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Mastering Her G Spot Review

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Mastering Her G Spot is yet another guide claiming to teach men the secrets of giving women incredible, earth shattering g spot orgasms. However, the one difference between this book and all the others is that this one actually teaches you those secrets! Amazingly well done, visually intriguing and packed with information, Mastering Her G Spot rises far above the rest in quality and quantity.

The Good

Like all of Gabrielle Moore’s guides, there is no shortage of information here! Mastering Her G Spot is laid out in an exceptionally organized format, is very visually intriguing and is easy to skim. You can simply scroll to the section you’re looking for, or read through the whole book (but probably not in one sitting!) Gabrielle covers pretty much everything there is to know about the g spot here, and you’re not left for wanting much when the book is through. The information is presented in a well formatted, easy to digest manner, making it easy for anyone to benefit from.

The Bad

There’s not much bad to point out with Mastering Her G Spot, because the book is so well put together and thorough. If you’re looking for a short, concise tips guide, then you might be disappointed at the volume of this one, but you’re more likely to be happy that you got what you paid for – and much, much more!

The Bottom Line

Mastering Her G Spot is one of the better done g spot guides out there. It’s perfectly put together and easy to read, so you can get every tidbit of information without having to work too hard for it. With both beginner’s and advanced tips, sex positions, foreplay techniques and how to use sex toys (all of which are specifically related to inducing g spot pleasure), anyone who is looking to either learn the basics to help them get started or brush up on already learned skills will truly enjoy this guide. This is one of the books you keep on hand to reference back to again and again!

The Full Mastering Her G Spot Review

The g spot is an elusive area of spongy tissue inside a woman’s vagina that when stimulated, is said to give a woman intense (and sometimes even squirting!) orgasms. The problem is, a lot of men can’t seem to find this little guy and therefore their partners often end up going without the incredible pleasure they know they can have (and have had before).

Many guides on how to find the g spot and what to do with it when you do are lacking in many areas. Mastering Her G Spot, however, is lacking in none. From the well written introduction that eases you into g spot theories and techniques to the actual red hot, play by play techniques, you’ll learn everything you could possibly want to know about the g spot and in all honesty, probably more. The abundance of information here is almost unreal, especially considering that lots of scientists nowadays are suggesting that the g spot doesn’t even exist. Gabrielle Moore is here to prove them wrong!

While many people may underestimate the need for good formatting and enticing pictures in a sex tips guide, they are actually exceptionally important aspects of a good book – or else no one is going to get through it! A reader (especially if he is male) must feel visually, emotionally and mentally intrigued if they’re ever going to get past the first few pages. No worry about that with Mastering Her G Spot – there is plenty of eye candy, bold headlines and easy to read “blurbs” to keep your eyes and brain busy while you learn.

Fortunately, this is also one of the few guides that doesn’t beat you over the head with female anatomy. Learning where the g spot is may be one of the times where visualizing a woman’s anatomy is exceptionally important, however, the few diagrams are very unique and well done, and they show you exactly where to go.

Another awesome aspect to Mastering Her G Spot is that the information is not only going to help you discover your partner’s secret orgasm zone, it’s also going to help you understand your relationship better. (Guys who just want to learn how to access the g spot so they can bang a bunch of women are going to find all the relationship stuff tiring, but oh well! The far majority of men who use this book are going to benefit in multitudes from it). After reading, you will understand more about your partner, her sexual arousal, her body, your body and your intimacy with each other than you ever thought possible. Although Mastering Her G Spot focuses specifically on g spot pleasure, this guide is absolutely going to improve your sex life overall!

As you continue to read through the chapters of Mastering Her G Spot, it becomes clearer and clearer that Gabrielle Moore really did her homework for this one. Between elaborating on her personal experiences, discussing surprising statistics, and presenting information gleaned from her thousands of subscribers, you can tell she really knows what she’s talking about.

And who wants to read a sex tips book from someone who doesn’t have a clue?

Simultaneous Orgasm Vs. Taking Turns – The Winner Will Surprise You!

