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Pandora’s Box – A Man’s Guide To The Female Mind Review

By loveandsex

Dating tips that are worth their salt are difficult to come by – but Pandora’s Box makes it simple to go from being a dud to being a STUD!

Do you want a system for attracting women? Wouldn’t it be nice to have a foolproof method for getting the girl every time? If you answered yes to any of these questions then you are in luck. Pandora’s Box is a new attraction system developed by dating coach, Vin DiCarlo. His product promises to give you the skills required to approach and attract any woman.

Vin focuses on categorizing women by type.  Knowing a woman’s type can give you an instant advantage over other men. The theory is simple: you must take different approaches for each “type” of women for attraction to spark. Pandora’s Box will help you achieve all this and more.

The Good

If you understand that not all women are the same, you can greatly reduce your chances of being rejected! When you use the right approach for the specific type of woman you’re interested in, then your chances of success will skyrocket!

Pandora’s Box goes into a psychological discussion over the difference between men and women with heavy emphasis on evolution, self-esteem, and social dynamic, and reviews some key insights on women’s role in society and their approach to sex.  It also provides detailed analysis on 8 types of women and provides the techniques to use with each type of woman – giving you a huge advantage over other men right out of the gates!

The Bad

The one big thing missing from Pandora’s Box is that it covers little about confidence building and other inner game skills.

Having a strong inner game is the foundation to becoming a great pick-up artist. In addition to understanding the information presented in this program, guys need to have the confidence AND social skills to utilize them.

The program also relies on a memorization system, and not all of us are good at that sort of thing. Some of the information can be difficult to understand.  It might take some time and practice to memorize all the strategies and put them into practice. I suggest starting with one or two, perfecting those, and then adding the next few. If you try to master everything at one time it may seem overwhelming.

The Bottom Line

Vin DiCarlo is an expert pick-up artist with years of experience under his belt. He knows his stuff and presents it well. The information is in-depth, unique, and never before seen in the pick-up community.

The ideal customers for this Pandora’s Box are guys with “some” confidence but lacking in pick-up skills and techniques. They are the ones who will have the balls to test the material and not worry about screwing up.

If you consistently implement the strategies given, and do exactly as Vin DiCarlo does, then you’ll be heading the right direction and seeing positive results within your next few interactions with women. Remember – practice makes perfect!

The Full Pandora’s Box Review

The Pandora’s Box package has two parts:

1) Core System: A Man’s Guide to the Female Mind

The core system has 10 videos, which lay the foundation of the Pandora’s Box method. The initial four provide an overview and reiterate older concepts from his previous product, “The Attraction Code,” while the next six videos introduce the new materials.

Vin goes into great depth about his new “attraction strategy,” and focuses on understanding the psyches of the modern women. The goal of Pandora’s system is total devotion where women of your dreams will do ANYTHING for you. He is very confident of the material and even issues two warnings: 1) Don’t abuse your newfound power. It kind of reminds me of the quote from Spiderman, “With Great Power Comes Great Responsibility.” 2) Don’t become disillusioned by how cynical some women might be in playing the game, also known as “Hate the game, not the player.”

Pandora’s Box goes into a psychological discussion over the difference between men and women with heavy emphasis on evolution, self-esteem, and social dynamic, and reviews some key insights on women’s role in society and their approach to sex.

Vin then introduces three conflicts of time, sex, and relationship, and two polar opposite strategies. For those good at math, it’s basically 2 to the third power, or 2x2x2 for a total of 8 different type of women, which reminds me a lot of a personality test.

Each video comes with its transcript in a PDF file, so you can choose your preferred learning format. The PDF is probably where you will learn the fastest, but video will provide more reinforcement.

2) PhD Program: 8 Types of Women

The PhD program has 32 weekly lessons that go further in depth of the 8 types of women. It supposedly will take you game to the next level. The interviews with women from each category, and the follow up analysis are the true value from this section. They help you to put a face to each of type of woman and done in a laidback and easy to understand manner.

