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5 Variations On Missionary That Will Heat Things Up TONIGHT!

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Missionary is ho hum, right? Wrong! Try these five super sexy variations on the traditional missionary sex position for hotter sex TONIGHT!

Missionary Variation 1

For women, the missionary position is often the most difficult when it comes to achieving orgasm. Unfortunately, if your partner is nervous or not very experimental, she may not be interested in trying other positions yet. That doesn’t mean she can’t still achieve an orgasm.

One of the keys to bringing your partner to orgasm is your ability to grind the base of your pubic bone against her clitoris—it’s all a matter of position. Have your partner lie back on the bed and place a pillow or two under her butt so her pelvic area is more arched.

Remember to continue the foreplay even as you are getting in position, so fondle her breasts or play with her butt as you place the pillows. Whisper in her ear that you have something incredible in store for her, and then let her mind conjure up the details. With her pelvic area arched in this way thanks to the pillows, you’ll have an easier time of stimulating her clitoris during vaginal intercourse.

However, if you want to boost your odds, you can purchase an inexpensive vibrator designed for the anus. Gently insert it at or before you begin penetration. The vibrations will stimulate her pelvic area, including her clitoris, which may lead you both to the desired orgasm.

Missionary Variation 2

Repeat everything from the first missionary position we discussed, but instead of using the vibrator, place your partner’s legs on your shoulders as you thrust inside her. This makes it easier for the base of your penis to stimulate her clitoris. Remember to start slowly and work your way up to harder and deeper penetration.

Let her reaction guide you. If she begins to moan with pleasure, then intensify your movements. If she winces, then ease up.

Missionary Variation 3

This is a variation of the second missionary position, which allows for even deeper penetration and gives you an angle more appropriate for clitoral stimulation. Again, your partner lies on her back on the bed. You’ll be kneeling above her, but at a slight angle.

Take her legs and put both of them over one of your shoulders. Make sure you remain at that slight angle during penetration as well.

Missionary Variation 4

This missionary position works by keeping the two of you closely connected so each thrust is more likely to stimulate its desired target. Of course, your partner lies on her back and you straddle her body. After you are inside her, she needs to pull her legs tightly together and you’ll need to wrap your ankles around her lower legs. While in this position, you’ll continue thrusting into her. If she seems uncomfortable, you may want to lessen the depth of each thrust. Remember that discomfort of any kind will interfere with your partner’s orgasm.

Missionary Variation 5

While this technique may not technically be an example of the missionary position, this is the best classification I could determine. This time your partner lies on the bed or floor with you kneeling above her. Now take her legs and raise them up, so you are holding her calves in the crook of your arm. Her butt should now be lifted off the bed and her vagina should be in line with your penis, so penetration will be easier.

If it makes her more comfortable, you could slide some soft pillows under her lower back. In this position, each time you thrust into her, you are also pulling her body against yours so each penetration is deeper and more intense. Because of the angle of the penetration, you are also more likely to stimulate either her clitoris or her G-spot, which should bring her to orgasm.

9 Mistakes That Will Make Her Never Want To Have Sex With You Again

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Sex isn’t as cut and dry as you might think it is. Make any one of these nine sex mistakes and you can guarantee she won’t want to do it again – EVER.

You just had sex with her. Congratulations! You got laid! But will you get laid by her again? The answer is, it depends. On what? How well you rocked her world and how many sexual mistakes you made. What kind of mistakes?

What She Said About Bad Sex:

It’s really not fair what women put men through. I will admit we are a lot of work, and a lot of foreplay but when you get us, you got us and we can make you feel like King of the World. When you don’t get us, we will easily pack up our little self and walk out the door because we are women and there are other men. Some mistakes men make that lead women to never want to have sex with them again are:

  1. Jack hammer her from beginning to quickly reached end. Unless she says to you verbally, “Give it to me like you are 17 and don’t know what you are doing.” Don’t go at her all rabbit style. The huffing and pounding is not good for anyone. It will be hard for her to get into it and will most likely lead you to coming way too quickly.
  2. Skip foreplay. Why, why would you do this? If you want her to think you are the man then you need to warm her up! Take the time and kiss her, feel her, lick her all these things are good things and hell while you are at it, go down on her! She’s more likely to return the favor.
  3. Orgasm too soon. I know sometimes men can’t help themselves and lets face it, us women are pretty damn hot, so it makes sense that they sometimes lose control but guys should last longer then one Bruno Mars song. This is when foreplay comes back into, well play. If you think you are going to blow your load, why not slow down and focus on her. Or switch up sex positions. If none of that helps then think about baseball or your aunt whatever.
  4. Orgasm too late. By this I mean the rare (but they exist) guys that can go on and on for hours without the help of drugs. Don’t get me wrong we are super impressed that you can have hours of sex but after a while (and after we have come a few times) things start to chafe and sometimes we would rather have a sandwich.
  5. Don’t shower. A smelly guy is never ever a turn one and we will not be putting our mouths on anything that smells like sweat, dirt or a port a potty. Irish Spring yourself!
  6. Remind us of our fathers. Enough said.

