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6 Ways Tell If A Woman Is Faking Orgasm

The female orgasm is easy for a woman to fake, but it’s also simple for a man to tell when she’s not being honest about an orgasm. Here’s how!

Unless your girl is a professional porn star, it’s really not that difficult to tell whether her orgasm is faked or the real deal. Even if she is a professional (lucky you, eh?) there are still some telltale physical signs that will give her away. Here’s how to tell if she’s actually experiencing the big O or if she’s just a big liar.

1. She Sounds Fake

Listen to her. Is she moaning and groaning like she’s putting on the performance for best actress? Then she probably is. Is she perfectly capable of forming complete sentences? Then she’s probably not in the throes of a real orgasm. A woman who is truly headed over the brink of climax isn’t going to sound fake – she may even be silent as her eyes roll back into her head and her body is wracked with spasms of pleasure.

If she’s “telling the truth,” she’s not going to be able to really form words or sentences – she will likely say nothing at all or only be able to say a few things like your name or “Oh God!”

2. Her Vagina Doesn’t Contract

When a woman orgasms, her vagina contracts in such a way that really cannot be faked. It’s so fast and erratic that a woman can’t mimic it on her own – it only happens that way when she’s climaxing. Unfortunately, you can only tell if you’ve either got your penis or your finger inside of her as she’s coming.

So if you want to tell whether she’s faking or not using this method, either make sure she’s having an orgasm during intercourse or you’ve got a finger or two massaging her g-spot while you’re going down on her or fingering her. Feel for those “butterfly” spasms – if there aren’t any, she’s likely putting on a show.

3. She’s Not Breathing Heavy Or Isn’t Flushed

If she doesn’t look like she’s ran a 5k, then she probably didn’t have a real orgasm. A real orgasm will increase a woman’s heart rate, make her sweat, increase her breathing and cause the skin in her face, neck and chest to become red and flushed. If she’s just hanging out looking as chill as can be, you can bet her O was fake.

4. No Involuntary Movements (i.e. No Orgasm Face)

Women tend to lose control when they have an orgasm, much like you do when you have one. If this climax is the real thing, she’ll probably be making some involuntary movements when she’s in the throes of pleasure – such as twitching her arms or legs and making the orgasm face.

Don’t call her out on her O-face – the fact that she can’t control herself and might look like she’s about to sneeze as she’s coming will likely embarrass her. But pay attention to it in secret – if her eyes are closed but her face isn’t contorted even a little bit, she’s probably not being honest about her orgasm.

5. She’s Not Dazed And Confused Afterwards

Most of the time – although not every single time – a woman will be slightly dazed and confused after a real orgasm. She’ll have to hang out for a minute or two while she regains her breath and her composure. If it was really good, she may take a little longer, or have trouble standing up afterwards. These are all good signs! However, if she rolls off of you immediately, gets up and starts getting dressed to start her day, you can bet pleasure wasn’t on her mind at all – just her to-do list for the day or how great the new purse she got will look with her outfit.

6. Her Clitoris Isn’t Sensitive Afterwards

This is another telltale sign of a real orgasm, although if a woman is really skilled and good at faking, she’ll be sure to fake this too. Some women aren’t “in the know” about this aspect of their anatomy though, and you may be able to use this to your advantage when trying to determine whether she’s being honest with you or not about her climax. After an orgasm, a woman’s clitoris will be so sensitive it will likely hurt to touch it.

This only lasts a few seconds, so make sure to “test” her right after her orgasm. Touch her clitoris lightly after she’s climaxed and watch her reaction. If she’s totally cool with it, she faked. If she jerks back involuntarily and almost violently, her orgasm was real. If you were giving her oral sex, just keep licking for a few seconds longer than you need to and see what happens.

When trying to determine whether or not your girl was faking her orgasm, use your instinct and trust your gut. Your girl would have to be really, really good at faking it for you to not spot at least one of these signs, if not more. If you think she’s faking, just ask her. Don’t be critical of her and talk to her about it – but be prepared for the answer. Don’t con her into revealing that she faked by saying you won’t get mad, and then turn around and get mad about it.

If you want to talk to her about faking, make sure you’re doing so with an open mind and open heart. Talk to her about why she’s faking and be prepared to offer possible solutions. Be prepared to step up and make some changes if that’s what she needs. If you’re not ready to do this and are still just pissed at the possibility that she’s been lying to you about her orgasms, then you’re not at all ready to approach her about it. Getting mad about it isn’t going to get you anywhere except not getting laid at all.

How To Fake An Orgasm – He’ll Never Know

By jessicaperez

Before I dish out some great tips on how to fake an orgasm, let me clarify a few things.

