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Sex Machines – Do Women Even Need Men Anymore?

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Sex machines have clitoral vibrators, dildos and even anal attachments – way more than any guy has in his “tool box.” Even if a guy has a huge penis, he still doesn’t vibrate, does he? So do girls even need guys for sex?

What Are Sex Machines?

Sex machines are often seen in porn – especially fetish porn or other types of specialized porn. They are machines designed to simulate intercourse, penetration, oral sex and more, often at much higher speeds than can be achieved through traditional sexual intercourse or oral sex. The most popular speed is about 160 strokes per minute, but many models can do up to 300 strokes per minute without ever breaking a sweat.

There are many different varieties of sex machine, ranging from those simple in design to ones that have an attachment that stimulates almost every hot spot imaginable. Some of the more unique sex machines are:

  • A custom designed model that simulates the licking of a clitoris with molded silicone tongues that are attached to a chainsaw
  • Models for double penetration
  • Models with attachments that spray water on the clitoris and penetrates the vagina at the same time
  • A vacuum powered clitoris pump or nipple stimulator
  • A spanking machine
  • Models that are designed to penetrate two women at once

What Can Sex Machines Do?

The majority of sex machines are going to be seen in porn, used by women who are alone and masturbating. They have a variety of uses, however. They can be used by a woman for female masturbation, or by men with a male masturbator attachment. They can be used for anal sex, clitoral orgasms, nipple play and even spanking and restraining. There are many different models of sex machines out there, so whatever you like, you’ll probably be able to find a machine that does it for you.

Sex machines can also be used by couples that desire more in their sex life than just what trying different sex positions and other things to spice up sex can offer. Men who entertain a cuckold fantasy will definitely love watching their wives get banged by a mechanical dildo, while women may enjoy watching their partners be slowly pleased with a soft and squishy masturbator.

Are They Really Better Than Sex?

Orgasms with sex machines are often harder and much more intense than an orgasm that is experienced during sex with a partner. Women who have never experienced an orgasm can have one with a sex machine, and women who have never experienced female ejaculation will often squirt during sex with a machine without even knowing they can. This is because:

  • Sex machines offer intense speeds that no human could possibly replicate
  • They offer steady stimulation at the same speed, which for a woman, is necessary for orgasm
  • They are designed specifically for firm g-spot stimulation, which can cause squirting
  • They never get tired and they’re always around when you want them
  • They offer just about any type of stimulation that you want
  • Creative folks, mechanics and those good with their hands can often create their own sex machines that are designed specifically for their pleasure

Nothing Can Replace A Partner’s Intimacy

While sex machines can really deliver when it comes to the physical stimulation department, that’s not always what guys and gals are looking for when it comes to sex and lovemaking. Women who enjoy a fast and hard orgasm during masturbation with a sex machine are still going to need that emotional intimacy that only a partner can give.

Sex machines can’t give hugs, tell a woman she’s beautiful or take her out to dinner. They can’t look into the eyes of their man while they give them a slow, deep blowjob and they can’t touch and kiss softly during foreplay. While sex machines do have a lot to offer, they lack the critical emotional and physical intimacy that comes from real sex with a real, live partner.

Should You Get A Sex Machine?

They are fairly expensive, especially if you choose to get the kind of high quality models that you see in porn films. However, if you have the space and privacy at home for one, they can be a fun investment for masturbation and erotic play with your lover.

Safety Tip

Never try to turn a nail gun, a drill, a saw or a chainsaw into a homemade sex toy. If something goes wrong – like the saw cuts through the dildo you shoved on it – you can really hurt yourself or someone else. Only use sex machines you’ve purchased from a reputable company and follow all recommended safety guidelines.

3 Foreplay Strategies That Will Leave Her Breathless

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Foreplay is the #1 thing that women need to have great sex. Learn these three foreplay techniques that will make her putty in your hands.

Women seem to have an amount of sexual self control that men just can’t wrap their minds around. They can tease and play to the point where you are sporting some serious blue balls, and she hasn’t even gotten wet. Guess what, you can beat her at her own game. You just need a good game plan. Here’s a quick guideline to driving her mad for you.

