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3 Sex Games That Women Love

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It is natural for a relationship to grow dull at each passing years of being together. It is the responsibility of both the man and the woman to do something in order to liven up their sex life. It may be hard for couples to think of what they can do to keep the passions burning in their relationship. The answer to this is to play an adult sex game while inside the bedroom.

Below are three fun and exhilarating sex games that can guarantee you and your woman a more satisfying sexual union!

Be An Audience

One of the most exciting sex games is watching your partner pleasure herself. Let’s face it – we all have skeletons in our closets. Deep inside, we all have a voyeuristic attitude where we find enjoyment in viewing a sexually stimulating act. And when seeing your partner pleasuring herself in front of you, you are also unleashing your wild persona.

Pick your favorite sex position in bed as she pleases herself with very sensual moves. After she is done, you may handle the rest of the job on her behalf. Then you will arrive at a point where you will no longer have those inhibitions and you’ll just be dominated by the euphoria of having those intimate moments.

You will not only be sexually gratified by what you are seeing but you will also know everything when it comes to your woman’s pleasure points. And when you know how you can give her the addictive ecstasy, you can do better in making her feel blissful the next time you get her to bed!

Enjoy A Sexy “Movie” Night Together

Make a sex game out of watching a porn film together during one of your intimate nights. Pick any suggestive videos, which both you and your woman would prefer. Be sure to pay close attention to the scenes in the media material because after viewing some of them, you should be ready to relive each moment. You can do the remakes of the scenes and let these run for 15 to 20 minutes. Like with the first idea, you will be able to learn about things that will keep your other half heated up!

Offer Her A Sensuous Body Massage

Another fun sex game, or at least fun and sexy idea, is sensual massage. The kneading of fingers along each other’s body is a key factor in keeping the sexual bond stronger. The use of fragrant oil plus those heavy yet gentle caresses all over her body is what makes those sexual encounters more exciting.

Of course, there are proper ways to perform a sensuous body massage on her. For example:

  • Purchase hot oil and plastic sheets for the warm effect on her body. You can heat up the oil, which you will use later on her body.
  • To begin the massage, pour generous amounts of oil on your hand and rub it all over her body. Then give her a very soothing body massage, which will brighten up her mood. Once she is ready, you may proceed to touch her more private areas. But never forget that you are doing this as a way to give her comfort!

Using body massage is like hitting two birds with one stone. You are not only giving your partner the relief her body badly needs, you are also leading her to a more sexually-pleasurable experience that she will never forget!

Try out these three suggested sex games and you’ll be surprised at how electrifying these can be when mixed with your usual bedroom activities!

Amazing Foreplay Tips To Drive Her Crazy! Warning – These Will Turbo-Charge Her Sexual Desires!

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How do you really give a woman great foreplay? If you’ve been in a sexual relationship for a while, you would probably notice that the same foreplay acts could draw out completely different reactions from the same woman at different times. For a guy who gets easily aroused just by the sight of a naked woman, this may be difficult to fathom. Women are just fickle, you might say. Well, that is true to a large extent, especially when it comes to sex and foreplay. Let me explain…

How Foreplay Affects Her Will Depend On Her Mood

If she is in the RIGHT mood, she can get turned on faster than you. Even breathing down the back of her neck for just 15 seconds will get her hot and panting when her emotions are right. Furthermore, once women become aroused, they are biologically wired to stay “turned on” FAR longer than men.

True Foreplay Is To Get Her Into The Right Emotional State!

Read that again. Most men think foreplay is a physical activity. It is NOT. Instead, it is a lot more emotionally-driven. If you can understand just this one simple idea, it will completely turn your lackluster sex life into a supercharged erotic experience in between the sheets.

So How Do You Connect With Her Emotionally?

Here are a few time-tested suggestions:

Getting Her Turned On

This works phenomenally well when she is already close to a sexual mood. For instance, if she has just had a nice massage, you can put her into a state of sexual arousal by continuing to touch her and taking it one step further by giving her an erotic massage. Such physical acts of teasing can supercharge her erotic emotions in a hurry.

Bringing Out The Sexiness In Her

If you can make her feel attractive about herself, this will almost effortlessly transition her into a sexual mood. For instance, when she walks, sincerely compliment on how graceful and sexy she looks, and how much that turns you on. You will know you’ve done the right thing when she repeats doing exactly what you’ve just complimented her on. This is an extremely powerful way of getting her sexually aroused.

Verbal And Sensory Seduction

A woman’s biggest sexual organ is NOT in between her legs; it’s between her ears! Her mind is the central repository of all of her sexual emotions and energy. Thus your words and the way you touch her can be the gateway to turning on her erotic emotions. Whispering sexily into her ears is a very powerful skill and a good start place to start. Speaking to her in a soft, confident manner will also bring out her wild side. Gentle, non-sexual touching works wonderfully well too. This can be something as simple as running your fingers through her hair or holding her close to you.