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Simultaneous orgasm has long been touted as the be all and end all of great sex. But can you have incredible sex without a simultaneous orgasm?

A destructive myth running rampant among couples today is the belief that: Great sex has to be characterized by simultaneous gratification.

A lofty standard, don’t you think?

The pursuit of simultaneous orgasms, as one consequence of this mindset, has partners on the ever frustrating hunt for this phenomenon. But no matter what they say, synchronized orgasms are rare, and only a few couples ever achieve them on a consistent basis.

How This Myth Can Ruin Your Sex Life

This can create a stigma for the partner who climaxes first – whether it’s the man or woman – especially when they think that if sex is a race, and orgasm, the finish line, the ideal is for both partners to finish together. After all, they started at the same time, right? So they should climax as a couple!

However, the physical and psychological differences between men and women make this rarely achievable. Men are aroused faster than a speeding bullet, women are not so. Penetration has more orgasm potential for men than women – who have their clitorises only indirectly stimulated by the invading penis. This usually leads to the man peaking first. And if ‘great sex’ for you means simultaneous climaxes, then you’re going to have some problems.

Sexual syncronicity doesn’t necessarily mean the couple orgasming exactly at the same moment. Climaxing together may be highly sought after, but the practical and more realistic way of doing things is to take turns!

Why It’s Better When You Take Turns

Sexual pleasure needn’t be concurrent for partners, a give & take view is much better — with a time for giving and a time to be on the receiving end.

Yes, both pleasures may coincide and there are lots of instances when this happens. Kissing and hugging are examples. Enjoy them, but don’t make them the standard. Pleasure doesn’t have to happen simultaneously; sometimes it’s even better that way.

Take the ‘69’ position for example. Though erotic, it’s frankly not so effective because so much is going on at once. Your brain has to decide if it’s going to focus on the pleasure received, or the pleasure given.

TAKE TURNS. When you both try to lead and put on a show, sex will feel like Greco-Roman wrestling. Sex is EQUAL & MUTUAL, but not necessarily simultaneous. There will surely be moments when you do most of the work and she’ll just lie there, with eyes closed, enjoying you. Other times, you’ll be still and she’ll be riding you like a veteran cowgirl.

Switching off gives both the chance to completely focus on what’s happening. When she’s receiving, she can just relax as your tongue explores her innermost sanctum. She doesn’t have to do anything while you’re at it. Although you’re getting satisfaction by seeing her enjoyment, your role is primarily that of a giver. And when it’s her turn, she can focus on what she wants to do, instead of giggling or writhing about as a result of your maneuvers.

3 Scorching Hot Valentine’s Day Ideas

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Valentine’s Day is here and it’s time to heat things up! While your girl probably wants things to be ultra romantic, you’re ready to set your sex life on fire. Here are some excellent sexy suggestions to get you started spicing things up!

Blindfold, Restrain And Feed Her

This is a great sex game to play on Valentine’s Day because you can do it so many different ways and you really don’t need a lot of “props” – most of what you’ll use is stuff you already have or can get easily, say at the grocery store. You can also get as kinky as you want with this fantasy! If you and your lover are into BDSM and kink, feel free to take the bondage aspect a little farther with more hardcore restraints. If you’re just a beginner, a tame blindfold and silk ties are just as effective.

Grab some sensual foods such as wine, cheese and rich desserts and take your time slowly feeding them to her. Chocolate dipped strawberries and other berries work well too. Whatever you choose, select something with a lot of flavor. You’ll really wow her this way because when she’s blindfolded, her other senses automatically heighten. So her sense of smell and taste will be at a much higher level than when she has her eyes open. Be creative and have fun with it!

Get Out Of The House!

This Valentine’s Day, don’t just do the same old thing in the bedroom like you do every time you and your lover have sex. Instead, venture outside the house (or at least outside the bedroom doors if you never do it in your kitchen or living room) and change up your location. Even if you use the same moves and techniques as you always do, the new location will provide new sights, smells and sensations that enhance the experience.

