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How To Get Her To Make A Sex Tape For You

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Homemade porn made just for you is a wonderful thing to have. But just how to you get your lover to do a sex tape? After you use these tips, she’ll WANT to!

Making a sex tape with your girlfriend can be fun and exciting. However, if your girlfriend or wife is not exactly keen on the idea of being on camera, there are a few things that you can do to convince her. Making sex tape is not like it used to be. Nowadays with the Internet, everybody is extremely weary of where the tape might end up.

The camera on your cell phone has the ability to capture your sex life with the utmost detail. Making a sex tape literally takes the push of a button. If your girlfriend or wife has told you no in the past, you might be able to butter her up with these easy methods.

Build Trust

The number one reason the girl would not want to make a sex tape is the fact that they don’t know whether or not he could hurt them in the end. There are a lot of websites that pay great money for amateur porn. If your girlfriend has told you know in the past it might be because she does not have enough trust in the relationship.

Telling your girlfriend that you would never sell a sex tape to a website or upload it to a free porno site is probably not enough to sway her interest in your sexual fantasy. Her girlfriend doesn’t trust you there’s no way that she’s ever going to make a sex tape with you. Build trust in the relationship so that she knows you would never do anything to hurt her, including releasing a sex tape to the public.

Alleviate Body Issues

Another reason that some girls will not make a sex tape with their significant others is the fact that they have body image issues. Girls are just like guys, they have insecurities when it comes to physicality. If your girlfriend or wife does not have enough confidence in herself or in the way that she looks she will be strongly weary of making a sex tape with you.

Even if she knows that the sex tape would only be viewed by you and her she could be afraid of how she looks onscreen. Reassure her that she is beautiful and that you think making one could be a fun and kinky way of spicing up your sex life.

Ease Her Into It

Making a sex tape is a lot like having sex for the first time. The last thing you want to do is jump right into it. Ease her into it by starting off slow. Start off with a tape of you performing oral sex on her or her performing oral sex on you. Watch the tape together and then delete it together.

Once your girlfriend or wife sees the way that she looks on camera she will probably be much more open to making a full-fledged sex tape with you. She will also be reaffirmed by having the video deleted. Once a girl sees that the video she just made can be deleted forever she will probably be much more open to making a real sex tape.

Get The Lighting Right

The lighting for your sex tape should always be in the favor of the girl. If there is bad lighting in the room imperfections of your girlfriend or wife can easily stand out. Not everybody has perfect skin so it is a very common issue for people to get nervous on camera. Make sure that the lighting in the room isn’t going to show off her bad qualities.

With high definition video imperfections can easily be seen, bringing in and to your sex tape before it even begins.

Film Without The Face

As the cameraman on this shoot, you can easily convince your girlfriend or wife to make a sex tape by leaving her face out of it. The face is the most identifiable part of the human body. If your wife or girlfriend has refused to make porn in the past it’s probably because they don’t want it wanting up on the Internet so that friends and family can see.

If you assure her that you’re going to leave out the face, meaning both your face and her face, there will be no identifying parts to lead back to her or you. Girls are just as worried about somebody seeing you in the sex tape as they are of seeing themselves. Once you have completed the tape without filming her face, watch it together. She may even be game for keeping it since it would not lead back to her or you.

Is YOUR Vagina Healthy?

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The vagina is a mysterious organ. Sometimes it can be hard to realize whether or not your vagina is healthy. There are times when a discharge of mucus is actually healthy. For the most part, the vagina has some of the best “self-cleaning” properties on the female body.

The vagina can maintain a great balance of bacteria and can even make mucous that will wash away foreign substances. When you are wondering if your down there area is healthy, keep in mind that a healthy vagina does not have a bad odor. There are a few different reasons why your vagina could start to smell. Some of these reasons include STI’s, bad hygiene and infections.

Bad Hygiene

Bad hygiene is not something that anybody will admit to. However, when you have great hygiene you are already a one step closer to stopping vaginal odors. You can use a regular bar soap or body wash on your vagina and the outside of the genital area. Make sure that you are drying the vagina properly so it stays clean.

