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3 Sex Positions That Will Leave Her Shaken With Delight

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Sex positions are the key to incredible sex. Use these three titillating moves to turn her on and totally rock her world TONIGHT!

The trouble with most guys when it comes to having sex is that they are boring and stick to the same old routines and sex positions that get them off quickly. Sadly this leaves little room for a woman’s sexual fulfillment. But if you are willing to add a little excitement and variety to your sex positions, you could accelerate and accentuate a woman’s ability to enjoy sex and even have an orgasm. And I have not even talked about how much that would do to your confidence in bed!

1. Female Dominance Sex Positions

Whoever said the missionary position is a woman’s favorite? Instead let her get on top of you and give her control during intercourse. By allowing her to control the thrusts and intensity of penetration, you can make sure that she derives maximum pleasure for herself! The added bonus is that while she is sitting on top of you, you can simultaneously stimulate her breasts and clitoris to build up her arousal very quickly.

For a variation of this position, have her face away from you. This allows you to have a greater chance of stimulating her G-spot with your male anatomy. (Hint: the woman-on-top position is also great for guys suffering from premature ejaculation)

2. Titillating Doggy

The doggy style is one of the best positions for both men and women. Many women experience powerful orgasms in this position because it allows deeper penetration and G-spot stimulation. Furthermore, when a woman is on all fours, you have more control with the thrusts and can go harder and faster than you could in the missionary position.

Alternatively, you can also vary these types of sex positions by having her lay flat on her tummy and allow her to raise her buttocks during penetration.

3. Enchanting Embrace

Let her lie on her back, lift her legs up so that they embrace your shoulders and then enter her. This allows you to penetrate deeply and hit her G-spot, especially if you have a penis that bends slightly upwards when erect.

For a variation of this position, have her lay somewhere with her legs up (on a table, for example) so that you can enter her without having to kneel down. This gives you more leverage and also let you have easier access to her clitoris. Hint: Give her simultaneous clitoral stimulation using your thumb when you are penetrating her no matter what sex positions you choose to use. This will double her delight and prime her for a truly fulfilling orgasm… only faster!

How To Choose The Right Sex Positions

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Sex positions can definitely spice up your sex life, but how do you choose the right ones when there are so many different options? Find out now!

Who hasn’t heard of the Kama Sutra? The Perfumed Garden or The Tao? These ancient love texts exhibit the various ways a couple may entangle themselves at play. And no, they are not porn.

Getting into various sexual arrangements can spice up a sleepy erotic existence, in addition to being a good way to discover each other’s hidden talents. Guys will always want to test the limits of a woman’s flexibility, leg power and skull strength.

But do not assume that the more Evil Knievel-ish the poses, for the lady, the hotter the sex is. While experimenting is good, it should be tempered by common sense so nobody ends up in the emergency room in the middle of the night. Getting into acts hazardous to your health is insane, your choice of sexual positions shouldn’t constitute acts of stupidity, as if you’re out to prove anything.

People will have different takes on plow positions, depending on their tastes; one will be preferred over the others. The following are the five things you should factor into choosing your sex positions.

1. Movement

Men will always favor situations that allow for thrusting with reckless abandon. (We will discuss later what these positions are.) Certain arrangements allow for excellent movement and mobility, others, not so much. In fact, some greatly restrain movement it will seem that your partner has you on a body lock.

2. Accessibility

This refers to manual and visual accessibility to a woman. Some thrusting positions free a hand or two, allowing them to wander into other territories. (As you may already know, a great deal of these free hands end up at the breasts.) Others require both arms for balance & stability for the stroke.

Men love to ogle the goodies as they pound away. Bouncing breasts, moaning faces, and of course, tight behinds are winners. But because the body is profiled a certain way, manual and visual access to these may not be available all at the same time. Woman-on-top for example, makes the face and breast visually and manually accessible, but it leaves her buttocks hidden from view. In a way, there’s a Catch-22 going on.

