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Blowjobs 101: What Your Man Secretly Wishes You Knew About Oral Sex… But Will Never, Ever Tell You To Your Face!

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Most women know that men love blowjobs. And many women can adequately please their partners orally, more or less anyway. But can YOU truly blow your partner’s mind when you give him head and have him absolutely begging for more?

Here are some surprising facts about blowjobs:

  • Did you know that your tongue is a muscle just like every other muscle in your body and exercising it will make it stronger and more powerful?
  • Did you know the tongue can put six to eight pounds of pressure on a man’s penis?
  • Did you know a great handjob can feel as good as a blowjob to a man if it’s done the right way?
  • Do you know that a string of pearls, a silk scarf and a bag of Skittles can make your man’s toes curl?

If you’ve ever wanted to give your partner the kind of blowjob you know he wants, then we have a little secret to share with you.

First, let’s talk about why you are not pleasing him through oral sex…

Three Mistakes that MOST Women Make Consistently and the One Killer Mistake that ALL Women Make When Giving Head

Mistake #1: Awkwardness and Feeling Tired After Just Several Minutes of Giving Head

Most women can start a blowjob right but never finish because of tongue muscle cramps and jaw locking. When these happen, men feel the tension (and more often than not, sharp teeth!) and get turned off.

Mistake #2: Seeing Blowjob as a Tedious Chore

You CAN learn to enjoy blowjob just by being adventurous and playful. If you can see blowjob as a way to express your sexuality, you will never have to feel tired or bored while giving head.

Mistake #3: Lack of Knowledge of the “Hot Spots: on the Penis and the Whole Gonad Area

There are specific areas on a man’s penis which increase the likelihood of orgasm, but a lot of women miss these completely.

And, finally, here’s the most common mistake that lead to annoyance, discomfort and relationship tension….

Mistake #4: Some Women Do NOT Develop a Fail-ProofSystem to Make Him Climax through Oral sex

To really learn the skills to make him climax through blowjob, you must develop a system to vary, combine and intensify the pleasurable sensations men feel while being blown… and they let their men confuse them even more with barely thought out instructions on where to lick, when to suck harder and when to speed up…

If no consistency is achieved, what results is a hit-and-miss blowjob style that only works at certain times. This lack of consistency makes women feel more inferior about their blowjob skills.

If you’re ready to take the plunge and start learning about how to really turn your partner on…

Our friend Jessica Perez just published an amazing guide called Blow His Mind Tonight which is all about the in-and-outs of giving your man the best blowjob of his life. Never before have we seen a book so loaded with useable blowjob tips and techniques as this one!

Not only is Jessica’s book great for beginners, it also contains a wealth of information for women who simply want to amp up their blowjob skills and increase their sexual skills.

Jessica’s Blow His Mind Tonight is not only a great place to get started with lots of exercises to help your mouth’s strength and stamina, but also a great place to get tons of ideas on what positions to use and what tongue techniques will work the best.

Check out the awesome information that Jessica has in her incredible book:

  • Learn correct tongue placement and easy tongue exercises that you can do anywhere, anytime to make your mouth a powerful pleasure deliverer!
  • Find out the right way to breathe during a blowjob
  • Learn how to make your hands baby bottom soft for that perfect handjob
  • Test your blowjob abilities with two fun, before and after quizzes to see how much you’ve improved your oral sex skills
  • The different parts of an orgasm, including arousal, ejaculation and recovery
  • Learn how to give your partner the holy grail of blowjobs – deep throating – without gagging
  • Learn dozens of different techniques to use during handjobs and blowjobs to give your man the ultimate pleasure

But hold on a second, there’s a catch.

Before you download Jessica Perez’s Blow His Mind Tonight, make sure you’re willing to put in the effort it takes to learn how to give your partner the ultimate head. While Jessica’s guide is practically bursting at the seams with information, it’s not going to guarantee that you instantly become an oral sex goddess. The tips and techniques included in her book are things you actually have to do to make work, so make sure you’re willing to invest your time into learning how to give your partner an amazing blowjob.

