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Tantalizing Tips to Blast Her Into Orgasms With Effortless Ease!

The female orgasm doesn’t have to be difficult to come by. Use these simple but effective techniques to give your lover a climax that is out of this world!

If you think that giving women an incredible time in bed seems like an impossible thing to do, you are not alone. Statistics have shown that most men are woeful lovers in the sack and that a great number of women can achieve an orgasm only through masturbation and not through intercourse. Sounds like you are one of those guys among this unfortunate statistic? There is no need to panic. It is not as difficult as you might think to become her “Don Juan in bed.”If you need some quick tips to drive her wild in bed and give her the most incredible orgasmic experience, you’re definitely in the right place.

The Bosom’s Her Best Friend, And Yours Too!

A woman’s breasts, like her genitals, are her most treasured possession and the gateway to her sexual pleasure. Her breasts are certainly one of the most important areas you should focus on during foreplay. Before you reach for her breasts, make sure you have sufficiently aroused her by gentle touching and caressing other sensual spots on her body.

Be gentle with her breasts as with all the other parts of her body. Massage her breasts in a circular motion using either your fingers, nails or both your palm and fingers. Try to incorporate your tongue without going for her nipples as it is ultra sensitive. Save it for later. By holding back and teasing just a little, you will heighten her sexual anticipation and build her up for a genuine orgasm later.

The Art Of Erotic, Sensual Lovemaking Is This!

One of the main ingredients that will make you a great lover is that you enjoy the whole process with her. So, you are probably thinking that you make a great lover since you do enjoy the lovemaking process. But, do you really? Far too many men look at sex as a great way to boost their ego. If you really enjoy having sex, you would want to try to make it last as long as possible for your lady, and not merely enter, thrust, ejaculate and end!

Seriously, lovemaking is a form of delicate art and therefore, you should take your time to master it. It all starts with what a woman thinks is important to her: kissing, touching, involving her feelings etc. Build up her erotic sense first, then everything will become easy for you (yes, even making her climax multiple times!). Do not have the misconception that she has any specific “erogenous zones” because her entire body is in fact ONE large erogenous zone! Do this simple thing right and you will become the Don Juan in her eyes!

Q&A: What Is The G-Shot?

By loveandsex

The g spot can be elusive and difficult to find. Many guys have searched and searched for it, without ever finding the pot of gold at the end of the tunnel, so to speak. Is there a way to make it larger, more noticeable and more pleasurable?

What Is The G Shot And What Does It Do?

Simply put, it’s a cosmetic injection administered by a doctor directly in a woman’s g spot.

It works to amplify a woman’s g spot.The patient gets an injection in her g spot and it becomes larger and more engorged. This makes it much easier to find and stimulate. Some people also say that getting a G shot actually increases g spot pleasure and orgasms.

Is It Safe?

It’s actually FDA approved, although it was discovered by accident. The shot was initially for joints that were experiencing inflammation and had lubrication issues. Things like knees, hips, elbows, and the like. Somehow, they found another application for this collagen-like injection, and thus the G shot was born. How they went from injecting Restalyne and similar substances into joints to injecting in the vagina we’ll never know, but whatever. Maybe scientists really do need to get out more. Or, maybe, they have sex like porn stars and and make Rick James and Hugh Hefner seem shy and inhibited.

Is it risky? You mean to say that you’re concerned about sticking a needle in your vagina? Why, whatever could possibly go wrong? To be honest, not much, generally speaking. There aren’t a whole lot of side effects, but the ones that are present are common with getting these kinds of injections. The most commonly reported side effects are swelling, itching and redness. They aren’t common, but they can happen. Above all, do your own research! Inform yourself about the possible risks and side effects and decide whether the benefits outweigh them.

What Is The Procedure Like?

So, let’s say you want the g shot in your g spot (try saying that five times fast). What’s the procedure like? Where do you go for it? What does it take?

It’s pretty simple actually, it can be done in any doctor’s office and only takes about a half an hour or so to have done. A quick internet search can find you a doctor in your area that does the procedure, or you can call your doctor and find out if they can recommend someone to do this to you.

However, this is generally not the kind of conversation you want to have in a church, your cubicle or in front of your in laws. Social media and smartphones seem to have made people really dumb. Granted, we grew up prior to 1997, so we remember that thing that doesn’t exist any more, what was it called? Oh, that’s right common sense. And privacy. So have this conversation where you can speak freely and not bother anybody.

Then What?

It claims to make a woman’s g spot easier to find and can make you have more pleasure during sex, however, but the jury’s out on that last party. Like Botox, the shot doesn’t last forever. It only lasts about four months, so if you do it and you like the results, plan on having it several times a year.

So is it really worth for you? Only you can really answer that.

3 Raunchy Secrets To Explosive Sex!

By lloydlester

Sex can be mediocre, or it can be INCREDIBLE! Here are three nasty, naughty secrets that will make sex better than ever! She will LOVE this!

