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5 Wet And Wild Sex Positions

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The sex positions you can get into in the bedroom will only take you so far when it comes to trying new things. A lot of sex positions can end up being very awkward, especially if you and your partner aren’t extremely flexible or don’t have the right kind of furniture to help you out. However, you can spice things up by bringing in the element of water. Not only is having sex in the water extremely hot, it can help you get into sex positions that you never could before!

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Sitting On The Edge Of The Pool

This one is easy and probably a little cliche, however, there’s a reason it’s so popular. Sometimes it can be difficult to get into sitting sex positions in the bedroom (or even out of the bedroom). The pool adds the sexy, sultry element of water to your sexual escapades, but it’s really the ledge of the pool that gives you the advantage here. The female partner sits on the edge of the pool – usually on the shallow end – while her partner stands at an area in the pool that allows his groin to meet up with hers. After your hot sex-a-thon on the side, you can slide into the pool and cool off!

Up Against The Wall Of The Pool (Or On The Ladder)

Standing sex positions are even more difficult to do in the home than sitting ones, so if you really want to get into a standing position, the pool is really going to be an asset for you. Find an area of the pool where you can stand up, but the water should be high waist or chest level on the male partner. Use the wall of the pool for support – or the pool ladder to help you, but the key here is that the water will help make the female partner feel lighter and easier to lift up and onto the man’s penis. Underwater, the woman will feel fairly weightless, allowing both partners more movement and freedom in the standing sex positions.

Missionary Position In The Jacuzzi

Sure, the missionary position may be played out, but if you hop in the Jacuzzi first, the hot, bubbling water will turn it into a completely amazing experience. This is a great way to try the missionary position if you love doing it that way, but you’re tired of the same old, same old. Find one of the places in the Jacuzzi that is contoured and designed for a person to lie down in the tub but not be completely covered in water – these are usually on the sides of the Jacuzzi. Either partner can lie down – have the man lie down if you want to do girl on top. You’ll love the feel of the hot, steamy water around you and your partner as you get it on!

Doggy Style In The Shower

Often, the shower is the most convenient place to have sex in the water, because if you don’t have access to a private pool or Jacuzzi, you can forget those unless you want to get busted in the pool of a hotel! Shower sex can be lots of fun if you have a big enough shower or tub, but a lot of people don’t. Doggy style, however, is the best sex position to use in the shower if you don’t have a lot of room. Turn the shower on so you can feel the hot water running over your bodies, and get it on! You can vary the angle of penetration by having the woman put her hands up on the ledge of the tub instead of the bottom.

Scissor Position In The Tub

If you have a longer tub, you can use the scissor sex position as well. Have the woman lie on her side in the tub and raise on leg as high as she can. Then, the man will straddle the leg that is resting on the bottom of the tub and start penetration sideways. Her leg can comfortably rest on his shoulder if she’s flexible enough. You probably want to do this with the woman’s head facing away from the faucet, or she might bang her head into it and get quite the shiner! Run the water for a few minutes if you want a couple of inches of water in the bottom of the tub to splash around in, or turn the shower on to feel like you’re doing it in the rain!

Try This Super-Secret Steamy Sex Move Tonight!

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Sex positions can make or break your sexual experience with your partner. If you’re in a sex rut, new sex positions can really spice things up and make you and your lover feel like you did when you first got together. If your sex life is fun and healthy, new sex positions can really take things to the next level. Surprise your lover tonight with this fun twist on an old classic.

Traditional Spooning

You’ve probably done spooning before, where the woman lays on her side and her lover enters her from behind. This is a fun one to do, because it can provide a great angle for g-spot stimulation for the woman. It’s also great if she’s tired, or if the man wants to fondle her breasts or clitoris during intercourse. The problem with traditional spooning is that neither partner gets to face each other during sex.

Without chest to chest and eye contact, there is a reduced sense of intimacy during sex. It can feel more like a “job” to do or it may end up just being a quickie that neither partner really enjoys but it “gets the job done,” so to speak. If you want to feel emotionally and physically close to your lover during sex, traditional spooning is probably not one of the sex positions you’re going to want to choose.

Spooning With A Twist

Does that mean you have to give up spooning completely or only enjoy it every now and then? Because having sex on your side can be so much fun and it can feel really great for both the man and the woman! If you love spooning during intercourse with your lover but would like to have more face to face contact with them, you can! You don’t have to find something else to do, just twist your body around so you’re facing your partner on your side. Here’s how do do it:

  • Lie on your side facing your partner
  • The woman’s legs will be straight, but the one not laying on the bed should be lifted up and hooked around her partner’s hip
  • The man will then scoot closer to her so that he can insert his penis into her vagina

Basically, it’s going to be just like you were spooning away from each other but instead you will be facing each other and the woman will have one of her legs hooked around her lover’s hips so that she can bring him closer to her. With spooning with a twist, you’re still having intercourse on your side, but you’re face to face with your lover for more emotional intimacy.

