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Erotic Massage For Better Sex Review

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Erotic Massage For Better Sex is a guide that is designed to help a man learn how to give a woman an incredibly arousing, relaxing sexual massage. If you’ve ever “massaged” your partner before sex, you already know the power that just a few simple strokes have to relax both her mind and body. Foreplay and relaxation is essential for a woman to be able to reach orgasm, so prepping her before you get it on is well worth it.

If you want to take your massage skills to the next level and really learn how to turn her on – or if you’ve never tried it before and want to bring something new to the bedroom – Erotic Massage For Better Sex is right up your alley. There are tips, tricks and techniques that both the novice and the advanced masseuse can use.

The Good

Erotic Massage For Better Sex is hands down the most complete, information packed guide on sexual massage out there. It starts off by teaching you how to perform a basic relaxing massage, then walks you through how to make it erotic once your partner is totally and completely relaxed. There are sections on setting the scene, warm up, technique and more, so you’re really learning how to give an incredible massage from point A to the very end.

If you truly want to become a master at sexual massage, this guide will help you learn step by step what to do, where to touch and how to touch to make your partner more relaxed and turned on than they ever have before.

The Bad

This is a complete guide to mastering the art of erotic massage. It’s not a quick read – it’s chock full of information you can use to not only give your partner a relaxing massage but to also move into a sexual massage and on to lovemaking. While this is generally where most men are headed when they get this guide, the amount of information contained within is often daunting at first. You can pick up a few quick tips if you skim through, but not near as much as if you sit down and really commit to learning the information.

Erotic Massage For Better Sex does include some pictures that help guide your hand placement and let you know exactly where you need to be and what you need to be doing, but not for every single technique. The descriptions for the techniques are found within the text, so you’ll need to really read through each section to learn hand placement as well as stroke direction and pressure. If you’re looking for a guide that will tell you how to relax and seduce a woman with an erotic massage, this is the one you want. Just don’t be surprised when you actually have to read!

The Bottom Line

If you want to know how to learn how to give an erotic massage and have your partner melt beneath your hands, Erotic Massage For Better Sex is definitely the guide you want to get. It includes extensive information about why massage is so essential to a woman’s relaxation and arousal, how to get started, specific techniques to use and how to use erotic massage to lead into sex.

It’s a pretty comprehensive guide, so it may take some time and commitment to soak up all the information within. With some practice and dedication to learning all of the tips and tricks in Erotic Massage For Better Sex, you’ll be an absolute master at the art of massage and your partner will be putty in your hands!

The Full Erotic Massage For Better Sex Review

Erotic Massage For Better Sex will teach you the ins and outs of sexual massage, so by the time you’re done reading it (really reading it), you’re going to be an absolute master at sensual touch!

What You’ll Learn Inside This Incredible Guide:

  • Why erotic massage is so powerful
  • How it helps you connect physically and emotionally to your lover
  • Why foreplay is like the game Monopoly – and how to use it to your advantage
  • The importance of approaching a massage without expectations
  • How to turn a relaxing massage into an erotic one once your partner is putty in your hands
  • Things to avoid that will turn her OFF automatically
  • Why being motivated to massage your lover (and being enthusiastic about doing it) is paramount to her pleasure

How To Prepare The Massage Environment

The section on how to prepare the environment ahead of time is probably one of the most useful sections in the entire guide. Erotic Massage For Better Sex will teach you how to set the stage for a romantic evening, including how to use lighting, scent, music and more to start seducing your lover as soon as she walks in the room. You’ll also learn about many different types of massage oils (and sexual lubes) so you can choose the right one for what you’re trying to accomplish.

Tips & Tricks

There is no shortage of tips & tricks in Erotic Massage For Better Sex. Here’s a sample of the different kinds of techniques you’ll learn when you read this guide, although the author encourages men to learn these techniques and then use them to develop their own custom strokes.

  • Specific hand movements to use to release tension and seduce
  • Exactly how to massage specific areas of your lover’s body including the back, neck, arms, breasts, legs, butt and inner thighs
  • How to work the face and scalp for maximum tension release
  • Stretching techniques to relax the body
  • Specifically how to massage the breasts and nipples to begin arousal
  • How to massage the vagina and clitoris to bring a woman to orgasm

Bonus Video: “The Ecstatic Touch – Sensual Relaxation Techniques To Get Her In the Mood For Sex”

Included with Erotic Massage For Better Sex is a great bonus video that will teach you more about massage and relaxation, so you will have even more tricks up your sleeve to get your lover in a randy mood. While the written guide is absolutely indispensable, seeing and hearing the information really takes it to the next level.

Hot Licks – The Ultimate 5 Step Program For Mastering The Art Of Giving Her Exquisitely Orgasmic Oral Sex Review

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Hot Licks will teach you how to be an oral sex master in just five easy steps. You’ll be giving your lover orgasms orally in no time!

