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5 Sexting Phrases That Will Make Him CRAZY!

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Sexting is an excellent way to initiate foreplay. With today’s technology, it’s easier than ever before to have a private conversation with your lover where you can say anything to each other – and it’s for your eyes only! While sexting is a great way for men to connect sexually with women (since women are language oriented and all), it’s also a great way for women to connect sexually with men. Sure, men are visual creatures and all, however, if you say the right things, you can get him lusting after you and thinking about boning you all night long by just pushing a few buttons.

1. “Thinking About You Makes Me So Wet!

This phrase is a great starting point when you are first introducing sexting to your lover. It’s seductive and sexual without being too kinky or over the top to start with. Guys need a little mental warm up time too, and just like a woman, your man might be taken aback and possibly a little turned off if you just jump right in instead of easing him into the conversation.

Using the word “wet” actually gets him thinking and visualizing you being wet. Since men are visual creatures, this works much better than saying something like, “Thinking about you gets me so hot!” He can’t visualize hot very well, but he can visualize you being dripping wet just for him perfectly!

2. “I Can’t Wait To Get My Lips Around Your….”

Insert your favorite name for his member here and you’ll instantly get him thinking about you giving him an incredible blowjob. In fact, he’ll probably mentally reference the best blowjob you’ve ever given him, because that’s the one he likely remembers the most.

When he responds to this (which he definitely will!) you can take it a step further and begin elaborating on your favorite blowjob techniques. Describe to him in detail what you want to do and you’ll drive him absolutely nuts! He’ll start imagining everything you’re describing and by the time you actually do get home and get your lips around his you-know-what, he will be so crazy with desire that he may just explode right away!

3. “I’m Such A Naughty Girl For Thinking About You Like This”

He loves imagining you as a naughty girl. Even if you’re pretty kinky, you can pretty much guarantee that he’s already imagined you doing naughtier stuff than you already have. If you’re very vanilla, it’s a sure bet that his fantasies include you shedding your good girl image just for him.

By telling him that you’re naughty for thinking about him “like this,” you plant the idea in his head that you’re thinking very very sexy things – but by not telling him exactly what, you’re allowing his imagination to take over. When his imagination takes over, he’ll get so worked up thinking about you thinking about him that he’ll pretty much rip your clothes off you as soon as you walk in the door.

4. “I Want To Be BAD Tonight!”

Again, this phrase gets him thinking about you being naughty and allows him to indulge in his deepest, darkest fantasies with you. You’re still not telling him exactly what you want to do or how “bad” you want to be, because you want his mind to fill in the blanks. You’ll leave him wondering about and anticipating what you have planned – just be sure not to let him down.

If you suggest that you are naughty or want to be bad, make sure you follow through on your sexting innuendo with the appropriate actions. You don’t necessarily have to get as freaky as he might like, but make sure you do something new that’s a little outside your box so he doesn’t feel let down.

5. “I Want To Take All Of You In Me”

When you use this phrase during sexting, you’re suggesting that he has a big penis, just not in so many words. This plays to his ego and makes him feel great about himself, and he’ll love the idea that you feel like he’s bigger too.

You’ll also get him thinking about penetrating you – which he thinks about all the time anyways – but you’ve just added a little more fuel to his thoughts. He’ll begin imagining having sex with you in tons of different ways and sex positions, effectively getting him wildly turned on by the time he gets home and slips in between the sheets with you!

5 Simple Things To Help You Get In The Mood For Sex

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Getting in the mood is can be a challenge for a lot of women. If you have trouble getting into the mood or you experience low libido, it can be a constant challenge to put yourself into that frame of mind.

No matter what your situation is, it’s important for you to realize that there are a lot of women that have trouble getting into the mood. This can cause problems in the relationship and even lead to cheating in extreme cases.

Here are a few very simple things that can help you get in the mood for sex.

#1 Take A Bath To Get In The Mood

It is common knowledge that women feel much more comfortable and sexy after they have bathed. Taking a hot bath is one of the best ways to put yourself in the mood. Lower the lighting and put on some soft music while you take a bath. One of the biggest factors of low libido is the outside world. Stress and work can easily put a damper on your sex life.

When you take a bath you will be relaxed and the soft music will take all of your problems away. Make sure that the water is just above what you would like it to be. This way you can stay in longer without having to run more hot water into the bath. Wash yourself so that you feel clean and sexy. You should also tell your partner not to disturb you. Having alone time will do wonders for getting yourself into the mood.

