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2 Secrets To Prime Her For An Incredible Orgasm

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When a man gives his girl sex, he is aware of one fact that most guys don’t know: awesome sex does not always begin in the bedroom! You should have a plan for a steamier sexual experience with your partner. You should do something beforehand to give your girlfriend great sex – and orgasms!

One great way to put your partner in a sexual mood is by giving your partner some kind of an intermission before the actual intimate act. Women cannot be turned on just with physical intimacy. Their minds need to be conditioned prior to the sexual intercourse. This can be done by spicing things up with a twist of romance.

There are two settings that you can use to have great sex with your partner and give a mind blowing orgasm!

Sex Tip #1

You may begin by cooking a special meal while she is not yet home. Cook whatever recipe you know because even if it is not the best food that she will eat, your effort in preparing this will surely be appreciated. And, while she’s stuck in the traffic, make a path of candles and turn off all the lights in your house. Make it a candlelight dinner to add more romance. Put white wine or champagne on your list of what to serve.

Just before the dessert, prepare a nice, warm bubble bath for your partner. Dim the lights and have candles lit around the tub. After dinner, go to the bathroom and undress her. While you give your lover a bath, touch every sensitive part of her body, but do not begin your exploration with breasts. Once she becomes in the mood for sex, you may start caressing the inner thighs.

Right after the bath, dry her up and begin with the most awaited foreplay. Not only will you prepare her physically, you will also put your partner into the feel of having an exhilarating moment with you – guaranteed to prime her for an amazing orgasm later.

Sex Tip #2

If you and your partner have creativity in mind, you may take this passionate plan away from the privacy of your home. You can take your partner to a restaurant for dinner. Once in the restaurant, excuse yourself for some private time in the bathroom. Then call using your cell phone, as she waits for you at the table. Talk about your deepest and most intimate desires while on the line. This will surely please your lover because women are very imaginative about great sex fantasies especially with the person they go to bed with!

You may continue this sexual innuendo after dinner as you ride in the car to a secluded place. Play a sensual music in the background, something that will set the atmosphere for the two of you. Then whisper gently everything that you have planned to do.

Once you hear your partner ask for more, take it! If the car seems uncomfortable for the two of you, you may want to head to the nearest motel in town. And with the intense sexual anticipation already building up, you will certainly give her passionate sex (and the best orgasms) ever!

G-Spot Orgasms – Tantalizing Tips To Give Her Sensational Sex

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The G-Spot is present in every woman and what a man should do is to take extra measures in stimulating it and give their partners a steamier sexual experience. Even if you know where your woman’s G-Spot is, you must also know what to do once you are in contact with it in order to give your partner a series of explosive multiple orgasms.

How To Stimulate The G-Spot

Let your fingers perform circular movements after you insert them into your lover’s vagina. In order to pleasure your partner even more, make sure the touch of your fingertips against this soft gland is constant. Stop moving your fingers inside it and start an inward and outward motion and then occasionally swivel your fingers while they are inside the vaginal canal, applying an even tempo at the same time.

G-Spot stimulation can be even more exciting for the woman if you let yourself perform oral sex using gentle tongue movements on the clitoris. An eventful release will surely come its way to your lady!

When stimulating the G-spot, always bear in mind these 3 things that will put your partner on the path towards orgasmic ecstasy:

  • Take your time in hitting the G-Spot so as to put your lover into a sexual mood.
  • Always be aware of your partner’s preferences especially with regards to what satisfies your girl the most.
  • Do not forget to stroke the G-Spot whenever your fingers penetrate the vaginal canal.

Penile Stimulation Of The G-Spot

It is not only your fingers that can work wonders. The penis may do a better job in stimulating the G-Spot! This works exceptionally well if your penis is slightly bent when erect, as this enables it to reach this sensitive mound of flesh.

But don’t lose hope, just because your penis is not capable of making a bow shape – there are other ways to stimulate the G-Spot.

What you can do about this curving problem is to try out different sex positions. Move your body so that your penis is directed towards the north since it is most likely that you will reach the G-Spot in this way.

If your penis arches towards the left or right, lie down on the bed, let your woman sit on top of you and allow her to control the penetration movements. If your penis draws downwards, try letting your woman lay on top of you with buttocks facing you.

Aside from using your fingers and your penis, sex toys such as vibrators are also very useful in making the G-spot more responsive and giving your partner intense orgasms.

Communication Is Key Too!

Communication has always been an integral part of an intimate relationship. Although there are many obscurities with regards to the G-spot, it is still important that both parties relate to each other whatever gives them sexual gratification. Let your partner guide you through what is most pleasurable for your significant other, and all you have to do is accomplish what she tells you to do!

Put these tips to good use and a hotter and spicier sex life will await the both of you! You will also feel appreciation for all the wonderful things you have done!

Sex & Orgasms: Top Editors Picks Of 2010

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Everyone wants orgasms, better orgasms and – well, more orgasms! Everyone wants better sex, even if their sex life seems to be already satisfactory. You may think that getting your lover to reach climax is easy, but giving a guy or a girl the big “O” isn’t always cut and dry. Having orgasms isn’t always about performing techniques A, B and C in that order – often, it’s about using your intuition and going with the flow when you start getting busy.

If you’ve never had an orgasm before or have never given your partner one, there are lots of things you need to learn before you get started. First up – having orgasms through masturbation. Learning more about your body and how you move through the stages of orgasm is the first step to learning how to receive orgasms from others and even how to give them.

Once you learn the basics, then you can start fine tuning your techniques to give better, faster and harder orgasms to yourself and of course your lover! If you and your significant other have a pretty satisfying sex life, don’t worry – there is always more you can do to make sex hotter, steamier and more satisfying.