If you want to know how to be a master at oral sex from the foreplay stage all the way through climax to the very end, the Hot Licks Program is just what you’re looking for. It’s well put together into digestible modules and it’s very easy to read, so even guys with very short attention spans will be able to process this information and put it to good use.

The Good

There is so much information here! The Hot Licks Program goes over almost everything, from female anatomy to oral sex and fingering techniques, to foreplay and female arousal to safe sex and much, much more. The best thing about this complete guide is that you can start out totally green, without knowing a single thing about giving a woman oral sex.

When you’re done reading, it’s very likely you’ll be able to give a woman an orgasm through oral sex without ever having practiced before – of course, this isn’t guaranteed, however, if a guy really studies and puts to use the techniques learned in the Hot Licks Program, he’s going to be a force to be reckoned with.

The Bad

Even with the quick start guide, there’s not a magic formula contained inside that will instantly make you awesome at giving girls head even if you’re not really into it. The trick is, you have to be into it. The Hot Licks Program is overflowing with excellent tips and techniques that will make your woman shiver with delight, but only if you’re committed to mastering this art.

There is a lot of information here and many guys may get discouraged (read the Quick Start Guide first before you give up – it will get you giving great oral sex tonight!) before getting through it all. However, it’s broken down into easy to digest modules and each module is broken down further into an easy to navigate table of contents.

The Hot Licks Program is exceptionally well put together, so you can find what you need to find fairly quickly. Keep in mind that although there’s a great deal of information to read (yeah, you’re going to be busy for the next several days), it is all going to contribute to your giving your partner wild, sheet soaking orgasms.

The Bottom Line

The Hot Licks Program is an amazingly intense, information packed course that will take you from being completely knowledgeable about oral sex to becoming an oral sex master! Even if you’ve never gone down on a girl before, after reading this guide, you’re going to know just about everything there is to know about giving a girl the big O.

You’ll be able to take a woman straight from a completely unaroused phase all the way through to an earth shattering orgasm with oral sex before she can even register what happened. This truly will take her breath away! Even if you only work a few of the techniques in this guide at a time into your cunnilingus repertoire, your skill will improve ten fold. If you buy only one oral sex instruction program, Hot Licks is the one you want to get.

The Full Hot Licks Program Review

Oral sex is absolutely divine for a woman – but a lot of guys just don’t know how to do it well. There are too many guys out there that assume going down on a woman is a lot like how they like to get oral sex, but the that’s just not the case. It takes a lot of skill to give a girl a leg shaking orgasm through cunnilingus alone. With the Hot Licks Program, you’ll learn how to be an oral sex master in just five easy steps.

The Hot Licks Program consists of two indispensable manuals – the Quick Start Guide and the main course. Although the main course is broken down into modules that are easy to read and understand, there is still a lot of information and it’s difficult to absorb it all at once. This is where the Quick Start Guide comes in handy. It helps men get a “jump start” on their oral sex technique, so they can start seeing a difference right away. Once they give a girl an orgasm through oral sex for the first time, they’re going to be hooked! That’s when they will delve into the main course to learn as many different tricks and techniques as possible.

The Quick Start Guide

This manual is absolutely man’s best friend! It’s the “what you need to know now” to give your girlfriend or wife an incredible orgasm using your tongue TONIGHT. It will give you a taste of the great information contained within the main guide, and get you going on your journey to give that special lady in your life the best oral sex she’s ever had, hands down.

A quick introduction to the female anatomy is all you need to get started here, and the Quick Start Guide glosses over the anatomy section quickly enough to get you on to the good stuff but it’s still thorough enough to educate you so you at least know where you’re licking and sucking.

The Quick Start Guide also goes over lubes and which ones are suitable for cunnilingus, and it also goes over (and shows!) the proper way to use a dental dam to ensure safety for both partners involved. You’ll also learn the best oral sex positions for both you and your partner to be in so you can give her the maximum amount of pleasure.

The real value here comes with the complete walkthrough of a woman’s arousal from the beginning stages through climax to the very end when she’s exhausted and satisfied. Learning how a woman’s body works during arousal is key to figuring out what to do next and how to give her the best orgasm of her life. You’re also going to get a couple of complete technique walkthroughs as well, that will show you what to do and how long to do it for from beginning to end. Now that’s something that most other oral sex guides don’t offer!

1st Module

The first module includes lots of prep work and beginner’s info. Don’t assume that if you’ve given a girl head before that you can skip this module – there is lots of information here that even so-called advanced players would be interested to know. Not only will you learn the “hows” and “whys” of what to do during cunnilingus, you’ll also learn lots of new facts that you’ve probably never heard of before!