#2 Have A Date To Get In The Mood

With busy lives, work schedules and kids it hard to get in the mood. Having a date night with your partner is an excellent way to bring the spark back into the relationship.

Go to a restaurant that you have never been to before and order for each other. Make it a point not to talk about work or the kids. Anything that puts a strain on your libido or your sex life should not be brought up during your date. Escapism is used for a lot of different types of stress and this exercise can really benefit you.

Getting into the mood is about letting go and being comfortable with your partner. So make sure that you are allowing yourself to have fun on your date.

#3 Watch A Porno To Get In The Mood

Porn is one of the most common ways for women to put themselves in the mood. The digital age that we live in has made it even easier to get porn. If you’re not offended by porn, go ahead and queue up your computer. Find a video that turns you on.

Some women are turned on by lesbian porn while others like to live out their fantasies in the BDSM world. All women are different so you need to find something that you like. Experiment a little. Watching a few different short videos can really put you in the mood. Variety is the spice of life so treat yourself. This is also something that you can do with your partner to get in the mood.

#4 Get A Makeover To Get In The Mood

Once of the most common things that women do after they have a bad break up is get a makeover. A makeover can be an excellent way to boost your self-confidence and make you feel more sexy. There are a lot of women that suffer from low libido because they have little to no confidence.

Knowing that you look great is directly correlated to feeling great. When you upgrade your perception of how you look will be able to get into the mood much faster much more often. Consider changing your hair, buying some new clothing or getting real advice on how to apply your make up.

If you really want to shake things up, buy some new lingerie for your boyfriend or husband. Watching their jaw drop when you appear in your new lingerie can be enough to put you in the mood.

#5 Sext Each Other

Sexting is a very common practice with couples these days. The best thing about sexting is that it can be done virtually anywhere. Before you go home, sext your boyfriend or husband. Ask him to tell you about all of the dirty things he wants to do to you. The fact that you can’t do those things right then and there will be enough to get you in the mood, but the anticipation of him doing them could be more than you can handle.

Ladies: How To Reach Orgasm During Intercourse In Just 5 Minutes (Or Less)

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Could it really be THIS easy to reach orgasm during intercourse in just 5 minutes or less with the man you’ve been with for years.

The answer is “Yes”, and if you want to eliminate all the frustration, exhaustion, and heartache that can come from failing to reach the orgasm you really want and start experiencing fast, easy, and consistent orgasms every time you make love… regardless of your past attempts… AND… regardless of his “lovemaking skills”, then you’ll want to read the rest of this article.

Surprising Facts About Female Orgasms

  • It takes most women less than 4 minutes to reach orgasm when masturbating
  • A huge number of women fake their orgasms, because they know they just can’t keep up with their man
  • Faking orgasms can be utterly detrimental to the health of your relationship
  • Stressing out over sex and orgasms can actually make you lose vaginal lubrication, making an orgasm even more elusive
  • It IS possible to have an orgasm during sex in less than 5 minutes, even if you never have before
  • It IS possible to have an orgasm every time you have sex with your partner.

Click here to take a very short quiz to see if this is possible for you!

You’re Not Alone – Most Women Have Difficulty Reaching Orgasm Through Sex….

Nearly all women have had the experience of trying to reach orgasm through intercourse… trying out many tips and techniques with their partners… failing time and time again… with no orgasm in sight… only to feel like giving up and accepting that “that’s how women are”.

And what’s worse… because sex is not exciting or pleasurable to you, and your orgasms takes too much work… sex becomes a chore and you don’t feel like “doing it” anymore… however, your partner still feels like having sex… and sometimes – out of sexual frustration – he has to resort to pressure you to give him release… and maybe make you feel guilty for not wanting sex as much as he does… and you can feel its STRAINING YOUR RELATIONSHIP.

You may or may not know this already, but your inability to achieving orgasm during can ruin your relationship and your self-esteem.

This type of situation makes it easy to feel pessimistic towards having a sex life in general… and can definitely lead you to believe that ALL MEN are sexually selfish… and there’s some problem with you because you can’t reach orgasm consistently during sex… if at all.

The 3 Deadly Mistakes Women and Men Make During Sex That Kill Their Chances of Ever Reaching An Orgasm

Mistake #1: Focusing on Long Penetrative Sex To Achieve An Orgasm

Long, drawn out lovemaking sessions can be great in any relationship, but more often than not, it’s impractical, takes too much time and too much damn work. He has to try to “last” all night and hold himself back from ejaculating during sex. He’ll try to distract himself until you’re at the point where you’re ready to orgasm. After all the preparation and hours of pumping – you finally climax.

