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LELO Elise Review

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The LELO Elise is an absolutely gorgeous sex toy – if you were to try to imagine what an “artistic” sex toy might look like, this would be it. It’s shaped like a long, curved torpedo and has a smooth, rounded tip. It’s as sultry as decadent dark chocolate and it’s firm – not flexible – so it’s perfect for hard and fast g-spot stimulation – you know, the kind needed to achieve wild, squirting orgasms!

Although, the luxurious feel of this vibrator will make you want to go slow and enjoy ever y single second of pleasure. You can use the LELO Elise alone during masturbation for an absolutely earth shattering orgasm, or you can use it with a partner. Try letting him use it on your g-spot while he goes down on you!

The Good

It’s so luxurious! Some people refer to it as the “Cadillac” of vibrators – because it’s such a smooth, quiet ride! If you’re going to buy only one vibrator that is designed for insertion into the vagina, this is the one you want to get. It’s rechargeable, so you don’t have to keep up with or spend a lot of money on batteries.

Simply plug the LELO Elise into the wall charger that is included, much like you would a cell phone, and off you go! Easy to use controls are well lit for use in the dark, and a variety of vibration speeds make sure you never get bored.

The Bad

It’s not completely waterproof, so you don’t want to submerge it or take it into the shower with you. However, it is splash proof, so you don’t have to worry about lube or bodily fluids. You also don’t want to use any silicone based lube with the LELO Elise, since it is made primarily from silicone. Using a silicone based lube with a vibrator or dildo made of silicone can cause the toy to deteriorate quickly.

The Bottom Line

All in all, the LELO Elise is a luxury vibrator that simply radiates class. It’s silky smooth exterior feels great inside the vagina, and the slight upward curve is designed to stimulate the g-spot. It can be used alone or with a partner for the ultimate pleasure experience. Although it’s the crème de la crème as far as sex toys are concerned, it’s actually very easy and fun to use. There’s a reason that some call the LELO Elise the “Cadillac” of vibrators. It’s an investment, but you’re worth it.

The Full LELO Elise Review

Customize your orgasm with the many different styles and speeds of the LELO Elise. Start off slow, and adjust the speeds or vibration patterns as you get closer and closer to climax. The controls do require some getting used to, but once you learn your way around (it doesn’t take long) you’re off to succumbing to waves of pleasure.

Probably the best thing about the LELO Elise is that it is super quiet. Unlike many similar vibrators, it just doesn’t “rattle” or create a lot of noise when you use it. In fact, someone could stand just outside the door and listen in without hearing a thing! While it’s not exactly small (which kind of kicks it out of the “discreet” department, but who cares?) it is designed specifically for a woman’s pleasure, and will easily hit just the right hot spots.

It looks a little large at first glance for women who are new to sex toys, but it’s so smooth that with a small amount of lube, it slips in easily without discomfort. Very small women may think that they can’t use a vibrator like this, but the LELO Elise can please women that are many different shapes and sizes!

Forget about batteries when using the LELO Elise. It simply plugs in to the wall charger that comes in it and takes just a couple hours to charge the first time. You may notice that the vibrations do get a little weaker as the internal battery drains down, but after the first initial charge, it only takes several minutes to charge up again.

Ladies that indulge themselves and buy the LELO Elise will definitely feel like they’ve been treated to something really special. This gorgeous sex toy takes masturbation to a whole new level! Guys, if you want to purchase that special lady in your life a vibrator and surprise her with it – but want to be sure that you’re not offending her with something trashy – this is your best bet. There’s not a girl out there that won’t “ooh” and “aah” over how luxurious this vibrator is!

10 Foreplay Faux Pas To Avoid

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Foreplay can make or break sex – if you do it wrong, you might not be getting any at all. Here are some “don’ts” to keep in mind when getting hot and heavy.

Sometimes, in our quest for better foreplay and better sex, we tend to get a bit carried away – to the point that we do things that TURN OFF our partners. Some of these mistakes are not just overzealousness but due to myths propagated in adult films and magazines.

Cleanliness Is Next To Godliness

Take a shower and be properly groomed. I’m not talking about going to a salon here. Just ensure that your breath and body are clean. Also, if you’re planning to do some ‘poking’, ensure that you cut your nails down. Nothing hurts more than long nails, or can be more disgusting (in case you poke into something and er… take out something with your nails! Yuck!)