It can get little confusing at first juggling with acronyms like NJI, TDI, NDI and more, but the goal is to eventually automatically identify the women very early in your interaction.

The PhD program concludes on week 33 with an academic looking certification of completion, which is kind of lame. It’s more for showing off to fellow pickup artists, then to display with pride to your parents, employers, or hot dates. There’s also a behind the scene look of the Making of Pandora’s Box.

Self Esteem

The one big thing missing from Pandora’s Box is that it covers little about confidence building and other inner game skills. Having a strong inner game is the foundation to becoming a great pick-up artist. In addition to understanding the information presented in this program, guys need to have the confidence AND social skills to utilize them.

It’s like handing the keys of a Ferrari to a 12 year old: they might fall in love with it, but that doesn’t mean they have the necessary skills to drive it safely. Likewise, teaching under confident men how to pick-up women might leave them worse off than before.

If your inner game (confidence) is not rock-solid, then you may want to get another course on building confidence first and then come back for Pandora’s Box as an advanced course.

Who Should Get It?

Not every guy out there will walk away from Pandora’s Box and be successful with women. Remember, each person has a unique style that works more or less. The ideal customers for this product are guys with “some” confidence but lacking in pick-up skills and techniques. They are the ones who will have the balls to test the material and not worry about screwing up. If this is you, then you’ll definitely benefit from this program.

Experienced pick-up artists will probably get it for refinement purposes. The 8 types of women will add more insight to their understanding of women.

Finally, Does the System Work?

Yes this dating tips system works. Vin is an expert pick-up artist with years of experience under his belt. He knows his stuff and presents it well. The information is in-depth, unique, and never before seen in the pick-up community.

Will you become a master seducer overnight with this material? Probably not, however, if you properly implement the strategies given, and do exactly as Vin DiCarlo does, then you’ll be heading the right direction and seeing positive results within your next few interactions with women.

Filed Under: Dating Tips

How To Pick Up Girls – For Smart Guys

By loveandsex

Dating tips don’t always give you all the answers you need. It can be tough if you’re an intellectual fella – because not just any girl will do. Smart men need a woman who will be able to carry on a conversation with them, as well as stimulate them emotionally, mentally and intellectually. Women like that can be hard to find – and even more difficult to pick up! Here are some excellent dating tips to get women with brains!

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Difficulty Relating To Women

Okay smart men – you know who you are. You’re the science guy, the IT guy, the accounting and finance fella. You’ve got brains and you know that if any women really got to know you, they would fall madly in love with you! Here’s the problem:

Most brilliant men are so left-brained that they have incredible difficulty relating and talking to women! So how do you overcome this?

It’s time to get in touch with the right side of your brain! Some dating tips may give you pick up lines that promise magical things will happen as soon as the words leave your mouth, but that’s just not the case here. You’ve got to get more in touch with the right side of your brain, so you can learn to relate to women better. This is not going to immediately snag you a date with the smartest (and hottest) woman, but it will help you get better at relating to women on a larger scale.

Thinking Outside The Box

To get the right side of your noggin’ more involved, you need to find some creative hobbies that allow you to get into that mode and away from the super smart, super analytical side of your brain. Poetry and art are awesome ways to get that going, but pretty much any hobby or activity that allows you to think “outside the box” will do.

It might be uncomfortable at first, or you may feel out of place, simply because your brain doesn’t work that way. You’re not an artsy-fartsy guy! But if you get just a little outside your comfort zone and start doing things that help you develop an artistic nature or engage your creativity, you’re already on your way to meeting women and being able to relate to them well enough that you can pick them up!

Be Yourself

Being yourself always works better to attract women, simply because the ladies can usually spot a fake a mile away. A lot of guys don’t understand that women want to get to know YOU, not the guy you think they want to get to know. So many men put on a fake front because they think that will help them attract more women and in the beginning, it may. But it won’t be long before she realizes that you’re not who she thought you were and she’s out the door.