If you use overly scented soaps or body washes, you run the risk of creating irritation in the vaginal area. This irritation could eventually lead to infection so be careful. One of the most common infections occurs due to feces entering the vagina after a bowel movement. Remember to wipe front to back to avoid this.

Combating Infection

One of the best ways to combat infection and odors is to get a little air down there. Start to wear loose fitting, cotton underwear. This will bring more airflow to your vagina and decrease the amount of sweat to the organ. When the sweat builds up in the vaginal odors can occur. If you ever smell “fishy” down there, you probably have a bacterial infection.

There are a variety of medications that will treat bacterial infections. You can either buy something over the counter you can see a doctor to get a prescribed medication. Although rare, some women could mistaken their vaginal odors for infection when they actually have pelvic inflammatory disease. This is also known as cervical cancer. If you think that you might be at risk of PID, talk to your gynecologist about getting tested.

Avoid Douching

While douching seems like a great idea, it can actually hurt you. Despite popular belief, douching does not help treat odors. Douching is usually employed before sex to make sure that everything is clean. The problem is that when you squirt water into the vagina, you wash away the natural fluids that are used to combat infection.

Douching can increase the development of bacterial infections because it increases the acidity level. Douching can also cause the vagina to become irritable. Only douche if your doctor has instructed you to do so. Instead of douching, wet the genitals with warmer water. Do not put any of the water inside. Simply wash the outside of the vulva and then pat down your body with a towel.

Yeast Infections

One of the most common infections to the vagina is a yeast infection. A very usual symptom of a yeast infection is itching. Another sign is soreness in and around the vagina. If your vulva is red or swollen, you probably have a yeast infection. It is never recommended to have sex while you have a yeast infection. This can make your problem even worse. Yeast infections can also lead to abnormal discharges. Sometimes the discharge can be white or clear.

Other times the discharge can be gray or green. If you have a very strong fish smell, you might want to see a doctor. You could have bacterial vaginosis or trichomoniasis. Your doctor will be able to tell you what you have and what will clear it up.

STI’s

STI’s are another cause of vaginal discharge and odor. STI’s  (also known as STD’s) are generally given through unprotected sex or when a condom breaks. Gonorrhea is a very common STI that usually appears within 2-5 days after the infection has occurred. Gonorrhea can cause vaginal discharge and increased urination.

This can also cause pain or burning when urinating. Chlamydia is another STI that typically causes vaginal odor. Chlamydia can cause burning during urination and vaginal discharge. This can also cause very painful sexual intercourse. Get tested regularly to you know whether or not have come into contact with these particular STI’s. Both of these can be cleared up in matter of weeks through antibiotics.

5 Sex Games To Play When You’re Bored

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Sex games are great way to not only improve your sex life and intimacy but to also sure a common problem of boredom around the home. Many couples find that six games can be an excellent way to pass the time on rainy weekends or as a way to break up the monotony during the week.

If you would like to increase the intimacy in your relationship while also spicing up your sex life, these sex games are the cure you have been looking for. Here are 5 that you and your partner will love when you’re bored.

1. Meeting For The First Time

If you have ever had a one night stand you know the excitement that comes with meeting a new person. Building of the sexual tension between the two of you and not really knowing the other person can be a powerful aphrodisiac. If you’re looking for great sex game to play meeting for the first time can help you live out a fantasy of meeting your partner in a whole new light. Pick a local bar that you can meet each other at.

Have your partner dress-up and go to the bar at a specific time. Meet your partner at the bar and pretend that you’re both meeting each other for the first time. Try to pick up your partner and take her back to your place. Reenacting this one night stand scenario is an excellent way to live out fantasies that you have never explored before.

2. Power Control

Power control is a great game for couples who like to mix up the dominance in the bedroom. Get an egg timer and set it to 3 minutes. Determined which partner is going to be dominant first. Allow the egg timer to start and that partner will be the dominant one until the timer has reached the three minutes.

Once the timer has reached the three minutes, the dominance will shift to the other partner. Reset the timer each time. See how long each of you can last under this power struggle game. If you or your partner has an affinity for being the dominant or the submissive one in the bedroom, you will definitely find that this game will bring you out of your comfort zone.

