Porn has a way of ruining the sex lives of men. If you have recently met a woman that you’re attracted to, you should try to cut adult movies out of your life immediately.
Does This Sound Familiar?
So you’re out one night, you’re in a bar, and you’re talking to this absolutely incredibly sexy woman.
She’s one of the hottest women you’ve met in a long, long time. As you’re talking to her, you’re absolutely fixated on her lips. She’s touching you, flirting, pushing you away.
You order one more drink. She accepts. All of a sudden you’re drinking and you start kissing her a little bit, and then your mind flashes. Your penis gets hard and you think to yourself,
“This would be the perfect time to have sex in the parking lot. It would be so awesome to have her legs up above her head as I pound her in the back of my Dodge Durango.”
And then you think, “But wait a second, that’s not as exciting as putting her on the hood of the car—spread eagle—where everybody else can see us in the parking lot.”
You’ve actually seen that online. You’ve seen that in porn and the woman looked like she was having the greatest time in the world. She looked like she was absolutely having the time of her life and you thought to yourself, “It’s time that I can make my porn fantasies come to reality with this girl. She’s drunk enough; she ready; we’ve already been kissing a little bit.”
Women Don’t Watch Porn Like You Do
This is not going to happen. They don’t want to be banging on the hood of your Durango, nor do they want to do you in the parking lot after getting smashed at the bar.
Sure, maybe the drunken skanky woman, stumbling, falling down, coming on to every guy in the bar. You might not be aware of this, but the one you’ve been talking to is actually investing time in you. She could be touching you ever so slowly, kissing you a little bit. She wants to be with you, but she wants it to be real.
She’s investing time and moments in you, she just doesn’t want to be thrown on the hood of a car with your dick inside her, and banged at 100 miles an hour for 2.3 minutes. She actually probably wants to go home with you at that moment and have you go down on her and have you please her and have you figure out how to give her an orgasm. She’s got other ideas.
She may just enjoy teasing you at that moment. This may just be a moment of foreplay for her so that all of a sudden you can hang with her another night and have sex.
Porn Can Ruin Your Sex Life
I live in Los Angeles. I have friends who work in the adult film industry. Los Angeles is the capital of the industry. I’ve got friends that are cinematographers for adult movies. Every single porn writer is a man who masturbates too much and thinks of fantasies.
Women will watch porn once in a while with you, enjoy it, and pick up new positions. But the bottom line is, most women don’t want to have sex like sex in the porn movie.
It doesn’t work that way guys. Porn is warping your perception of sex. If you want to know what women really want when it comes down to sex, read a little bit.
Porn is going to ruin your sex life, guys. This is the reason you don’t have repeat encounters. That’s the reason why so many of you are one-and-done with them.