2nd Module

Foreplay is so important, the Hot Licks Program dedicated an entire module to it. Learn how to get your lover aroused, where her erogenous zones and hot spots are, how to relax her with a sensual massage and how to incorporate showering into your foreplay routine so you both are fresh and clean for cunnilingus.

3rd Module

The third module in the Hot Licks Program also contains information about the female anatomy, but in a much more detailed way than the Quick Start guide did. You’ll learn more about the specific hot spots to pay attention to when using your tongue during oral sex! This module also contains information on how to get into a rhythm and remedies for jaw tiredness as well as specific and advanced techniques.

4th Module

This is probably going to be the module you go to often in the Hot Licks Program, even after you’re finished with the first read through. This module includes great ideas for cunnilingus positions, as well as a complete troubleshooting guide for many of the obstacles you run into when going down on a girl.

5th Module

The fifth and last module in the Hot Licks Program will teach you specific routines to use that will take you from beginning to end. You’ll also get cheat sheets to use and you’ll learn advanced techniques and how to customize your very own cunnilingus routine. After this module, assuming that you’ve really taken the information here to heart, you’ll be an oral sex master!

Oral Sex: How To Push All Her Hot Buttons!

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There’s no denying that couples of all ages love to engage in oral sex practices. In fact, married couples are likely to have more sex, and more varied sex, than single people and, according to stats, even oral sex is more common in married couples rather than single couples.

So here’s some advice to help you hone your oral dexterity.

Oral Sex Prepwork

One of the biggest turn-offs when performing oral sex on someone is not being clean, trimmed and proper. And assume that if you’re giving oral sex to her, she’s going to give it to you.

The clean side: Wash. Everywhere. For longer than three seconds. There are a lot of tiny hidden crevices in and around a man’s penis, and after a long day tucked into underwear and pants, naturally you’re going to sweat (and start to possibly smell – I’m not going to sugar-coat it). Proper regular hygiene creates a much more inviting environment for her face (and all of her senses). Even a quick washcloth wipe-down will be an improvement.

The trimmed side: Maybe you just missed the manscaping train, but it’s time to hop on because, well, hair is icky. Not all hair – just long, thick hair. It’s a trap for bacteria, it’s not the most attractive accessory, and it’s another deterrent when it comes to creating an appealing atmosphere.

Best Oral Sex Positions

Just as there are a countless number of techniques to satisfy your mate there are just as many varying positions you can use when engaging in oral sex, each with its own perks.

Need a few? OK, here goes:

She stands and you kneel in front of her. This is perfect for urgent sex plus it appeals to alpha females who like seeing you shamelessly submissive in front of him. And besides, if you want to see her in that position next, then you’d better get on your knees (put a pillow underneath your knees so she can see you’re not in any rush).

If you want to impress, lie on your back on the bed with your head hanging over the edge and get her to straddle your mouth. You may not be able to stay in this position for long, but she’ll definitely appreciate the effort.

Techniques That Will Drive Her Wild

All of the positions mentioned above can be effective but only if you use the right techniques. That means – you use all those tools, from your fingers and hands to your mouth and tongue, to manoeuvre your way around and get her off.

While a repetitive motion can be the perfect way to finish things off and help your wife to climax, a slow melange of kissing, licking, sucking, and even gentle blowing is the best technique to get her to the sheet-clenching stage. Mix long broad strokes with more delicate ones. Breathe lightly on her clitoris (never into her vagina) between licks.

How To Find Your Girl’s Secret Erogenous Zones

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Sex usually involves the same areas of the body each time – the genitals, the breasts, the butt, etc. But did you know about THESE incredible erogenous zones?

The Best For Breasts

Are you a boob guy? Oh right, who isn’t? Well, there’s a sweet melange of methods you can use to arouse this sensitive (and enticing) area of her body. They come in an endless array of sizes and shapes, and just as they are varied in form, they’re also varied in stimulation.

Some women like their breasts to be caressed, squeezed (gently), tweaked, held, kissed, and sucked. However, being too aggressive (and at the wrong time of the month) can cause her a lot of pain, so be sure that you proceed with some caution.

Surprising Female “Hot Spots”

The great thing about women is that they aren’t cookie-cutter sexual beings – different women have different areas that enjoy titillation. While most females will concur that the aforementioned erogenous zones are universally appealing, women love to compare notes on what makes them tick versus their friends. “I love when a guy puts his hands in my hair and massages my scalp,” one friend told me. Another said, “When he kisses or sucks the inside of my wrists, I turn into putty.” The list of possibilities is endless.

Body Mapping

While discovering every facet of her figure is a lot of fun, the practice of truly learning about her entire body is very important. There’s a term that the infamous Dr. Ruth coined and it’s “body mapping.”

