Love & Sex Answers

Today's #1 Love & Sex Resource

You are here: Home / Archives for Love & Relationships

Text The Romance Back Review

By

Text The Romance Back is the perfect guide for men who want to bring back the heat in their relationships. Whether your relationship is on the rocks and you need to resuscitate it quickly, or you just want to surprise your significant other with a new way of being ultra romantic, this guide is for you.

The Good

A navigation bar to the left of the screen makes it easy to flip through the different sections in Text The Romance Back. Much easier to navigate through than your traditional e-book that requires you to scroll through all the pages just to get where you want to go.

Michael really understands women and how they think, which is part of what makes this guide so effective. Understanding how women think and feel is the best way to create texts and conversations that get her to open up to you romantically, or to get her to release her inhibitions and feel sexual with you.

Also, for men who don’t enjoy reading as much as they do listening, there are audio files included for both Text The Romance Back and Facebook Romance Secrets. Pop it in your CD player in the car, or upload it to your music player and listen while going on your morning jog!

The Bad

There aren’t a whole lot of bad things to say about Text The Romance Back, except for if you’re looking for a book with nothing but text examples, you’re not going to find it. Michael provides many examples, but he also provides the information to back it up. Take the time to read through the manual, even if only a little at a time. Understanding the material presented is key to making this work!

Also, men looking for ways to turn their partner on sexually will find better use with Michael Fiore’s other guide, Text Your Wife Into Bed. There are some references to sex in Text The Romance Back, but many more in the sexting guide.

The Bottom Line

Text The Romance Back is an excellent guide if you want an easy way to communicate with your lover and bring back the spark you once had together. If the romance in your relationship has faded and the sex just isn’t as good as it once was, you’ll definitely want to check this out!

The Full Text The Romance Back Review

Romance can die in a relationship, but you don’t have to let it. Text The Romance Back is a complete guide to using your cell phone to ignite that spark that used to be in your relationship but is no longer there. The guide is well written and organized, readers can click through the table of contents on a navigation bar to the left of the book, rather than having to scroll through the entire book to get the information you’re looking for.

Michael begins the book with a “who this is for and who it’s not for” and fortunately, he illustrates that almost everyone will be able to benefit from Text The Romance Back. Who won’t? Abusive partners or people who want to try to change their partner or their behavior. Fair enough.

The information age has taken us all by storm, and we’re all pretty much addicted to our cell phones. They’re our outlet to the world – they allow you to check your email, Facebook, texts, chat, the time, etc., etc. Michael suggests that your partner would probably be devastated if you asked them to go unplugged for any length of time, and let’s face it – he’s probably right. So here’s where Text The Romance Back comes in. You’re not going to try to pry your partner away from their cell phone to try to reconnect with them emotionally and physically – instead, you’re going to do it through the cell phone. Crazy? Not so much.

Why Text The Romance Back Works So Well

Women are different from men and respond to different emotional and sexual stimuli. A woman isn’t going to get turned on very much by pure naked porn, while a man will get an erection from seeing a naked woman in just several seconds. Women, however, are more turned on by language. By communicating with a woman in the way that she responds to best – by using words and language – you’re opening her up to more romance, and by proxy, more sex.

This isn’t just a concept guide either – in Text The Romance Back, there are plenty of “why’s” and “how’s,” but even more actual examples of texts that you can use with your partner. This is a must have for guys who aren’t incredibly imaginative or have trouble coming up with things to say. Michael not only gives you an explanation on why texting your partner works so well, but he also shows you exactly what works. Creative guys will have even more fun with this, because they can take the examples that Michael gives and put their own spin on them or elaborate on them.

Curiosity Builds Romance

Sending your partner a sensual or even romantic text isn’t going to work very well if you don’t set her up for it first. Yes, you have to “bait” her. You need to get her interested in the conversation by creating curiosity. Michael shows you exactly how to do that, again, with examples of actual texts you can use to awaken her curiosity and get her texting back and forth with you furiously.