The idea of knowing your woman is enjoying genuine sexual pleasure and shouting your name with orgasmic glee is simply unsurpassed. If you want to be one of the lucky men who have their women’s happiness (and faithfulness) at their fingertips, read on to discover 3 tips on making you her only man – in bed and out of it!

1. Memorize Her Body

If you want to master anything, you have got to start by learning it. Memorize the location of her G-spot. Many chaps likewise fail to touch the clitoris in the proper manner. The only way you could satisfy her is by familiarizing yourself with her body. Touch her as often as possible and enjoy and appreciate how she reacts to your every move.

You might be surprised with the simple things that turn her on. More importantly, learn to enjoy lovemaking. It is not a race or a competition. So don’t hurry! Most women love a slow, sensuous build up in sex. Believe me, once you get her in the right mood, she will achieve an orgasms faster than you would probably imagine!

2. Drop The Same Ol’ Habit

If you are sick with the same old routine at your work, how more sick could your girl be with the same sex patterns? Test various positions and watch carefully for the slightest reactions from her. Women all have their adventurous side, so you better change your moves.

Try out various sex positions and see which one produces the best effect on your lady. Your woman would like your guts and be more adventurous herself! The more things you try out, the more you’ll get closer to a happier and satisfied relationship.

3. Stimulate Her MIND!

If you think arousal is only a matter of the body, you are wrong. Arousal involves the mind as well. Sexual intercourse would be more passionate if your minds and hearts connect as well as the body. What’s lovemaking without words of love? Words, as with many other aspects of life, are powerful. In fact, there are times when all it takes is a single word to make her go from lukewarm to burning hot.

It is truly a skill to know how to bring your woman to an orgasm using your words, so start learning how to do so! If you learn to seduce her mind before and during sex, it will amp up the level of enjoyment for the both of you!

How To Tease Your Girl Into An Orgasmic FRENZY!

By loveandsex

Foreplay is essential every time you have sex! You want to tease and play with your lover as much as possible before getting down to business – here’s how!

Ever since she experienced it from the boys on the playground, a woman relishes the thought of being teased. That tension between bad boy and innocent girl was challenging and it was exciting! And, although she may not readily admit it, it was kind of fun. Looking back, she realizes that she loved it.

What took place at the playground must also unfold in the bedroom – the adult playground.

Thwarting Her Power Over You

Women, especially the desirable ones, often find that they can easily manipulate guys into doing anything, absolutely anything they want. What she wants, she gets – immediately and without question. – without her working for it. If she wants a kiss, boy-toy here would only be too happy to comply. Why would he wait, he’s only been waiting for that moment for like 2 months! Guess who’s the doggy and who’s the master in this dynamic?

It’s very important that you not only learn what women want, but HOW NOT TO GIVE IT TO THEM IMMEDIATELY!

That’s teasing!

Teasing During Oral Sex

In oral sex for example, don’t immediately dive and spar with her clitoris. That’s what most guys do during foreplay, but you’re not most guys. Start with her inner thighs, before moving to the general area of the vulva, accidentally touching the clitoris a few times. Eventually, zero in on the clitoris. During the build-up phase, you can even STEP BACK and leave it for a while and get busy with something else. Then later, come back. It’s a back & forth, push-pull technique.

The same thing happens with stuff like kissing, massages, penetration etc. Don’t jump to the good stuff, delay the good stuff. The sensual man doesn’t see this as delayed gratification – it is prolonged pleasure.

But why do we tease in the first place?

Why It’s Important To Do It EVERY TIME

Let me make this very clear. We do not tease because we can, we tease because we should. It’s not an ego-tripping power play used to punish a girl. We employ it for effect. If you want incredible sex, you cannot afford to miss on teasing.

We make women wait so they will come to appreciate what we give, when we give it. And this thing goes beyond sex, by the way. For example, how do you make house guests appreciate the dinner you serve? You make them sit & sit & wait so long ‘til they get so hungry they’ll literally harvest what you set on the table.

Teasing raises the value of what you offer, by setting it temporarily & slightly out of reach, you increase wanting. People don’t desire what comes easily. Anything that comes effortlessly is easily taken for granted. People want what they can’t have – this is the basic law of human nature.

When It Goes Overboard

But here’s a warning: Extended foreplay is great, up to a point. There’s a calibrated point where it ceases to become motivational and instead becomes punitive. It needs to be operated on an optimum level, going beyond that simply decreases effectiveness and produces a negative result. One has to strike balance to the art.

There comes a point when she knows, for her ego’s sake, the begging has to stop and she won’t play the game anymore. You’ve proven to be so much work, and you ain’t worth it. You’ve gone overboard, little fella. Use push and pull properly. If the lady sees she’s going to be denied everything anyway, she will stop asking.

Be Good At What You Do

The counterpoint for teasing is the PLEASING. You have to give her MORE than she bargained for, especially if she has proven herself to you. If you love foreplay, and are quite effective at it, you better be great with the actual pleasing part.

You can’t have her hang in there waiting for a kiss, only to get the sloppiest smooch ever! When you make her wait, you better make sure you’re worth it. Otherwise she’d think, “What?! That’s it?!”