What He Said About Bad Sex:

Women should give it up more, just for the sheer about of crap we have to go through just to get you naked. I mean seriously. All’s fair in love and war, my ass! Anyways, here are some other mistakes you should avoid making:

  1. Not cuddling. Even if you’re just hooking up with her, women like to feel a certain level of intimacy after sex, even more so if you’re in a relationship. Pumping and dumping will make her never want to screw you again. I know there are reasons you might have your orgasm and then not cuddle. Maybe you have a leg cramp and need to walk it off. Maybe you just have to pee. Hold it. Or you won’t get to hold on to her again.
  2. Not calling the next day. You should always leave a woman better than you found her. Part of that is what I call “the art of the dismount.” That simply means how you end the relationship or the interaction is as important or more important than what you did during the interaction. Always text or call the next day, even if you never want to see them again or if you just didn’t have a good time. You never want to leave her feeling cheap, easy or used, even if she spent her sexual encounter with you bound, gagged and begging to be treated like a whore. (That’s only fun in the moment.)
  3. No oral sex. There’s no excuse for not going down. IF you need tips, and tricks, just tell her. Most women are ecstatic to meet a guy who wants to get better at going down. But not giving her oral sex is a huge way to guarantee that you’ll never get to go down on her again.

Sex Positions He Likes Best

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Sex positions can change up in your sex routine, but what does HE like best? How can you make sex better for HIM (and have him drooling all over you)?

What She Said About Sex Positions For Him:

I’ve always assumed that guys would like “woman on top” best because it offers them a great view of a sexy naked lady, her glorious breasts and her blissful face. Plus with her on top, the man can just lie back and relax a bit. But, I recently came to find out that some men find “woman on top” emasculating! Not emasculating enough to kill the mood, but being ridden by a woman is not always a favorite among men. (I know, I was shocked too!!!)

Naturally, I then assumed the missionary must be a favorite for men. In this position men can control everything and just go buck wild on their women, or so I thought. Turns out lots of men do not like this position due to the large amount of work and effort they have to put into it. One guy told me it was like “Doing push ups constantly.” YIKES! So I am officially done assuming. And yet, I can’t help but make an educated guess that maybe men like doggy style. In doggy style they can rest on their knees and not have to exert so much energy and they don’t have to look at their partners face.

What He Said About Sex Positions For Him:

So, it’s true, dude on top requires quite a bit of upper body strength, especially tricep strength, which I’m sure you are endless fascinated to learn. I prefer the woman on top, not so much because it’s a nice view (it is) or because women get off way easier (they do), but because so many women are lazy when it comes to sex, but they can’t be when they’re on top.

I can’t tell you how many girls just lay there when you’re on top or they expected you to do all the hip action in doggy style. It’s like they just go “okay, here’s my vagina. Now begin dispensing out the multiple orgasms.” Last time I checked, this was a team sport, right? It does take two to tango, yes? Apparently millions and millions of women have not received this message. I blame feminism and Sex In The City. And of course, Oprah, because we all know every woman on the planet is powerless in the face of Oprah and they just do whatever the hell she tells them.

That’s why woman on top is so great. She has to do all the work, she has make the orgasms happen. Reverse cowgirl or reverse woman on top are more great sex positions, especially for ass men. It’s great stimulation (mentally and physically) for both parties.

Doggy Style

It’s hard to beat doggy style as far as sex positions go. There’s something so raw and primal about it. I think all men love the “me tarzan, you jane” aspect to it. It allows deeper and more intense penetration which is a plus for both parties. And there’s something about that position, simply because it allows you to hit it like a home run in the bottom of the ninth, you know? You feel like a god, because you’re tapping it with a vengeance, she’s penetrated like in no other position, and so she’s screaming in ecstasy, which makes the guy feel like a rock star who screws like a porn star, and there’s just nothing wrong with that.

Missionary

Missionary can give many men the same primal power, but as I mentioned earlier, it does require quite a bit of upper body strength and many men find they don’t last as long because their body gets tired, and when that happens, the breathing gets shallow and then before you know it, it’s over and that may not be what you both had in mind. You might want to consider other sex positions.

Standing

If you can handle it, another one of the hottest sex positions is when the man sits on the edge of the bed, the woman sits on his baby maker, wraps her arms and legs around him and then he stands up and they do the horizontal mambo while standing up. A lot of men can’t hold that position for very long, for obvious reasons, so you can either, pick her up and lean up against the wall or do it like that for a while and then sit down on the beg again. You don’t need to hold that one long, women love that one for many reasons! It takes a bit of practice, but is well worth it!

Sex Positions She Likes Best

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Sex positions can make sex even better, but guys don’t often consider what a girl wants. Here are some of HER favorites you can use for great sex tonight!

A happy woman is vital to your sex life! Everyone knows men and women love sex, but which sex positions do women like this? Here are some tasty treats for you and your lover to try out!

What She Said About Sex Positions For Her:

All of them! OK, I know I represent a small majority of women who love sex in every form and position! And I am lucky enough (and work out enough) to have confidence in my body and allow myself to have a healthy body image. I think two naked or half naked bodies doing the horizontal mambo is super sexy! But, there are times when I prefer one position over another.