There are a few rules to body mapping, and number one is, avoid the genitals. You already know just how sensitive they can be, and genital touching will cause you to rush because the desire to have an orgasm could become too strong to resist. But other than the genitals, leave no area untouched, no zone unexplored. You might have been skipping that lone spot even your partner didn’t already know about.

And don’t limit yourself to just touching. Licks and kisses can create different sensations. The idea is to spend your time exploring.

Using Your Fingers

With all the toys out there, who knew your own little fingers could be such a powerful sex tool? Give yourself some credit – women don’t only like little buzzing dolphins down there. They like it when you’re down there too (as long as you’re doing the job), and they like it even more if you can turn her on.

You just need to go in (no pun intended) with confidence, creativity, and most of all, clean hands (quick side note: if you want your wife to be receptive to you fiddling around down there with your fingers, please make sure you have clean hands and fingernails, with no rough hangnails, calluses, and even rings).

Want to add to your repertoire of fingering techniques? When you’ve been with someone for an extended amount of time, you can grow “accustomed” to your partner’s touch. However, that doesn’t mean you can’t find a bevy of places to explore as well as exciting new ways to use those fingers.

LELO Mia Review

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The LELO Mia is a tiny, USB chargable vibrator that allows for maximum pleasure with the ultimate amount of discretion. A definite must have sex toy!

If you’re a woman who wants the ultimate in discretion when it comes to a sex toy, the LELO Mia is right up your alley. It’s super small, super quiet and looks almost exactly like a tube of lipstick. It’s completely wireless, so you can throw it in your purse without anyone ever being the wiser.

The Good

The LELO Mia looks almost exactly like a tube of lipstick, so it’s completely discreet. Even if someone were to go digging around in your purse looking for something, it’s very unlikely that they would notice this or even know what it was if they did happen to notice it. That’s not the best part though – what makes the LELO Mia so unique is that the cap actually slips off to reveal a USB charging port!

Forget about batteries and wall chargers – this is one of the easiest and convenient ways to charge a sex toy. It’s also small enough that it can be mistaken as a jump drive! Just think about it – you can sit in a coffee shop (or even at your desk at work) and charge your vibrator and pass it off as a flash drive! If that’s not discreet, nothing is!

The Bad

Sadly, this lovely little sex toy isn’t waterproof. Being waterproof might actually make it the perfect vibrator. Also, it’s not something you can use for g-spot stimulation – it’s simply not long enough. The LELO Mia was designed specifically for quiet, powerful clitoral stimulation and it does a very, very good job of it.

Other than that, there’s not much else “bad” to say about the LELO Mia. Some women are going to want a larger, more powerful vibrator, but if you want something portable, travel safe, discreet and quiet, you’re not going to get much better than this.

The Bottom Line

If you want a vibrator to take with you places – that no one will see, hear or know about – the LELO Mia is exactly what you’re looking for. It’s one of the quietest, smallest and most discreet looking clitoral vibrators out there. It won’t take the place of a good g-spot vibrator (after all, the LELO Mia is designed for stimulating the clitoris only – it’s too short and straight to reach the g-spot) it’s definitely a vibrator that you want to have on hand for certain times.

At the boyfriend’s parents’ house and can’t get it on with your beau because you’re sleeping in different rooms? Don’t be tempted to break their trust – instead, have a great solo session that will be undetectable by anyone! There also lots of other great opportunities to use the LELO Mia – anytime you want an orgasm without anyone knowing what you’re up to!

The Full LELO Mia Review

While there aren’t a bunch of fancy vibration modes on the LELO Mia, the “+” and “-“controls are super easy to use. The vibrations can be controlled while using the vibrator during masturbation, so you can start slow and work your way up to the highest vibration as you get more and more turned on.

Probably the biggest “pro” of the LELO Mia is that it’s extremely discreet. It’s not very obvious that it’s a sex toy – in fact, you can pass it off as a tube of lipstick or a jump drive. Unlike large, brightly colored rabbit style vibrators like the Wild G, the LELO Mia is much easier to hide if you don’t want to get caught masturbation. If you do get caught, it’s much easier to tuck the LELO Mia away than it would be a giant penis shaped vibrator or dildo!

The LELO Mia is also incredibly quiet. In fact, it’s so quiet, you could probably masturbate in a bathroom stall right next to someone and they would have no idea that you weren’t using the bathroom – that is, as long as you don’t make any noise! Although this vibrator is small, it’s actually incredibly powerful. You’ll want to use the bottom of the vibrator for your clitoris, because that’s where the actual vibrator motor is – the top of the toy is where the cap is that covers the end that houses the USB charger.

The LELO Mia is simply one of those “must have” sex toys that you need in your toy chest. It’s not one you’re going to use for everything, but it is one that you’re going to want to have on hand next time you travel (no one wants airport security to open their bag and find their still vibrating, rotating dildo) or are “on the go” and need some quick stress relief.