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Tantus Feeldoe Vibrating Strapless Strap On Dildo Review

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The Tantus Feeldoe Vibrating Strapless Strap On Dildo is an innovative sex toy that provides pleasure to both partners in an unprecedented way. Since there is no harness required, it allows for more intimacy between partners by providing true skin to skin contact. Couples who have been unable to experience this with other strap on dildos will really enjoy the Feeldoe!

The Good

Made “for a woman, by a woman,” this dildo is specifically shaped to provide the giving partner with pleasure while she is stimulating her lover. Since most other strap on dildos require a harness to be used and don’t fit inside the woman, there is very little stimulation for the giving partner. This is where the Feeldoe Vibrating Strapless Strap On Dildo really shines. This is also the “slim” version of the Feeldoe (it’s also available in a “regular” size and a “more” size), so it’s perfect for beginners who are just starting to experiment with this type of sex play.

The Bad

The Feeldoe Vibrating Strapless Strap On Dildo. isn’t for everyone. It’s made to be worn by a woman, to be used on either a woman or on a man during anal sex. If you’re not into either of those things, this is definitely not the sex toy for you! Other than that, this is a great option for partners who typically use a strap on but would like more skin on skin contact without the strap. There are very few “bad” things about it, if you know what you’re using it for and have enjoyed similar sex toys in the past.

The Bottom Line

The Tantus Feeldoe Vibrating Strapless Strap On Dildo is a great option for lesbian couples who want to experiment with penetrative sex in a way that both partners get stimulated. It’s also an excellent option for men who want their female partners to experiment with anal sex. This is the “slim” version, so it’s an excellent starter for anal play. If you’re considering a strap on for either of those scenarios, this is the one you want to get, since it is one of the few that actually give both partners stimulation at the same time.

The Full Tantus Feeldoe Review

Sex toys come in many different varieties and many of them can be pretty strange looking. However, even the strange looking sex toys can be great! That mantra definitely applies to the Tantus Feeldoe Vibrating Strapless Strap On Dildo. This odd looking dildo actually has one end that fits inside a woman’s vagina and is held there by her vaginal muscles. This gives hear added stimulation and probes her g-spot while she thrusts, making strap on sex just as pleasurable for her as it is her partner.

The shaft is only about 6″ long and is very slim, so although it may look a little intimidating, it is actually the most comfortable of the Feeldoe line and is perfect for beginners. The shaft is angled upwards to provide g-spot or prostate stimulation on the receiving partner as well. Since both partners have the ability to get stimulation from this sex toy, it’s preferred by many over the other strap on dildos out there that require a harness or other equipment to stay on.

Made from 100% body safe silicone, you know this is a high quality product as soon as you take it out of the package. You can clean it easily with soap and water, or you can even boil it in a bleach and water solution or stick it in your dishwasher if you want it really clean and hygienic. (This is recommended if you plan on sharing it, and don’t forget to take the vibrator out when you do!)

It does come with a bullet vibrator that fits inside the bulb of the toy (the part that goes in the giving partners vagina). This is a fun feature, but the receiving partner doesn’t get to feel much of the vibrations at the end of the shaft. The bullet does require batteries (which are included, but be sure to have more on hand) and can be taken out for cleaning, or if you just want to use the Feeldoe Vibrating Strapless Strap On Dildo without vibration!

Overall, this is one of the better sex toys if you plan on using it for girl on girl sex play, or are experimenting with strapless sex between a heterosexual couple. With more skin to skin contact, you’ll feel closer to your partner during sex!

Super Head Honcho Masturbator Review

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We’ve affectionately named the Super Head Honcho Masturbator the “pink squishy” because it’s one of our very favorite sex toys. We love it because it feels absolutely amazing when you use it, but it’s also very versatile – it can be used by both a man during masturbation alone or by his partner during a handjob. If she’s using it while giving him a handjob, it makes it much easier on her and it will feel better for him! This is a great toy to have in your toy chest.

The Good

The Super Head Honcho Masturbator feels very realistic. Nothing will totally replace real oral sex, especially if you have a skilled partner, but this sex toy does come pretty close! It’s one of the BEST masturbators we’ve ever tried. It’s really soft and squishy, so it feels incredible when you use it with lube. It’s also very easy to clean – just flip it inside out, rinse with warm water and you’re good to go! You don’t even have to put any powder on it to “keep it fresh” like you do with many other popular masturbation aids! It’s easy to use and easy to care for – which is exactly what we like in a sex toy!

The Bad

There are very few caveats with the Super Head Honcho Masturbator. It’s a really soft jelly, so it tends to get sticky. Don’t leave it out – it will pick up lint and specks easily! When you’re finished rinsing it out, toss it in a zippered plastic back and leave the top open for it to dry. Feel free to close the bag when the sleeve is dry. This will help keep the Head Honcho clean and it will last much longer. Other than its tendency to pick up almost every speck in sight if you don’t keep it in it’s own little bag, there’s not much else that is bad about this product!