First, let me start off by saying I hate having to fake an orgasm, and I’m sure many women feel the same way. You’re just fooling yourself, keeping your sexuality hidden and preventing your man from really knowing how to turn you on intensely enough for you to get off. However, I do not hate the women who fake. They have their reasons.

Second, I may hate faking orgasms now, but I certainly did my share of faking when I didn’t know any better. Why did I fake? I usually faked whenever I felt like the sex is getting nowhere and the man I’m with won’t quit pinching, poking and senselessly humping with a limp penis until I tell him I have reached orgasm. I wanted to give him a break, because I could tell that all he wants to do is sleep (after all, he has already climaxed). Yes, I cared that much.

If you’re ever in the same pinch, here are some ways to fake an orgasm so that he will never know I faked…

Bite Your Lower Lip

I don’t know where men got this notion, but some guys believe that a girl is about to climax if she bites her lower lip. Close your eyes tight as you can as you bite your lip to indicate that you’re “coming.”

Moan Loudly

Most guys have been gorging on porno movies ever since they learned about sex. They have been trained to believe that a woman screaming her lungs out during sex is reaching orgasm. Because of this, you can fake climax by moaning loudly, and shrieking after a series of loud moans. If you want an example of how to do this, check out Jenna Jameson’s old porno videos. Boy, that girl can scream!

Tell Him You’re Coming

According to porno films, all women are considerate enough to tell a man they’re going to climax before they actually climax. This makes a guy go faster, and hump harder, so he can join her.

Simply moaning out loud won’t do. You actually have to articulate the words “I’m coming” so that he will know.

Scratch His Back

The stereotypical sight of a woman scratching a man’s back when she reaches orgasm is considered one of the best ways to tell when a girl is coming.

You can simply dig your nails on his back while you’re “almost there” and scratch down ruthlessly when you’re supposedly “there”. He will forgive you for the scratch because, after all, you were in the throes of climax and you didn’t know what you were doing.

Clench Your Muscles

There are some guys who are experienced enough to know when a girl is faking and when she really is reaching orgasm. But there’s a move that most guys mistake for orgasm. It’s the clenching of the vaginal muscles. When you climax for real, the muscles inside your vagina move sporadically.

You can’t control the sporadic movements, but you can simulate the muscular movements by consciously tightening the vaginal muscles around the shaft of the penis. Hold it for a few minutes and he thinks you have successfully reached orgasm.

5 Reasons Why Women Fake Orgasms

By leejenkins

We exist in a results-hungry world where our achievements are measured in terms of how we reached our goals. If we didn’t reach them, someone gets mad, someone gets blamed (you) and someone gets disappointed.

Achieving female orgasm is the same. Sometimes you meet women who can climax easily, and you may or may not attribute it to how well you made her. She could claim that she did it herself.

No matter who gets the credit, the important thing is that it happened. You both made it happen, one way or another (though, in your mind, you know that YOU made it happen. Enough said).

In a world where achievements and egos go hand in hand, how does a guy who can’t make his girlfriend reach orgasm feel?

Here are Some of the Reasons Why Women Fake:

So That You Won’t Feel Bad

There are some men who don’t care if a girl climaxes or not, but there are more men who do. A girl’s orgasm is an affirmation of how well these men perform and it becomes a ‘pride’ thing. There’s also that nagging doubt in a man’s mind that if he can’t satisfy her, she will leave.

A woman, being intuitive enough to know these things, will sense that her orgasm is sometimes more important to the guy than to her. So, she fakes.

So That She Won’t Feel Bad

With all the stories she hears from her friends about how good sex is, especially when a girl orgasms twice, thrice, four times, five times….ten times! Oh yesss yesss!!

She might feel compelled to tattle about how great sex is for her too, how she came TWELVE times with her boyfriend. But she didn’t and she knows it. Yet she makes you believe she did, and she tells you that she did. But, she didn’t.

Because It’s How It’s Supposed To End

Blame it on porn or on yourself, but answering “no” when you ask her “was it good for you too?” would be just wrong. You shared a great cuddle after sex, and the man she loves wears a smile on his face as he drifts off to sleep. He whispers her name as he feels her move away to pee.

So, who cares if she feels like there’s something missing from the whole sex thing? She’s in love, and her man is so happy with her. That’s enough, right?

She Doesn’t Want To Look Ugly

Believe it or not, there are women who fake because of vanity. She probably saw her face in the mirror while she was really cumming and she was horrified that she looked like someone in a bad Exorcist audition while she was having the big O. And, was that pig-like grunting she heard herself utter while she was having her orgasm?