You can be creative with this also. Do you have an exhibitionist fantasy? Try having sex in a public place and try not to get caught! Going on a road trip? Pull over and get it on in the back seat. Shopping for some Valentine’s Day lingerie? See how quiet you can be when you have sex in the lingerie store dressing room. If you’re very quiet and very quick, you probably won’t get caught – and you’ll get to test drive the lingerie  too! (Note: If you do “test drive” the lingerie, buy it afterwards. Don’t hang it back up. Just don’t.)

Do Something You Don’t Normally Do

Valentine’s Day is the perfect time to break out some techniques or activities that you don’t normally engage in. Your partner is expecting some really good sexy time, so use this to your advantage and try something that you’ve been really dying to try or do something that you’ve never done before. Never tried kink or bondage? Splurge on a beginner’s bondage kit and see if you and your lover like tying each other up and doing naughty things to each other.

Another great way to do something you don’t normally do without stepping too far outside your (or your partner’s) comfort zones is to put a new twist on something you and your partner really enjoy doing. For example, if you both really get off on oral sex, try the sixty nine oral sex position so you both can receive pleasure at the same time. What makes this such an excellent idea is that you get more intimacy because both of you are receiving pleasure simultaneously and it feels new and exciting while comforting at the same time because it’s not something totally weird and freaky that you’ve never tried.

Whatever you choose to do this Valentine’s Day, just make sure to get creative, use your imagination and go a little bit outside the box. Don’t just do flowers and jewelry with no personal touch. If you get jewelry, make sure it’s a stone that has sentimental value to her. If you get flowers, make sure they’re her favorites. If you buy her dinner, do it at the new restaurant she’s been aching to try.

When you have sex on Valentine’s Day, make sure to take it to the next level. If you’ve never given her an orgasm before, take the time to learn how to do it and REALLY surprise her this evening! If you allow yourself to get really creative, there’s no limit to how special you can make this Valentine’s Day!

How To Choose The Perfect Sex Toy As A Valentine’s Day Gift

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Your Valentine’s Day gift should be a great one! You want to show your partner that she’s important to you and that you care for her – but you wouldn’t mind if you could also let her know that she’s super sexy and you love getting it on with her. If you want to get your girl a toy, here’s how to make sure you’re getting one she’ll really love.

Pay Attention To What She Likes

If you want to successfully give your girl a sex toy as a Valentine’s Day gift, you really need to know her. You need to pay attention to what she likes in bed! Think about it – does she like it when you stimulate her nipples? What about when you play with or suck on her clitoris? Does she really get off on deep penetration, or does she like anal play? Really think about what she seems to respond to the most during intercourse.

This will help you understand what toy is best to get her. For example, if she prefers nipple stimulation, try gifting her with a high end pair of nipple clamps or nipple vibrators. If she likes clitoral stimulation the best, why not get her a cute little clitoris vibrator that she can use discreetly? If she likes spanking, get a soft but kinky paddle to use when you do it with her. Whatever it is that seems to float her boat, that is what you want to stick to when purchasing a toy for her.

Go For Quality

Don’t expect your lover to open a box with a $20 vibrator in it and be very excited – she won’t be. She’s seen better stuff at novelty shops in the mall. If you’re going to really get her a toy for Valentine’s Day and you really want her to like it (and not throw you out in the dog house for the night), then be prepared to spend a few bucks. While you can spend over $100 on a vibrator, you don’t have to.

Make sure you’re purchasing something that is made from quality, high end materials. Get her something phthalate free and easy to clean – hard plastic or soft silicone are excellent sex toy materials. If you get her a jelly dildo that stinks like toxic plastic, she’s not going to be very appreciative and she’s certainly not going to want to get it near her nether regions. Most high end sex toys will come in a nice enough package to gift, but if yours doesn’t, either have it gift wrapped or do it yourself. Don’t just slap a bow on a box with a naked chick on the front demonstrating the toy.

Get Another Gift Too

It may sound like you’re racking up the Valentine’s Day gift bill here (and you are), but don’t make a sex toy her only present this year – and don’t give it to her over dinner. If you don’t want to spend enough money to do gifting a sex toy successful, then find something else to do! Sure, sex toys are fun and all, but only giving her a sex toy for her (or one that you can use together) is pretty lame. It will peg you as being only interested in her for the sex!