The Bottom Line

The Super Head Honcho Masturbator is an inexpensive and GREAT way to make masturbation feel even better. If you thought you were limited to lotion and your hand, think again! Masturbation will never be the same again. With a little lube, it feels almost like the real thing! The suction chambers create an incredible sucking sensation, almost like real oral sex, and it’s super easy to clean. The bottom line is that you really need to try it – it’s truly one of our very favorite sex toys!

The Full Super Head Honcho Masturbator Review

Masturbation can feel better than ever before when you use the Super Head Honcho Masturbator. This squishy pink masturbation sleeve is made from an easy to clean jelly material, so it not only feels great when you stroke it up and down, it’s also incredibly easy to clean and store.

At 6″ long, the sleeve will fit most guys, and it contains three textured suction chambers which are designed to mimic the sensation of real oral sex. Many men who have tried this toy say that it’s the “best you can get, next to the real thing!” Voted Sex Toy Of The Year, this masturbation sleeve outshines most of the others that are on the market in several categories including price, sensations and clean up. The transparent jelly material also gives you the illusion that your penis is bigger and thicker, which can be really arousing for both men who are using it during masturbation or couples who are using it together.

If you are very vigorous with this sex toy during masturbation, you may find that it wears out more quickly. The jelly material can split and tear, and even if it doesn’t, you will want to replace it after using it for awhile. Since the Super Head Honcho Masturbator is one of the more inexpensive masturbation sleeves on the market, replacing it for a brand new silky smooth feeling isn’t going to take a huge chunk out of your wallet.

Clean up is a breeze with this, as opposed to many male masturbation aids on the market today. Instead of having to take it out of a case to clean it (and clean the case), you simply turn inside out, rinse with warm water and you’re done. You can use soap if you like, but it’s not necessary to still get that clean, “hygienic” feeling. It requires no extra care (no cornstarch powder!) besides tossing it in a zippered plastic bag afterwards to keep it from getting dusty or dirty.

Overall, the Super Head Honcho Masturbator is a must have toy for both single guys and men in a relationship! Single guys will truly appreciate how realistic this feels when compared to masturbating with their hand, and couples will love to play with this and experiment with different sensations. If you don’t have one of these in your toy box, it’s time to get one! This really is one of our very favorite sex toys!

Ophoria XL Cock Ring Review

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The Ophoria XL Cock Ring is a great sex accessory if you’re looking to spice up your sex life. It’s not really designed to be used alone, but instead with a partner for mind blowing, explosive sex where your partner has orgasm after orgasm!

The Good

The Ophoria XL Cock Ring is specially designed to fit men with thicker, larger penises. Length doesn’t really matter here, but thickness does. Many standard size cock rings don’t fit larger men well – they’re meant to hug, but if a man with a big penis dons a regular cock ring, it can give him a very “choked off” feeling and be uncomfortable or even painful. This cock ring is designed especially for that guy, giving him a comfortable yet snug fit to keep blood trapped in the penis, increase staying power and give him more pleasure.

This cock ring also has a vibrating bullet attached to it for HER pleasure! That makes the Ophoria XL Cock Ring perfect for couples play! It’s made from quality materials and is long lasting, and it’s a fairly inexpensive investment. It’s a great choice if you want to give your partner more orgasms during sex, and last longer in bed yourself.

The Bad

The Ophoria XL Cock Ring is exactly that – extra large. It is made specifically for men with a thicker girth, so men with smaller penises aren’t going to find that this product fits very well. It’s actually fairly large – so if you have a small or even average size penis, you’re going to be much better off getting a standard sized cock ring. This one is really only going to work for those men who have an above average, substantial girth.

The Bottom Line

The Ophoria XL Cock Ring is an excellent sex toy for couples, as it will help keep the man erect during sex and increase his pleasure, as well as vibrate against a woman’s clitoris to increase her pleasure and making it easier for her to reach orgasm. There are few products like this out there for men with very large penises, so this is an excellent option. The bullet can also be removed for her to play alone or him to use on her, however, this is not really one you can use during masturbation for a harder erection. Overall, it’s perfect for larger sized men who want to experience better sex with their partners!

The Full Ophoria XL Cock Ring Review

A cock ring is one of the most versatile sex toys out there, and if it has a bullet vibrator attached to it, all the better! The Ophoria XL Cock Ring is specifically made for men with a larger penis who want to experience hotter, wetter sex with their lovers.

The ring is designed to fit the larger man snugly, keeping blood trapped in the penis and making his erection bigger and harder than ever before. It will also help increase stamina, so you can last as long as your lover wants you to! The vibrating bullet that is attached fits right up against a woman’s clitoris, so she can experience intense pleasure as well.