The Sound Of Music

Put on some music. Foreplay can be a very embarrassingly noisy event (wet slapping noises, an escaped fart or two, etc.). To hide these sounds, drown them out with a bit of sexy music.

Don’t Overdo It

Don’t OVER-tongue him/her. Don’t ram your tongue into your partner’s eardrums or throat when kissing. It can be a complete turn off if he/she feels the need to tilt his/her head (from having clogged ears) or feels the need to gag.

Don’t Embarrass Your Lover

Don’t embarrass him/her. I once advised a client to ‘start foreplay early during the day’ and mentioned some of my ‘foreplay techniques’ like rubbing against each other, dry humping, footsie playing, etc. Well, I guess my client got carried away as she tried footsie playing with him during a business dinner. She thought she was being ‘naughty’, he thought it was annoying. Moral lesson? Know WHEN to make your moves.

Nipple Play

Don’t twirl, tweak and twist her nipples hard. No. Despite what you often see in porn films, she really doesn’t like it if you play too roughly with her nipples. They need to be caressed, not manhandled.

Be Aware Of Body Image Issues

Don’t be the one to request to turn the lights off. Almost all women have body image issues. So don’t do her a favor by asking to have the lights off. In contrast, she’ll immediately think you find her body offensive in some way. If she’s not exactly the ‘cover girl’ type, don’t over compliment her either because she’ll know you’re lying. Instead, just tell her you prefer women with ‘curves.’

When To Stimulate The G-Spot

Don’t go for g-spot stimulation if you don’t know what the hell you’re doing! Sure, g-spot stimulation can bring her almost sexual nirvana but it can be painful for her if you don’t know what you’re doing. I’m not saying don’t attempt it. Rather, be very attuned to how she responds to your fingers.

Don’t Ask A Man To Wear A Thong!

Don’t ask him to wear a thong. Ladies, despite what you hear about the ‘metrosexual man,’ don’t ask him to put on a thong. It really does turn most men OFF.

Don’t Smother Him

He’s given you oral sex and boy do you love it! You’re delirious with pleasure and because of this you… try to squeeze your thighs shut and/or start to grab his hair and knead his face against your crotch. Well, let’s see what you’re REALLY doing to him hear. With the first one, you’re like a praying mantis trying to squeeze and rip his head off. With the second one, you’re making it hard for him to breathe! Ease up girls. Show your appreciation the RIGHT way and he’s bound to lick you to the ends of the earth again.

He’s Not A Mind Reader!

Don’t expect him to read your mind. One of the worse things you can do during foreplay is to expect him to know exactly what you want to happen. With this attitude, you’re really setting yourself (and him) for a disaster. Let him know that you like what he’s doing to you, or better yet, TELL him EXACTLY what you want done. He’ll appreciate it and you get what you want. Win-win!

Increasing Sexual Tension

Foreplay is all about increasing sexual tension in a way that is pleasurable for you and your partner in more than just the sexual sense. It should be in an atmosphere of comfort and trust, and maybe even with a hint of sexual danger, and not be forced or selfish in any way.

Think about this the next time you engage in foreplay with your partner and you’re bound to have a great and sexually thrilling time!

The Female Orgasm Blueprint Review

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The Female Orgasm Blueprint is a comprehensive guide on how to give women orgasms a variety of different ways – through fingering, oral sex and more. The videos aren’t HD or very visually appealing, but the instructor, Jason Julius, doesn’t have to have fancy props (besides his incredibly realistic looking model vagina) and studio lighting to get his message across.

If you pay attention to what the Female Orgasm Blueprint has to offer, you’re going to learn not only how to give a woman an orgasm, but how to give her squirting orgasms, anal orgasms, multiple orgasms, blended orgasms and full body orgasms! This video course really puts you ahead of other men out there when it comes to sex. It’s a great “tool” to have in your sexual “toolbelt!”

The Good

The live demonstrations on how to finger a girl and oral sex are probably the best “take away” from the Female Orgasm Blueprint video course, because they actually show you what is being done – rather than just tell you in an e-book. There is an e-book companion if you’d rather read than watch videos, but you’re going to learn a lot more from being show exactly how to do something step by step than you are from a block of text.