3. Blindfold

The blindfold was made for sex. In this game, you or your partner will be blindfolded on the bed. They have to keep the blindfold on the entire time. The other partner must tease and caress their partner while the other doesn’t know what to expect next. This is a great game that you can play with each other and it incorporates trust and intimacy into the relationship. One of the features of this game is that it relies on the element of surprise and anticipation. The only rule to the game is that you can’t peek.

4. Master/Slave

It’s not the most original game, it’s a staple for a reason. The master slave relationship is usually found in the BDSM scene, but you can use a much more light version of the game for your regular romps in the bedroom. One of your is the master and the other is the slave. You can choose whether or not to blindfold, tie up or do anything else you deem appropriate to the slave. The slave must abide by all of your rules at all times.

If you are the master, make sure that you’re not pushing the limits on what your partner is going to feel comfortable with. The last thing that you want is for them to break character instead of being completely enticed with your sexual dominance.

5. Strip Poker

Strip poker has been seen in movies, TV shows and in the adult industry for a reason: it’s fun! Try your hand at strip poker with your wife or husband to really get a prize for winning. If your partner does not know how to play poker, teach them. Each time they lose a hand, they lose a piece of clothing.

If you really want to make things interesting, each of you can also bet sexual favors. For instance, you can bet a blowjob or an erotic massage on the hand instead of clothing. This is one of the best games to play on a rainy night or on a weekend getaway. Make sure that you have a proper deck of cards so there is no cheating and so neither of you has an unfair advantage over the other.

What Men REALLY Think About Your Breasts

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Breasts are something lots of guys love – or do they? What’s too big? Or too small? Here’s what guys truly think about your ta-tas.

If men are constantly worried about their penis size, it’s only fair to assume that women have an equivalent with their breasts. Breasts can be just as much of an obsession as men have with their penis, but the difference lies in the fact that a woman’s breast size is somewhat visible from the outside whereas a man’s penis is not. If you are worried about what guys think about your breasts you should get the full truth. Most these statements may take you for surprise.

No man is alike, but there are some commonalities among them all. Here are a few things that men really think about your breasts.

1. Small Breasts

Here is a huge secret that men will actually admit to. They don’t necessarily care about small breasts. Some men even enjoy smaller breasts. The majority of men think that anything over a handful is just a waste. Think of it this way, do you really want a guy with a 20” big penis? You might consider your breasts small if you have an A or B cup, but some men simply don’t care about this.

There are a few classifications that guys can fall into: breast guys and butt guys. Some men want a girl with really big boobs and some men want a girl with a great butt. If you are self-conscious about your breasts, find a guy that enjoys you for you.

2. Fake Breasts

There are a lot of doctors out there that offer breast implant surgeries. These doctors might even claim that there will be no scarring or visibility of the implant. Men find that women with fake breasts do not feel comfortable in their own skin. Don’t be fooled into thinking that you have look like a bleach blonde porn star to get the guy of your dreams. Some men fantasize about a girl with giant fake breasts, but they don’t really want to spend a life with them.

There is a big difference between fantasy and love. Fake breasts are a sign of fantasy. Guys want girls that are real and that means real sizing. If you have been thinking about fake breasts, consider the ramifications of having the surgery.

3. Big Breasts

One of the biggest issues with a woman’s self image is her breasts. If you have really big breasts then it’s only natural to be concerned about sagging. No girl wants to have saggy grandma boobs, but this can’t always be helped. If you have big breasts and they are started to sag there are a few things that you can do. Push-ups can do wonders to sagging breasts. Strengthening the muscles underneath can be a free alternative to having a breast lift.

You can also start to do yoga. The exercises in yoga are designed to tone your body. This will increase muscle mass enough so you don’t look like a beast. If your boobs are still sagging, you might want to talk to a doctor about having a breast reduction.

4. The Right Size

There is a lot of debate about the right size of breasts. For the most part, having a breast size in the B’s or C’s is not going to affect your self image. If you have something that is either below or above this, then you must chalk it up to individuality. It doesn’t matter if a guy tells you how much he loves your breasts. If you aren’t happy with yourself, then you will never believe him. Focus on what makes you the person that you are.

