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How To Stop Premature Ejaculation & Enjoy Amazing Sex!

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Premature ejaculation really isn’t all that uncommon. The simple truth is that 7 out of 10 men reading this article are likely to be facing a problem with premature ejaculation, or at least are not lasting as long as they want. There are many guys who are avoiding sex just because of the embarrassment of not being able to last long enough during sex.

There is no magic pill to curing premature ejaculation. But if you are willing to commit yourself to learning techniques that can improve your sexual endurance, you will find your confidence rising and sex more enjoyable! This article will share a proven technique to help you go longer in bed.

A Supercharged Sexual Arousal Is Detrimental To Your Sex Life

Many “premature ejaculators” can go from erection to ejaculation within one or two minutes. That is simply not enough time for a woman to be properly aroused. In fact, most women require at least 10 to 15 minutes of sexual stimulation to be able to achieve an orgasm! The problem with most men suffering from PE is over-stimulation. They simply allow the stimulation to go out of control until it is too late.

A Simple Routine To Improve Your Stamina

Exercise is one proven method to boost your staying power. Masturbation can have a tremendous impact on how long you last. Since their adolescence or teenage years, most men routinely bring themselves to a climax quickly when they masturbate – mostly out of fear of getting caught. Unfortunately this tends to trigger an unintended quick orgasm during real sex.

So the next time you get to pleasure yourself in the bathroom, try this: Apply a strong grip to your penis as you stimulate yourself. This will help reduce the sexual arousal, or at least, increase the amount of time it takes to get you aroused to the same level.

Try to make those self-stimulation sessions last as long as possible using a technique called edging. When you sense you are close to ejaculating, stop the stimulation until the arousal subsides. Then resume stimulation and pull away again when you get close to the “point of no return”. Repeat this process at least 5 times and then let yourself ejaculate.

The next few times you masturbate, incrementally increase the number of times you “stop and start”. This technique works very well in prolonging your orgasm during actual sex. It takes time to practice, but is well worth the effort!

3 Easy Sex Tips To Banish the Anxiety Of Climaxing Too Soon!

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Premature ejaculation will really ruin your sex life if you let it. You can easily eliminate this from your sex life with 3 EASY techniques.   So, if  you constantly feel you are performing below par you can take control now. The simple truth is, premature ejaculation is a very common problem that many men face in the bedroom. It can affect even the healthiest men and deal a devastating blow to one’s confidence.

And the worse enemy behind longer-lasting sex is performance anxiety. Many men finish too quickly in bed because they fear they cannot perform to their partner’s expectations. These sex tips will tackle the nervous and anxious about their own abilities before the lovemaking even begins. Negative thoughts start to creep up on their minds. For example:

“Will I last long enough this time round?”
“I hope I don’t blow early again”
“I think I can’t please her enough”

Do you know what these negative thoughts will do? It will play out exactly what you fear most – an early ejaculation! These simple tricks will help you overcome your endurance shortcoming…

1. Cognitive Exercises

Imagine yourself with the natural ability to last as long as you want. How does that feel like? What will that do to your sex life? Will that give your woman the best sex of her life (I bet it will!)? You are what you think. The way your thoughts are played out during sex have a tremendous impact on the actual outcome and how long you last. So think positively!

2. See The Bigger Picture

Chill out! Your sex life does NOT end with premature ejaculation. There is always another time to have a go at it again. The quicker you realize this, the sooner your anxieties will disappear. PE is not a lifelong disease. With the right conditioning strategies, you can completely stop early ejaculation and enjoy longer-lasting sex every time!

3. Open Up!

Communication is KEY in any long term relationship, even more so when it comes to making love. Talk to your partner about your anxieties. Share with her what you are frustrated about. Most men never open up to their partners. But if you do, you will be pleasantly surprised to know that she will have her own anxieties about sex too.

Just like you, your woman will be wondering if she’s pleasing you enough during sex, or if you are enjoying her company! So don’t fret about you being the only one who does not measure up!

How To Give Her AMAZING Sex Even If You Can’t Last Long Enough

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Sex tips cover many different topics. One of the biggest genres is how to last longer in bed. You don’t need the whole repertoire of skills to please and completely amaze your woman. This article will reveal one simple tactic that will show her that you are still in control even though you orgasm way too fast. Believe me, most guys overlook this simple technique.

The Paradox Of Finishing Too Fast

Great sex often finishes too quickly. That is one problem facing most guys in the bedroom. This is also something that I have grappled with for a long time. I am just glad I don’t have to face this problem any more. You see, when you come to an early climax during sex, it makes your partner question your masculinity. You appear weak in her eyes.

Worse still, at the subconscious level, she will begin to look around for guys that can truly please her in bed. But here’s something that I discovered when I was a quick shooter.

I remembered I was pretty nervous when sex comes around, and the fear and anxiety made it practically impossible for me to have intercourse for more than a few seconds. It was just too embarrassing, even to think about it.

Hold Her Responsible For Your Early Climax (No Kidding!)

