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How To Give Women Multiple Orgasms EASILY!

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Multiple orgasms are often considered the “holy grail” of sex. They’re not as difficult to elicit as you might think – here’s how to do it the easy way.

Men may find it very easy to get into the mood during sex and even easier to reach a climax. But for women it takes more time and effort. If you wish to amaze her when it comes to your sexual ability, you have to be able to meet her personal preferences and get her excited with your mysterious ways. What is promising though, is that when you do get her to that wonderful “sexual high,” she can keep that feeling and experience multiple climatic episodes. So cajole and satisfy her with these titillating ways….

Make The Prelude To Sex A Fun Escapade

Women are emotional creatures. Their bodies need a little help to bring up the lust and arousal needed for intercourse and multiple orgasms. No woman can resist a very attentive man, especially one who knows his way around her mind and body. Did you know that the most active sex organ in her entire body is not her vagina but her mind? Feed it with the right words and you will be able to stimulate her mentally even before you get to touch any part of her. She will even yearn for your touch and kisses if your gift for words can make her visualize all those wonderful things you are going to do to her. She will totally lose her inhibitions when you start to caress her.

Savor Her Throughout The Whole Act

Seductive men are those who make women feel beautiful, desirable, comfortable, and loved. In order to do that, you have to savor her. So that means you have to take your time. Do not go to the main event quickly. Delay and make it an everlasting pleasure for her. Explore her body like it is a beautiful and delicate work of art that is uniquely hers. Make it a fun banter between you and her.

Give Her Multiple Orgasms By Matching Her Rhythm

Make sure that you are in rhythm with her when you are making your moves during intercourse. Do not perform movements and motions that suddenly start or stop out of nowhere. She will perceive you as being lacking in confidence in what you are doing or worse, see you as someone clumsy and unsure. Be self assured and believe in yourself. The more you can connect with her during sex (i.e. make her feel sexy and in sync with her emotions and rhythms), the greater the chance she can reach sizzling hot multiple orgasms.

3 Sex Positions That Will Leave Her Shaken With Delight

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Sex positions are the key to incredible sex. Use these three titillating moves to turn her on and totally rock her world TONIGHT!

The trouble with most guys when it comes to having sex is that they are boring and stick to the same old routines and sex positions that get them off quickly. Sadly this leaves little room for a woman’s sexual fulfillment. But if you are willing to add a little excitement and variety to your sex positions, you could accelerate and accentuate a woman’s ability to enjoy sex and even have an orgasm. And I have not even talked about how much that would do to your confidence in bed!

1. Female Dominance Sex Positions

Whoever said the missionary position is a woman’s favorite? Instead let her get on top of you and give her control during intercourse. By allowing her to control the thrusts and intensity of penetration, you can make sure that she derives maximum pleasure for herself! The added bonus is that while she is sitting on top of you, you can simultaneously stimulate her breasts and clitoris to build up her arousal very quickly.

For a variation of this position, have her face away from you. This allows you to have a greater chance of stimulating her G-spot with your male anatomy. (Hint: the woman-on-top position is also great for guys suffering from premature ejaculation)

2. Titillating Doggy

The doggy style is one of the best positions for both men and women. Many women experience powerful orgasms in this position because it allows deeper penetration and G-spot stimulation. Furthermore, when a woman is on all fours, you have more control with the thrusts and can go harder and faster than you could in the missionary position.

Alternatively, you can also vary these types of sex positions by having her lay flat on her tummy and allow her to raise her buttocks during penetration.

3. Enchanting Embrace

Let her lie on her back, lift her legs up so that they embrace your shoulders and then enter her. This allows you to penetrate deeply and hit her G-spot, especially if you have a penis that bends slightly upwards when erect.

For a variation of this position, have her lay somewhere with her legs up (on a table, for example) so that you can enter her without having to kneel down. This gives you more leverage and also let you have easier access to her clitoris. Hint: Give her simultaneous clitoral stimulation using your thumb when you are penetrating her no matter what sex positions you choose to use. This will double her delight and prime her for a truly fulfilling orgasm… only faster!

4 Things Most Men Don’t Know About Giving Women Jaw-Dropping Orgasms!

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An orgasm is something guys want to give to their lovers, but don’t know how. Are you missing out on these things that will give her an incredible orgasm?

Who wants to know about scintillating secrets to please your woman in bed? If you are anything like the hot-blooded, testosterone-driven men reading this, you probably have your hand raised up high, don’t you? When it comes to understanding female sexuality, most men are woefully clueless. But all you need to know are these 4 facts about the female sexual arousal, and you are on the way to sexually fulfilling your woman like you have never done before!

1. Know The Different Stages Of Sexual Arousal

Men and women both need to go through 4 different stages of sexual arousal before they reach an orgasm – excitement, plateau, orgasm and resolution. The difference is the stage at which they are ready to engage in intercourse. For guys, we are ready right at the onset at stage one when we become erect. Women are only ready for sex when they reach the end of stage two.