No, it just won’t do. She fakes because she wants her man to see her as a diva while she cums, with a seductive smile on her lips and moaning so artfully. Besides, she knows how to make herself cum anyway. She can do it when you’re asleep.

She Just Feels Like Faking

There are women who feel sex is really overrated, and if she doesn’t climax this time, she won’t waste her energy and nap time stressing over it. She didn’t cum for real, but if it’s important to you, she fakes. No big deal.

In the end, faking an orgasm goes against the idea of being honest in a relationship. Yes, in the short term, a woman who fakes an orgasm avoids any pains of disappointment and awkward moments.

But in the end, it will be a lot tougher to experience a real orgasm, simply because the “problem” (not being able to reach orgasm through sex) is not being addressed.

Communication and education are the keys to unlocking the female orgasm.

Better Orgasm 101

By jessicaperez

As with most anything in life, there is a learning curve one must round before attaining the proficiency and skill to succeed. Sex is no different. Were we women born to immediately know how to achieve orgasm? I think not.

It may be easier for some women solely due to chemical makeup. But the majority of us – 70% according to statistics – require active clitoral stimulation before we can achieve orgasm. The good part is that we can learn a method that will allow us to increase our sexual responsiveness during intercourse and experience climax through the act of intercourse.

Consider yourself enrolled in Better Orgasm 101. We will learn the three steps in a plan to lead you in the right direction.

Clitoral Stimulation

In the first part of your new program, you or your partner will stimulate your clitoris as you are making love. During intercourse, if the motions are distracting to you and prevent you from reaching climax, simply have your partner insert his erect penis into your vagina without movement. During this still period of intercourse, manually stimulate your clitoris until you reach orgasm. Once this is successful, have your partner get moving.

The second phase teaches you to rely less on your manual clitoral stimulation. Gradually stop touching your clitoris a certain time period before your reach climax. You will begin to let the thrusting motions of your partner propel you into orgasm. At first, the time period between ceasing clitoral stimulation and orgasm will be short.

In the third phase, you will begin to increase the amount of time between the end of clitoral stimulation and climax.

You graduate to the next level only when you have successfully passed the test of achieving orgasm through the previous level of non-clitoral stimulation. During any of these phases, you may take as long as you like to complete and pass them. There is absolutely no pressure to move at a fast clip.

Fantasizing

In fact, the psychological aspects of this process definitely need to be mentioned. Our bodies do not exist without our minds. The mind-body connection is a powerful connection that we need to learn to use to our benefit.

When practicing the phases, begin to use your mind to fantasize. It’s one hundred percent OK to do this. To enhance your sexual pleasure, fill your mind with an erotic image that you find very stimulating. This one action alone may be the trigger that sends you directly into orgasm.

It is also important to realize that you need to be in a relaxed state of mind and body when seeking the ultimate sexual pleasure. Shed any inhibitions or old-fashioned notions of what you were always taught that sex should be. Make the sex your own. Slip into a sexy negligee and feel good about yourself. Look at your reflection in the mirror and praise the way you look. Love yourself and let your partner love you.

Enjoy Different Positions

Old-fashioned notions of sex, for the most part, prevent a woman from fully enjoying her sexual experiences. You do not have to always position yourself on the bottom. You are free to get on top, lie side by side, sit down, stand up, or bend over. You are free to experiment with the things you enjoy. Try one of my favorite moves: rub your clitoris on your partner’s pubic bone when he is inside of you. This feels wonderful.

There is NOT one position or one range of motion. If you do not move your pelvis in a manner that sexually pleases you, you are forgoing a great amount of sexual pleasure. So get moving … move your hips side to side, in and out, all around. Make circles, make squares, whatever you feel.

Exercising Your Sex Muscles

As part of this sexercise program, you should also begin toning and strengthening your PC muscle – the muscle that contracts during climax. This is the same muscle that you would use to cease the stream of urine. Start by contracting this muscle in sets of 25 two times per day. Work your way up to sets of 100 twice daily.

Just as regular exercise in a gym promotes a healthy body and lifestyle, exercising our sexual muscles promotes a healthy sex life. Most women who strengthen and tone their PC muscle have an easier time of achieving orgasm through intercourse.

Research suggests that sexually active women achieve orgasm much easier than women who do not engage in sexual intercourse on a regular basis. Sexually active women love their sexuality.

With all of the practice in which you are about to engage, you will be passing all three quizzes linked to the three-part plan will flying colors. The final exam is scheduled at your convenience. Remember that the real test simply proves that you can relax and really enjoy your sexual encounters. The real test is all about increasing your responsiveness to intercourse.

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