Private Conversations

In Text The Romance Back, Michael says that one of the most effective ways to create romance and passion is to have a secret, private conversation through text when you and your partner are actually in the same room! Silly as that might seem, women actually love this. It’s because women can do many more things at once than men – they can text you and carry on a titillating conversation with you via cell phone, all while putting on a professional front and perhaps carrying on a completely different conversation at the dinner table or at a work meeting. You’ll learn how to ignite her passion by texting her secretly while in the very same room with her and while doing something completely different. She will love it!

“Hot” Words

Michael also gives examples throughout the guide about what words to use and when. He knows which words will trigger what in a woman’s brain, and translates that into the guide in an easy to understand way. While many men won’t initially know how a woman responds to words as simple as “feel” or “remember,” after reading Text The Romance Back, they’ll know exactly what words to say at the right time to get her thinking exactly about YOU!

Long Distance Love

Whether you’re in a long distance relationship for an extended period of time, or your partner has just gone away on a business trip, your cell phones can help keep you and your partner intensely connected – perhaps even more so than if you were physically together! Michael shows you how to build your lover’s anticipation while you’re away through texts, so that the connection between you two when you finally get back together is ultra hot and intense!

Sexting

Michael also writes a companion guide, called Text Your Wife Into Bed. The concept is similar – using your cell phone to communicate sensually with your lover. However, Text The Romance Back is geared more towards relationships, while Text Your Wife Into Bed focuses more on how to improve your sex life through sexting.

Facebook Romance Secrets

No information product is complete without at least one good bonus product, and Michael certainly doesn’t flake out on them. Aside from cell phones, Facebook is one of the most rapidly growing ways to communicate with people on the Internet. Sure, it’s social media and you can “friend” your neighbor, your boss or your old friends from high school. But why not use it to increase the romance with your lover?

The written guide is based on the audio file transcripts, so people who like to read and want to see clear, well organized information (like in an e-book) are going to be disappointed. Never mind that, because the information contained in the audio file is pretty helpful and definitely worth a listen!

All in all, Text The Romance Back is an excellent guide that will help you learn how to communicate with your lover via cell phone and not only improve your relationship, but also improve your emotional and sexual connection with your lover. A must have if you want to have romantic and sexy conversations with your partner through text!

4 Ways To Be An Amazing Boyfriend

By

A relationship requires effort from both partners. She’s putting it in, but are you? Are you really such a great boyfriend, or is she just hanging on to you until someone else comes along? Here are four ways you can make your relationship incredible, so your girl will want to be with YOU and only you.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f-AScZyAfAE&feature=relmfu[/youtube]

Don’t Be A Boring Boyfriend

Girls want a guy who knows how to have fun. Don’t be boring – strive to plan fun, exciting things for you and your girl to go out and do. Don’t just sit at home on the couch eating take-out and watching movies or playing video games. While staying in and eating bad Chinese food in front of a DVD marathon is really fun every once in awhile, it’s not something she wants to do all the time.

Plan ways you can show her a great time, whether it’s taking her out to a new restaurant or club you’ve never been to before, or doing something really adventurous like rock climbing or horseback riding. Making her feel great by getting out and doing things (and showing her that you’re interested in doing things with her) is one of the best ways to prove that you’re a great partner – and not boring at all. Also, learn how to carry on a great conversation and engage your partner mentally. Women are so emotion and mind oriented that if you learn how to give her mental and emotional stimulation often, she will really love spending time with you no matter what you’re doing.

Be Someone That She Can Be Proud Of

Yes, there are many girls that will fall for a bum. But most of them won’t. If they do, you can pretty much bet that before long, she’s going to get tired of you and move on to someone else. Instead of letting that happen, be someone she can really be proud of. Be someone that she can tell her friends and family about. Be a motivated, confident, ambitious and energetic guy!