This has nothing to do with breast size. The media has trained women to believe that breast size is what matters and if you have small ones you have to get implants. However, if you look at women on television, the majority of them do not have giant breasts. They are average sized because this is the average.

5. Men Are Shallow

Men are shallow. I don’t think that this is some huge revelation. If a guy doesn’t want to be with you because your breasts aren’t big enough or aren’t small enough then he’s not the kind of guy that you want to be with either. Talk to your guy and believe him when he says that your breasts are just the right size for him.

If he loves you for who you are then your breasts are just a part of that. Don’t get wrapped up in a guy that is harping on size. Be yourself and love yourself for everything that makes you the girl that he wants to be with.

6 New Places In Your House To Get It On

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Sex tips can improve your sex life and make it hotter than ever before, and you don’t even have to go out your front door to do it!

Having sex in your house can easily get monotonous when you are married or have been together for a while. The bedroom can seem like a hamster wheel of the same old same old. Your sex life doesn’t have to be like this. You can easily mix things up by utilizing the other rooms in your home.

Some couples find that they have better sex in other rooms than they do in their bed. The other rooms in your house can also be a great source for different positions and better sex. Here are some new places in your house to get it on.

1. The Bathroom

The bathroom is one of the best alternatives in your home to have sex in. There are a lot of different possibilities in your bathroom. The most common use of the bathroom is having sex in the shower or bathtub. These are great because there is no mess to clean up. A lot of couples start out with a massage in the bathtub. This can be great foreplay for sex. If you are going to have sex in the shower, you should invest in some silicone based lubricant.

The shower can wash away the natural lube on the woman and this is a great way to keep both of you comfortable. The bathroom sink is another great place to have sex. Put your girlfriend or wife on the bathroom sink and enter her. The angle that you penis goes in will naturally massage her g-spot.

2. The Living Room

While the living room might not be the best place all the time, it can prove to be an excellent alternative to your bedroom. The living has some great pieces of furniture for different positions. The couch can allow the girl to get on top or get into doggy style fairly easily. The couch does not allow as much movement as a bed, but there are other significant advantages.

The couch is a great for the spoon position. You will have a backrest that you can brace yourself up against. This is also great for standard missionary style with the guy standing and the girl lying down. Make the guy get on his knees and give you oral sex without him having to lay down himself.

3. The Guest Bedroom

While you might find it eerily similar to having sex in your own bedroom, the guest bedroom can be another great alternative. Guest bedrooms are not as familiar as your very own bedroom. They often resemble hotel rooms, which can be extremely kinky. The next time that you want to have sex, drag your partner into the guest bedroom. This change of scenery can definitely lead to some very kinky experiences.

4. The Kitchen

The kitchen is one of the most frequently used rooms in the home. This is where meals are prepared, eaten and then cleaned up. If your kids aren’t around or if you don’t have kids, the kitchen can also be utilized for some hot and heavy action. Put your wife or girlfriend up on the kitchen counter and give her oral sex.

Lick and suck on her inner thigh while she braces herself against the cabinets. Push her up against the countertop and have sex doggy style. Just make sure that you are wiping down every part that your body touches. The last thing that you want is sex juice on your food or countertop.

5. The Dining Room

There will definitely have to be some cleaning after this one, but the dining room can be a lot of fun too. Some houses don’t have a dining room, however, if your home does, don’t miss out on this. Dining rooms tend to have very formal themes. The formality of your dining room can be the aphrodisiac that you’re looking for to put some spice in your relationship.

If your dining room table will hold you, engage in some missionary or girl on top. If the table will not hold the both of you, try doggy style oral sex while your partner is sitting or lying down.

6. The Basement

Need a little kink in your sex life? Go down to the dank, dark basement for some fun middle school style. Remember when you were in middle school or high school and you played spin the bottle or 7 minutes in heaven? Use the basement for the adult version. Depending on your basement’s furniture, there are endless possibilities to what you can do.