If you think you have what it takes to learn tongue exercises, handjob techniques, blowjob techniques and the ultimate deep throating techniques to really blow your partner’s mind, download Blow His Mind Tonight and get started!

Still not sure? Read Our Review of Blow His Mind Tonight.

99% Of Women DON’T Know How To Give A Blowjob – Are YOU One Of Them?

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Almost any guy can get a blowjob and ejaculate. But does that mean the blowjob was great, or even mediocre? Not hardly!

In fact, chances are, almost EVERY blowjob that your guy has gotten has sucked – and not in the good way! (And this includes the blowjobs he’s gotten from YOU)

Why?

A recent study from Men’s Health magazine shows 44% of men would leave you for some other random chick with better blowjob skills. This actually happens.

You may have a great personality and looks, but when your man discovers another woman who sucks like an angel from heaven, your relationship may collapse worse than a house of cards in a thunderstorm!

Why Is Giving Great Head So Important?

You might think that this is shallow – that guys should be more interested in the mutual love and trust that comes from a great relationship, not how good the sex or oral sex is. But studies and polls show that almost half of guys who are dissatisfied with their sex lives are unhappy because their partners either don’t give them head at all, don’t give them enough head, or are so bad at it that he’d just rather her not do it at all.

Are YOU one of those women?

Listen, finding a woman who can give an intensely satisfying blowjob is a rare find indeed. She is one in a million – a guy who finds a girl who can suck him off and actually ENJOYS doing it will get a ring on her finger in no time. In fact, he may not even get his pants zipped up before he’s running off to the jewelry store. Yes, learning how to give incredible oral sex is the KEY to snagging the man of your dreams.

Then keep reading. We found an incredible resource that will teach you not only the basics of giving a guy head, but tips, tricks and techniques that he’s NEVER had any other girl use on him – guaranteed! He’ll be so surprised when you give him a blowjob like this that he’ll brag about you to all his guy friends – and his guy friends will want you to teach THEIR girlfriends how to give head that good!

Jack’s Blowjob Lessons will teach you how to be the one that every man will actually want to keep and truly fall in love with! (Yes, your oral sex skills are that important!)

WARNING: It’s only fair that we warn you that these tips and tricks are SO HOT that your fella will be begging for you to go down on him ALL the time. If you don’t want to unleash the beast and make him think that you’re a complete and total sex goddess, then don’t read this book. But if you’re ready to see how hot things can really get, Jack’s Blowjob Lessons will show you how to work your man’s member in a way that will make his knees weak, make his legs shake, and make him say your name over and over!

What You’ll Learn In Jack’s Blowjob Lessons

  • Attitude. This is essential. If you have the wrong attitude when you start going down on him, you’ll be lucky if he can even get it up. This guide will teach just how important attitude is and how to come across the right way. You’ll also learn little tricks and techniques that help him to pick up on your attitude so you KNOW you’re conveying the right thing.
  • Blowjob Positions. Positioning yourself for comfort is also incredibly important – a huge reason that girls don’t enjoy giving head or don’t do it very well is that they’re uncomfortable. So they suck on it for a bit and then move on to having sex, because hey, who wants a crick in their neck? But there ARE blowjob positions that will keep you comfortable for hours while you give your man the greatest pleasure he’s EVER experienced!
  • How to set the atmosphere and how to engage in foreplay. Foreplay isn’t just for women. Sure, men can get hard in a few seconds and get it on, but does that mean it’s really GOOD? This guide will show you how setting the right atmosphere and engaging in plenty of foreplay will get your man so hot, he’s trembling before you even put your lips on his penis.
  • Blowjob Techniques. What would a guide about how to give head be without several specific techniques you can use? These are easy to learn and easy to follow, but your man will wonder where you picked them up and just how you got to be so darn good at giving head! (This includes deep-throating – if you can learn how to deep throat during oral sex, he’ll be yours forever.)
  • Dirty Talk. Guys want to hear how much you love sucking them off. Jack’s Blowjob Lessons will give you specific examples of things you can say that will get your man so turned on, he’s gasping for you to finish him!
  • Spitting vs. Swallowing. Semen is one of the biggest reasons that women avoid blowjobs. They think it’s “yucky” and sometimes it is. But this guide will teach you how to swallow or discreetly spit in a way that still makes your man think that you LOVE it when he ejaculates after a blowjob.

