A blowjob is a favor. It’s not often that men find a woman who loves to give a blowjob. If your wife or girlfriend is standoffish about giving you oral sex. There are things that you do to increase the odds. Here is a quick guide on how to make her actually want to give you a blowjob AGAIN AND AGAIN!
Right After Your Blowjob
Right after the blowjob there are a few key things you need to do.
1. Help clean up. If she lets you orgasm in her mouth, get her a towel to spit into.
2. If you came somewhere else, it’s your job to clean up. Wipe it off. Show that you’re going to take care of things.
3. Have a positive and THANKFUL and HAPPY attitude. Tell your girl things like…
“That was WONDERFUL.”
“You are AMAZING.”
“Oh my god, thank you so much. That was awesome.”
4. Shower her in affection. Don’t go overboard but really show that you care appreciate what she’s done.
Listen guys, I know you might not love cuddling or hanging out after you climax, but drink an energy drink if you have to, stay awake and make sure she feels appreciated.
The Next Day
The next day is when you really cement the positive experience of giving you a blowjob. If you have my Text Your Wife Into Bed product, use some of the core concepts there to revivify the experience for both of you. Focus on how GREAT she made you feel and how WONDERFUL the whole thing was.
If you don’t have TYWIB, text or email this:
“That was wonderful last night. Thank you.”
“My favorite part was when you ran your tongue along the underside…you looked SOOO sexy.”
KEY POINT: Whatever you do, do not create the expectation that she’s going to do this again. If she feels pressured to make this a regular part of the arsenal, you might lose the fish. You may even want to say “It’s totally up to you if you ever do that again, but it was WONDERFUL.”
You can also focus on how she seemed to really enjoy it. “I can’t believe how wet you were when you were sucking me.” Or “You really seemed turned on.” By bringing the attention to the girl’s own arousal you cement it in her mind.
Days Down The Road
Really all you need to do at this point is rinse, wash and repeat. Continue the games I’ve taught you here. Continue to reinforce the idea of her mouth as a erogenous zone and the POWER of her mouth and tongue to give you pleasure. Remember, you’re basically trying to create a “habit” here and creating a habit requires repetition.
If you let off the throttle the first time you have success, you’ll have a lot more work to do next time. But if you continue at a strong and steady pace you’ll have your wife or girlfriend acting like an “oral enthusiast” in no time.