When a guy finishes too soon during sex, there are two ways a woman will think about the situation: she will think that the guy is really lousy. OR, she may think she is so incredibly hot that the guy just lost control.

But here’s the thing. Most women are so insecure about themselves that the first scenario is far more likely – unless in the first place you give her the idea that she is HOT!

So, if you come to an orgasm too quickly, be completely cool about it, and tell her “that has never happened to me, and I never thought a woman could do that to me, until you came along!”

Something magical happens when you assure her that you are totally attracted to her and enjoy her company and body immensely. Your woman will feel completely comfortable and secure about her own sexuality… and will be drawn by your masculinity too!

This is extremely powerful and a great way to turn the tables on your quick ejaculation. The sex may be over too soon, but believe me, she will remember that quick-fire sex as totally mind-blowing! But you better do better next time… else she finds someone else who does!

How To Last Longer In Bed & Give Her Better Orgasms TONIGHT!

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How to last longer in bed is one of the most common concepts on the minds of many men. And if you’re reading this, you probably wonder about it too, don’t you? Ask any guy the reason he wants to know how to last longer in bed, and chances are, he will tell you that he wants to maximize his lover’s pleasure. So does having better stamina really give her better a female orgasm?

In short, it DOES. In fact, a lack of sexual stamina is one of the major causes of unfulfilled sex lives. Lasting longer will give you a great shot at triggering female orgasms. Out of evolutionary needs, Mother Nature has pre-conditioned the average man to be able to endure only 5 minutes of sex before climaxing.

Give Her Constant Stimulation

On the other hand, most women need ten to fifteen minutes of CONSTANT stimulation in order to be sufficiently turned on and achieve an orgasm (and you can certainly see how it does not add up!). The simple truth is that getting women to orgasm quickly goes against the need for men to spread their seeds and multiply in numbers.

And how times have changed! Instead of having sex just for reproductive purposes, women now look (and crave) for fulfillment when they make love. Hence, the longer you are able to last, the greater the chance of inducing an orgasm in her. For most women, a man’s improved sexual stamina works almost like a charm in giving her incredible, longer-lasting sex.

What If She Can’t Reach Orgasm From Penetrative Sex?

But, some women just cannot get an orgasm from penetrative sex, no matter how long it lasts. And I can tell you that if she cannot get that big “O”, the constant thrusting can be a painful experience for her. So what do you do if your lover cannot climax from intercourse?

Well, you just got to do things a little differently. Use clitoral stimulation. Mother nature made the clitoris for only ONE purpose – for women to enjoy orgasms. So you need to focus on this small, super sensitive area. The way you have sex will be important here.

For example, if you are in the missionary position, gyrate your hips in a circular fashion during penetration so that your pelvic bone rubs against her clitoris. Taking your time and going slow is an excellent tip for how to last longer in bed. If she prefers “rear-entry” on all fours, use your free hands to stimulate her clitoris even while you are penetrating her. This will give her sufficient clitoral stimulation and ensure that she gets the orgasms you know she deserves!

How To Last Longer In Bed Starting TONIGHT (This is Embarrassingly Easy!)

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Premature ejaculation is a problem for a lot of guys. Learn how to last longer AND give your woman amazing orgasms for bedroom success right now. But is this possible? If you’re anything like most men reading this, sex is probably a quick-fire affair for you, lasting just an embarrassing couple of minutes.

Improve Your Endurance Easily

What most men do not know is that improving sexual endurance takes just a simple tweak to the way they have intercourse. You see, most men simply go “thrusting right out the gate” when intercourse begins. The truth is, quick and relentless penetration creates a lot of friction and stimulation to the penis glans.

This is a surefire way to climax quickly, and because women typically take FAR longer to reach a climax, it can leave them totally unsatisfied. Focus on her emotional “hot buttons” first to make it easier for them to reach a powerful orgasm.

Pay Attention To Her Body

Men skilled in female pleasure know that women take significantly longer to warm up before you make love. Thus a great way to make sure she is adequately aroused is to first pay attention to the sensuous areas on her body. Most women get incredibly turned on just by being touched and stroked on their arms, neck, lower back and inner thighs.

Start Slow!

By starting slow, you are actually helping to speed up her climax during intercourse. The way you thrust also affects how long you last. Once you get her aroused, vary your thrusts during intercourse. Start with slow, shallow strokes, entering just the first three inches of the vagina, and then progress into deeper penetrations. The shallow part of the vagina will stimulate her the most as this area contains thousands of sensitive nerve endings.

Vary Your Strokes

On the other hand, the vagina opens up the deeper you go and creates less stimulation on your penis. Thus varying between shallow and deep penetrations will help you last longer. At the same time, move your hips in a circular fashion. This causes your pubic mound to rub and further stimulate her clitoris – the nerve center of the female orgasm.

Use Positions To Your Advantage

There are many more ways that can help boost your sexual endurance, including the positions you use during sex, as well as adopting the correct breathing and relaxation techniques. For a start, focus on heightening female arousal and tweaking your thrusting movements and you should last significantly longer that you used to!