Made from 100% pure medical grade silicone, this cock ring is body safe and easy to clean. Warm soapy water should do the trick, and don’t worry about getting it wet, because this awesome cock ring is waterproof! Try it out in the bathtub, the shower, the pool or Jacuzzi. Anywhere you want to have great sex, the Ophoria XL Cock Ring will go with you.

It’s stretchable, so it will fit even the largest man, but smaller guys will find that this is way too loose. Again, length is not the issue here. This sex toy is made for very thick men – so even if you have a 12″ penis, if you’re only 1 1/2″ around, this isn’t going to fit you. The diameter of the ring is about 2″ so for it to fit snugly like a cock ring should, you need to be a little bigger around than 2″.

The bullet vibrator is operated with a one-touch button, so it’s easy to turn on and off. It does require 3 “watch size” LR44 batteries as well, so make sure you have plenty of those on hand. There are no vibration “modes” – just one setting. However, this is one of Ophoria’s stronger bullet vibes, so it does provide good vibration for the female partner.

All in all, this is an excellent choice for men with a large penis who want to experience better sex, harder erections and make their partner orgasm all night long!

Discover The Stunning Secret Of Turning Your Wife On With The Push Of A Button!

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Has your wife (or girlfriend) just STOPPED having sex with you?

Does she seem to always have a headache, always too tired, or does she give you some other excuse as to why she doesn’t want to have sex?

Have you stopped asking for it because you “KNOW” she’s going to say “NO”?

The free video presentation on this page will show you the REAL reason you’re not having better sex with your spouse right now. It’s not because she’s “not into sex anymore!” In fact, when you watch this short video you’ll be shocked to discover that your partner’s sex drive is secretly much HIGHER than you think it is – and much higher than SHE thinks it is too!

Click Here to Watch the Video

Text Your Wife Into Bed

Warning: Make sure to watch the entire video to find out why flowers, jewelry and expensive nights out on the town could actually be KILLING your sex life and why you already have the “Magic Key” to your wife’s sexual mind – and how to use it to give her the EXACT kind of “fuel” she needs to make your love life take off like the SPACE SHUTTLE (no matter how long you’ve been married, how many kids you have or how little time you think you have for sex.) You’ll also learn what really turns women on, and why women don’t like porn and EXACTLY what to say to her to access her “secret sexual mind” on demand and literally at the push of a button.

Is She A Lost Cause?

Absolutely not. You may think your partner doesn’t want to have sex anymore and there’s nothing you can do to change that, but NOTHING could be further from the truth! She actually has a HIGHER sex drive than you – all YOU have to do is activate it!

Even if she hasn’t wanted sex for a long, long time, you can re-awaken her sexual desire and turn her into an absolute FREAK in the bedroom!

Honestly, this is a weird, but freakishly effective way to turn your woman into a freak in the bedroom!

But just what is it?

The truth is, you already have the 1 tool that you need – your cell phone!

Believe it or not, you can use something as simple as your cell phone to reignite her desire, with just the touch of a button! In fact, all those flowers you’ve been buying and all those dinner dates you’ve been taking her out on are actually a BIG MISTAKE on your part! In fact, those aren’t going to do a thing to make her want to have sex with you!

Text Your Wife Into Bed is the ONLY resource available that teaches you to access your partner’s “secret sexual mind” and turn her on at will  – something not 1 married guy in 100 has figured out on their own!

What You’ll Learn

  • The 4-step sexting formula HUNDREDS of guys have already used to turn their wives on and skyrocket their sex lives
  • Exactly what to do if you don’t already text
  • How to “warm up” your woman so she’s eager, ready and desperate for every sexting message you send
  • The “3 Magic Texts” you can try out TONIGHT!

Believe it or not, it doesn’t matter how much you or your partner wife work, how many kids you have or how little time you have, how tired she is or how she feels about her body. Even if you and your spouse have been together so long you feel like having boring sex is “just part of being married.” Well, it’s not!

Watch this FREE video to find out how you can have INCREDIBLE sex, even if you’ve been married for decades!

She will actually CRAVE having sex with you when you use the tips in Text Your Wife Into Bed! By actually using these tips, you’ll notice:

  • She starts flirting with you more, like when you first met
  • She’ll start feeling sexier and having more confidence (because what you’re doing is going to make her feel like the sexiest woman alive!)
  • She’ll be very engaged when you have sex
  • She’ll brag about the HOT sex to all her friends
  • She’ll reach orgasm faster and harder than ever before
  • She’ll actually BEG for sex from you and do ANYTHING to please you!

Hotter, Wetter Sex Than EVER Before!