Why This Move Is So Hot For Him

He may be all for trying different sex positions, but does he really want to stare at a woman’s back while he’s having sex, does he? Even if his girl has the most beautiful back in the whole world, guys are visual creatures. They want to see breasts, butts and faces with pleasure written all over them. Spooning with a twist gives him the opportunity to look at his lover’s body in all it’s naked glory, and it also allows him to see her O-face. Which guys love, even if women are embarrassed about what they look like during orgasm!

Sex positions that allow him to have a woman’s legs (or leg, in this case) wrapped around him, pulling him tighter towards her feel incredible to him. Especially when he reaches climax, he wants to feel as close to his woman as possible. Spooning with a twist helps him feel super physically close to his lover too!

Why This Move Is So Hot For Her

Emotional intimacy is incredibly important for a woman to reach orgasm and really, to even enjoy sex all together. Women are emotional creatures, so straight up sex isn’t going to do a whole lot for her unless her emotions and imagination are involved. The face to face action in the spooning with a twist position is an incredible way for a woman to feel closer to her man emotionally, since she gets to look him in the eyes and watch his face during sex.

This is also one of the best sex positions for her because there is more clitoral friction for her, as well as more g-spot stimulation. Combined with the face to face contact and increased emotional intimacy, the spooning with a twist position is a recipe for an intense blended orgasm!

Q&A: Sex Positions For Plus Sizes

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Finding the right sex positions that not only feel great but also work with the body type of both you and your partner can be frustrating. If you or your partner are plus size, you may not get good penetration in some sex positions and others may just be downright impossible. Here are some sex positions that work well for big boned couples, because everyone deserves a satisfying sex life!

My boyfriend and I have been having sex for a while now, and we just cant seem to get it to “work,” meaning we can’t quite get a good flow going. With me being a girl, I have trouble getting it to feel really good for an extended period of time. The problem is he is very overweight and I am a mere 120 pounds.

We are only physically capable of doing the girl on top positions, and I have trouble keeping his penis in and when it stays, I have a hard time keeping thrusts going because I have to keep his belly out of the way. Please help us we really want to improve our sexual connection with one another.

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Doggy Style

Doggy style is a great sex position to try if one or both partners are big boned. If only he is larger, it works well because he can lay his belly on her butt to keep it out of the way and allow for deeper thrusting. If she is also larger than average, it allows her to keep her own belly out of the way during sex. Traditional missionary style sex may be difficult if both partners are larger than average because their genitals don’t always touch when facing each other chest to chest. Doggy style makes penetration and thrusting much, much easier for big boned couples.

Spooning

Spooning is also a great way to overcome difficulty having sex when you’re overweight. The woman will lie in a fetal position, with the knees bent. A pillow can be put under the woman’s hips if it is comfortable. The man will kneel facing the woman and enter her, and for variety, the woman can lift her leg and place it over his shoulder.

T-Square Position

In this sex position, the woman lies on her back with legs spread apart and raised. The man lies with his hips under the arch formed by her raised legs. This allows both partners’ abdomens to be out of the way, allowing the genitals to touch without difficulty.

Try A Love Swing

A love swing – also sometimes called a sex swing – can enable you and your partner to try sex positions you never could before. Because the sex swing holds one partner up, it is easier to do more things than you can if you’re having sex on a surface like a bed or couch. Most sex swings have straps that can suspend one or both legs in different ways, allowing lots of variety for penetration and thrusting. Couples that have larger than average body types will find that g-spot orgasms are easier to achieve using a sex swing, because it holds the body at a variety of angles.

Love Swing Safety

If you do decide to invest in a sex swing, make sure they hold you and your partner’s separate weight limits, and make sure to install it correctly according to the manufacturer’s instructions. Find a sturdy place in the ceiling from which to hang the swing, such as a beam or stud – not sheet rock or drywall.

It’s Not All About Penetration

Sex isn’t all about penetration – if you and your partner have difficulty finding sex positions that are comfortable, learn to please each other in different ways. Oral sex is a great option for big boned couples that have a hard time with intercourse and thrusting. Also, try experimenting with sex toys. You can give your partner pleasure and connect with them sexually in ways other than intercourse. Don’t stress out too much about it if you and your partner can’t have sex easily. You can still have fun together!

Fun Facts

Did you know that overweight men last longer in bed? Researchers in Turkey have finished a year long study which correlates body mass index with male sexual performance. Heavier men were able to make love for an average of 7.3 minutes, while smaller men lasted only an average of 108 seconds. The study showed that overweight men had higher levels of the female hormone estradiol, which blocks male hormones and delays the climax.