These are simple foreplay ideas that will get her emotionally-charged. Guys, if you want to learn how to give her unforgettable orgasms, mastering this emotional spectrum of foreplay is how you get started!

Fix Premature Ejaculation Now! These 5 Surefire Tactics Will Help You Last Longer In Bed (Guaranteed!)

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Are you having problems lasting long enough in bed? There is no need to feel embarrassed or ashamed about it. There are far more men out there who ejaculate too early during sex, so you are certainly not alone. And there is certainly a lot you can do to stop your premature ejaculation problems, fulfill the woman in your life and totally transform your sex life.

If you look around, you’d probably notice a ton of pills, portions and sprays that claim to work wonders and promise that you will go on for hours during sex. Truth is, these solutions are only temporary quick fixes that don’t nip the problem in the bud. Worst still, many of these products are known to cause skin irritation or allergic reactions, or even reduce your sensitivity to arousal. Well, doesn’t that defeat the pleasures of sex? You bet!

Well, read on for 5 useful tips that work far better than those fad solutions you see in the marketplace. Once you master these, you will last much longer and enjoy sex much better. Read on!

#1 – Get It Off Before The Show Starts

This is an extremely useful tactic. Many guys swear by it. This is what you do – masturbate an hour or two before you are going to have sex. This will “clear your system”, release the sexual tension in you and desensitizes your body to the point that you have to work harder to reach the same sexual peak during your lovemaking.

#2 – Switch Up Your Routines

The key is in knowing when to stop. I know, it’s easy to get carried away and let the sensations rule over you. But if you want to pleasure her as much and don’t disappoint her, stop before you reach the Point of No Return (PNR). Once you reach the PNR, there’s no stopping you from ejaculation, even if her granny walks into the room! So before you reach that point, remove your penis and switch to stimulating her with your fingers or perform oral sex on her.

#3 – Control Your Breathing

Take in deep breaths. By concentrating on your own breathing, you are drawing yourself away from the pleasurable sensations during intercourse. With enough practice, this will “hold you back” much longer. (Quick tip: Exhale during penetration and inhale while you are withdrawing)

#4 – Focus On Her Instead

Here’s the truth. The reason why you want to prolong your orgasm is so that you can fulfill her sexually, don’t you? So if you’re climaxing too early, it helps a great deal if you’ll just focus on pleasuring her FIRST. Stimulate her with some extensive foreplay. Tease her “hot spots” with your hands and fingers. Even oral sex alone can bring her to an orgasm before you even start the actual deed!

#5 – Natural Conditioning

A natural training and conditioning program that encompasses breathing, relaxation and pelvic muscle control techniques is the best long term cure to premature ejaculation. This addresses the underlying physical and psychological triggers of your early ejaculation tendencies and allows you to develop superiors control over such triggers. Such a natural approach is not a quick fix, although many guys are known to experience some improvement in their ejaculatory reflexes within 2 to 3 days.

Like all things worth doing, the best solution always takes some time and effort. But think about it. Your want to last longer in bed, not just tonight, or tomorrow night, but forever, don’t you? Then it is certainly worth every minute of your time to naturally “program” your mind and body to last longer in bed and give your romantic partner the pleasure she deserves and get the kind of amazing sex you’ve been yearning for!

How To Arouse A Woman And Give Her Sizzling HOT Sex (Warning! These Will Drive Her Wild In Bed)

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Everyone loves to have great sex. And contrary to conventional wisdom, women love sex as much as guys do, if not more! But what if you feel that your sex life has turned somewhat dull and dreary and needs a little “oomph”? Don’t sweat it! There is plenty you can do to make ordinary sexual experiences into toe-curling erotic adventures in between the sheets. These 6 sensuous tips, for example, are a great start to give her the best sex of her life.

Tip #1 – Setting The Scene Right

Ambience plays a great deal in making sex awesome. Pay attention to the sights and sounds. Try giving your bedroom a sultry, sexy backdrop by introducing colored light bulbs. Did you know that purple color can intensify a woman’s orgasm? It is a surefire way to amplify her erotic energy really fast. Why not spin some romantic, sensual music to get her in the mood too? Women love some moments of intimacy before getting into sex. Sip on a glass of wine and introduce some CD that is hot and delectable to turn up her passion. If you have a fireplace, cuddle up together and seek out her pleasure spots.

Tip #2 – Be Slow But Sure

The biggest mistake you could ever make with sex is to hurry. Devote ample time to get her aroused and excited. You have to understand that men can be aroused on the fly while women take a bit longer than men do. Sensual massages work really well with many women. This form of massage is like any other types of massage; the only difference is that it focuses more on her erogenous zone or sensitive “hot buttons.” Lavish her with your seductive ways and she will show you the signs that she is ready for you to take it to the next step.