Of course, not every part of pleasing a woman sexually has to do with her body or her anatomy – it has a lot to do with her mind too. You can have the best sex techniques in the world and if you don’t know how to relax a woman’s mind and get her turned on and ready for sex emotionally and intellectually, you’re not going to give her an orgasm, period. Jason Julius guides you through how to talk to a woman, what to say and how to mentally prep her for sex, so you’re taking advantage of all her hot spots – including her brain!

Jason Julius also covers everything from clitoral stimulation to oral sex to fingering to anal pleasure in the video course, so when you’re done, your bases are definitely going to be covered. You’ll be a master at giving women squirting, full body orgasms and the women you’re with will wonder just how you got to be so great in the sack!

The Bad

While the videos aren’t in HD and are more basic vs. visually thrilling, they get the job done. Yes, the video modules will require your full attention and you may even want to take notes – but that’s not necessarily a bad thing. The Female Orgasm Blueprint course is designed specifically for men who want to really learn how to give a woman an incredible orgasm. So what if the videos are a little plain? You’re learning here!

The information is priceless and if you put some time and effort into listening to the techniques and watching the demonstrations, you’re going to come out ahead of pretty much every other guy out there in the sex department.

The Bottom Line

The Female Orgasm Blueprint is a complete video course with coaching, pictures, diagrams and live technique demonstrations (on a model vagina) that surpasses other guides of its kind. You did read that part about live technique demonstrations, right? Very few female orgasm guides out there include LIVE technique demonstration. They may show pictures or discuss how it’s done, but some guys are still left in the dark.

Jason Julius understands that men are visual creatures and if they’re really going to learn something, they’re going to have to see it. The Female Orgasm Blueprint does just this, showing and teaching men how to give a woman an earth shattering orgasm every single time.

The Full Female Orgasm Blueprint Review

The Female Orgasm Blueprint is a specially designed video course with ten videos that not only tell you how to please a woman sexually, but also showyou. Ever been too shy to ask your girlfriend to show you how it’s done? Jason Julius does, and you’ll actually get to see where to put your tongue or fingers to give your partner the most pleasure possible. That’s probably the best part about this video course, because almost every other similar guide on how to give women sexual pleasure provides pictures and diagrams only, not live technique demonstrations.

How To Turn On Her Mind Too

Women also need their mind and emotions stimulated during sex, and like a true professional, Jason doesn’t leave that part out. He teaches you how to talk to women to get them relaxed and in a sexual mood before you ever lay a finger on her. With his techniques, you’re going to have your partner dripping wet before you even get started!

Get Good Results, Fast!

While many guides and video courses on how to please a woman sexually take time to learn, you can use the techniques in the Female Orgasm Blueprint the very same night to give your partner the best climax she’s ever had. Of course, the more you study the modules and watch the videos, the more you’ll learn. If you want to become a true sexual master, you’ll watch these videos all the way through and more than once.

However, if you want to get results NOW, you can definitely do that here. Watch a few videos, pick up a few techniques and use them on your girl that day. She will notice a tremendous improvement in your sexual technique right away! Then, continue watching the videos and going over the bonus material to build on your skills and impress her with something new every time you have sex.

She Can Use It Too!

If you have a partner that struggles to reach orgasm, even through masturbation, you may want to introduce the Female Orgasm Blueprint to your woman. She too can watch the video demonstrations and learn where she can touch her own body (and how to touch it) to give herself pleasure. You can also watch these videos together and experiment with the different techniques with each other!

How To Introduce Your Lover To Swinging Review

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How To Introduce Your Lover To Swinging is a guide that promises that you can make your partner agree to an open relationship in just four simple steps. This is a pretty big claim, so it’s normal to be a little wary of what this book might have to offer. While you might not convince your partner to swing with you TONIGHT, there are definitely some great take-aways here such as how to unleash your lover’s inner sex animal.

The Good

While you probably can’t use these tips to convince every woman that swinging is the way to go, there’s definitely some good advice buried within. How To Introduce Your Lover To Swinging stresses the importance of bringing up the topic in the right way – if you bring up the topic of an open relationship at the wrong time or in an offensive way, you’re not going to get very far. This guide illustrates the fact that you can get a woman to warm up to just about any new sexual idea by being very careful about how you bring it up.