2. Foreplay Is Essential For An Orgasm

Women need to be adequately aroused and stimulated from sufficient amounts of foreplay before they are ready for sex and orgasms. Contrary to what most men believe, touching and caressing her private parts and engaging in oral sex are not really considered proper foreplay. These are really sexual acts on their own, and not the sexual prelude that woman generally needs. Foreplay should involve mental activities that will heighten her arousal (such as talking dirty) as well as physical acts that target her non-sexual erogenous areas (e.g. massaging her back).

3. Always, Always Use Lube. Even When You Think You Don’t Need It

Just because her genitals are lubricated does not signify that she is sufficiently aroused to have intercourse. When she is not mentally and physically ready for sex, she will not derive as much sexual pleasure as she deserves to, and an orgasm is far more difficult for her to achieve. Use lube every time.

4. Last Longer To Give Her An Orgasm Every Time

Most men last only 2 to 4 minutes in bed while women need at least 15 minutes on average to reach an orgasm. The key to lasting longer and giving her multiple orgasms is to delay your own ejaculation. This can be achieved by strengthening the muscles in your pelvic area.

Pay heed to these four essential facts and you will emerge a far better lover than most men will ever be. And your woman will certainly relish every moment that you are in bed with her!

3 Premature Ejaculation Misconceptions You Must Not Believe!

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Premature ejaculation is often misunderstood. Clear the air and learn the truth about PE with these three untruths!

Almost three quarters of men are affected by premature ejaculation at some stage in their lives. Unfortunately, a lack of understanding of this sexual dysfunction has led to the birth of several misconceptions regarding this condition. If you have been suffering from the embarrassing problem of early ejaculation, you need to familiarize yourself with these false notions FIRST, before you have any chance of turning the tables on PE.

1. Premature Ejaculation Is Caused By A Weakened Libido

In fact, the reverse is true! Ejaculating early is often the result of getting too excited too fast. If you have a super responsive pleasure system, you are more likely to suffer from PE – which usually happens to young men (especially those in their early 20’s) who have absolutely no problems with their libido. The problem arises when men are unable to exert control on their arousal at the right time. This is what causes the male sexual arousal to peak in a hurry, resulting in a premature ejaculation.

The best way for you to avoid PE is to exercise your pelvic muscles and gain superior control over your arousal.

2. Mental Manipulation Is A Wonderful Way To Prevent An Early Climax

Not true. Think about this for a moment: What is the purpose of having sex if you are going to avoid the pleasure by putting your mind somewhere else? There are a number of ‘experts’ who would advise you to think about other things during sex so that you can avoid a premature ejaculation. This is NOT the best solution, and hardly practical at all if you truly want to enjoy sex.

3. There Are Quick Fixes To Cure PE

There is NO quick fix that can secure a permanent solution to your problem. Although there are some pills, desensitizing sprays or climax control condoms that can give you an instant boost in staying power, these solutions are really more of a clutch than a real cure. You can try out all the so called libido boosters and enhancers but again, these are not permanent solutions. By and large, premature ejaculation can be permanently treated only through a combination of natural techniques such as Kegel exercises and mental arousal control.

Get yourself acquainted with these myths and misconceptions about premature ejaculation. That is the first important step towards banishing PE from the bedroom and achieving a respectable sexual stamina to boot!

How To Give A Woman Orgasms That Are Incredibly Powerful

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An orgasm is something not every girl expects during sex – but they all WANT it. Here’s how to give your lover an amazing orgasm EVERY time!

A lot of guys appear inconsiderate to women when it comes to sex. While this is not your objective, your woman could not be blamed into thinking like this, especially if you continue denying her the powerful orgasm that she deserves. To start changing your reputation in bed, why not start learning more about her anatomy and her sexual psyche? Men are different from women, and you should take this into account whenever you are seeking to give her pleasure.

There are many tips and techniques to completely amaze her and give her a wild time in bed. The following 3 tips are as easy as “ABC,” but they will prime her for “powerhouse” orgasms that will blow her mind – and yours too!

Accentuate Her Comfort

Let her be cozy. A woman’s comfort is a key aspect to consider during sex. To experience a truly powerful orgasm, she needs to let go all her inhibitions. This is not possible without her being at ease with you. Make sure she feels secure and comfortable in bed. When she is completely relaxed, she will be able to experience the most intense pleasure that you will be giving her.

Become One With Her Body

Survey her most sensitive areas, like her clitoris. Know them inside out. One special thing about women is that they are blessed with a lot of erogenous zones, so there are almost infinite ways for you to please her. Find out where her most sensitive areas are, by slowly caressing her body and seeing how she responds to each and every sensual spot that you touch. You will not only enjoy getting to know her body more, she will also increase her responsiveness even to the simplest of your actions!

Call Out Her Deepest Desires

Find out what her deepest and innermost sexual fantasies are, and re-enact these fantasies for her. Some women may take a little coaxing to come forth with their thoughts. Take the lead by revealing yours first! Finding out what she truly wants will make her more open to your moves, and prepare her for what is to come next!