The Prize

Guess what, buddy, you are the prize, and you probably never hear that. Women’s magazines are inundated with advice about how to love yourself. It’s practically all Oprah talks about. However, men don’t often get the same encouragement. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t hear it. You have something to offer. Sex with you is unlike sex she has had or will have with anyone else. Keep this in your mind on the way to the bedroom. There is nothing more arousing than confidence. If you’re unsure or apologetic, she will sense it, and it will make everyone uncomfortable.

The Strategic Back-Off

So you are at the point where you are definitely going to have sex. A man’s first instinct is to get in there, and get the job done. Yes, this is fun. For you. For around three and a half minutes. However, you can make it better. For the both of you. Instead of ripping her clothes off and diving in penis first, ease into it. Pull the straps of her dress down, and kiss her shoulders. Then push her straps back up, and kiss her mouth. If you’re about to head downstairs, pause to nibble around her belly and inner thighs. A woman’s sexual experience is multi-sensory. Every touch, caress, and kiss sends shocks through her body. You can drive her to near insanity.  Isn’t it more fun for her to beg for sex?

The Payoff

The Payoff is really, really good sex. It’s not just good sex for her, but for you, as well. When you tease her, you are teasing yourself. You may want to lick her lips or suck her breast more than anything, but if you wait until the point where you just can’t hold off anymore, the taste of her mouth and her breasts is even sweeter. If you’re running your lips across her inner thigh, savoring her flesh before you pleasure her, then your own sexual energy builds and builds. The more it builds, the more it releases, giving you a more intense, satisfying orgasm.

3 Mind Blowing Sex Techniques

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Sex can drive her wild – IF you know how to do it the right way. A lot of guys don’t know their way around a girl’s anatomy, let alone actually use tried and true sex techniques to bring her to orgasm. Here are three ways to make a girl go crazy with sexual pleasure!

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The Art Of Teasing During Foreplay

A lot of guys rush in during sex, anxious to get to the main event. Intercourse feels so great for a guy, he automatically assumes that it feels that excellent for a girl without really thinking it through. However, skipping the foreplay stage can really lower the pleasure factor for a woman – even completely. So take your time with foreplay and tease your partner. Get her to really want and crave your touch! Here’s how:

Kiss Lightly Up Her Legs

Start at her feet and kiss and lick lightly all the way up her legs, as though you were going to give her oral sex – but don’t! Get your mouth close to her vagina, nibble or kiss a little on the inside of her thighs, and then make your way back down her legs again all the way to her toes. Do this a few times and she’ll be begging you to put your mouth on her!

You can even take the teasing up a notch by giving her a little oral sex but then backing off for a few minutes while you caress your partner’s legs. If you tease too much without any stimulation, she may get bored with it. However, with the right combination of teasing and actual touching, you can really drive your lover wild!

Take Your Lover By Surprise

Every woman gets tired of the same old same old when it comes to seduction. What worked before isn’t always going to work, so you have to keep looking for new ways to get your partner’s attention and get her turned on. Even things that seemingly worked like magic just a few months ago aren’t necessarily going to work again, so you always want to stay on top of your game with new ways to seduce and tease your lover. Here’s how to surprise your partner with an extra bold kiss:

The Door Slam

Grab your lover and slam them up against the door or a wall and start kissing her aggressively. The idea here is not to hurt her – so you don’t want to do this too hard or be too aggressive with your kissing – but to her by surprise. Slamming her against a wall when done the right way won’t hurt at all – it will be surprising and a little disconcerting, especially since it usually makes a loud noise. This will take her breath away, and then she will melt right into the kiss.

Making Eye Contact

Eyes are called the windows to the soul for a reason – great eye contact can help you bond emotionally with a woman in a way that nothing else can. Eye contact works great during flirting, but you can also take it up a notch and work eye contact into sex. A lot of people look away from each other during sex, or look somewhere else on their partner’s face instead of looking directly into their eyes. Eye contact during sex can be such a powerful way to intensify your lover’s orgasm. Here’s how:

Eye Contact During Orgasm

When your partner is about to reach orgasm, have her look directly into your eyes. If she tries to look away, stop stimulating her and doing whatever it is that you’re doing that is bringing her closer to the brink of climax. This forces her to look into your eyes, and you’re “rewarding” her with pleasure when she does.