You master the PLEASING by continually learning. Keep learning about your woman and make your game tight by understanding her preferences. I guarantee that you’ll be making tons of mistakes. Who cares?! Soon enough, you’ll be so good she’ll do anything just to be with you. Perhaps initially, like with a new partner, you won’t have much leverage with teasing. That’s normal, she is not yet aware of what you’re made of. But over time, when she sees your mettle, she’ll move heaven and earth just to experience you. I’m serious, please prepare for this eventuality.

When To Do What She Asks

One last thing, when she’s barking instructions like “Faster! Faster!”“Harder! Harder!”or “a little bit to the left” – it’s better to simply heed the request. There’s no point in delaying these kind of things. This usually happens during clitoral stimulation, penetration or when she’s about to have an orgasm.

For example, if she asks you for a massage, you may playfully give her a hard time initially. But when you’re already 15 minutes into it and she asks you to go “lower baby”, there’s no point in making her whine for this. You simply proceed.

The man who knows how to tease and please? Well, he becomes the go-to-guy.

3 Things NOT To Do After Sex

By rochellestavi

Sex is fun, but what do you do when you’re done getting it on? Roll over and go to sleep? Talk? Cuddle? Run for the hills? Here’s what NOT to do after nookie!

Don’t Make Him Lose His Orgasm Buzz

Everything that you do in bed, before, during and after intercourse, all matter and contribute to whether or not your man enjoyed himself to his fullest potential. If you even do something that turns him off in the slightest bit, chances are that is the only thing he is going to focus on. There could be a million positive things that you were able to achieve in the bedroom with him – like crazy awesome sex positions – but if you do one thing that rubs him the wrong way, that is going to be the one thing he remembers.

Why Acting Right When You’re Done Is CRUCIAL!

The turn offs that affect him the most usually come on after sex. After nookie is when women start winding down and maybe saying or doing stuff that they don’t mean. This is not a time to shut off the charm and shut down in the bedroom. What you do afterwards is important and affects your man tremendously. You don’t want to ruin the moment by doing something stupid do you? You don’t want to ruin his buzz by doing something that you are later going to regret do you? This is why you need to learn how to behave in the sexiest way possible to keep that orgasm buzz alive and well.

There is so much sexy stuff to do after getting it on that will help him to marinate in that moment and relish in it for just a little longer but that is not what we are focused on. You know what is sexy after sex but what you don’t know is what ISN’T. There are 3 rules for how NOT to behave after sex that all women must learn and you are going to get that insight right now.

1. Don’t Ask Him Questions

Right now, your man’s body and mind are starting to shut down. An orgasm takes a lot out of a man and leaves him feeling very weak. He is tired and starting to fall asleep. The last thing he wants or needs is you sitting beside him asking him a million questions. NEVER ask your man right after sex how it was for him or if he liked it. If he is lying beside you, breathing heavily and sweating then let that image speak for itself. Learn to garner some confidence within yourself and trust in your abilities to please your man. Trust in the fact that he did love it and don’t bother asking for reaffirmation. You know how annoying that is when he does it and how much of a buzz kill that is. Don’t do the same and follow suit. Instead, look over at your man in his sweaty glory and know that is all because of you.

2. Don’t Cuddle Immediately

Of course, it is natural for women to want to cuddle after sex and to feel that close bond intensified. However, men don’t feel the same way. Right now, his body temperature is off the charts and all he wants is to cool down. He doesn’t want your warm body on his warm body right way. He is going to need a minute to collect, maybe use the washroom, grab a drink and then he might want to cuddle, but it is okay if he doesn’t. Don’t take this personally if your man doesn’t want to cuddle after intercourse. You wouldn’t want someone as equally hot and sweaty to roll over on top of you if you were feeling light headed and out of breath, right? So, be a strong woman and don’t cuddle up to him right away. Stroke his thigh, or his chest and leave it at that until he makes the move to cuddle up to you.

3. Don’t Critique Him!

This is the biggest rule of them all that women need to learn in regards to behaving after sex. The last thing you want to do to your man is completely shatter his buzz. If he did something during sex that you didn’t like or that didn’t feel good, now is not the time to give him the rundown on what he did wrong. Leave this talk until the next time you both get intimate or sometime over the course of the following day.

Drop it for tonight and deal with it later. You don’t want to roll over when your man is in his glory, happy that he had an incredible orgasm and that you did too, and tell him everything he did wrong. Wouldn’t it make you feel terrible if he did that to you? Something’s are just better left unsaid at least for a little while. Granted, if he did something that made you feel really uncomfortable or went against a rule that you two had in the bedroom, you should bring it up. However, if it is something small and you are holding onto some sort of a grudge, leave it.

Learn to enjoy your man’s company in the moment of after sex and forget all of the little stuff. A lot can be said with a look or a kiss after sex so keep it simple and don’t carry baggage into the moment. Remember, how you act after sex is just as important as how you act during. Don’t be a buzz kill.