!

2 Tell-Tale Signs That Your Sexual Stamina Is Below Par!

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Premature ejaculation can happen to any guy, and it can often sneak up on you. Are you missing these two signs that you’re not lasting long enough?

Does time seem to whiz by whenever you make out? More specifically, do you find it hard to lengthen the amount of time you have sex? For many men out there, premature ejaculation is a REAL problem they have struggle with. And for many women, sex is NOT as satisfying as it should be, for the simple fact that their partners are not able to last the distance.

Did you know that premature ejaculation is the number one problem in the bedroom? Most men do not have the stamina to have decent sex, let alone give their women sensational lovemaking. This can not only create resentment about sex, but also put unnecessary strain on a relationship. If you want your relationship to last, you really need to develop more stamina so you can give your lover the pleasure she wants, needs and deserves.

So how do you know if you are lasting long enough for her? Well, here are two obvious indicators:

1. The Principle Of Reciprocity

How is she responding to your advances? Does she look forward to making out with you? If you are not lasting long enough, chances are, sexual intercourse will become frustrating for her. Most women have a sexual response cycle of ten to fifteen minutes. Simply put, that is the average amount of time it takes for most women to achieve an orgasm through penetrative sex. But if she takes delight in every lovemaking session with you and wants to return you the favor, you know you are doing something right and you are most likely lasting way better than most guys out there.

2. The Measure Of Self Confidence

Do you look forward to sex? The reason I’m asking is because most men who suffer from premature ejaculation routinely find excuses to avoid any sexual contact altogether and I’m not kidding! The embarrassment and stigma associated with PE can be painful enough for a man to abstain themselves from any sexual activity. If you enjoy sex as much as your partner and step into each session with confidence, you have nothing really to worry about!

And the good news?

Even if your stamina isn’t up to the mark, you can take comfort from the fact that premature ejaculation is a treatable condition, and can be reversed with relative ease using a good dose of natural conditioning exercises.