Have a job or other things going on in your life that she can tell other people about, such as a killer position at a popular company in your city, or volunteering as a firefighter for the local fire department. No matter what you choose to do, make sure you’re actually doing something and not nothing, and that it’s something your girl can brag a little about!

You also want to have things of your own that you’re doing that don’t always involve her. Have fun with your guy friends! Don’t be too clingy or suffocating, because if you are, your relationship won’t last long. Have things that you love and are passionate about in your life that don’t necessarily have anything to do with your girlfriend at all. Encourage her to go out and spend time with her girl friends and you do the same!

Value Your Time Together

Too many guys out there take their partners for granted when they’re in a relationship. They may rush through the dating process to have sex, or they may just get so comfortable with their partner that they take for granted any time spent with them. Don’t be that guy! Make sure that you take the dating process step by step, and enjoy each different phase of your relationship. When you’re on a date with your partner, make sure that you are fully present and that you’re engaging your partner in conversation. You want to be paying attention to her, not the game on the TV behind the bar or the cute waitress.

Also, show your partner that you really value her by making her feel sexy. Compliment the outfit she’s wearing and tell her that she’s beautiful. Take her on dates that allow her to dress up and do her hair, so she feels sexy and beautiful when she’s around you. If you’re always hanging around the house and she never gets the chance to get out of her sweatpants or put her makeup on, she’s not going to feel good about herself at all. When you touch her, tell her how soft her skin is or how nice her curves are against you. Make her feel like a million bucks!

Develop A Close Connection With Her

Don’t wall yourself off from your partner emotionally. Women speak the language of emotion, so if you’re a robot with her, she’s not going to be interested in you for long. Let your guard down some and make yourself a little vulnerable to her. Share how you’re feeling about her and about other things, and respond to the things she’s feeling when she tells you about them.

Work on developing a close connection with your partner and when you do achieve that level of emotional intimacy in your relationship, everything is going to be better. Sex is better when you’re really close with someone, and life is better in general when you have someone you can share those intimate details with.

Relationship Advice: My Partner Isn’t Who I Thought They Were!

By

A relationship is built on trust – what do you do when your significant other isn’t who you thought they were in the beginning? Can you save the relationship?

It can feel like total betrayal when you discover that your mate isn’t exactly who you thought they were. Maybe you’re horrified to discover that they’ve had a completely different romantic past than you thought. Maybe you’re just shocked to discover their religious or political beliefs aren’t what you thought they’d be. Regardless, you need to talk things through, unearth other possible secrets, and decide whether or not this is still the right person for you.

When They’re Not Who You Think

Few things are as jarring as discovering that your partner isn’t who you thought him or her to be. Sometimes it’s our own fault, of course. You immediately jump to great conclusions about someone because you want them to be golden thanks to how attracted you feel toward them. Then you get to know them a little better and find out they’re not as perfect as you’d imagined.

On the other hand, sometimes your mate is going to pretty great lengths to make sure that you don’t find out something unsavory about them. So what do you do when a secret about your S.O. comes to light? How can you decide whether or not you should stay together, and, if you want to stay together, how can you move past the bad news? A good long talk or two with your partner can help you begin to rebuild trust.

How Bad Is It Really?

The first thing to do once your mate’s negative secret has been revealed to you is to assess just how bad that secret is. If you find out that your boyfriend has another girlfriend, that’s grounds for immediate breakup. If you’re a bleeding-heart liberal and your new girlfriend casually announces that she’s a conservative Republican, you might be annoyed about it, but that’s not a reason to immediately give up on the relationship.

Decide Whether It’s A Relationship Dealbreaker

You basically have to decide whether the secret is just something unsavory about your S.O., or something that indicates they will not make a good mate. In other words, if your mate tells you before the first time you have sex that he or she got an STD from their ex, that’s a problem that should be worked out. If they tell you they got that STD when they were cheating on their ex with a hooker, or they wait and tell you after you’ve had unprotected sex, that’s grounds for dismissal.

