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How To Get Her To Fall In Love With You

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Love is something every man wants but doesn’t always know how to get. Women naturally want to give love – it’s hardwired into their DNA. They imagine what it would be like to fall head over heels for a guy since they were little girls! Every girl wants to be swept off her feet, so here’s how to get any woman to fall in love, almost instantly!

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Mars vs. Venus

Men and women are different in almost every single way, and how love is perceived is one of them. The way guys and gals feel about love itself is so different that most men usually can’t even fathom what goes through a woman’s head when she’s falling for a guy. It can be difficult for him to know what to say or do to get a woman to swoon but there are lots of easy ways you can increase the chances that she will be attracted to you and fall in love.

What Is Love, Anyway?

Take a step back and examine the idea of love in general. Most people would define it as a deeply intense emotional connection with another person. However, that is only partly true – there is another definition of the emotion that explains what love is and why it makes us feel the way we do.

Literally, love is a series of complex chemicals released from your brain into your body that can affect several things such as your mood, emotions and energy levels. When these chemicals are released, they create the positive feelings of being “in love.”

How Do Women Really Feel About It?

Women spend their entire lives getting ready for love – it’s one of the most important things to a woman and it’s completely woven into the messages that society sends to women. Girls think about it often even from a very young age – they think about the man they’re going to marry or what it might feel like when they finally do go head over heels for a guy.

To be successful in getting a woman to swoon over you, you have to understand that for a woman, love is extremely important. So get ready to stack the cards in your favor and do a few things to increase the chances that she will fall for you.

Make Nice With Your Girl’s Friends And Family

To some degree, a woman’s friends and family have to approve of you for her to be interested in being your partner for the long haul. If you’re a total jerk to her family members or her friends, or do things that the people who are important to your woman disapprove of, you’re just stacking the deck against yourself.

It’s very difficult for a woman to love a man who her family or friends dislike, so make it easier for her by being on your best behavior around people who matter to your woman.

Open Up And Be Emotional

It’s important to make sure you come across as a strong, happy guy with a lot of confidence, however, you also can’t be afraid to show emotion. Women speak in the language of emotions, so hiding yours or acting like you don’t care about hers isn’t going to get you very far at all.

Make sure you show your girl that her emotions are important to you and that you’re not afraid to show your emotions when you are together. Making yourself a little vulnerable to her will make it easier for her to have strong feelings towards you.

Get To Know Your Girl

If you really want to develop a deep bond with a woman, take some time to really get to know her and who she is. Show real and genuine interest in the things that she likes and ask questions about what passions she has and what drives her to do what she does.

Make a habit to actually listen when she’s talking to you and make mental notes about what is really and truly important to your woman. This will show her that you actually do care and the things that mean something to her mean something to you too.

Give Her The Best Sex Of Her Life

Women associate emotion with sex – it’s just part of who they are and how they feel about sex. When they experience an amazing orgasm, they’re more likely to feel strong emotions towards the person they had sex with. Make yourself that person by giving your girl the best sex she’s ever had!

Learn to be an incredible lover. Take some time to read up on how to give a woman a sheet soaking orgasm – don’t think that just because you’ve been having sex for a while that you know everything there is to know about how to please a woman. There’s probably a lot you don’t know – so read up on how to really give a woman pleasure and then practice on your partner.

Be the best she’s ever had! Make sure that she has an orgasm first and pay attention to her body language to determine whether you’re on the right track or not. She’ll let you know what she likes and doesn’t like by the way her body responds to your touches.

Remember To Give Her Space

Girls are complicated – they need to feel close to a guy but at the same time, they need enough space to still feel like they’re independent. Make sure your girl has a life outside of your relationship. Encourage your girl to spend time with her own friends and do things that are fun without you. Take the opportunity to spend some time with your own friends and show your girl that you’re strong, confident and independent too.

You want to get close to a woman – both physically and emotionally – to get her to fall in love, but you want to make sure that you’re not too clingy or needy and that you’re giving your girl plenty of space as well.

Love Yourself First

Remember that the best way to get love from other people is to love yourself first and be someone who other people will naturally love too. If you don’t accept yourself and see yourself as worthy of other people’s love, other people aren’t going to see you worthy of it either.

When you have that inner strength and confidence, it’s incredible how many people are drawn to you and attracted to you. People naturally want to be around others who are happy and who love themselves. If you truly love yourself and accept yourself for who you are and what you have to offer the world, others (including women) will fall in love with you too.

Can Men Have Multiple Orgasms On Viagra?