Mistake #2 : Relying On A Man To Give YOU An Orgasm

Society has the common view that a man should GIVE a woman an orgasm. It’s no surprise that this is a standard belief. Men are supposed be the “gentleman” and pay for dinners, open doors, “take care” of their woman while a woman is…well, left in a more passive role. Even our anatomy hints that men should be “giving” it to women. The man is the “giver” because he has a penis, and the woman is the “receiver” because she has a vagina. And to top it off, there are many books (good and bad), magazine articles, and other forms of media instructing men on how to become better lovers, and GIVE their woman an orgasm. While there is nothing wrong with being a man who is “great” at sex, it takes a man who is dedicated to improving his skills in bed and become a better lover for you. However, this is simply not the case with most couples.

Mistake #3 : Thinking That Something MIGHT Be Wrong With You If You Can’t Orgasm

This is the big mistake a lot of women make. Listen, I know it’s easy to think this way. It’s easy to feel down and depressed if you try something and it doesn’t work, like orgasming through sex. And it’s not your fault. We as women aren’t taught how to climax during sex, but in reality, we SHOULD be able to reach climax just as fast, if not, FASTER than men!

The good news is that reaching orgasm quickly and consistently is easy if you know how to do it.

Experience Faster, Quicker & More Consistent Female Orgasms Each & Every Time You Make Love!

Our good friend Jessica Perez has an amazing guide that will help you reach orgasm during intercourse quickly and easily every time!

It’s called “Faster Female Orgasm – How To Orgasm During Sex Quickly, Easily And Guaranteed“.

Here are some great things you’ll find out in Faster Female Orgasm – How To Orgasm During Sex Quickly, Easily And Guaranteed:

  • Detailed descriptions of female anatomy so a woman can understand how her body really works
  • Directions for direct and indirect clitoral stimulation, as well as what NOT to do when touching your clitoris
  • Directions for G-Spot stimulation during sex
  • How masturbation can treat sexual dysfunction
  • How to masturbate properly so you can begin to climax during sex
  • Exactly which techniques to apply during sex so you can orgasm harder and faster
  • Why you need to TURN OFF YOUR VIBRATOR
  • How to have blended orgasms, simultaneous orgasms and multiple orgasms
  • Detailed descriptions of sexual positions to use to set yourself up for orgasm success from the start
  • How fantasizing and involving your brain during sex can help you climax
  • How to train your man to do what you like during sex, not what he thinks you like
  • How to love yourself and become a sexual woman

The information in this eBook will save you years of time, heartaches and wasted energy. Most women go through their entire lives never learning how to reach orgasm during sex… and… getting what they truly want from their relationships. But it doesn’t have to be this way.

You at least owe it to yourself to check it out… Get more info here: Faster Female Orgasm

Will it work for everybody? Of course not.

But let me ask you this… What if this knowledge helps you reach just ONE orgasm during sex with your boyfriend or husband? Just ONE.

Or what if it helped you turn around a boring, painful or non-existent sex life with the man you’ve been with for years?

What would that be worth to you?

Now ask yourself… What if there’s even a chance that this book can actually teach you how to orgasm during sex, make you want sex more often… and… make him want to be with you forever? What if you really can learn how to orgasm at the same time as your lover… achieve a mutual orgasm you’ve always wanted and finally experience that loving, passionate relationship you deserve?

How much would that be worth to you? A thousand dollars? Ten thousand? More? For most people I know, it would be priceless.

Just the POSSIBILITY of having this kind of special once-in-a-lifetime sex would be worth at least checking out the material.

I know that when that time comes for you, you’ll look back on this moment and be glad you made this investment in yourself.

This much is for sure… Sometime in your life you’ll feel like you’re just about to climax while making love to your man. Maybe you’ve already felt this and he already can tell you’re just about to scream.

The question is, do you know exactly what to do to push your feelings and emotions over the top and finally orgasm? Or are you going to ride this pleasure-plateau never hitting the climax and never know how you will feel and how he will feel.

Do you want to even consider the chance that you’ll be sexually frustrated and heartbroken again and again and never get the help and answers you need. Or do you want to get this area of your life IN CONTROL and learn what works – so you can make the most of your time, energy, and your heart

Get your copy of Faster Female Orgasm and get ready to start loving sex again!?

Still not sure, Read our Review of Faster Female Orgasm.