People certainly make mistakes in their life, and we do change as we mature. Finding out that your partner was quite the playboy back in college might make your heart sink a little. If he’s shown in more recent years that he can be in serious relationships, it’s worth looking past his previous mistakes and giving him a chance (though you should certainly insist he gets tested for various STD’s).

People are also allowed their own quirks and opinions. Let’s take the case of our conservative girlfriend and her liberal boyfriend. While he might initially be bothered by the fact that she believes in different political practices than he does, they could ultimately find that their opposing opinions give them something truly interesting to debate about. Additionally, just because she’s a registered Republican doesn’t mean she might not agree with some of the policies that he believes in. Some people truly can’t respect other’s opinions or beliefs, but a lot of people can. How else do people who practice completely different faiths end up together?

Talking To Your Partner About It

Once you get over the initial shock of the big reveal, sit down and have a really detailed discussion with your partner about it. If they were holding out on you about something and you discovered it via another source, you have the right to be angry that they hid something from you. That’s true whether the secret is something you can get over or not.

You need to talk to them about how they’ve damaged your trust in them, and then try to figure out how to work together to rebuild that trust. Open up about any secrets you might be keeping, and get your S.O. to do the same. Make the point to them that hiding things makes them even worse. If your partner is genuinely apologetic about keeping secrets from you, then you will be able to work together to get back to trusting each other again.

Romance Tips: How To Set Up A Charming Picnic

By

Romance can take many forms, but one of the most adored romantic gestures is a picnic between lovers. Here’s how to set one up for yours.

There is something to be said about leaving the city behind, getting away for a day, enjoying whatever beautiful views nature offers you, stuffing yourself silly and then lay back with a glass of wine or whatever liquid takes your fancy. When the sun is shining there’s only one thing to do – and that is, go on a picnic. Now these are not only good for the happily involved but they are essential when trying to win her back! Obviously the weather plays an important part but remember, you can do it both indoors and outdoors. All it takes is a little creative imagination.

What Food To Bring

Most importantly you must find a place that’s sheltered from the wind yet has a lovely view. Set the scene with candles or lanterns, and your loved one (yes her) will be eating out of the palm of your hand! For dinner include:

  • Fresh, organic vegetables such as baby carrots, cucumber fingers, baby sweet corn, broccoli, cherry tomatoes and serve with dips such as guacamole, hummus or chopped tomato in cottage cheese, suggests planning and preparation and you can grill the vegetables beforehand for something a little different.
  • Cold meats with cheeses such as Camembert and Brie also work well as snacks. The cheese can also be eaten with fruit or crackers.
  • It’s always a good idea to stick to finger foods for romantic picnics; this way you can feed each other.
  • For something more substantial, make a variety of wraps with cottage cheese and pineapple filling; and pita bread with stuffed with tuna salad, feta and avocado, or feta and carrot.
  • A bottle of wine or bubbly makes it a special occasion, but remember to first check whether alcohol is allowed at your spot of choice — and pack two of your prettiest glasses for the occasion.
  • Round off your rendezvous with some decadent dark chocolate-tipped strawberries.

Although it seems as though this is a daunting task, and it really doesn’t have to be. A little planning beforehand can make you look like a pro and what better way to impress her than if you can honestly tell her you prepared it yourself. Certain foods are easy and quick to prepare such as cheese and crackers, muffins, grapes, strawberries (these always score big points for the romantic), chips and dips etc., always work well.

Throw in a bottle of wine or some champagne or if going for something non-alcoholic – a chilled fresh fruit juice. When organizing your basket the utensils you bring with are very important.