I have to say that woman on top (WOT is my favorite! When women are on top they can control the speed and depth. Also being on top is perfect for a women to find the right position that rubs her clitoris. Sometimes leaning forward, sometimes leaning back can do the trick. Doggy style is also a winner in my book and great for women who may feel self conscious about their bellies or boobs.

There is something so animalistic about doggy style that I think is a turn on and its also a great position for a guy to bite and nibble on your back and neck! Or he can just hold on to you with his hands, and man hands on a woman’s hip is super erotic. In doggy style, women can control the speed and depth too, just tell your guy to stay still and you can just back your ass up!

What He Said About Sex Positions For Her:

Okay, am I the only one that didn’t know WOT = woman on top? Really? I am? No one sent me the memo? That’s cold.

The sex positions she likes often boil down to either A) which ones she ‘knows’ will get or off or B) the ones that show off her best angles and make her look good.

Ideally every woman would have the confidence in their bodies that old men do. Any guy who has ever gone to the gym knows what I am talking about. They are old, they are fat, and they are naked. Constantly. And they want to have long, in depth conversations with you and they never, ever want to wear clothes. Ever. Not a stitch of modesty, or inhibition, why, I will never know, but every woman should be so uninhibited.

The more uninhibited you are, the more you enjoy sex, and the more sex positions you will enjoy.

Woman on top is great for so many reasons, chief among them the ease in achiving orgasm. I don’t care how unskilled the male lover may be, there’s no way the woman isn’t getting off on top. It’s just not possible. Not only is it guaranteed, her orgasm on top is usually quick and easy. She’s probably going to get off in that position before the man in her life.

I’m not sure it’s as efficient in achieving female orgasm as woman on top, but in my experience, every woman loves to do it standing up. Not every guy has the strength to handle it, but if you can handle it, another great sex position that every woman is sure to enjoy. I’m not sure why they love it so much. Maybe because it’s so primal, and so intense.

Mentally and physically, because you’re being penetrated in a way that is primal and intense, like no other position, and it’s a great measure of trust. He’s literally supporting you and you have to hold on to him in order to not fall and hurt yourself and potential him as well. It is not a position that a couple finds themselves in for super long (as it’s very taxing on the man and easy to get tired and then someone could get hurt), but it’s a pretty intense and amazing position.

How do you pull it off? The simplest way to get into this amazing sex position for women (and men) is to have the man sits on the edge of the bed, the woman sits on his baby maker, wraps her arms and legs around him and then he stands up and they do the horizontal mambo while standing up. A lot of men can’t hold that position for very long, for obvious reasons, so you can either, pick her up and lean up against the wall or do it like that for a while and then sit down on the bed again. You don’t need to hold that one long, women love that one for many reasons! It takes a bit of practice, but is well worth it!

You can then sit back down on the bed, and easily transition back into woman on top or another position.

3 Sex Positions That Will Leave Her Shaken With Delight

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Sex positions are the key to incredible sex. Use these three titillating moves to turn her on and totally rock her world TONIGHT!

The trouble with most guys when it comes to having sex is that they are boring and stick to the same old routines and sex positions that get them off quickly. Sadly this leaves little room for a woman’s sexual fulfillment. But if you are willing to add a little excitement and variety to your sex positions, you could accelerate and accentuate a woman’s ability to enjoy sex and even have an orgasm. And I have not even talked about how much that would do to your confidence in bed!

1. Female Dominance Sex Positions

Whoever said the missionary position is a woman’s favorite? Instead let her get on top of you and give her control during intercourse. By allowing her to control the thrusts and intensity of penetration, you can make sure that she derives maximum pleasure for herself! The added bonus is that while she is sitting on top of you, you can simultaneously stimulate her breasts and clitoris to build up her arousal very quickly.

For a variation of this position, have her face away from you. This allows you to have a greater chance of stimulating her G-spot with your male anatomy. (Hint: the woman-on-top position is also great for guys suffering from premature ejaculation)

2. Titillating Doggy

The doggy style is one of the best positions for both men and women. Many women experience powerful orgasms in this position because it allows deeper penetration and G-spot stimulation. Furthermore, when a woman is on all fours, you have more control with the thrusts and can go harder and faster than you could in the missionary position.

Alternatively, you can also vary these types of sex positions by having her lay flat on her tummy and allow her to raise her buttocks during penetration.

3. Enchanting Embrace

Let her lie on her back, lift her legs up so that they embrace your shoulders and then enter her. This allows you to penetrate deeply and hit her G-spot, especially if you have a penis that bends slightly upwards when erect.

For a variation of this position, have her lay somewhere with her legs up (on a table, for example) so that you can enter her without having to kneel down. This gives you more leverage and also let you have easier access to her clitoris. Hint: Give her simultaneous clitoral stimulation using your thumb when you are penetrating her no matter what sex positions you choose to use. This will double her delight and prime her for a truly fulfilling orgasm… only faster!