At some point, she’s going to go off the edge and slip into the abyss of orgasm while holding eye contact with you. It can be an incredible experience for your partner to look into your eyes as you give her intense pleasure, and watching your partner so deeply while their body is wracked with spasms can be amazing for you too.

This may not happen exactly right on the first try, and it may take a little while to build your partner up to the point where she can look you in the eyes throughout the entire climax. However, the process of learning how to do it can be just as much fun as actually doing it!

Adam And Eve Vibrator Sampler Review

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The Adam And Eve Vibrator Sampler is an excellent choice for new sex toy users that want to experiment with different styles of sex toys to find out what they like best. It’s also a great option for women and couples who just want more than one toy to play with! There are lots of features that each product boasts, so it’s not likely you’ll get bored easily!

The Good

There are 3 different sex toys in the Adam And Eve Vibrator Sampler, so you get to choose from one of three items during masturbation, or be creative and mix and match them for an experience that is out of this world! By purchasing the sampler pack, you save quite a bit more money than if you purchase each of the vibrators individually, so it’s also an economical choice if you were going to purchase more than one vibrator anyways.

The Bad

Some of the vibrators in the sampler pack leave a little to be desired. All of them require batteries, so if you plan on using all three of these sex toys together, you’re either going to want to invest in a large box of batteries or a rechargeable battery system.

Not everyone is going to fall in love with every single one of the toys in the pack, but there is enough satisfaction included that women of all shapes, sizes and experience levels can find something (likely more than one thing) in the Adam And Eve Vibrator Sampler that they enjoy.

The Bottom Line

For the price, you just can’t beat getting 3 vibrators! The Adam And Eve Vibrator Sampler allows women and couples to experiment with many different styles of sex toys without investing a lot of hard earned cash. While they definitely would be better if they didn’t all require batteries (you may want to keep a small stockpile nearby unless you enjoy your vibrator dying right as you’re getting ready to have an orgasm), what you get is well worth it.

Use one, two or all three toys at the same time for lots of different experiences and new sensations. Pull the bullet out of the Personal Pleasurizer for more fun, or use the G-Gasm Delight for a prostate massage on him. Get creative and you can really make the most out of this great collection!

The Full Adam And Eve Vibrator Sampler Sampler Review

G-Gasm Delight Vibrator

This vibrator is an excellent tool both for g-spot and clitoral stimulation. It also makes a great prostate massager if you want to use it on him – that is, if he doesn’t mind that it’s pink! Made of hard plastic, it’s waterproof and easy to clean. This is one of those toys thatfeels clean after you wash it and stays that way until you use it again. A hard, firm toy is also generally what is required to massage the g-spot enough to produce female ejaculation, so this one is definitely your best bet if you want to try to experience a squirting orgasm.

The biggest two drawbacks of the G-Gasm Delight Vibrator is that the vibrations get weaker as you turn the toy upside down (which is required for insertion during masturbation but not if a partner is inserting it) and that the vibrations can be quite loud once you really get the thing going. However, the sound isn’t going to be an issue if you’re using it with a lover or you have plenty of privacy. It also requires batteries, so you may want to invest in a few packs or a rechargeable battery system.

The G-Gasm Delight Vibrator is slim enough for beginners, but shaped in a way that even advanced users will enjoy the g-spot sensations.

Eve’s Slim Pink Pleaser Vibrator

Eve’s Slim Pink Pleaser Vibrator is a thin, soft jelly dildo with easy to use controls and good g-spot stimulation. The shaft is actually flexible in the middle, so it curves up (or down) depending on your body’s shape and the way you have the toy inserted. The penis detail makes this a popular vibrator, and it’s also waterproof for lots of fun in the tub. While this may look a little intimidating, it’s actually smaller than it appears. It’s only 1″ wide, so it’s perfect for beginners who want to play with insertion.

Again, Eve’s Slim Pink Pleaser Vibrator requires batteries, so although it’s considered a “wireless” toy in the fact that it doesn’t have any cords, it’s not rechargeable at all. While the shaft can be used on the outside of the vagina for clitoral stimulation, it doesn’t provide for simultaneous g-spot and clitoris pleasure. There are textured nubs at the base of the shaft that are designed to stimulate the clitoris, however, they do a better job of stimulating the sensitive nerves around the entrance to the vagina.