Instead, give her another gift over dinner, such as jewelry or chocolates – or another well thought out present – and save the sex toy for a more private place such as your house or hers. She’ll be smitten by your earlier gift already, and when you are both in a more intimate setting, she can really look at and enjoy the sex toy without worrying about stuffing it in her bag right away so no one at the restaurant sees what you gave her. Just be classy about it!

A Note On Lingerie

Don’t give your girl lingerie as a Valentine’s Day gift for her. While this is perfectly acceptable to give her on Valentine’s Day, realize that this really is a gift for you. She’s not going to get off on it at all, unless it’s really nice and comfortable lingerie that she can wear around the house or under her clothes. A bustier and garter belt set is not an acceptable gift for her on its own. Get her something else you know she’ll love, and then enjoy the lingerie as a gift for you. 

Discover The 3rd Element Of Sex That Will TWIST It Up! (Hint: It’s NOT Another Woman!)

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Sex games are a great way to add spice and fire to your sex life. Use role play, food, sex toys and more to change things up and reignite the passion TONIGHT!

If you want to bring back the fire in your rapidly dwindling sexual relationship, you need to bring this third wheel to bed. When you have this third “member” in your bedroom, the sexual possibilities become so logistically incredible that you can have the balls to say that you never have the same sex twice. It will always be new, it will always be fresh – even though you’re with that same old fart. The third aspect will always make it beautiful for you.

So, what is it?

It’s The “Twist” To Regular Sex!

It’s the imaginative element you introduce to the daily grind that spices up sexual encounters. You’re still the same, she’s still the same, it’s the twist and how you two interact with it that makes your sessions an event worthy of the name sexcapades.

It not only adds another source of pleasure, it distracts the couple from the sameness that is their love-making by focusing their attention not on that-same-set-of-breasts but on something else. The twist provides the avenue for novelty in spite having the same sexual partner – which comes in handy for people in long-term, committed relationships.

Ways To Change It Up

This aspect can be about anything. Let’s say the couple decides to make the change in location. That is, they never have sex in the same place or that they make sure they’ve done it in every corner of their house, or every bathroom/floor in the building. Or they vow to do it in every branch of a famous hotel chain around the country. Some retirees plan their trips so they make love in every state in the US.

Another example would be the time change, which is replete with many variations. A couple could set their timer for 5-minutes, during which they could do anything they want. But after the 5-minute mark, they have to drop everything – no matter how orgasmic it is. It’s a quickie with a time limit! Or they can dare set personal records for the fastest quickies.

A couple may also decide on different intervals before they can bump uglies. For example, they can set a 3-day interval for sex – regardless if they get horny or not – making them look forward to the day they can have it. (The interval can be increased or decreased as the couple sees fit, or they can write different intervals on sheets of paper, throw them in a hat and draw one.)

Adding music also presents many variations. A couple can change their background tunes on a weekly or monthly basis, knowing full well that the beat to which they make-love will affect the love-making itself. Sex accompanied with Beethoven symphonies will be different from that with Jamaican groove.

The Only Limit Is Your Imagination

As you can see, there is no limit to the elements one can introduce. And the change in focus from the partner to the third aspect of sex doesn’t negatively affect the relationship since the twist is not a 120 lb. blonde who lives next door.

In fact, quite the opposite happens, the excitement brought about by the eroticism of a mutually endorsed twist rubs on the partner and strengthens the bond. There’s that feeling of being partners in crime, a certain “we-ness” developed because “we” are doing something others are not.

The third aspect of sex can truly be anything – anything at all. It need not take you to different locations and can be as simple as: running different types of fabric on each other’s bodies while blindfolded. It’s deceptively simple, but when you actually try it, it’s as if you’re in a different world.

Go with themes, topics and variations that interest you. The process of coming up with the creative twist is in itself a very challenging and exciting affair, making for warm and playful coffee table conversations. If you can engage your woman and dial-up her anticipation and desire for it, you’ll have someone who’ll never let you out of sight.