Be yourself and take pride in the fact that you’re an intelligent man! Ladies love this! They want to be able to have a real, amazing conversation with a guy! So have the confidence to put yourself out there – the REAL you.

Strong Masculine Energy & Eye Contact

Having a strong, masculine energy and having the confidence to make eye contact makes a big difference when trying to get a date with a smart chick. In fact, this is one of those dating tips that applies to pretty much any woman. Ladies don’t want to be with a wimp – and unfortunately, a lot of really brilliant guys come off as “wimps” simply because they’ve never had the confidence or practice to have a strong masculine energy about them. They may have grown up as “nerds” or were made fun of for being so smart, so they sink into that persona over time – without realizing that it IS possible to be uber-smart and great with the ladies.

Your Mindset Is Important

It’s very important that you have the right mindset when it comes to attracting intelligent women. Don’t think that these smart women are beyond your reach – they are just people too! A lot of times, guys are so intimidated by hot women, they don’t approach them – but in reality, these girls really don’t get many dates because men are too intimidated to approach them! Have the mindset that these women are real people and you can connect with them – just start that conversation! Hot women are often the most friendly, down to earth people you’ve ever met.

Don’t Focus On Looks

Don’t be so focused on a woman’s looks that you fail to see the amazing personality within. Have a conversation with her, ask her intelligent questions and give intelligent answers. Get to know who she really is! It’s critical to be open and real with a woman if you want a shot at having a true relationship.

Basic Tips For Talking To Women

  • On average, women say about 15,000 words per day and guys say about 6,000.
  • Make a goal to start talking more, period!
  • Learn to relax in social situations
  • Practice talking to women! Even if it’s not the girl you’re interested in, just get more comfortable talking to women in general.
  • Learn something new every time you talk to a girl! Women are people too.
  • It’s not a failure if you don’t get with a girl, but you learn something that will help you in the future.

Filed Under: Dating Tips Tagged With: approach women, attract women, Dating Tips, flirting

How To Use Sexual Tension To Get Immediate Results

By loveandsex

Sexual tension is an amazing way to get a girl so turned on, she’s practically ripping your jeans off. If you do it right, you’ll create sexual tension that is so thick, you could cut it with a knife! This is the kind of stuff that will get you INSTANT results! Get laid TONIGHT with these incredible seduction tips.

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How To Create Sexual Tension That Feels Natural

Many guys attempt to create sexual attention when they’re not already sexually aroused – this can actually backfire, because it comes across as completely fake. If you want to create that natural feeling, crazy sexual tension, you need to make sure you’re “in the mood,” so to speak, so that you can convey those feelings to the girl you’re with.

Uncertainty and anticipation is the core of what it’s all about, and if you’re not really experiencing those feelings, the girl you are with isn’t going to either. You really want to be feeling true anticipation that something sexual may happen, and you want to feel that real uncertainty that you may or may not get lucky tonight! The girl you’re with is going to pick up on those feelings, and they will intensify her own.

Getting Into A Controlled Sexual State

So you want to be sexually aroused when you go to create sexual tension, but you don’t want to be so aroused that you’re humping her leg or that you orgasm within just a few minutes if you do actually get to have sex. What you want to do is get yourself into a controlled sexual state – where you are feeling aroused but not too aroused. You can do this a number of ways:

  • Imagine her naked.
  • Think about what you want to do to her.
  • Imagine what she’s going to do to you.
  • Gaze at her lips while licking yours and imagining kissing her.
  • Make soulful eye contact.
  • Touch the back of her neck softly.
  • Don’t be afraid of awkward silences – use them to your advantage!

This will all help you get psyched up and into that mode of creating sizzling sexual tension – just be careful not to take yourself over the edge and get yourself too psyched out.