What People Are Saying About Jack’s Blowjob Lessons:

“I tried it when my boyfriend came home, we had dinner, and then I said I wanted desert and he asked me what I wanted and I said, “I don’t know but I want this” touching his penis. He loved that, lol. I did the “smart housewife” and oh my! Lets just say last night was awesome! And the best thing about it is I enjoyed sucking my boyfriend’s d**k!” – Victoria

“Let me start by saying WOW!!!!!  We have been married 19 years and together 8 years before that.  My husband has always been good at letting me know what felt good and we often experiment new ways.  After a blowjob he would say “Oh that was great”  So as you said I thought I was doing a good job.  Bought your book last night browsed through it.  Last night I surprised him with a late evening blowjob. His reaction at the end game point “F**K OH F**K WOW, OH MY, WOW F**K, THAT WAS THE BEST EVER I MEAN EVER REALLY I MEAN EVER!” – Cliona

“Dude I just wanted to say thank you…my girlfriend bought your book and was telling me about it and then tried so much of that stuff on me. I really appreciate all that stuff you had the balls to write in your book. You are definitely one of my new heroes for sure. Thanks again man, also thank the ex porn star also, my girlfriend loved her advice!” – Brian

So are you ready to take the next step and become the BEST lover your man has ever had?

Are you ready to give your fella a blowjob so good, he’s dripping with sweat and can’t even stand up afterwards?

Do you want him to brag to his friends about how amazing HIS girlfriend is at giving head?

Get your copy of Jack’s Blowjob Lessons TODAY and give your guy head so incredible, he’ll never want another girl again!

Best Oral Sex Tips Of 2012

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Oral sex can make mediocre sex super hot, and you can often give your partner the best orgasm they’ve ever had through oral sex! It’s an extremely intimate act that will take your sex life to a new level! Here’s our best of 2012.

How To REALLY Eat A Girl Out 

How To Make Your Lover Orgasm Faster During Oral Sex

5 Ways To Get Her To Give You Head More Often

5 Easy Blowjob Techniques To Start With

Sheet Soaking Oral Sex Techniques

How To Make Him Melt In Your Mouth

3 Oral Sex Tips To Drive Her Wild With Razor Sharp Female Orgasms

4 Ways To Get A Blowjob WITHOUT Asking

How To Get Him To LOVE Going Down On You!

How To Spice Up A Blowjob

6 Beginner’s Oral Sex Techniques

 

Why 69 Can Improve Your Sex Life

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Oral sex in the 69 position is something many couples try, but don’t do regularly. Why? It can totally revamp your sex life! Here’s what you’ve been missing out on.

69 is a great position for giving each of your mutual pleasure. While the 69 position can be great for foreplay, not enough couples use it to bring the both of you to orgasm. Most people think of this as a starter position or something to get the ball rolling for the “real sex.” The fact of the matter is that the 69 position is great for foreplay or for bringing the both of you to orgasm. 69 can improve your sex life immensely. 69 allows the both of you to enjoy giving and getting all at the same time. Here are some ways that you can improve your sex life through the 69 position.

1. The Woman’s Advantage

The 69 position has a significant advantage for girls. Men love to see the most intimate parts or woman’s body from behind. While you are in this position your partner Will be able to give you oral sex from a view that he will love. This will also give you control over how deep you want your vagina on his mouth. A man can please you while you are pleasing him, bringing you both to orgasm with a view that he will never grow tired of. This position will also give you sensations that aren’t commonly felt when your partner goes down on you the traditional way.

2. The Male Advantage

Getting a blowjob is something that all guys relish. However, the problem with having a girl give you oral sex is that she doesn’t get anything out of it. With the 69 position, you both getting you what you want. When she is on top of you, she will give you different sensations just by the angle that your penis is at when it goes into her mouth. This angle is not something that is typically felt unless you are engaging in 69.