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An orgasm is great for a guy when it happens once, but can it happen twice? Women are often billed as the ones who can have more than one climax, but the truth is that men can have more than one climax too. However, it’s not always easy for a guy to reach his peak twice in one sitting – or one night. Can Viagra help a man have multiple orgasms?

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So, It’s Possible For Men To Have Multiple Orgasms?

Yes! Men can have more than one climax and when they do, it can make sex extremely pleasurable. But don’t confuse ejaculation with orgasm, because for guys, they’re not always one in the same. Often, a climax happens along with ejaculation, but these events can occur separately too. A man can have a climax without ejaculating and he can also ejaculate without ever having reached climax.

For example, in men that have multiple orgasms, the amount of actual ejaculate that comes out of the penis during climax gets less and less each time. That doesn’t mean that he’s experiencing less and less pleasure – in fact, quite the opposite may be true.

What Does Viagra Actually Do?

Most people know what Viagra is and what it does – it is most commonly prescribed to men that have trouble with erectile dysfunction. Viagra can help a man achieve a longer, harder erection that lasts during sex. It creates an erection by working on certain receptors in the brain that stimulate the amount of blood flow to the penis. However, Viagra isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. As with any medication, there are side effects to using this medication, including:

  • Affecting the way the brain views and perceives colors
  • Headaches
  • Heart attacks
  • Erections that last more than four hours (which requires immediate medical attention)

Always be aware of the medications you’re taking and their possible side effects. Talk to your doctor about all the medications you’re on, ask if any of them react with each other and if there are any herbal or natural alternatives to anything that you’re taking.

Will Viagra Actually Help Men Have Multiple Orgasms?

Viagra doesn’t actually increase a man’s ability to have more than one orgasm in a single sex session. However, if a man is lasting longer and has a persistent erection, it gives him the opportunity to have sex and several climaxes in the same night.

By having sex several times in one night, a man will continue to have orgasms until the effects of the drug wear off. Again, this doesn’t necessarily mean he’s going to ejaculate every single time he reaches climax. After a few times, a man is going to run out of ejaculatory fluid and continue having orgasms even though there isn’t anything being released from his body. Keep in mind, however, that it only takes about twenty minutes for a man’s ejaculatory fluid to be fully replenished!

Tantric Sex

Men who want to experience more than one climax in a single sex session may be eager to try Viagra, but keep in mind that the dangerous side effects associated with the drug may not be worth the possible benefits. Talk to your doctor about what is right for you. Herbal formulas that increase blood flow to the penis may be an option for you, or you can try other forms of sex that can increase your chances of having more than one orgasm.

Tantric sex has been practiced for centuries and has been an effective way for both men and women to learn how to give and receive pleasure and build their climaxes. While learning how to control your pleasure and experience more than one climax takes time and effort, the results are well worth it – especially considering that learning how to do it through Tantric sex has no side effects whatsoever! Benefits of Tantric sex can include:

  • Learning how to have multiple orgasms
  • Learning how to delay orgasms
  • Teaching the body to experience pleasure in different ways
  • Becoming more intimate with your partner
  • Making masturbation better and more satisfying
  • No unwanted or unpleasant side effects
  • Improves overall sexual health and well-being

Remember To Relax And Have Fun!

Having sex is all about having fun and experiencing pleasure. If you’re hung up on forcing yourself to have multiple orgasms, the quality of your sex life is going to go downhill fast. You probably already know that if you’re stressed out or preoccupied with something, that you’re going to have trouble reaching climax in the first place – so remember to relax and let things happen naturally. Focus on having a great time and making your partner feel good, and everything else will fall into place.

Do Opposites Really Attract?

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A relationship is based on many things, including having things in common. However, can people who don’t have things in common be attracted to each other?

It’s hard to think that “opposites attract” would have become such a common saying if there weren’t some truth in it. What does it really mean, though? Can you be total opposites in every way and still make for a perfect love match? Or do some opposites work together better than others? If you find yourself attracted to someone who seems really different from you, how can you tell if it will be more than a passing fling?

What Is So Different?

The first thing to address is exactly what’s so different about you and your new love interest. Maybe you like different types of music or different movies and TV shows. Perhaps you love to read fictional novels and your new partner only reads nonfiction. Maybe he or she doesn’t enjoy reading at all. Some people would worry that, without common hobbies or interests, you will run out of things to talk about early on in your relationship.

That’s not necessarily true, however. Perhaps you’re both open-minded types who are generally curious. In that case, you might end up learning about a lot of new things through your partner, and vice versa. Your differences may end up being the very things that keep you the most interested in each other.

How Far Do Your Opposite Qualities Go?