The Bad

The promises that How To Introduce Your Lover To Swinging makes seem a little over the top – and they are. The steps outlined in this guide can definitely benefit a lot of people, however, there are still going to be some women out there (probably quite a few) that aren’t going to budge on their disinterest in swinging.

The Bottom Line

If you take How To Introduce Your Lover To Swinging with a grain of salt and don’t assume that you’re going to be able to completely, 100% change your partner’s beliefs about open relationships right away, you can definitely absorb some good information from this guide. You can learn a lot about the dynamics of monogamy and how having an open relationship just might work for you.

The How To Introduce Your Lover To Swinging Review

How To Introduce Your Lover To Swinging is a guide that promises that you can make your partner agree to swinging in just four simple steps. That’s a pretty big claim – can this book deliver?

This guide definitely contains some useful information, but it’s probably going to take a lot longer than promised to convince your partner to give swinging a go. However, that’s not to say that the information presented in the book isn’t going to work – it can. It’s just most likely going to take a lot longer than the book originally leads you to believe.

Some highlights in the guide include:

  • How to create an environment that makes your partner feel safe and loved so she can have fun during sex.
  • How to identify how your partner feels about an open relationship, so you can work to change how they think and feel about it.
  • Several methods of bringing up an open relationship that WON’T work.
  • The importance of bringing up the idea of an open relationship at the right time and in the right way.

You’ll also learn things like how to set the mood to play (if you don’t do these 3 things, it will never work) and how to maximize your lover’s enjoyment so they’ll feel great about it and want to do it again.

Even if it takes a lot longer than you anticipated to change how your significant other thinks and feels about an open relationship, this guide is a good buy if you want to know how to maximize your chances to successfully change their mind about it. You’ll also benefit from purchasing How To Introduce Your Lover To Swinging if you want to avoid making some of the more common mistakes that other guys make when they try to convince their lovers to be open minded about it.

Some bonus items that you’ll get with this guide are:

How To Turn Your Partner Into A Swinger Workbook

Keep notes about how much progress you’ve made in getting your partner to warm up to the idea of an open relationship. Jot down your feelings and thoughts as you journey through to the swinging lifestyle.

101 Romantic Ideas

Probably the best collective guide for romantic ideas on the web today.

Powerful Sex Foods And Stimulants

Learn how foods and herbs that are available at almost any grocery store can actually improve your libido. Use these foods to turn your partner on and help them release their sexual inhibitions as well.

How To Keep Her From Getting Bored With Sex

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Sex CAN get boring after awhile if you’re not working hard to introduce variety into your sex life. Here’s how to stop her from yawning when getting it on.

It’s Not Easy To Give Her The Big O

As you have probably noticed, making a woman orgasm is not as easy as they make it look on TV. The one spot that you’re sure will lead to climax is the size of an eraser, and it won’t get all worked up over just anything. You’re a man. You’re used to the penis which works like a rifle: load it, point it, shoot it.

A woman’s trigger is far more difficult than that. You have to find it, but you’ll never find it if you don’t prepare her first. Once you do find it, it’s inexplicably moving all over the place on you, and you get frustrated because all the blood you need to make your brain function correctly has rushed into your penis. How on earth are you supposed to please a woman if you can’t even figure out her body?

Keep Trying!

There is one technique that will help you through this: don’t give up! I’m not saying that every single time you must work until you make her orgasm. That can be irritating. However, if the both of you are consistently giving up on her orgasm, it’s red alert time, pal. The more she doesn’t reach climax, the more the idea of having sex with you becomes a chore.

She understands that sex is an important part of a relationship’s function, so she will do it even if she doesn’t get much out of it. Additionally, if she’s having sex with little pleasure, you may feel closer to her, but she will be frustrated with you. Perhaps the stereotype of the harpy wife isn’t so much to do with the fact that women are lunatics as it is that men grow lazy in the bedroom over time? How nice are you when you haven’t gotten off in months?

How To Get HER To Want It From YOU

Think about it this way: you know that working out is vital to your health. However, when you are out of shape, it’s all you can do to make yourself get to the gym. When you’re strong and fit, you like to work those muscles out, and you look forward to physical activity. It’s the same with sex.

If a woman’s clitoris is not getting a consistent work out, there is not much incentive to have sex. When she’s coming on a regular basis, then her clit can’t wait to be touched! If you give her the proper stimulation, she may actually be begging you for sex every once in a while!