3. The Side By Side

A variation of the 69 position, the side by side position allows the both of you to give and get, but without the hassles of gravity. Traditional 69 will leave a girl’s legs tired and her knees irritated. If you are looking for an easier way to achieve the benefits of 69 but without all of the stresses, the side by side is a great way to go. Simply lie on your side and get into the 69 position. This going to put more weight on your side, but you will be able to shift the shift by bracing against your partner’s legs. This will also give you better access to the small of your partner’s back and their butt.

4. Anal

If your girlfriend or wife is into anal, the 69 position will allow you to play with her anus. One of the best techniques to employ is to use a sex toy on her anus as you give her oral sex to her vagina. Not all women are going to be into this so make sure that your wife or girlfriend is up for it before you try it out. If your wife or girlfriend is into analingus, you will also be to easily go from her vagina and clitoris to her anus while you are in the 69 position.

5. Intimacy

69 can easily improve your sex life because it can build intimacy. Not making the night about having the best sex of your life takes away a lot of pressure. This allows the both of your take things slow and forget the rush of pumping away at each other. 69 rarely requires any kind of lube so it can easily be employed from other foreplay methods such as kissing. If you don’t want to take this position all the way to the end, you will be able to easily reposition into sex.

6. Prostate Massages

Another benefit of using the 69 position is that you can give your boyfriend or husband a prostate massage without having to change positions. Whether you are on top or on bottom, you will access to his anus without making much of a fuss. Not all guys are into prostate massages, however, if your partner is, you might want to use this position the next time he gets the urge. If you are going to give your guy a prostate massage from this position, make sure that you have a lot of lube near by and that he knows what you’re about to do. There is nothing stranger than when you feel a girl start to to a little more north that you’re used to.

Why Your Attitude Is KEY When Giving A Blowjob

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Blowjob tips aren’t all about how to suck and lick your partner. It’s also about your state of mind when going down on him. Here’s how to improve your blowjob skills.

The most important aspect of giving your lover an incredible blowjob is your attitude. If you have a bad attitude about it, the activity isn’t going to be enjoyable for either you or your partner. However, if you have a good attitude about the blowjob, it will really turn your lover on and get him into it.

Acting Like The Blowjob Is A Chore

Think about the situation in reverse – what if he were giving you oral sex? How would it make you feel if he acted like giving you oral sex were a chore? How would you like it if he acted like he’d rather be doing anything else than have his head between your legs? (You might already have a man that does this – if so, then you definitely have some perspective here.) It wouldn’t make you feel very sexy, would it? You wouldn’t feel desired, or that your lover cared at all about your pleasure. You would probably feel intensely rejected and you would take a huge blow to your ego.

When you act like sucking him off is a burden rather than something fun and enjoyable for you, it makes your partner feel exactly like that – unsexy, undesired and uncared about. This makes it very difficult for him to get lost in the pleasure, or really feel any pleasure at all. His mind will be preoccupied with trying to figure you out than being open to receiving intense pleasure and orgasms from oral sex. So no matter what your blowjob skill level is, it doesn’t matter if you don’t have a good attitude about giving head.

How Do They Do It In Porn?

Take porn for example. Although porn is probably the worst place you could possibly go to learn blowjob techniques, there is one thing you could pick up from the porn stars and use in your own oral sex repertoire – and that’s how great their attitude is. Men love it when the girls in porn get excited about going down on them. They love it when a woman is enthusiastic about doing such a naughty, pleasurable and submissive activity.

You’ll notice that in almost every blowjob porn, the girl on the giving end is just plain ecstatic about sucking her man off! Now you most certainly do not have to go to the extremes that these women do – or else it will probably come off as fake anyways – mimicking their willingness and enthusiasm about giving a blowjob will make you really good at it. A great attitude is even more important than learning great blowjob skills.

Smile, And Act Like It’s FUN!

So with a great attitude, you can give your lover the best blowjob of his life – even if you’re not that skilled at different techniques and moves you can do. Just act like you get really turned on by the idea of going down on him and giving him the ultimate pleasure. Bonus points if it’s less of an “act” and you really do get into it. If you can learn to really enjoy giving your lover fellatio, the activity can be super meaningful and super pleasurable for both of you.