What if your opposite qualities go beyond things like hobbies, though? What if your very personalities are what make you opposites? Sometimes that can be a good thing. If you’re a big talker and your partner is more of an observer and listener, you may find that you’re extremely well matched. If one of you is more of a control freak and the other likes to go with the flow, the Type B person may be perfectly fine with letting the Type A one make all the decisions.

In fact, that pairing would probably be far less disastrous than getting two bossy Type A folks together. Other opposite pairings probably wouldn’t fair as well. If you’re a neat freak and your new boyfriend or girlfriend is a slob, it’s highly likely you’ll be experiencing problems the minute you start living together. If you’re a goody two shoes dating a bad boy or girl, it may seem fun for now. As things get more serious further down the line, however, you may find that his or her unwillingness to shape up is incredibly unattractive.

Breaking It Down Logically

The best way to figure out if your opposite qualities can meld to form a happy relationship is to think about them logically. Try to imagine your new significant other’s traits in someone who you don’t find sexually attractive. Would you want to be that person’s friend, or would you dislike spending time with them? If the latter is true, then the only reason you’re really into Mister or Miss Opposite is that you find them physically attractive.

Aging happens, and they might not be so hot several years from now. You don’t want to stick with someone who you won’t enjoy talking to once their looks fade. If you do think that you’d still want to hang out with them, then your opposite traits and interests are working in your favor. People often wonder how a staunch Republican and a lifelong Democrat can fall in love, but it happens.

Whether they’re both impressed by their mutual passion for politics, or they both get a kick out of debating each other, there are certain kinds of people who can make their differences work for them. If you’re one of those people, you just might find that your perfect love match is your polar opposite.

Say Goodbye To Dating Anxiety – Forever!

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Dating is enough to make anyone apprehensive.  Most people worry about saying the right thing, wearing the right clothes and not making any mistakes – but the truth is, you don’t have to be worried about it at all! Here’s how to get rid of dating apprehension for good.

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Most Guys Suffer From Dating Anxiety

If you get apprehensive when you start talking to a girl, you’re not alone. The far majority of guys get a little freaked out when they approach women and they often stutter, fidget or choke on their words. They seem really awkward – even when they’re smooth when they’re around their friends. Even though most guys have trouble with getting flustered and flubbing up when they approach women, you don’t have to!

Understanding Basic Social Anxiety

A lot of people who have apprehension when “dating” may actually just be apprehensive socially. If you find yourself getting flustered most of the time when you’re in a new situation with new people, it may not necessarily be that you are apprehensive about women at all – you may actually have social anxiety. Signs of apprehension in all social situations might be:

  • Freezing up in social situations that do or do not include women
  • Difficulty talking to new people in general
  • Being limited in your ability to express yourself

Being apprehensive in new social situations isn’t uncommon, but it can definitely wreak havoc not only on your love life, but your life in general. Things that should be simple, such as striking up a conversation with a girl or asking a girl out can seem impossible. Other ways it can affect your life might be:

  • Problems talking with new people in general, regardless of their gender
  • Trouble making friends with new people
  • Can lead to sadness, depression and reduced satisfaction with life in general

Relax!

The first thing you need to do when you struggle with getting flustered in new social situations is to make an effort to consciously relax. Any time you start to feel apprehensive, take a few minutes to calm down and breathe in and out slowly. Remember that it’s going to be okay!

You can also practice yoga or meditation in your spare time to learn great relaxation techniques that you can use any time. Yoga and meditation help you learn how to calm down overall, but they also teach techniques that you can use in the heat of the moment to collect yourself and decrease your stress right away.

Practice Makes Perfect

A lot of guys struggle with approaching new people and starting a conversation, simply because they’ve not done it a lot and don’t have any confidence in themselves to do it. It’s normal to be apprehensive about doing something that you’ve never done before or don’t do often – so get out there and practice talking to people! The more you talk to people – both men and women – the less apprehensive you will be about striking up a conversation out of the blue with a new person.

If you focus on meeting new people and putting yourself in new social situations, you’re going to be uncomfortable at first, but you’re going to get used to it and soon it will be like second nature to you. There’s a reason all those “suave” guys are so suave – they go up to women and talk to them all the time!

Getting Help For Serious Anxiety

While most people are at least a little apprehensive in new situations, there are some people who struggle with anxiety all the time. The symptoms of clinical anxiety are similar to general apprehension in new social situations, but can be more persistent or severe. If you struggle with nervousness often, you may want to seek the advice of your doctor or another medical professional. They can help you:

  • Find a counselor or someone to talk to about your feelings
  • Recommend medication for some people
  • Suggest other treatments that may help you lead a more normal, happy life

It’s All About Having Fun

Remember that dating is all about putting yourself out there and having fun. Yes, you risk getting rejected and the more women you approach, the more you might get rejected. However, think of it this way – learn to appreciate any successes you have, no matter how small they are. If you ask out twenty girls and only one of them says yes, don’t think of it as getting nineteen refusals. You have a date soon! Forget all the “no’s” and go get ready for a really great first date.