With Text Your Wife Into Bed, you’ll learn how a woman’s brain is SO involved in sex that you can get her dripping wet just by sending her the right texts!

You won’t find these secrets anywhere else – and they have helped hundreds of married men just like you, who have lost the fire in their sex lives.

See what these guys are saying about it!

“Scared the bejeezus out of me at first, but I followed what you said and was amazed at the results. I never thought my wife would be the one to initiate sex. Now she can’t get enough.” – Mark L.

“I sent 3 texts and my wife was so hot for me when I got home. We had the best sex in years.” – Tim Thomas

“My wife and I were right in the middle of a dry patch…her reaction was overwhelming. Now her friends keep asking me to teach their husbands how to do this!” – Jim

Remember, believing the myth that “she’s just not that into it anymore” and that it’s a natural thing for two people who have been married a long time to have boring sex, will RUIN your sex life forever.

Re-ignite it and bring the passion back JUST by using your cell phone!

It’s so easy, you can’t afford NOT to do it!

Click Here to watch the FREE Presentation that reveals a “weird” (but staggeringly effective) method for waking up your wife’s (or girlfriend’s) sex drive and turning her on at will…

6 Beginner’s Oral Sex Techniques

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Oral sex is so much fun to learn! Check out these easy to do oral sex tips for men that haven’t had a lot of experience in the art of cunnilingus.

Start with the most basic of tongue manipulations, and keep any extra combinations to a minimum so as to examine her sexual response and learn more about what she likes, and how to do it repeatedly.

1. The First Touch

This should take no more than a minute.

Tongue: One flat-tongued, soft lick from the bottom of her vagina to the top above her clitoris.

Hands: Both underneath her body, softly yet firmly holding onto her bum. Her legs should be parted only enough to allow you access.

Finger: Nothing at this time.

2. Build A Rhythm

This should take between two and five minutes.

Tongue: Start with about five soft-tongued licks that only cover half of her vulva, and then follow with three to five long tongue laps. Gear your attention primarily to her labia and frenulum; only the long tongue laps should reach her clitoris.

Hands: Take one hand away from her bottom to place a finger inside of her. With the other hand, grasp both of her butt cheeks firmly but not painfully you want to give her the tension she needs for what’s coming up, but you don’t want her to be self-conscious about what you’re doing, either.

Fingers: Take your index finger and put it only partially inside the entrance to her vagina.

3. Build Tension

This can take anywhere from five to ten minutes.

Tongue: Establish a rhythm where you lick her from bottom to top without actually touching the clitoris – five times – then lick her clitoris once horizontally.

Hands: Keep supporting her buttocks.

Fingers: Leave your finger where it was before and use it to feel where she’s at along her arousal process. Is she clenching? Is she lubricated? Allow your other fingers to gently touch other nearby areas, such as her perineum or anal area.

4. Intensify Your Moves

This can take anywhere from five to ten minutes.

Tongue: Continue with the vertical and horizontal tongue stroke rhythm. Occasionally do a “tongue press,” where you take your tongue, hold it flat and firm, and push it up against her clitoris for five seconds.

Hands: Continue holding her buttocks, and see if you can gently play a bit with her perineum using your thumb.

Fingers: Put another finger inside her vagina. Push both fingers up toward her g-spot, and feel around for it.

5. Moving Into The Pre-Orgasm Phase

This usually lasts between three to five minutes.

Tongue: Use the tongue press on her clitoris. Make sure the pressure is firm, and slow things down even more than before. Let her push back against you to show you what she likes and works for her.

Hands: Make sure that the hand beneath her has the right angle and that you have her firmly in your grasp. The arm leading to the fingers inside of her should feel her inner thigh muscles pushing against them, as if she wants to close her legs.

Fingers: Keep your fingers partially inside of her with your palm facing up, and use your thumb to push against her frenulum. The pressure needs to stay constant inside of her along the g-spot, but right now your focus should be on the frenulum thumb touch.

6. Give Her The Big Orgasm!

This usually lasts around one minute or less.

Tongue: Stay in contact with her clitoris using the firm tongue press. She’ll push against you and try to close your legs, but hold on and keep doing what you’re doing. When the contractions are finished (you’ll feel them with the fingers inside of her) lick her clitoris only once, and very, very gently. She should pull back when you do, which means she’s had an orgasm and now needs a bit of time to recoup.

Hands: Her pelvic muscles should clench your fingers. Feel them so you know where she’s at, and keep the pressure on her frenulum the entire time.

Fingers: Use the hand underneath her to keep yourself in close contact with her; as she orgasms it may prove difficult, so firm pressure is needed.

Keep a close eye as to where she’s at along the orgasmic process, and cater your movements accordingly. Start lightly and offer more firm support with your tongue as you go along. If need be, get a vibrator to help with the g-spot so you can concentrate on the licking.