This toy is easy to clean and fun to use, and it looks great too. It’s a perfect addition to this collection.

Intimates Personal Pleasurizer Vibrator

The Intimates Personal Pleasurizer Vibrator is perfect for beginners who want to experience simultaneous g-spot and clitoral stimulation. While advanced sex toy users may find that the shaft of the toy leaves some to be desired, the clitoral vibrations are strong, as the bullet vibe sits directly against the outside of the vagina.

The shaft of the Personal Pleasurizer is soft and flexible, so it may not provide some women with enough g-spot stimulation – however, it is well suited for virgins or women who have not experimented with much penetration or don’t desire it. The vibrations are also weak in the shaft, since they come only from the bullet vibe that sits farthest away from the tip. The entire toy is about 6″ long, and the insert-able portion is only about 3″.

The soft jelly nubs on the “cup” that nestles against the clitoris feel divine, especially when used with a little bit of lube – which is necessary if you’re using the insert-able part. All in all the Intimates Personal Pleasurizer Vibrator is a great choice for women who enjoy intense clitoral stimulation, but not a lot of g-spot pleasure.

Ogee Twistee G-Vibe

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One of the most flexible vibrators out there, the Ogee Twistee G-Vibe offers quite a bit not only to couples who desire to have more variety during sex, but also to women who want to experience multiple sensations without having to buy an entire line of sex toys. It has its drawbacks, however, it’s one of the most versatile sex toys out there.

The Good

The Ogee Twistee G-Vibe is extremely pliable, allowing you to twist and bend it into any desired shape. This vibrator offers simultaneous clitoral and g-spot stimulation, and its shape and flexibility allow for it to be worn during intercourse.

The Bad

Ogee Twistee G-Vibe’s pliability makes it difficult to keep it in one position, unless you hold it in place. The textured bumps are designed to offer a pleasurable sensation, but I found them to be a bit uncomfortable, and with as much as the stimulator moves around, it’s hard to keep the bumps in the right place.

Although it can offer enhanced female stimulation during intercourse, it doesn’t seem to do much for the male counterpart. In fact, with all of the extra lube and maneuvering involved in keeping things moving along, the moment can be lost, especially for him. Some men, however, really dig vibrations (who knew?) and this sex toy can really ramp things up for them.

The Bottom Line

If you’re looking for a flexible vibrator, the Ogee Twistee G-Vibe is a great option. You can bend it almost any way you want to, and this may come in handy for folks with hard to reach g-spots. Also, this is a great sex toy for couples to try. There aren’t many sex toys out there designed to be used during sex with a partner, but this one is. While there are a few things about the this vibrator that I wish I could change, overall, it’s a good addition to your toy box if you like variety.

The Full Ogee Twistee G-Vibe Review

The Ogee Twistee G-Vibe from Screaming O is easy to operate, and it features three speeds of vibration operated by a push button. It’s 7.75” in length and 1” in diameter at the widest point. The OGee’s architectural reference was not lost on me, as the shape of this adult toy very much resembles a Roman Ogee arch. It is made of a soft silicone-based material that is soft and smooth and phthalate free with textures designed to stimulate the G-spot and clitoris. It comes with a storage bag and a package of 3-tab batteries and retails for about $39.

I was really excited to try this product. The fact that it is advertised as being so pliable and easily molded into various shapes immediately grabbed my attention, and the fact that it could be worn during intercourse placed it that much higher on my list of “must-try” sex toys.

This vibrator had all of the makings to provide an unmatched experience, but unfortunately, for me, it didn’t live up to all of the hype. It was definitely flexible, and easy to mold into different shapes, but it also failed to maintain those new shapes. When using it alone, I was able to manage it pretty well, but using it with a partner was another story. It required constant attention from both of us, and it required the application of additional lube more than once.

My other complaint, is that the ridged and nubbed surfaces of the Ogee Twistee G-Vibe designed to give extra stimulation to the G-spot and clitoris seemed to draw my attention that much more to all of the slipping, sliding and moving around by giving that extra stimulation to all of the wrong places. It wasn’t an all together bad experience per se, but it may not be worth the effort for everyone.