The Dirty Talk Handbook Review

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The Dirty Talk Handbook is a complete guide on how to talk sexy to a man and have him begging for more in just minutes. It’s written by a man, so there’s no question about what phrases REALLY turn a man on – and which ones don’t. This book is easy to read and starts with the basics, so it’s a perfect guide for ladies who have never experimented with dirty talk before.

The Good

Unlike many dirty talk guides, The Dirty Talk Handbook offers a number of pages with actual, real life examples of dirty talk that any woman can use on her man. That’s not the best part though – each phrase is written three ways. Pick the phrase that you want to use depending on your mood, whether you’re feeling sweet and sexy or down and dirty.

The Bad

Advanced users may find the introduction to The Dirty Talk Handbook a little long winded, simply because this guide really is geared towards girls who are just getting their feet wet with talking naughty to their partners. Some of the phrases on the example pages might work well for experienced women, but that’s about it. Also, there is SOME hardcore talk (depending on your views of hardcore) but most of it is mild to medium in spice.

The Bottom Line

The The Dirty Talk Handbook is an excellent beginner’s guide for ladies who want to understand more about dirty talk, why it turns men on and how to do it the right way. Well worth the money not only for the expert tips and unique dirty talk examples, but also for all the bonus material you get when you download the product!

The Full Dirty Talk Handbook Review

The Dirty Talk Handbook is a beginner’s guide for ladies who want to explore talking dirty in the bedroom and driving their men absolutely wild! Men love sex – they love to see it, feel it and hear it. They love to have every single one of their senses involved in the act of having sex! It’s easy for a man to see and feel sex, but he’s not going to hear it unless you start making some noise. Dirty talk is a way of engaging their sense of hearing into sex, as well as involving their imagination by describing things that turn them on!

While it sounds simple, a lot of girls struggle with the concept of how to dirty talk without feeling self-conscious. This guide eases girls into the idea of talking dirty to their partners, slowly introducing them to the concept by discussing why men love it and how you can use it to improve your sex life.

There are seven simple secrets to delicious dirty talk according to The Dirty Talk Handbook, and the author wastes no time in delving into these tips so you can get started working on your game right away. Newbies will appreciate the in depth discussion on the overall concept of talking dirty, however, girls who have tried it before may be too excited to stay there and will probably skip ahead to the juicy stuff.

That doesn’t mean that this book isn’t good for advanced dirty talkers though – because there are a lot of really good tidbits inside that can help any woman improve the skills she already has. For example, ladies will learn to control their tone of voice, their facial expressions and their body language to make it even more powerful.

One of the biggest problems that girls have with talking naughty in the bedroom is knowing beforehand what their guy wants to hear. What if they say something wrong, or embarrass themselves in some way? Thankfully, this guide addresses the huge problem of knowing what to say at the right time by teaching a woman to determine what kind of personality their guy has – and thus, what naughty things he wants to hear come out of her mouth.

Of course, probably the best thing that this guide has to offer is actual examples of what you can say. What is unique about these examples is that the author actually puts a three different spins on the same phrase, so you can choose whether to say something in a slightly nicer way, or let it all out and be as naughty as you can. There are tons of real life examples (some sound a little corny, but most of them are either super sweet or really hot) and even mock conversations that illustrate how you might say a particular phrase.

If you don’t want to use the author’s pre-made suggestions on what to say, there’s a section with several “hot” words you can use to build your own dirty talk phrases. This section could be a little bigger for more variety, however, it’s definitely a decent sized list that will get you started.

Some priceless things you will learn from this guide are:

  • How to make him constantly want more. And more. And more.
  • How to avoid saying the wrong thing and getting embarrassed.
  • How to make it sound completely natural, like you’ve been doing it forever.
  • How to make your words more powerful with body language and facial expressions.
  • How to take it to the next level with role play ideas.

Overall, The Dirty Talk Handbook is a worthwhile investment for any woman who wants to try dirty talk, but especially for ladies who are new to the concept. You’ll definitely utilize almost all the information in the book – and you can also get some useful information out of the many bonus products that are included with the download:

  • Pillow Talk 101
  • How To Have Sizzling Phone Sex
  • The Top 100 Sex Secrets
  • 1o1 Romantic Ideas
  • The Secret To Great Sex
  • Classic Kama Sutra
  • The Guide To Great Road Head