8 Handjob Techniques That Will Turn His Knees To Jelly

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A handjob can be even more satisfying than a blowjob for a guy if you do it the right way. Check out these handjob moves that will leave your lover breathless!

1. Involve His Balls

Use any stroke that involves just one hand in combination with strokes that involve pulling, tugging, holding, cupping and lightly massaging your partner’s scrotum.

2. Start The Fire

Start at the base and pull gently upward while twisting (but not too hard) as if you were trying to start a fire with a stick of wood.

3. Thumb Massage

Hold your partner’s penis firmly in both hands and use your thumbs only to massage your partner’s shaft and head. You can do this in strokes or circles, depending on what your partner likes best.

4. Stimulate The P-Spot

Utilize the above technique (one-handed stroke combined with the other hand massaging another area) on the perineum. This will create delightful sensations between his “G-spot” and his penis. This move will bring your partner to orgasm quickly and it is a great move to use while he finishes off. If your partner enjoys this move, you can use it as the core of your genital massage.

5. Squeeze The Lemon

With a well lubed hand, cup your hand on top of his penis head and twist like you were squeezing a lemon on an old fashioned juicer.

6. Play With His Foreskin If He’s Uncircumcised

If your partner is uncircumcised, have fun with his foreskin. Massage it, pull it gently and twist it around to create a variety of sensations. Ask him to play with it in front of you so you can see what he likes to do with it.

7. Side To Side

While sitting in front of him on the bed – put both of your hands out as if you are going to “clap” and place one on each side of his penis – this side to side flat palmed action will be a different sensation and allows you both full view of his rock hard penis. It’s different for him from the way he would normally pleasure himself with his own hand.

8. Dry Massage

For a different approach, try a dry massage. Your partner may find this uncomfortable, however, especially if the skin around his penis is very tight and does not allow for much movement. This only works with light touches. When stroking his penis in a dry massage, just hold the skin tight enough so when you move your hand up and down the skin does not move but rather the inside of the penis moves. Men don’t always have the luxury of having lube on hand when they masturbate and they do just fine with a dry jerk off. It just takes a gentler touch.

7 Ways To Rekindle Your Girlfriend’s Love For You

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Are you you frustrated that your relationship doesn’t have the magic and romance that it once had? Scared this may affect or eventually end your relationship?

You’re not alone. Living with the same partner for a long time can become stable and comfortable, and, as a result, can make things stale and lose the spark that made your relationship so special in the first place. Here are some simple, fun and creative ideas to reignite that magic:

Send Her A Unique Gift At Work

Get a piece of paper and some crayons. Draw a bright childlike picture with a smiley sun and two stick figures holding hands. Add labels with your two names pointing to the stick figures. Write ‘I Love You’ inside a heart.

Next get a large formal envelope. Place your drawing inside and type up a formal address label of your partner’s workplace, such as: “For the immediate and urgent attention of: Rebecca Jones, Level 20, Collins & Smith Solicitors, New York.” Mail it to your partner so they receive it in the middle of a busy day.

Have Fun With Water

On a hot summer’s day, buy two large water pistols and take them to the beach with you. Pull them out and throw one to your girlfriend and then have a huge water fight. If you’re lucky (and you probably will be) your lover will want to to take advantage of the fact that you’re both wet and turned on! Find a good hiding place and get your public sex on.

Bring Back Childhood Memories

Contact your partner’s family and ask if there was anything she always wanted when she was a little girl. For example, if she always wanted a porcelain doll, buy one for her birthday. She will not only appreciate the gift, but also the fact that you were thoughtful enough to find out what she always wanted.

Become Kids Again

If you are walking by a park, visit the swings and give her a ride. Might bring back happy memories from childhood.

Organize A Backyard Picnic

Spread a picnic blanket on the ground and get together some snacks, chocolates and champagne. Lie down on the blanket with your partner and gaze up at the stars together.

Show Her You’re Grateful For Her

Leave a long-stem rose where your partner will find it, with a note on it saying: “Thank you for coming into my life.”

Spice Up Your Lovemaking

Probably the most profound way to rekindle the romance in your relationship is to spice up your lovemaking. Surprise your partner with a little gift after you make love, try new sex positions, learn to give your partner an erotic massage before or after, or just spend some time staring into each other’s eyes and caressing their bare skin before making love.

Many people underestimate the power these little things have on a relationship. If things are rough in your relationship don’t wait for your significant other to do something. Take action. Make the first step towards mending your partnership. It’s all about passionate love. Show it.