Female Ejaculation: Give Her A Squirting Orgasm In 7 Easy Steps!

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Female ejaculation exists, and a squirting orgasm is like the holy grail of all female orgasms. This might be new to you, but contrary to popular belief, women do experience the release of ejaculation just like guys do. Kudos to the men who can make their ladies “gush” and attain the ultimate in sexual ecstasy! For those who want their women to achieve a squirting orgasm during your intimate moments with your girl, the following steps will come in handy! (Warning: Once you please a woman in this manner, it will create incredible bonds of intimacy between the both of you – so use this tips ONLY with the woman you really love).

#1: An Exciting Prelude To Begin Sexual Exploration

Make the foreplay hot and steamy for your partner. Start out with small bites on the earlobes and along the contours of the neck, followed by smooth and tender sucking on both nipples. Use light touches along the torso with your fingertips. Do these until you come into contact with the inner thighs. Let your lover be the one to guide you once she is prepared to take the exploration to a new level.

#2: Licking Is More Than Just The Movement Of Your Tongue

Start off by sliding your tongue along the vulva to the clitoris and along the borders of your lover’s vagina. The upward and downward motion of your tongue should be done repeatedly and unhurriedly. Use the broad part of your tongue for best results.

#3: Light Touches Along The Mounds Of The Most Private Areas

Allow the tip of your tongue to travel along the labia minora. To make this more pleasurable for a woman, let your tongue slide along this minute mound along with with some momentary sucking.

#4: Next Stop Is The Clitoris

Tenderly suck on your girl’s clitoris. You can move your tongue in various directions. Make your hands busy at the same time. Gently caress both breasts and have the tips of your fingers make light touches on the nipples and on more sensitive spots.

#5: Roll That Tongue!

Curl your tongue into a tube-like shape and insert it into the vagina as gently as you can. This step may be a little tricky especially for first-timers, but with enough practice, you can make your partner go wild.

#6: The Power Of Your Fingers

Insert two fingers into the vagina with your palm facing upward. Find the G-spot – a mound of flesh inside the vagina, about one to two inches in size. Lightly touch and add pressure on the G-spot using your fingertips. You will feel this flesh swelling up and become more rigid as you continue to stimulate it.

#7: The Most Awaited Moment – A Squirting Orgasm!

At this point, she will most likely reach the peak of sexual excitement and be able to experience the “gush” of female ejaculation. However, before she ejaculates, she may have a tingling urge to urinate. Assure your girl that it perfectly safe to let go. Act natural and make your partner feel that you are totally at ease, because this way, the sexual encounter becomes a lot more special. And with this, she will surely ask for more!

How To Give Her “Orgasms On Full Throttle” (Great For Any Penis Size!)

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Is your penis size important in sex and in giving her powerful orgasms? In other words, is a bigger penis better for sex? That seems to be the proverbial question that men have been asking since the dawn of civilization.

Well, what if I told you that your penis size is not a big deal after all? In fact, it is the lousiest among all “tools” you can bring to the bed!

Why is that so? Well, read on and find out…

The Truth About Penis Size And Sex

Ask any woman who loves great sex and have experienced great sex. Chances are, she will tell you that the size of one’s manhood does not feature much in how she enjoys the experience. So put aside that penis extender or male enhancement pills you have been popping all day! A big penis is a great asset to have, but the skills you bring to bed will be your defining moment during sex. Besides pumping in and out, what else can your penis do?

Do Casanovas And Don Juans Have Great Assets In Between Their Thighs?

The secret is out. No they don’t! Even if a guy is small like a mosquito, he can still outperform any clueless lad with a much bigger “asset”! As long as you know how to please, pleasure and caress any woman properly, you can bring great sex to the bedroom, anytime anywhere! And believe me when I say that those Casonovas and Don Juans in the world are only average as far as their penis size goes.

The Myth About Penetration And Orgasm

Penetration is just about the only thing that happens during intercourse. Well, that is just what most guys think. When in the throes of pleasure, most men would focus only on themselves and pump away until they reach the inevitable goal – their own orgasm. But is your woman enjoying a great time too? Well, most probably not!

You see, women are incredibly different from guys. Women don’t just live for the moment of orgasm. They relish the way they are brought to a climax. And the simple truth is this: The vast majority of women are not able to reach an orgasm though penetration alone simply because her clitoris – the nerve center of a woman’s orgasm – is not properly stimulated via penetration. So your penis, big or small, does not figure much in triggering those incredible waves of pleasure in her.

So How Do I Give Her An Orgasm?

Simple! Just observe what SHE does when she stimulates herself (a great majority of women can reach an orgasm through masturbation alone!). Mimic the motions, the angles, the intensity she use on herself. Then use them on her!

When it comes to great sex, take things SLOW. Don’t use sex as a means to an end. Instead be a man who plans for the future BUT also live for the moment. Be a man who starts a night of lovemaking without considering his own orgasm, but focus on securing a body-shaking climax for his lady. This is the type of men women would gladly die for.

Now achieving that kind of body-shaking, wild-screaming orgasms that most women crave for, will depend on how you build up the sexual tension. Savor each stage of lovemaking as if each phase can bring her to an orgasm (indeed it can!). Raw, passionate kissing that sets free a woman’s sexual inhibitions can bring her right to the edge of a climax. And so can the great prelude to intercourse – foreplay. Even a good dose of oral sex can give her mind-boggling orgasms that leave her breathless.

The key is to live for the moment and don’t let your focus waver away from her. Believe me, when you are able to do this, you will enjoy sex for its full glory and splendor, just like how a woman enjoys it. And when you finally reach your own orgasm, it will be more mind-blowing than anything else you have experienced before!