Tip #3 – Use Your Imagination Creatively

If you are boring in bed, it will be a lackluster affair for her. With your imagination, you can surely inject fun into the things you wish to do with her. Her mind is the sex organ you should stimulate the most. Look her directly in the eyes and adore her verbally and physically. Tickle her fancy to make her more open to sex. Some erotic adult literature can be a great help too. For example, before you tuck her in for the night, read her some pages from those adult materials. She may have more than just sleep on her mind!

Tip #4 – Unleash The Art Of Erotic Kissing

Women can’t seem to get enough of kissing from their loved ones. Kissing is super important in an intimate relationship and it surprises me why so many guys gloss over this crucial moment of intimacy. If you want to sizzle up your sex life, try some sexy kissing tricks to get her temperatures moving fast. For instance, suck on an ice cube or sip on a cold drink just before you kiss her. She will get hot really fast! Or consume some foods such as strawberries or honey to introduce some tantalizing sweetness in your mouth when you kiss. And don’t forget to kiss her even when you are making love!

Tip #5 – Synchronize With Her Bio-Rhythm

Your actions have to have a natural flow and rhythm. Make it seem like one continuous thing for her. Sex toys or gadgets are great ways to learn more about her body and what turns her on the most. Pay attention to her so you can sexually synchronize with her. For instance, if she has a vibrator, ask her to show you how to use it. Take note of the speed, angle and the kind of pressure that she likes and then perform these on her using your tongue, fingers or your manhood!

Tip #6 – Bring On The Furnishings!

Beds are dull and boring. Sex furniture is a great way to spice up the whole sexual experience. These are usually very discreet and blend in really well with the rest of your home decor. Unlike sex toys, both you and your partner can enjoy using sex furniture together. These allow you to experiment with intercourse positions that you don’t usually get with flat surfaces such as like beds or mattresses. With these, you can fit your bodies perfectly together and ensure that her clitoris and G-spot are properly stimulated during sex.

There is plenty that you can do to enhance your sex life and really give her something to talk about with her friends. Believe me, women talk far more often with their friends about sex than men. If you want to really weave some magic in the bedroom, try injecting these sensual moves to get her all hot and panting in bed!

Sex Secrets For Men – Unlock The Secrets To Giving Her Wild, Pulsating Sex (97% Of Men Are Clueless)

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What are the sex secrets for men? Look, if you are reading this article with the hopes of learning about the best sex position, the best way to give her G-spot orgasms or great oral sex tips to seduce your girl, then I would advise you not to read further. Why? Well, if you are looking for ways to improve your sex life, these things will not help you a bit.

When it comes to having great sex, there is no sneaky trick you can pull out of your bag. It is all about the fundamentals, the basics of sex, mindsets, so to speak. If you get this right, believe me, your enjoyment in sex will increase multiple folds.

The Paradox Of Man’s Greatest Strength

Most men are focused on results. We are by nature very action-oriented. Results are what we care about; the end goal, so to speak. We set targets in the boardroom and get things done. Sadly the same mentality carries over to the bedroom:

(a) undressing yourself and her

(b) begin intercourse

(c) reach an orgasm (you NOT her)

(d) end of sex

So where does this perpetual male strategy leave a woman? Empty, unfulfilled, disappointed. You see, for women, sex is not so much about the end goal per se. They really care more about the journey; how you arrive at the end goal. Women love to savor the sexual experience moment-by-moment, from foreplay all the way to intercourse.

Getting The Foundations Right

You see, sex would be a monotonous and lackluster affair if you use sex techniques without a proper understanding of how and why they work on women. Think about this: What makes a great lover in bed, a Don Juan who can seduce and bring any woman to the elusive heights of sexual ecstasy? It is not the repertoire of techniques he has learned, but the way he USES them.

Many men make the terrible mistake and assume that women are aroused the same way as they are. Men are visually stimulated; women are not. Men can reach a climax within 2 minutes; women need at least a good 15 minutes on average to reach orgasm. Women need good old-fashioned love, affection and attention to detail.

Read that again. This means the way you touch her, the way you seduce her verbally, the mood you bring into the lovemaking, all play vital roles in your sex life.

Do You Know Her Emotional Underpinnings?

For men, sex is a physical thing. For women, emotions carry huge weight. This means you should never grope her right away. You need to value how she feels and make sure you connect with her at an emotional level. It is all well worth your time, because when you give her an amazing time in bed (and mind-tingling orgasms to boot!), you will be rewarded with much more from her!

So make her feel wanted and appreciated. This means when you kiss her, look into her eyes and run you fingers down the back of her spine. Spend quality time on slow, tantalizing foreplay and you will build up her sexual anticipation in a hurry. When you penetrate her, acknowledge her presence and ask if that feels great for her. Above all, be a man and focus on her needs exclusively FIRST. You will emerge a far better lover, one that she will be proud to brag to her friends the next morning!