The Push/Pull Of Sexual Tension

It’s is kind of like a dance, or a game of tennis. There’s a lot of push/pull there that you can’t fake. You’ve got to be into it and she’s got to be into it – and you both have to go in a little and pull back a little to really create those intense feelings. Really great sexual tension will leave a woman feeling just a little confused, because you’re going to be giving a few mixed signals on purpose.

When you start feeling like she’s really into it, you want to back off just a little bit, to give her room to push. She’s not going to be interested in you at all if you don’t give her that room and make her question whether you really like her or not. That’s when she’s going to test you by getting in your space a little and contributing to the push/pull.

Make Her A Little Uncomfortable

Once you get to the point where one or both of you have just passed the feeling of being a little uncomfortable, you know you’re in a great spot and you don’t want to back off right away. Feeling a little uncomfortable (not the creepy kind, the good kind) is what fuels the fires of sexual tension, so once you’re experiencing that, you want to keep the flirting going for a little while before you back off and let her come to you.

Have Fun And Enjoy It!

If you’e afraid of talking to women, or if you aren’t confident enough in yourself, you’re not going to be able to create really great sexual tension. You’ve got to be confident, but you’ve also got to be relaxed enough to know that it’s a really fun game that you can enjoy – but not something you have to take completely seriously. Relax and have fun experimenting with different moves and seeing what reaction you get out of them!

Practice Getting In Touch With Your Feelings

Sexual tension is a feeling – and while most girls are already in touch with their emotions, a lot of guys aren’t. This may make it difficult for men to spot it. Practice by getting in touch with your emotional side by participating in activities or hobbies that require you to use your emotions. This will help you relate to girls more, so it will be easier for you to sense what move to make next.

Flirting Is Key To Sexual Tension

Flirting is a big part of creating sexual tension, so if you don’t know how to flirt, it’s time that you learn! Practice by getting out there and talking to women. Flirt with them and see what kind of reactions you get! Practice your eye contact, body language and conversation skills so that you can really master your game before you ever meet a girl you really like and want to make sure you do everything right with.

Practicing will also help you learn how to keep from overdoing it, because just like with anything else, it’s easy to overdo the sexual tension. You need to learn how to spot when it’s time for you to move on (if she’s just not feeling it) or when it’s time to move things along and get more intimate. When it feels right, you’ll know when to move on to kissing, touching and foreplay! This comes with time and practice!

Filed Under: Seduction Tips Tagged With: body language, Dating Tips, flirting, seduction

The 9 Booty Call Commandments

By dicksinthecity

A booty call is a relationship and like all relationships, they have their own set of rules. Are you following these nine booty call “laws?”

What She Said:

Thou Shall Keep It Clear

The best way to have fun with a booty call is to clearly define your relationship beforehand. Booty calls, by popular definition, include sex without strings. It’s late night satisfaction – the fast food of sex. So make sure you’re not emotionally attached before picking up that phone.

Thou Shall Be Experimental

Take the opportunity to whip out the Kama Sutra and explore some new positions. When the two of you ultimately transition to other relationships, you’ll have some amazing moves to wow your next lover with.

Thou Shall Be Respectful

Booty calls are for legally consenting adults – so act like one! Though it’s a casual connection, the rules of etiquette still apply. You don’t need to exchange details of your day – but treating each other with kindness is a must.

Thou Shall Use Protection

Booty calls are fun and lighthearted. STD’s and unplanned pregnancies are not – use condoms.

Thou Shall Know When To Let It Go

There will come a time when you’ll need to wrap it up. Booty call arrangements are usually short-lived. If it’s not fun anymore – or one of you has met someone else – it’s time to call it a night.

What He Said

Thou Shall Have An Exit Strategy

These things will not last forever. It will be fun for a while, not a long time. Know this in advance and plan accordingly.

Thou Shall Not Expect Too Much

This isn’t going to go anywhere. Except to the bedroom. It’s not going to turn into something more. It isn’t a deep, profound, spiritual connection. If you go into a movie with super high expectations you’ll probably be very disappointed, why? Because you’re setting yourself up for failure. If you go in with lower, more realistic expectations, then you’re more likely to have a good time and really, really enjoy yourself.