Very notable height discrepancies between couples can make for some uncomfortable sexual positions. A giant and a dwarf, on the same bed, will have issues with alignment and reach. The ideal is for both to be of the same height and weight categories. The good thing though is that significant height and weight discrepancies among couples are not very common.

3. Stress & Strain

During the sexual tumble, muscles and bones do receive reasonable stress. This is again a question of health, conditioning and medical conditions. Your options for positions will greatly depend on what both your bodies can do COMFORTABLY.

Sex can be lethal. If you’re a couple of 120-year olds still getting some action, there will be positions your soon-to-be bereaved family will strongly advise against. You’ll be better off with more relaxed and more subdued sexual maneuvers.

There are positions that overly strain your back, hips, neck or legs.

You will instantly know what these are because your body will be screaming, “Are you kidding me?!” Others are borderline acrobatic and will drain the joy from the act.

Why engage in those non-practical positions anyway? But if you’re young, healthy and able, you have a lot going for you – there’s POWER OF CHOICE in that.

4. Orgasm Potential

Sexual positions have different clitoris and G-spot potential – some target them perfectly, others render them next to useless.

To increase your hit rate, recall the locations of these two: (1) the clit is located OUTSIDE the vagina – safely nestled under a hood ABOVE the vaginal entrance where the Labia minoras meet. It gets off on friction & pressure. The G-spot on the other hand can be excited INSIDE, through the TOP wall of the vagina.

There are choice arrangements that fire up these areas and offer intense pleasure, eventually leading to a cussing climax. We will soon determine what these are, but men who generally consider themselves givers… already know.

5. Emotional & Psychological Effect

It’s interesting to note that the manner in which two bodies are configured has psychological and emotional bearings on the participants. The partner on top for example, will oftentimes experience the sense of power and leadership, by virtue of playing the dominant role. The one at the bottom can express trust and safe-vulnerability by being led and taking on a more tempered role.

There are positions that signal adventurous excitement and creativity, others, raw passion and unfettered intensity. Through tons of friction and closeness for example, certain positions enhance the feeling of intimacy between two naked bodies. Still, there are arrangements that strike a woman she’s merely being treated as a sexual object.

Spread Eagle Sex Position

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Sex Positions: Spread EagleThe Spread Eagle sex position is a classic oral sex position for her and is a tried and true standard for many couples. Although it lacks the “exotic” factor, it’s a favorite among women because they can simply lie back, relax and enjoy the pleasure!

How To Do It

This is the “Missionary” of oral sex positions for her – it’s the most common oral sex position for women, and it’s actually a favorite, simply because the female partner has the ability to relax and focus on the pleasurable sensations she’s receiving. For many women, relaxation and focusing is key to achieving orgasm! The female partner lies on her back with her legs spread, and her male partner situates himself in between her legs so that he can give her oral sex. It’s simple but very, very effective!

Where To Do It

Bed, couch, floor, any flat surface

Props You’ll Need

Pillow for her head and lower back (a pillow under her lower back will tilt her pelvis up and give her partner more access to her vulva)

Difficulty Level

1

Her O-Meter

5

Women love the Spread Eagle oral sex position because they’re able to lie back, relax and enjoy everything. They only have to focus on what feels good, which can be exactly what a woman needs to reach orgasm.

His O-Meter

1.5

This is probably the least favorite oral sex position among men, simply because it can make for some serious neck cramps! It’s not easy getting the angle right when licking, and the neck can bend in an odd way. Some men may not be able to keep this position up long enough to actually bring their lovers to orgasm. He also can’t reach down and stimulate himself very well.

XXX Tip

Guys, slip a lubed finger inside her vagina and gently massage her g-spot while you lick her clitoris (after she’s warmed up and turned on of course!) This will increase her chances of orgasm and if you do it well enough, you may even get her to squirt!