Setting The Mood

Try to pick a day where the weather is just right for being outside. A sunny, breezy morning is great for brunch, while evening is full of romance and much better for drinking champagne – although you can always do mimosas in the morning! You want to make sure you have the right tools on hand for comfort:

  • A blanket, of course, is a must. If you really want to be nostalgic about it, find one in a classic red gingham print. A wooden basket is also a nice touch. Any soft blanket will do though.
  • Think about bringing supportive pillows. Inexpensive throw pillows that you keep just for the occasion can help your partner feel more comfortable during your excursion. They’re not large or heavy and are easy to take with you. This can also help create a feeling of romance if you are able to lean back some or lie down next to your partner – and they’re better for sex if you and your lover are in a secluded spot!
  • If there’s not a lot of wind, think about bringing candles. Jar candles are your best bet here, because they are shielded some from wind and external elements. While candles aren’t very practical if you’re having a morning or afternoon get together, they can be super romantic if you are having an evening get together.
  • Bug repellent is also a must. It’s not super sexy to spray you and your partner down with bug spray before eating (make sure you wash your hands first!) but it will keep the mosquitoes away. It’s hard to create romance when you’re doing nothing but scratching at bug bites! Instead of bug spray, consider using citronella candles or torches that cover a wider area, so your area will be romantically lit and bug free!

No matter what you choose to do for your get together, make sure that your partner feels appreciated and cherished. This is part of the romance – spending time away from the daily grind to eat, drink and reconnect. It’s a wonderful experience no matter how you decide to do it!

Jealousy Controls Me! How Can I Change It?

By

Jealousy is something that everyone experiences at one time or another. But if it overrides you and affects your relationships, you’ve got to stop. But how?

I’m the jealous type. Big time. It affects everything. Friendships, relationships, you name it. I don’t want to be this way. What do I do?

What She Said:

It’s normal to feel pangs of jealousy, but it sounds like you’re suffering from more than an occasional twinge. The good news is that this problem is actually a great opportunity for you to examine your own life!

While you’re at it, be sure to show your friends some gratitude. They obviously love you and are supporting you while you go through this painful period.

What It Really Is

Jealousy is really an outgrowth of fear – fear there’s not enough to go around and that you won’t get a piece of what is available. It’s a belief in lack – lack of opportunity, money or love. Jealousy is also usually a sign that you’re not following your dreams. If you’re sated in your life, there’s no call for ill will when others are happy with theirs.

What makes you feel jealous when you get together with your friends? Is someone glowing because her love life is going swimmingly? Do you envy your pal’s promotion? Is someone raving about getting to decorate her new fab pad? Whatever it may be, note it – these are your triggers, as well as your clues.

Using A Journal

Start to journal after you meet with your friends. Notice what makes you cringe. Now sit back and go over this list. These are the things most likely missing from your life. There’s an easy fix – now that you know what’s bumming you out, you can take control and start working on getting these things for yourself. There’s actually more than enough to go around! Celebrate with (and for) your friends, knowing that you can (and will) have a wonderful life as well. Once you take chances and create a fuller life for yourself, odds are that you can vanquish that painful feeling.

What He Said:

Focus on what you do have, and not what you don’t. If you don’t have a lover, partner, or anyone to have sex with, go out and get one! Don’t hang around your house moping over not having a boyfriend or girlfriend. Why would you continue to devote time and energy to perpetuating a cycle that gets you a huge serving of deep fried nothing? Where’s the upside in that? (Stop looking, grasshopper. I’ll save you the trip. You can’t find it. Because it doesn’t exist. Yeah, I know. Shocker. In other news, water is wet. Film at 11.)

The next step is to realize that your current pattern isn’t helping. Life isn’t about what’s fair, it’s about what works. Why would you keep doing something that isn’t working? No real reason. It’s just a habit, and you’re in it.

Breaking The Habit

The next step is to realize that this is a habit that you created and you can break. So break it. It may be a bit uncomfortable at first, but realize that you can break it and it will happen if you are dedicated and consistent on your path. If nothing else, just start by doing the exact opposite of what you normally would. That will help enormously.

Give yourself permission to move into this new space because your success is guaranteed if you don’t quit and continue to do the work. Enjoy!