Great Sex Positions – Warning! These 4 Moves Will Leave Her Shaking!

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Lots of guys use the same sex positions over and over. The trouble with these guys when it comes to having sex is that they are boring and stick to the same old routines and positions that get them off quickly. Sadly this leaves little room for a woman’s sexual fulfillment. But if you are willing to add a little excitement and variety to your sex positions, you could accelerate and accentuate a woman’s ability to enjoy sex and even have an orgasm. And I have not even talked about how much that would do to your confidence in bed!

The “C.A.T.” Technique

The Coital Alignment Technique is a surprisingly easy variation of the conventional missionary position. The only difference is that instead of direct penetration, the man’s pubic mound is pressed and rubbed against the woman’s. So instead of penetrating in and out, the thrusting movements are more akin to grinding or gyrating. Such rhythmic grinding will stimulate the clitoris and build up your lover’s arousal much faster. This means she will enjoy an orgasm earlier as well!

Female Dominance

Whoever said the missionary position is a woman’s favorite? Instead let your lover get on top of you and give her control during intercourse. By allowing your partner to control the thrusts and intensity of penetration, you can make sure that she derives maximum pleasure for herself! The added bonus is that while she is sitting on top of you, you can simultaneously stimulate your lover’s breasts and clitoris to build up the arousal very quickly.

For a variation of this position, have your lover face away from you. This allows you to have a greater chance of stimulating your partner’s G-spot with your male anatomy. (Hint: the woman-on-top position is also great for guys suffering from premature ejaculation)

Titillating Doggy Style

Doggy style is one of the best positions for both men and women. Many women experience powerful orgasms in this position because it allows deeper penetration and G-spot stimulation. Furthermore, when a woman is on all fours, you have more control with the thrusts and can go harder and faster than you could in the missionary position.

Alternatively, you can also vary this position by having your lover lay flat on the tummy and allow your partner to raise the buttocks during penetration.

Enchanting Embrace

Let your partner lie on her back, lift your lover’s legs up so that they embrace your shoulders and then enter the vagina. This allows you to penetrate deeply and hit the G-spot, especially if you have a penis that bends slightly upwards when erect.

For a variation of this position, have your lover lay somewhere with the legs up (on a table, for example) so that you can enter your partner without having to kneel down. This gives you more leverage and also let you have easier access to the clitoris. Hint: Give simultaneous clitoral stimulation using your thumb when you are penetrating your lover. This will double your partner’s delight and prime your partner for a truly fulfilling orgasm… only faster!

The Best Sex Positions For Mind-Blowing Orgasms

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Do perfect sex positions actually exist? They do! However, the most awesome sex positions for men and women are different. Also, did you know that by moving even one inch in any direction while in these sex positions, you can dramatically change the feeling and intensity of the pleasure?

Take your time to find the best angles for the both of you, while using these sex positions.

The Best Position For Women To Climax

The reverse missionary is identical to the traditional missionary except that she is on top. This is probably the easiest position for a woman to have an orgasm because she can control the friction to her clitoris or G-spot.

Since you typically want the women to orgasm first, this would be one of your first positions and then move to a position where the guy has full control of his orgasm.

You can vary your leg positions by both of you spreading your legs, or by alternating the one who has them spread and the one who has them together.

The Best Position For Men To Orgasm

Practically every animal species utilizes the rear-entry “doggy-style” position, so it is a natural one for humans to enjoy, as well. Although you won’t have face-to-face contact, there are many benefits. It is great for guys because it gives them full control.

This is one of the greatest sex positions for hitting her G-spot and allows you to fondle her breasts, stomach, clitoris, back, neck and other sensual spots. Even she can touch her clitoris in this position.

She kneels before you (some women enjoy it more if their head is down on a pillow) and you enter her from behind. The main benefit for the guy is a view of her beautiful bottom and being able to see the action, while getting incredibly deep penetration (above-average guys need to be careful as deep thrusts might hit her cervix, which can be quite painful).

The Mistake Couples Make Using Sex Positions

Of course, books show dozens, if not hundreds, of sex positions, but the reality is that there are maybe only eight basic positions, with slight variations for each. So what happens when you’ve tried all eight positions to death? Let’s face it – ­­in the end, lovemaking is generally always the same.

That’s why you should explore ALL aspects of sexuality about each other. I don’t mean anything freaky here. I just mean cultivate an adventurous spirit. Turn foreplay into a game. Add a prop or two.

Try a new place. How about starting off with a plate of fruits? There are literally HUNDREDS of ways you can make your lovemaking more exciting, passionate and fulfilling long-term, rather than just trying new sex positions.