Thou Shall Get Yours

Don’t expect the other person to care about your pleasure. This isn’t love making, this is f**cking. Period. It’s fast and nasty, down and dirty. The person on the other end of the equation isn’t concerned about your feelings or making sure you have a good time, more often than not. If anything, they are concerned about getting theirs. Take ownership of your orgasm and make sure you get it, and then some. Don’t wait for anyone else to make it happen. That’s on you.

Thou Shall Not Be Unrealistic

Yes, they are probably going to be having sex with other people. No, it won’t last forever. Yes, it will end badly (if you don’t end it first). What do you expect? It’s a booty call. You can’t accept a collect call from Cambodia and then be shocked when you get your phone bill. Take ownership and accountability. You made the call or at least you answered it. There’s an upside and a downside. Weigh the pluses and minus and act accordingly

Filed Under: Dating Tips Tagged With: booty call, Dating Tips, Relationship Advice, sex tips

How To Get Out Of A Dating Dry Spell ASAP!

By dicksinthecity

Dating doesn’t always mean you’re going to go out with person after person – some nights, you end up alone! Here’s how to get out of your dating slump NOW!

I’m in a dating dry spell. Big time. It’s been forever. I can’t seem to break it, no matter what! It’s beyond frustrating! What can I do?

What She Said:

Be open to meeting new people, having new experiences and be willing to put yourself out there – safely!

If you’ve been in a long-term dry spell, chances are, subconsciously or otherwise, you were abstaining from a relationship to keep yourself safe emotionally. Perhaps you went through a bad breakup that turned you off from dating for a while. The long and the short of it is, you were most likely feeling too vulnerable to date, so don’t be hard on yourself.

You’ve decided you want to end your dry spell, so that’s half the battle. Now that you’re open to dating again, you’ll most likely be putting out a vibe that interested parties are sure to pick up on! Setting an intention and giving yourself a goal is a powerful way to focus on moving forward.

Be creative. Ask friends to hook you up with their single pals. Register with an online dating service. Head to the park, the gym, the library, the bars. See who’s out there. Don’t be shy about striking up conversations. Have fun flirting! You’ve got nothing to lose.

The main thing, as always, is to be happy with yourself and your life. Your joy and confidence will attract similar people – and that’s a great way to start! Remember to have fun, enjoy yourself and trust that you deserve the best.

What He Said:

Well, the obvious answers are lower your standards and/or get a prostitute. Nothing says “slump buster” like hookers and ugly chicks/dudes. Aside from that, lower the stakes. It’s not that big a deal, and it’s not going to last forever. Even a broken clock is right twice a day.

Okay, maybe that’s not the inspirational quote that you’ll see on a Hallmark card, but it’s true. It’s not that big a deal. This too shall pass.

After that, you’ll have to figure out what to do next. If you have what you want, keep doing what you’re doing. If not, you will need to do something different. Try and find your patterns and break them. Or make a list of things you swore you’d never do (ask friends to set you up, online dating, whatever) and do them, no matter how painful or awkward. Doing things different will lead to different results.

Keep an open mind and be curious. Be interested but not invested. If something works, keep doing it. If not, don’t and try something else. Wash, rinse, repeat.

You could also give up and abandon all hope. That seems to work especially for couples who think they can’t have a baby. After they give up and make peace with the fact that it will never happen, it usually winds up happening. Funny how that works. Well, funny unless it’s you. Then, well, not so much. But still people will chuckle. Behind your back.

Being frustrated or angry isn’t good. It’s helpful to a degree in that it will make you get off your ass and inspire change, but after you get to that point, they really aren’t very helpful parts of the process. They’re like booster rockets for the space shuttle. They get you to a point and then they no longer provide fuel, so you have to jettison them.

Filed Under: Dating Tips Tagged With: Dating Tips, flirting, online dating, Relationship Advice

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