Bodyguard Sex Position

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Sex Positions: BodyguardThe Bodyguard sex position can be difficult to achieve good thrusting in (especially if she’s short), but if you can get lined up properly, the Bodyguard can be an extremely intimate and satisfying sex position. He can touch her anywhere, kiss her neck and whisper dirty things in her ear!

How To Do It

The Bodyguard is a standing rear entry sex position that isn’t too hard to actually get into, but it’s a little difficult and awkward to keep up during thrusting. Height differences between partners can make it a little more challenging, but it’s certainly not impossible. In this sex position, both partners stand, with the female partner resting her back against her lover’s chest. He enters her from behind, and both partners slightly bend their needs to facilitate thrusting. It may take a few minutes to get to where you’re both moving in sync with each other, but this position can be super intimate. He can kiss her neck, lick and suck on her ear lobes or whisper dirty talk in her ear!

It’s important for the female partner to arch her back or else he may keep “slipping out”.

Where To Do It

Shower, closet, bathroom, anywhere else you can stand. Ideally the Bodyguard sex position is performed in front of a mirror for the visual enjoyment of both partners.

Props You’ll Need

Footstool (or stairs) for the lady if she’s petite. This will help you better line up your genitals for ease of thrusting.

Difficulty Level

4

Her O-Meter

2

The Bodyguard isn’t a favorite among women, unless their partner has a longer penis. A smaller penis doesn’t penetrate as far in this position, and can leave a woman wanting more. Men with smaller penises who want to engage in rear entry sex are better off using the Doggy Style or Standing Doggy Style sex positions, as they encourage deeper penetration. He can make this position better for her by reaching his hands around to her front and fondling her breasts, nipples and clitoris.

His O-Meter

3

He likes this position fairly well, but it’s a little lackluster for him unless you’re doing it in front of a mirror (which is a great idea by the way). Men need visual stimulation to really enjoy sex and without a mirror, there’s not much for him to look at here. If he’s a breast man, he will particularly like it when she arches her back and pushes her breast up and out for him to fondle.

XXX Tip

This is a great sex position to use in the shower, especially if you have a smaller shower stall. Since you can’t really lie down in a lot of showers, the Bodyguard is a great way to still have wet and wild sex in the bathroom!

Basic Rear Entry Sex Position

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The Basic Rear Entry sex position is probably the easiest way to get started with rear entry, apart from Doggy Style. When he thrusts, he can stimulate her g-spot in a unique way, and the closer her legs are together, the tighter it feels for him. This is definitely a must try!

How To Do It

The female partner lies on her stomach, propping her upper body up on her elbows. Her legs are slightly spread apart with her knees bent and feet in the air. The male partner approaches her from behind and drapes his pelvis over her rear, so his penis can enter her vaginal opening from behind. He supports his body weight with his knees and his arms, which are positioned with his palms on the floor on either side of her upper body. The rear entry sex position can also be used for anal penetration.

Where To Do It

Couch, bed, floor, any flat surface

Props You’ll Need

A small pillow under her pelvis can raise her bottom to shorten the angle of entry for a man with a shorter penis.

Difficulty Level

2

Her O-Meter

2.5

While rear entry does provide a unique angle to her g-spot, unless her partner’s penis is on the longer side, she’s not likely to get as much pleasure from this as she would if she were on top. However, if his penis is big enough, this could stimulate her g-spot in ways she’s never felt before!

His O-Meter

5

This sex position is one of the better ones for guys. The difference here is that her legs are somewhat closed and her buttocks are tight together, making her vagina feel much tighter to him. This increased friction is enough to send him over the moon!

XXX Tip

Since she gets pretty much zero clitoral stimulation in this sex position and he can’t really reach down there and do it because he’s supporting his weight on his hands, the female partner can get a lot more pleasure out of this position if she stimulates her clitoris herself. Since the floor is supporting most of her weight, she can use one of her hands to reach down and stimulate her clitoris either with her fingers or a small vibrator like a bullet.